How can I date and marry my cousin without nuking my families relationship with us?

How can I date and marry my cousin without nuking my families relationship with us?
So I am in a weird situation with my cousin where we are in love with each other.
Is it worth it nuking our families relationships with us if we truly love each other?
We are basically copies of each other but of different genders.

I have spent the last two months barely being able to get any sleep just thinking and having angst about this.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >We are basically copies of each other but of different genders.
    This is probably a good indicator you guys will end having moronic babies. I don't think it's worth, anon.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      idc anon I truly love her and this isnt a lust kind of love, whenever I have free time I just want to spend it with her not even doing anything sexual just talking to her and listening to her voice and cuddling makes me happy and just brightens my day.

      I checked for that moronic baby thing and its like a miniscule increase.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I truly love her and this isnt a lust kind
        You guys are too young to know anything about "true love". Chill.

        Enjoy each other's company, have lots of sex if you guys like it. Things will cool down after a while, and you will find other people you enjoy as well.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >You guys are too young to know anything about "true love". Chill.
          I am in my early 20s she is in her late teens.
          And I have had sex before this isnt me high off my own farts just because I got some coochie. I really have never felt this way before for anybody else in my life.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bro, what the frick this is ridiculous. You are both extremely young and she hasn't even lived two decades yet. For you to say "late teens" and "early 20s" makes me think she is newly 18 and you are 24-25. Don't ruin her life because you want the novelty of fricking your cousin.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, I am 20 I just dislike giving out info thats not needed to be specified.
            wtf I am not ruining her life, what is wrong with you?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You know how when you look back at the things you liked when you were ten they seem cringe? Or how you regret life choices in the future because you gained insight you previously didn't have and wish you could redo with the new info? This is that except you don't have to live the experience because people have graciously decided to help you now by telling you to not frick your cousin and marry her. You are both extremely young and the ramifications for this are large. You risk losing your family life and social life. If you really want to do this by all means, but there is a reason that the social stigma exists.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We aren't going to run away and get married right away, we both want to wait and get financially secure, next year I will be out of the country with my qualifications and the next year after that she is going to come to live with me together.
            I am not looking you to talk me out of this as I am going through with it, I am just asking for ways to minimize the damage, I genuinely cannot bare to think on leaving her and seeing her with anybody else.
            And yeah I might regret it but man I regret a lot of shit I didnt do than the shit I did do.

            >wtf I am not ruining her life, what is wrong with you?
            Says the man who wants to frick his cousin and is afraid of "nuking his family's relationship"

            You think her life would be better with some other guy who just wants to use her while she is young, frick that shit matter of fact our families relationship might be nuked but I think with time it'll heal, it has to.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >wtf I am not ruining her life, what is wrong with you?
            Says the man who wants to frick his cousin and is afraid of "nuking his family's relationship"

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Bro I have had "true love" for 5 different girls in the last few months. Just talk to more women.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Just talk to more women.
          I am constantly talking to women and hanging out with them I am in uni for fricks sake, I dont feel anything for them, they arent like her, she is just so loving.
          I have options I just dont care about them compared to her they are not even close to her.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Historically this was rather common and not seen as immoral but man, not sure if it's worth social death.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >not sure if it's worth social death
      we can keep it a secret though, we'll both be out the country in a couple years so no way for anybody to know our past.
      Only people who'd know would be our family, and I honestly feel like they'd warm up in a couple years.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I can relate to the emotional affection part, because my female cousins love me to pieces. I can't respond to their kindness in the same way, but deep down I really care for them and wish for their happiness. Luckily I'm not in their lives due to distance, else I'd worry that they'd grow too attached.

        Maybe this offers another perspective to you, I don't know.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Honestly man its so tiring having this shit constantly on my consciousness bothering me.
          I can't wait for the next years when I will be away from all this with her and wont have to hide anything.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm gazing into an abyss that I'd rather not gaze into.
            If you could only view her as a sister and divorce your dick from your heart, your problem wouldn't exist.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If you could only view her as a sister and divorce your dick from your heart, your problem wouldn't exist.
            It has to be me with her though, I wouldnt be able to endure her with somebody else.
            I dont even have that high a libido, so this isnt really that much of a thinking with my dick thing.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I have to be careful how to phrase this, but it sounds as if you view her as your possession. This would set a very bizarre kind of codependence I'm not sure will benefit either of you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >codependence
            if there isnt a degree of codependence is it even love?
            And she sees me the same way, i mean I am hers and she is mine.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Man, you'll hurt yourself in so many ways and there's nothing I can do for you.
            Peace.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you'll hurt yourself in so many ways
            how?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're inviting me to rip your ego apart on the spot, an offer which I'll decline. Reality will do that for you.
            And hopefully at the end of it, you'll learn that in love there is no self and other.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You're inviting me to rip your ego apart on the spot, an offer which I'll decline.
            oh stop it just go ahead and show me
            >And hopefully at the end of it, you'll learn that in love there is no self and other.
            thats why you give yourselves to each other wholly.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kys disgusting mountain Black person .eeww

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      man what is your problem why all the anger?
      and what are
      >mountain Black folk

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    One of my grandmas siblings married her cousin. Its weird

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yeah bud thats why I am asking for ways to how to mitigate the effect that this will have socially.

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