how come white women are always standoffish AF when meeting them for the first time?

but they never act this way around other women? Is the bear thing true and they are scared of me?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They learn early on that lots of guys will mistake kindness for attraction/interest, so they act coldly as a precaution.
    This unfortunately means women being nice is even more rare, thus more likely to be interpreted by guys as interest, which in turn exerts even more pressure on women to adopt a standoffish attitude. It’s a vicious cycle; you can thank overeager men and conflict-averse women for it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This, and they learn to assume any "nice" behavior from men is coming with strings attached.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      makes sense

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    most women experience this EVERY TIME they get even slightly friendly with a man
    >meet male
    >talk with him
    >talk with him more in a friendly manner, never flirt with him
    >after 1-3 weeks, he asks you out
    >now if you're taken or don't want to date him, you have to end the friendship and start avoiding him, which will be awkward
    so, when you've experienced this enough times, eventually you as a woman realize that it's basically a waste of time to interact more than you have to with men.

    in short: interacting with men = useless.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      how do you differentiate flirting from niceness?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You read her mind. You are a mind reader right anon?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What kind of a fricking question is this? They're two very different things. If she's being nice to you, she's just nice. If she is touching on you, standing close, constantly touching her hair, looking away and back again, laughing at your unfunny jokes everyone else thinks are dumb, is trying to gobble your knob, she is flirting.

        See how those are completely different fricking things?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >If she is touching on you, standing close, constantly touching her hair, looking away and back again, laughing at your unfunny jokes everyone else thinks are dumb
          Lots of men have never experienced this, so they have no frame of reference.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      They learn early on that lots of guys will mistake kindness for attraction/interest, so they act coldly as a precaution.
      This unfortunately means women being nice is even more rare, thus more likely to be interpreted by guys as interest, which in turn exerts even more pressure on women to adopt a standoffish attitude. It’s a vicious cycle; you can thank overeager men and conflict-averse women for it.

      so how the frick am i meant to get a gf if they dont want to talk in the first place?

      You read her mind. You are a mind reader right anon?

      no

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You may have the 'tism, in that case give up

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          been checked, i dont

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you don't have it, then there's hope. But in that case you need to leave NSFFW and hone your social skills and social awareness as much as possible to get caught up to the normies.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >so how the frick am i meant to get a gf if they dont want to talk in the first place?
        You're not. Become the guy they actually do want to talk to.
        If someone likes you or is interested, she will.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          and how exactly do i do this?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How the frick should I know? If women are always cold to you or never talk to you there are obviously things about you they don't like.
            Figure out what those are and fix them. No one here has specific advice for you because we don't know details about your life. You could rectify that very easily by actually telling us, but you don't seem willing to do even that much to help yourself.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            well what are the qualities of a guy who theyre "interested" in? As soon as I mentioned i work in tech they seem to back off.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >well what are the qualities of a guy who theyre "interested" in?
            Confident, fun, physically attractive, able to make her feel a certain type of way.
            There are other more specific things but obviously they will vary from girl to girl.
            >As soon as I mentioned i work in tech they seem to back off.
            It's not because of your job itself, it's because of the stereotype that most tech-bros are huge dorks. And can you blame them? Look how many stemcels we have just on this board.
            If you openly demonstrate that you're a cool and fun guy despite working in tech, she won't care you work in tech. Of course, you also have to actually BE a cool and fun guy for this to work.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Become the guy they actually do want to talk to.
          I've been that guy a few times but always as a friend.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's obviously not what I meant. So no, you have not been that guy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Moving the goalposts.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Read the conversation again you illiterate Black person.
            We're talking about getting women and you come along with "hurr durr but sometimes they want to be my friend though".
            Yeah great, but the only one moving goalposts here is you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You said one needs to become the man they want to talk to. Great. Sometimes (many times) that man is only a friend. You have no argument.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I've arbitrarily decided you meant something completely different, and I'm holding you to it!
            >therefore, I win
            You are too moronic to be worth trying to help.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >n-no! I didn't mean to say what I posted!
            >you're moronic if you think I meant what I said!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >so how the frick am i meant to get a gf if they dont want to talk in the first place?
        You aren't "meant to" do anything. There is no-one coming to rescue you. A man makes his own life. You talk to them.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          so i talk to them but at the same time theyre sick of men trying to talk to them and theput on a cold demenour? uhm yeah okay

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've experienced the opposite so many times but when women do it it's never a problem
      >meet girl
      >talk to her in a casual manner
      >she acts a little cautious and somewhat standoffish
      >as time passes by realizes I'm just trying to make conversation
      >as the days continue she starts to develop feelings
      >starts flirting and initiating physical contact
      >shoot her down
      >starts spreading rumors about me being gay to save her ego
      >call her out on her bullshit in front of everyone and move on with my life
      but it's okay when they do it right honcho?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      untrue, "most women" are overweight and never get hit on or even considered by men. in fact, you've proven this to be true in your generalization, because you'd agree immediately that your generalization doesn't apply to overweight women, and you'd acknowledge that statistically there are more overweight women out there than not, which, combined, discredits your argument entirely...

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They can sense your 'cadoposter aura and are rightly disgusted.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because women have their weapons as you have yours. They are all verbal while men are mostly physical. I hope you understand.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      not the Bible = 1 diss track away from 180

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I assume you want sex from me until proven innocent. I don't mind idle chit chat but you can often tell when a guy is coming up to you because he finds you attractive vs coming up to you because he has a question or something. I don't have to worry as much about other women being sex pests so I'm more immediately open. If I immediately was engaged and interested in the conversation with some random guy that came up to me he might mistake that for interest.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It really is white women mostly that are like that
    One thing I’ve noticed about black girls is that it’s really clear from how they treat you whether they like you or not. Or I just got really lucky in the type of sheboons that live here.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why do you think white women are often obsessed with black men? They put up the standoffish act as a "wall" to block the advances of weak men. That's why blacks are good at getting through to white women - when Tyrone is giving Jane an uppercut hard enough to send her to another dimension, he's also breaking through the "wall" and showing that he's strong enough for her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Why do you think white women are often obsessed with black men?
      Why do gay morons hate women so much?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    White people tend to be pretty snide and insulting for no reason. I think we're burnt out on dealing with other white people.

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