How badly do women despise 30+ year old virgin men? What would they think if you told them that?

How badly do women despise 30+ year old virgin men?

What would they think if you told them that?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you need to tell them that?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/WdKoSq5.jpeg

      How badly do women despise 30+ year old virgin men?

      What would they think if you told them that?

      I don't think they can tell. I was talking to a group of women maybe 4 months ago and one of them asked me if I had kids, was married, etc. I answered no and didn't bring up the fact I haven't been on a formal date in over 5 years. 5 months ago an acquaintance girl asked me why I never hit on her. I jokingly said "why haven't you hit on me". I asked her out for coffee to walk around downtown and she said she was too tired. Never heard from her again. Saw her a month later and she had a boyfriend.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I think the fact you were asked it you have kids/were married should he proof enough people don't perceive you as someone who's undateable and you're just tripping yourself up.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Honestly I've put in zero effort for last 10 years. Good job, good hobbies, decent/average looking (nothing grotesque), own home, nice vehicle. I do get extremely nervous when talking to women. I'm getting better and trying to improve though. I'm learning I actually get more nervous at the thought of talking to them versus actually talking to them. I'm sure that is called something in therapy. There's a lot of positive stuff out there on youtube I try and focus on. Also, I quit watching porn for the most part. It became an easy coping mechanism.

          Getting better one day at a time.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm sure that is called something in therapy
            catastrophising

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I looked it up... sounds like me. I'm definitely not suicidal, but I am a worst case scenario type of person.

            Just got back from a walk while I gave this some thought. I use to be much bolder in my younger days. Seems like 10 years ago I settled down, got a dog, and then just stopped caring. I remember when I was college I was out at a sports bar. This family at a table stops me and the dad says his daughter was in one of my colleges. I was slightly buzzed so I end up chatting with them for a bit. I ask and get the daughters number. Then I ask who the guy is sitting next to her and her dad says "her boyfriend!"

            I think the last time I asked a girl for her number was 5-6 years ago. Before covid. Took her to lunch. Then she stopped responding to me because we were just friends.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does it matter? Your haters should motivate you, tbqh most frickers have only fricked slim pickens from the bargain bin at your local bar

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it all comes down to competence and confidence - if you are a good earner , good talker , and you didn't get laid cause you were raising your siblings after work or are deeply religious. All good in the hood for a similarly minded girl.

    If you are shy and unsure and its clear you just never took action and never will - extremely unattractive.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A women told me I was shy. Should I have said something like "maybe you can bring me out of my shell"? She was pretty hot.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Should I have said something like "maybe you can bring me out of my shell"?
        Yes, but it only works if you're not circumcised

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's over

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For every quality you have:

    A few women hate it, most women don't care, a few like it.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    bad enough to prefer men who were divorced

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why is this topic such a perennial concern on this board? Why would anyone care? It is entirely an artifact of our current, peculiarly American, end-of-millennium end-times.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because this board is mostly NEETs with zero life experience trying to qualify their lack of experience as something they can't fix.

      Feels better to think "I can't get anything because other people are shit" than it is to think "I literally can at any time just go outside and start turning this around and I fail to do so every single day"

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Getting laid is harder than getting a job, making a friend, etc.
      Unironically, at least for me

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I suspect this late virginity theme is a nasty bait/troll by ill-intentioned people, like the frequent height trolling threads.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would anyone care?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's out of the norm, but "despise" probably isn't the right word.
      As a female anon I have never asked anyone this question and no one has asked me this question since high school sleepovers. I would think it was a bit weird, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me as long as his life was in order. Then again like I said it is not a question I would ever ask, but I am also not a very sexual person.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you care if someone made fun of/resent you for something like that, is that not fricking weird of them? Like who would do that? Why is that even any of their weirdo business? You don't owe anyone an explanation?

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This archetype is purely the product of autistic men going undiagnosed.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >get diagnosed
      >still a virgin
      now what moron

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How badly do women despise 30+ year old virgin men?
    They don't. Not at all.

    But if no woman has wanted to have sex with you so far, there is clearly a reason for that; and if you don't figure out what that is and do something about it, the situation is unlikely to change. You're a virgin because women don't like you, not the other way round.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They don't really care as long as you're currently attractive in terms of physique, finances, social skills.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women do not like to enter a restaurant if it's empty because that implies that it's bad.
    On the other hand, if her group of friends says that Brad Pitt is ugly, she will probably think that he is ugly or not that handsome.
    Now, imagine telling her that in 30 years of life no woman wanted to have something with you, especially in a society where sex is perceived as more and more casual and not as intimacy.
    There's no point in going against the grain of thousands and thousands of women you've interacted with or who have looked at you.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Oh stop you don't know frick all about people and inventing stupid allegories to make yourself feel like a Wiseman doesn't change reality.
      You're a clueless moron.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        True, most of the advice on this forum is from people with no experience who read words on the internet.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I will not coment on his first 2 examples, but he is on point on the third.

        Unless you have a reason (like religion, disability or real asexuality), everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, expects you to had a least 1 relationship by your 30s, and that includes sex, hetero or gay sex, whatever.

        Just like Maslow said, we are a sexual species that crave "touch" just like we crave sleep, and much like someone that doesn't like to sleep is an anomality, someone that never had a romantic relationship, sucessful or not, is completely not normal. What was this person doing for 30 years of his/her life? Is he/she just jerking off this whole time? Ooor people that know him better saw that he is a "weirdo" (weirdo could being acting weird, having a bad mindset, being misogynist, racist, etc) and didn't want anything to do with him/her afyer that?

        Deny this basic human condition doesn't make you an enlightned free thinker, it just makes you seen like an out of touch dumbass that was raised on childish Hollywood media without any contact with normal people during your formative years and failed to see that everyone after 15 or so is looking for a partner and things have been like that for the entire human existence.

        And the only difference between man and woman in this situation is that guys have very little standarts so if they are proposed by a girl like that they would think it's weird but still will go with it because that's what man do, they almost never say no to any sex. But still, even man see that as a deviation of the human experience that need to have a good reason behind this, it's not just girls.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      so just lie about being a virgin?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Showing the diagnosis obviously obligates her to have sex with you, duh

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Meant for

          >get diagnosed
          >still a virgin
          now what moron

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