How do I accept the fact that Im not good enough to get a gf

How do I accept the fact that I’m not good enough to get a gf

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Cope with the possibility of robo wife

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    go ER

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The ugliest, stinkiest guys can get gfs simply because they want them enough. Most girls have a sick fetish for being wanted openly and loudly

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >The ugliest, stinkiest guys can get gfs simply because they want them enough
      cool story bro. Now gtfo

      https://i.imgur.com/tMDdJpN.jpeg

      How do I accept the fact that I’m not good enough to get a gf

      REVOLT or ROT. Simple as. short men make the best machine gunners in the military you know

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >cool story bro. Now gtfo
        Nah seriously, if you aren't pulling then you need to start sucking clit habitually. Just go full and entire simp, people at large will think you're a freak but some b***h will snatch you up and put you inside her apartment so you can keep sucking on her clit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      moron

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if you're not a manlet you can get girls. Gym roids and facial surgery can ascend anyone

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is 5'2" beyond hope?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I’m just not good enough. I don’t have that “alpha” personality that women look for. I’m more timid, shy and lowkey. Girls don’t want that in a guy. And even if I somehow did get a girlfriend, the fact that countless guys are going to be hitting on her really upsets me, and it’s only a manner of time before a better looking “alpha” guy steals her. I just don’t have the alpha confidence that attracts women. I’ve tried to ask girls out or talk to them on dating apps but I’m just not good enough for them to say yes or to hold the conversation going. Why would any of them choose me when there’s hundreds of better options literally in her DMs?
        [...]
        I’m 5’8

        https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/31186498/#31186520

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Gym is a cope. If you're a manlet, your best bet is to SEAmaxx (maybe LATAMaxx).

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        gym is not a cope if youre 5'10 and above.
        SEAmaxxing should be a last case option

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Literally the only thing you need to get a girl is game

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sounds miserable, why would you accept less that you deserve?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m just not good enough. I don’t have that “alpha” personality that women look for. I’m more timid, shy and lowkey. Girls don’t want that in a guy. And even if I somehow did get a girlfriend, the fact that countless guys are going to be hitting on her really upsets me, and it’s only a manner of time before a better looking “alpha” guy steals her. I just don’t have the alpha confidence that attracts women. I’ve tried to ask girls out or talk to them on dating apps but I’m just not good enough for them to say yes or to hold the conversation going. Why would any of them choose me when there’s hundreds of better options literally in her DMs?

      if you're not a manlet you can get girls. Gym roids and facial surgery can ascend anyone

      I’m 5’8

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Wrong. God Lord, I see the problem OP, you sound miserable to try and date. Yeah sure some women want an alpha chad, but plenty want a shy quiet guy. You need to ask them out. And I don't mean "try to ask them out", actually do it, ask "do you want to grab coffee with me?"

        And then when youon the date or in the relationship, focus on having a good time, not on whether she likes you or if she's going to leave you for an alpha. Cause you know what sucks: having to argue with or convince your bf that you like him. If you focus on her leaving you, she will leave and not for chad, she'll just leave

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > actually do it, ask "do you want to grab coffee with me?"
          How many times do you need to do this and get brutally rejected before you decide the prize is not worth the chase? 100? 200?
          I'm already there.

          https://i.imgur.com/tMDdJpN.jpeg

          How do I accept the fact that I’m not good enough to get a gf

          Everyone is different, you need to work it out yourself.
          e.g many people in our situation speak of ending their own lives for this or other related reasons. I however aim to one day be the oldest person on earth. Just out of spite.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >lol just have a good time bro while hundreds of other guys are messaging her and trying to get in her pants and it’s just a manner of time before chad strikes all the right emotional chords in her and fricks her

          Nah I’m good. Tired of dating being a giant competition where you’re constantly going against other men for the same girl, and even if you get her, you have to do be absolutely perfect for her to not cheat on you, and she probably will still end up cheating anyway

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This is great advice. Far too many on here just live with a defeatist attitude.

          I'd also like to add that unless you end up with a knockout they aren't getting hit on 24/7. There are plenty of shy, awkward girls who would love to have a sky, awkward BF.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > plenty want a shy quiet guy.

          No they do not. Please, just be realistic here.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Of course insta girls posting their thongs online don't want a shy guy. But, there are plenty of normal girls who don't want the headache of dealing with an "alpha chad". I'm shy and introverted and women have approached me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >women approach you
            So you are good looking. That does the heavy lifting

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I wouldn't say I'm good looking, but I'm not ugly. I'm pretty much middle of pack. A lot like most of the girls who approach me. No supermodels are approaching me. And actually the last one who did seemed like a drunk hillbilly who appeared crosseyed with popeye arms. She asked me if I thought she was ugly. And I said no I am just happily single right now.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So absolute strangers just approach you? Where?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you get approached, you have something that most men don't. I've only been approached by a girl like 3 times ever that I can remember and that was either in high school or college. I guess I must be ugly

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Yeah sure some women want an alpha chad, but plenty want a shy quiet guy
          Not OP, but where can I find women like that? I'm also shy and timid, so I never had a women interested in me.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can only speak for myself but I knew this since I was 10(almost 28 now).I know that the eternal single life is not for everyone but I enjoy it.feels good to have nobody breathing down your neck.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Its something that takes time, you cant force it. But once you actually accept it, and understand it to be true, it will stop bothering you and you can just live life.

    For example, when is the last time you got depressed because you'll never own a super-yacht? Or a Lambo?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >For example, when is the last time you got depressed because you'll never own a super-yacht? Or a Lambo?
      not Op but the avg simply does not worry about it even when tempted by such prospects. All that he cares about is food shelter, affordable cost of living and pussy to give him children.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sex should be on yellow not red.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          genetic survival is what facilitates physical survival and reproduction is as old as life. Femsplaining that it's less important overall is like trying to deny life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then why isn't sex and sex intimacy on the same level?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            sex is for breeding, sexual intimacy is more along the lines for recreation & play

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in the same boat but I'm probably much older than you. Never had a gf. I'm just too much of an outcast. It hurts to be lonely and unwanted but this was the fate given to me. It's not a matter of time before I self-terminate.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Be around people that have it worse than you for a while. Visit the local homeless shelter. Visit people with disabilities that have it worse than you. It will probably make you feel fortunate just for the fact that you can walk and talk and sleep in a bed.
    Here are a few things that are awful, and if not having a gf is that bad for you and you don't have these things, you will probably feel fortunate that your life is basically bliss in comparison.
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myalgic_encephalomyelitis/chronic_fatigue_syndrome
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rabies
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_traumatic_encephalopathy

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Well you might not believe me, but start driving driving places to find something to do. Its fun.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you accept some dumb shit your brain is putting up? Like, if you don't respect yourself, why do you also consider yourself an authoritative source in the intrinsic value of a given human being?

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Never lost hope. Keep living, working for things you like.
    I have a coworker as short and ugly as it gets.
    Not joking: everyone just calls him "the littlest". He is in his 50s
    He is very skinny, but have strong and skillful hands, and the hardest and tenacious man you can think off. He used to work alone as a contractor. He is always happy and well spirited, ride motorbikes and like to have fun in simple things.
    He managed to get a wife and have a son at 40, anyway.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am a 34 year old virgin. At some point you just have to accept it. Live your life for yourself, do what makes you happy. If you need sex, just pay for it. But come to peace with the fact that a woman will never love you romantically or lust for you. Some genes weren't meant to go on

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you start by NOT ACCEPTING IT, holy frick what is up with the doomerism on this board
    stop being miserable and fix your life dude, it isn't hopeless. most of the replies to most threads on this board are about situations exactly like yours.
    if you want to wallow in your misery feel free to do so but from someone who has done it before it's useless and doesn't get you anywhere or even feel that good

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i agree with your statement, it's true that being pessimistic and overdosing on blackpills leads to nowhere
      however, disregarding the fact that you, for some reason, have to improove to achieve something other people don't (and, in some situations, are worse in 1 or more aspects), the real problem begins when you have done the improovement, even going far and beyond the necessary, yet your situation remains exactly the same
      that's when the real horror begins

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >how do i cope
        By doing funner things. jerking off. or Playing Rust off Xanax or something; you can play high stress PvP games without being on edge

        You can wait for a bawd to settle later if you're stupid or you can just accept that God's Plan wasn't for you to frick women. That is assuming you're able to find happiness. If, at your core, you wanted a gf then you will never find happiness. if that is the case then just respawn blud but if you aren't a pussy you'll realize lots of drugs and porn is better.

        If you die in a car crash you can just start doing MDMA or Vodka or Tobacco weed or Flubromazolam or Heroin again in your next life when you respawn. in moderation those can be very safe. If you die in a car crash you can't find that same individual again.

        it is possible to manipulate your oxytocin receptors without drugs anyways. If you aren't happy sober, drugs won't magically make you happy unless you learn to appreciate them.

        Not sure why you'd want to actually love someone anyways. Not like you can put your wife in a ball that fits in your pocket for while you are at work so that nothing awful happens to her while you aren't there to protect her. Obviously God's Plan was not to fall in love if he gave free will to murderers too because if you're in love with someone and they die then you commit suicide. if you don't then you didn't love them.

        You’re not brave enough yo talk to enough women to get a gf. Go out expecting to get rejections, and be pleased about it.

        Is there any way to stop being attracted to women? I know I’ll never get a gf so I’d rather just stop having sexual desires/romantic interest in them altogether.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Howie thread.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    find something else to distract you. for me sometimes its reading, sometimes music, sometimes going to the gym or going on a walk. drugs help too

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    have a nice day

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Eventually I will, definitely before im 40 (25 now). I just want to finish my school and start my career as a fire fighter/EMT, write a book, and then kms. Hopefully I’ll save some lives and earn enough good boy points to stay out of hell. No point in living a depressing, lonely existence when I can just make my life matter a little bit to others before I off myself

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you DONT moron I JUST got a gf
    dating apps! they actually work! who would have frickin guessed. i am so BUMMED i got banned from Hinge for saying aggressive shit. i even got a response to it from the girl. but i'm permabanned
    honestly, its bred and borne in your firm resolution. I will get a GF. I will Marry and have Kids. I will prove my family RIGHT. i will make a NAME for myself. all normal shit. but the discipline is there of the mind.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dating apps dont work for every joe schmoe like OP.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve had dating apps for 3+ years, went on one date which didn’t go annywhere and fricked some other b***h. That’s it. Luckily I’ve pretty much formulated a plan for the next 10 years of my life

      Eventually I will, definitely before im 40 (25 now). I just want to finish my school and start my career as a fire fighter/EMT, write a book, and then kms. Hopefully I’ll save some lives and earn enough good boy points to stay out of hell. No point in living a depressing, lonely existence when I can just make my life matter a little bit to others before I off myself

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >how do i cope
    By doing funner things. jerking off. or Playing Rust off Xanax or something; you can play high stress PvP games without being on edge

    You can wait for a bawd to settle later if you're stupid or you can just accept that God's Plan wasn't for you to frick women. That is assuming you're able to find happiness. If, at your core, you wanted a gf then you will never find happiness. if that is the case then just respawn blud but if you aren't a pussy you'll realize lots of drugs and porn is better.

    If you die in a car crash you can just start doing MDMA or Vodka or Tobacco weed or Flubromazolam or Heroin again in your next life when you respawn. in moderation those can be very safe. If you die in a car crash you can't find that same individual again.

    it is possible to manipulate your oxytocin receptors without drugs anyways. If you aren't happy sober, drugs won't magically make you happy unless you learn to appreciate them.

    Not sure why you'd want to actually love someone anyways. Not like you can put your wife in a ball that fits in your pocket for while you are at work so that nothing awful happens to her while you aren't there to protect her. Obviously God's Plan was not to fall in love if he gave free will to murderers too because if you're in love with someone and they die then you commit suicide. if you don't then you didn't love them.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You’re not brave enough yo talk to enough women to get a gf. Go out expecting to get rejections, and be pleased about it.

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