How do I approach & talk to girls?

I'm attending a trade school & can't muster the courage to approach girls? How do I do it & what do I say? I'm a normal looking, well dressed guy with below average social skills.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    have you ever had a female friend or acquaintance?

    • 4 weeks ago
      OP

      I'm a "friend" to a married woman & had 4 months relationship with my first gf. now back to the grind & still nervous as hell talking to new girls at school when the intent is to get to know them to ask them out.

      I'm having some serious trouble shaking away my social anxiety even with relationship experience & talking to girls.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I would start hanging out with other guys who have female friends or that hang out with females during breaks, parties, etc. so you can get comfortable around them and get a chance to conversate with them without being a 1 on 1.
        To talk to them, just try to learn as much as you can by observing her (not stalking) and be funny at first, but in like sweet funny and overtime start showing appreciation, interest care.
        In a first interaction I would say something like "Hey I saw you doing X thing, I find it really funny/weird/whatever", and follow up with a question.
        Questions make people talk and people love talking. make them talk and be nice.

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          otherwise solid advice but it seems like all the girls from my class are taken & there's not really much chance to meet anyone else from the school without straight up cold approaching outside classes.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why does that make anything different

      • 4 weeks ago
        OP

        I guess it's supposed to give us experience on women bcs we see that we're human beings. but it doesn't actually get rid of the anxiety when approaching. I feel vulnerable when I do it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you've never ride a bike how are you going to know how to ride a bike?

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          and I'm still terrified of riding a bike in spite of having ridden a bike.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just go for a rip

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Walk upto a girl you like and say hi, tell her you think she's cute and then just wing it from there.

    This is the best advice you'll ever get, pickup lines are bullshit, anything canned is bad and how you creep them out. Of she rejects you just leave like it was nothing, don't try to wiggle your way in if she's taken or whatever

    • 4 weeks ago
      OP

      thx! I actually had a bit more canned introductionary notes prepared but your approach seems to be simple polarization.

      btw I already failed my approach with this one cute girl from my school but she's still giving me the signals.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but your approach seems to be simple polarization.
        That's correct. You want to be as polarizing as possible so that you can actually get what you want. If she's just down for a friendship or she wants to "take it slow" then your probably not gonna frick. Be mindful that even if you get her number a majority of woman will ghost you within the day after, so you should ideally try to get a date on that day and try to hookup, if not just get her contact and forget it.

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          that day?? you can actually move up that fast? my ex didn't ghost me even if we set up a date for a separate day.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >that day??
            Yes. It's very possible, if with the right logistics (and thats a big if i might add). Woman love to frick, it's not like what you think at all. But if your just another contact on her phone than your most likely on the background of her mind.

            >my ex didn't ghost me even if we set up a date for a separate day.
            Yes but you probably knew her from somewhere or were introduced to her where you both have a commonality. When your approaching woman on the street or venues than its very easy for her to dismiss you. Just know that for every 5 contacts you get, 3 to 4 are going to ghost you, it is what it is

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            this is really starting to sound like some PUA stuff now. she doesn't seem like a cheap lay & I'm not looking for fast sex either. does it really seem like that's what works? she seems like a proper girl, I really like her & don't want to come off as a frickboy.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >PUA stuff now
            Pua would tell you to come up with some canned lines or bullshit when approaching, I'm telling straight up just say whatever comes to you in the moment and accept rejection if it comes to you.

            >come off as a frickboy
            It's not really like that tho. You don't have to frick on the first date, do whatever you want, but woman like sex, and for every woman who will be angry at you for wanting to frick on the first date, nine others will love it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            oh so you already have someone in mind?

            sit closer to her in class, if she smokes, go smoke when she goes, if you see she has a coffee cup from starbucks, you buy yourself a coffee from starbucks, she reads? you read.
            make her notice you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            no, she's from another class and we barely see each other since we're in different wings most of the time. If I get lucky I catch glimpses of her. she gives me strong signals with playful smiles. already approached her once but lost my nerve & told her that it wasn't working out with me but she's still smiling whenever she sees me. her gaze is very piercing too, in a playful way.

            >PUA stuff now
            Pua would tell you to come up with some canned lines or bullshit when approaching, I'm telling straight up just say whatever comes to you in the moment and accept rejection if it comes to you.

            >come off as a frickboy
            It's not really like that tho. You don't have to frick on the first date, do whatever you want, but woman like sex, and for every woman who will be angry at you for wanting to frick on the first date, nine others will love it

            > but woman like sex, and for every woman who will be angry at you for wanting to frick on the first date, nine others will love it
            HOLY FRICK, GOOD TO KNOW! my ex was a prude though & didn't really let me have any on first date. that's why I assume that going for sex on first date is too fast.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >didn't really let me have any on first date. that's why I assume that going for sex on first date is too fast.

            oof, she betathized you. Let go of the trauma she induced in you and just do whatever you want. There are millions of woman out there and many of those woman will comply with whatever kind of relationship you want to have, so just be upfront

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            what does it mean when they betatize me?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Slowly getting you to comply to her demands and then imprinting that as a feature of your behavior. Very sad to see this happening to desperate young men every day. It's really better to be single than to be so cruely castrated, alas such is the modern world

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            why do they do it? what do they get out of it? what's the solution to be done about it?

            I need answers!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >why do they do it? what do they get out of it?
            Either a shit test or to get you to comply as a beta boyfriend where she gets all the benefits of the relationship without having to put out. So many men go into marriages where they only have sex once a month and have to work hard to please their wives, it's not a dignified way to live.

            The solution is to be uncompromising about what you want and not be afraid of losing a relationship over this, or to get rejected. let go of all the fear and become centered. And like I said before, be polarizing if you have to

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            she did make me work hard to be with her. sucked all the life out of me. but she kept me well sexed constantly. even complained there not being enough sex. but she didn't have to maintain actual loving affection. she could just take take take. because she was sort of a nymph who clearly loved sex. but didn't seem to be after a loving connection. she wanted a sex servant.

            her behavior was very similar to that of a covert narc.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It depends on the trade, you wouldn't approach a plumber the same way you'd approach a carpenter. They are two completely different animals and they require two completely different approach sets. There isn't a one catch all recipe, or at least science hasn't found it yet.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My advice, learn to be more narcissistic. I love myself too much and view myself as better than these hoes so I can just endlessly talk about bullshit and shift the focus to my views. I literally just stopped giving a frick.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Supreme Gentleman

    Women never gave me a chance because they are shallow and superficial. They only care about looks and status, and they can't see the kindness and sophistication within me. It's their loss for not being able to recognize a gentleman like myself. They only want barbarian and savage men. Give up, women are cruel creatures who will never give you a chance.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Supreme Gentleman

      Men who are confident and aggressive always steal the attention of women. They are seen as desirable because they display dominance and power. These men don't care about women's feelings and only use them for their own pleasure. It's sickening how women fall for these types of men while I, a kind and respectful gentleman, am ignored. It shows how shallow and cruel both men and women can be. I have tried everything to get women to notice me and appreciate me. But they continue to reject me and it's driving me to despair. I deserve love and affection just like anyone else, and if I can't have it, then no one else should either. I will make them all pay for ignoring me and treating me like I'm invisible. They will feel my wrath. I have been pushed to my breaking point by the constant rejection and isolation I face. I have tried to be kind, respectful, and charming, but none of it works. Women still ignore me and go for those obnoxious brutes instead. It's time for me to show the world the pain and suffering they have caused me. They will regret not seeing my worth, and I will make sure they understand the consequences of their actions. Nobody will be able to ignore me anymore.
      I'm going to pour PEPSI on couples whenever I see them! (with consent of course as I would never commit a violent act nor violate the law)

      • 4 weeks ago
        OP

        Woe is Shakespeare here.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >(with consent of course as I would never commit a violent act nor violate the law)
        You live up to your name supreme gentlemen. You just need to find a girl who appreciates your gentlemenness. Why don't you try a broken hooker, show her that men aren't all evil scum and treat her delicatly

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          broken hookers who realized they fricked and are on the redemption path are infinitely better than roasties who complain about men all day

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            that's like eating someone's leftover brunch turned stale.

            you could do it & enjoy it - but you don't have any dignity at that point.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >that's like eating someone's leftover brunch turned stale.
            you already do that with every used gf you frick moron. At least a redeemed prostitute is honest

            >most poeple except the most terminally fricked people
            They don't tho. Most people don't approach random girls outside, infact most normie men just rely on the social circle pussy they can get, but even then they are eclipsed by the highest status person in the group. Hooking up is also not very common for the average man, they usually have to spend hundreds on drinks at clubs and even then only get noticed by woman in their social circle.

            Idk where you get your ideas of what normie game is like

            >ost people don't approach random girls outside
            right, because its a stupid idea, the data is pretty clear. Most people meet SOs from friends, work, or dating apps. the vast minority meet them doing moronic things that you suggest that hardly work ever.
            Game? You play the game with every woman who isnt your mother or sister.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >because its a stupid idea
            I'm not going to argue with you if it's a good idea or not. But your previous post said I was just giving generic advice but that's clearly not the case as you've just admitted.

            >Game? You play the game with every woman who isnt your mother or sister.
            Kek, what homie. Game is what normies call it. But yeah I do frick just about every woman in my vicinity, hide your mother buddy.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >But your previous post said I was just giving generic advice but that's clearly not the case as you've just admitted.
            everything you have said I have seen many times before. Your particular variant of that is also worthless in addition to being common. Your strategy doesnt work for the vast majority of people, especially not those who are so fricked they cant identify with the average random girl. Your thinking is so ass backwards moronic its simply laughable.

            >Kek, what homie. Game is what normies call it. But yeah I do frick just about every woman in my vicinity, hide your mother buddy.
            yea you play it with most women you interact with that are the same age as you. PUA stuff is for failed normies who just have a lot in common with the average subhuman anyway,

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >in addition to being common
            It's not, as we've gone over before.
            >Your strategy doesnt work for the vast majority of people
            It does, just not for the gays on here
            >those who are so fricked they cant identify with the average random girl.
            I don't identify with the average woman either, doesn't mean I can't talk to them.
            >Your thinking is so ass backwards moronic its simply laughable
            Now hold on anon, why are you angry about this. As I said in a prior post

            >You're out of your depth
            Kek, no its only a "worthless platitude" cause your out of your depth. Obviously nothing I say could work on the internet if your loser incel frick. The post was meant to clarify and was wisdom intended for people who do actually want to change their lives and don't revel in being little b***h victims.

            >it only makes them more angry
            Miserable people will always find shit to be angry at. That's what more than half of the posts on the catalog are about. I hope my post gave them a good spike in emotions these sad fricks were looking for

            I'm not preaching to your b***h ass on what you should do. Do whatever the frick you want, my advice has no power to help you, thats not an endictment on the advice because it works for plenty of other people, it's an endictment on you. Your not ready for a better life and that's fine, but let's be absolutely clear, you failed yourself.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Supreme Gentleman

          >Why don't you try a broken hooker
          No, I would never degrade myself by paying a woman to desire me. I expect women to naturally be attracted to me because of my superior qualities and status. I deserve genuine admiration and affection, not something bought with money. Of course unless I were to win the lottery at a young age. That's the only way for me to get a girlfriend. Women only care for looks and status. I don't only desire sex, I need a woman to truly love me. The only way to accomplish it is to be a multi millionaire.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I would never degrade myself by paying a woman to desire me
            I meant as in you'd try to build a relationship with a hooked or a former hooker, not as a customer. Help her escape her poverty and promise to build a family together.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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