How are dating apps such a waste of time but also the best option?

How are dating apps such a waste of time but also the best option? Debating trying them again after 5 years of being off, how can I maximize my chances of success here?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Probability of X is Y
    Probability of W is Z
    Y is under a threshold of acceptable.
    Y>Z
    Z Is worse.

    This is not a real question you should be ashamed.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dating apps save a lot of time, but you have to already be an interesting person to get anywhere on them.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ok, I'm frequently told I'm an interesting guy. How do I make that work for me on tinder?
      >inb4 bio
      Nobody reads those.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't use Tinder so idk

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm thinking of just taking an angle fraud shirtless pic and one of me in the woods or something? I'm inclined to believe that the women who say they want a bunch of details are also the ones who never swipe on dudes who make tryhard profiles.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Unless you're really good looking and in shape shirtless pics will hurt more than help. Outdoors pics are good if you're clearly hiking or doing an athletic hobby. You also need pics of you at a party or with a group of friends so they know you're not a friendless weirdo. If you can't meet these requirement you'll have no luck.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I have an okay (but improving) physique, encroaching on otter mode. The problem is I don't have many friends and when I do hang with them I don't take pics. If I was a social chad in shape I'd already have a gf, that's the issue

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Dating apps won't make you a desirable guy, you have to do that yourself. Most women don't care that much about whether you go to the gym, they just want an assertive popular guy. If you're a wimp and hardly anyone likes you it'll hold you back a lot.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How do they know how assertive I am by my dating profile pictures?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Just based on stereotypes about your hobbies and job, the way to carry yourself in group photos etc.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If you're a wimp and hardly anyone likes you it'll hold you back a lot.
            Completely agree and I freely admit this is me. On paper I'm desirable given my height, race, income, bmi, etc but I'm a horrible salesman due to my lack of dating history. I have hobbies but I'm not about to include a picture of myself at the shooting range, or with my 90s car that I like but has bad paint lol. I seriously doubt the most authentic dudes actually get matches.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm frequently told I'm an interesting guy.
        they mean youre a weirdo

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The chart says "online" not "on dating apps." You can meet people online through things like messaging apps or forums or social media or whatever.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      there's literelly no resources behind this graph
      its just a meaningless drawing with nothing in the world backing it up, it's completely fabricated

      there has never been done reasearch on topic of meeting people since everyone knows women are incapable of speaking to strangers outside of school setting so they never tried to actually record or follow and transcribe conversations of those supposed meetings, it's just a drawing someone had made to advertise shitty apps, the numbers do not even add up to a 100, it's made by some half brained moronic scammer

      it is not possible to ever meet through online since women do not use apps
      in bars/resteurants they are always just sat with people they already know so no option for them to speak or meet anyone else

      there's only 2 ways to meet women and it's either school or social circles

      No you cannot since no one will see some random and there's no way to look up for people where you live of what gender they are in any capacity and again no human being will go to see some random anonymous account asking them to be in X place at Y time
      people only meet those that they are already connected to IRL social circle

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        kys schooler

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dating in general is a waste of time if you're unattractive. Dating apps are just a way to meet girls, deleting Tinder won't make you magically attractive in the eyes of women.
    If you get no matches on Tinder you'll get no chances IRL. Truth is, a girl that's genuinely attracted to you will make it very easy for you to "get" her no matter the context (app, school, work, bar, etc.).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Truth is, a girl that's genuinely attracted to you will make it very easy for you to "get" her no matter the context (app, school, work, bar, etc.).
      This.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Dating in general is a waste of time
      Could have stopped there and your post would have been correct.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Eh. My best friend had no luck in the apps here in Puerto Rico. Then he went to Mexico, and got himself the cutest girlfriend of his life in two weeks, through the apps (Bumble specifically). I think some dating markets are just fricked. He says Puerto Rican women overestimate their value.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Friendly reminder that this graph counts people who met online then had a first date in a bar/restaurant as meeting in a bar or restaurant (which is why that line is increasing).
    Pic rel is what the graph looks like with most people's understanding of "met online".

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Here is what you do to make it economically worth your time.
    Spend some time and getting multiple opinions when making your profile. Only do your swipes while taking a shit. Basically it should take maximum 5 minutes of your day if you don't have anyone to talk to. And when you get rejected completely, it's ok because you were doing it while taking a shit so it doesn't feel as bad.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If I do it while jerking off, does that count?

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just use Bumble or Hinge lol. Lots of art hoes on Bumble in my experience. Never used Hinge but I've heard a lot of good things about it, just that it's rough at first.

    That's because your "placement" is based on how many swipes you get, and when your account is new your peer dating pool is full of either fellow newbies or uggos who have been on Hinge for a long time but don't have many swipes at all.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I've seen way more art hoes on Hinge for some reason, literally everyone has tatts and piercings
      Anyway I've gotten plenty of matches but my problem is cowardly bailing out of conversations

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What does it mean when the girl has queer in their profile description? Why are they even looking at men then? I don't understand this zoomer shit

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How are dating apps such a waste of time but also the best option?
    Just because an approach to something is the most prevalent doesn't mean it's the "best." How many of those relationships are genuine connections that will last until marriage and children? How many of those even last more than a few months and aren't just casual flings? Even though church is the lowest on there I'm willing to bet couples that meet through that go on to get married, have a family, and be happier at far higher rates.

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