How do I cope with being a virgin at age 21?

How do I cope with being a virgin at age 21? I tried fashionmaxxing, gymcelling, being myself, touching grass, getting hobbies, working, and yet I’m still a virgin and I’ve never dated. To make things even worse my only friend group have cut me off for being a virgin. I am a manlet at 5’6 and a 5/10 face, why does nobody want me? I can understand I’ll never be a Chad but can’t I just have friends and have sex?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have you ever asked a girl out? Or created a tinder account?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, and it doesn’t work

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It does work, you just did it wrong. Describe to us this one and only time in your life that you asked a girl out.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I never asked a woman out but it’s obvious there’s no point because I’ve never met a woman that I got on with or we both shared mutual interest and tinder I get matches but they just ghost or never meet up

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I never asked a woman out
            >there’s no point because I’ve never met a woman that I got on with
            how the frick would you know if you get on with a woman or not if you haven't interacted one on one with her? frick off dumb Black person

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            how do you get to a position where you can interact with a woman one on one?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            by asking them out, something you refuse to do for some fricking reason

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            well you have to get to know her first if you want to have any chance of her saying yes. cold approach is an absolute meme. i can't even get to the point where i get to know them a bit

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            not true at all

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Yes, and it doesn’t work

        >I tried fashionmaxxing, gymcelling, being myself, touching grass, getting hobbies, working...
        For how long did you try these things? How much effort did you put in? Be honest.

        >>I tried fashionmaxxing, gymcelling, being myself, touching grass, getting hobbies, working...
        >For how long did you try these things? How much effort did you put in? Be honest.

        Also, do you go out and behave like a normal person or do you spend your time on NSFFW and incel media?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Show us your profile. That's right.

      Dating apps are useless if you have shitty photos like most men do on their profile. I can show mine, and they're pretty shitty but I'm happy I look pretty cute in them imo. A friend of mine looks worse has shitter photos and women often dm him first. It's crazy. He's an autist who genuinely doesn't give one bit of shit about trying to get pussy. He does like to be praised a lot. I'm jealous of him immensely.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, and it doesn’t work

      It does work, you just did it wrong. Describe to us this one and only time in your life that you asked a girl out.

      I never asked a woman out but it’s obvious there’s no point because I’ve never met a woman that I got on with or we both shared mutual interest and tinder I get matches but they just ghost or never meet up

      >Have you ever asked a girl out?
      >Yes
      >Ok describe
      >I never asked a woman out
      Great bait thread.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why waste effort to ask when you already know the answer

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          because you get incrementally better and change your approach based on real experiences instead of wallowing

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Have you ever stopped to consider op may not actually want to get better?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's kind of telling that you people stick so hard to this extremely dishonest argumentative tactic. The overwhelming majority of relationships did not start with a dude approaching a random woman he had never met before on a street corner. The dudes telling you to "just ask out women" have never done what they're preaching. They wait until it's crystal clear that the answer will be yes because the women is obviously into them already. If no women are ever interested in you, asking them out on a date is a one-way ticket to embarrassment, humiliation, and lowered self-esteem.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Based and true.

        And given
        >I am a manlet at 5’6 and a 5/10 face
        that's probably never gonna happen for OP.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>2024
      >>only way to date is online
      jesus fricking christ

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I tried fashionmaxxing, gymcelling, being myself, touching grass, getting hobbies, working...
    For how long did you try these things? How much effort did you put in? Be honest.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well, you did try. You changed your clothes, worked on your physical body, all that. Its not easy for most people. I didnt have sex til i was 19 i guess? and the girl had to be very forward and obvious that she liked me. Or I never would have figured it out or made a move.

    In other words, a lot has to go right for a guy.

    There is no easy answer or solution. Height matters, so does weight, skin tone, clear vs acne-ridden skin, being bald is a disqualifier at a young age.

    Get me? You're not alone. Remember that sexual pairing is a competitive game.

    Try dating 5/10 girls. or 4/10s. it would give you experience. they're lonely too. believe me.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >virgin at age 21
    I lost mine at 24.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      lost mine at 27, went through a playboy phase afterwards where I slept with random women every friday night but I eventually settled down with my wife in my early 30's. Mindless sex loses its fun very quickly.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I Lost mine around 17. Anyway womens mating plan is fricking highest money value males, so you shouldnt feel bad about it because their gameplan always was to prostitute out to highest earner? How do i know? Im the grandson of a gold diggers. Guys are success objects, women are beauty objects. If shes not pretty, she is worthless. You can be fat millionaire though and frick 20 year olds just fine. And they consent to it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >went through a playboy phase afterwards where I slept with random women every friday night
        How'd you do it? I lost mine at 19 and wasted like couple of years on and off with some prostitute who I finally got rid of. My sex life's never really taken off. only have body count of 5 and the quality of chicks has gone down. I turn 27 this year and also want to settle down eventually but I still wanna frick some bawds with the small window I still have.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When their whole value is being a cum hole and they take a thousand wieners but their life still sucks that should tell you something.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    do not believe this
    I lost my virginity to my husband and we were both each others firsts
    do not cheapen yourself with casual sex to appeal to prostitutes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do not believe this reply, many things factor into whether or not you get a partner. This person does not know everything about you be it your good or bad qualities. Likewise you don't know every facet of this person character also they are a woman so it is 10x easier to get in a relationship.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >being a virgin
    Just don't tell anyone moron.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >have you got a gf/bf, anon?
      What now?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        OP say friend group ostracized him for being virgin.
        EVERYONE has been virgin at some time in their lives (even if it was decades ago).
        So just lie.
        Easy as.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Make shit up. Lmao, just sociopathmaxx.
        The weak and stupid are meant to be manipulated.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Being a virgin isn't the end of the world, trust me. Sex is overrated. I'd try and go with the 4/10 just to get some practice. That's what I did at least. They might look confident but they know they will end up alone since they don't keep their value with their age.
    Also that "friend" group thing sounds weird, and it looks like you didn't really put the effort.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >To make things even worse my only friend group have cut me off for being a virgin
    No they didn't.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes they did. They cut me off for being a manlet and a virgin. Personality is a meme nothing matters beyond height and face

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >They cut me off
        No one is disputing they cut you off. I'm just saying it wasn't for being a manlet or virgin. It was for being a whiny homosexual...the same thing that made you still a virgin in the first place.
        >Personality is a meme nothing matters beyond height and face
        He says, while demonstrating his bad personality.
        Also OP...explain THIS

        [...]

        This is still a garbage thread, but at least here it's on the right board. It has nothing to do with fitness besides a brief anecdote of you CLAIMING you have lifted.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >op pic
    man trying to demoralize other men

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I am 5'6
    My condolences

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    how the frick are you a virgin at 24 literally anyone can hook up garbage
    >I am a manlet at 5’6 and a 5/10 face
    nvm

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    At 21, one person in six is a virgin. (google the statistics) Look around you. Count 5 people. Ok, you're the sixth and the virgin. Now count another six. One of them is a virgin. In a classroom of 30 there are five of you.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It must be different these days, but back in the late 90s - 2005 you didn’t have to be redpilled about women or anything. You just treat them nice like a friend and not play any games and could show weakness, then simply get laid. It was very organic. I think these days you have to jump through a lot of hoops and be the perfect confident man. Back in my day chicks actually liked guys and thought we were cool and interesting and fawned over us. Good times, as nature intended.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I got out of an ltr and dated again well after incels.
      It isnt different. Its still "be a decent person. Dont spaz. Dont be a homosexual, play to your strengths".
      Nothing has changed.
      Incels just got more bitter cause the internet affirms their feelings.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    38 yo wizard here. What's the problem with being a virgin?
    You could be sued for rape, have to spent time and money with other people just in the wait for sex, etc
    And you orgasm with your brain, not your dick. Learn self-hypnosis and you won't want to waste time with bawd (don't think any 5/10 girl to be anything other than one)

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    im 25 and a virgin, i honestly do not care, I just jack off when I get urges to have sex

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Sad about no gf
      >Jerk off
      >No longer sad
      It's just that easy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am 30 and a virgin. I used to be like you. Now I also have urges about wanting to just relax and cuddle. Can't cuddle myself. Don't wait. I'm starting to lose my hair. It isn't bad yet, but I think I missed my window. 30 year olds settle down, they don't go to the club.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I tried fashionmaxxing, gymcelling, being myself, touching grass, getting hobbies, working, and yet I’m still a virgin and I’ve never dated

    None of those things you mention revolve around improving your social skills and being able to talk to girls without dropping spaghetti though. You might as well ask why you're a shitty cook despite having 100+ hours in Overcooked.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      “Social skills” and personality is cope, nothing beyond face and height matters as a man. Why else would women date abusive men and for fricks sakes go to nonce busting videos on YouTube and they guys have wives and children. Just be 6ft or have a nice day its over for manlets

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is the lowest IQ, most bitter kissless virgin reply I have seen today.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        These abusive men still have more personality and better social skills than you. A bitter pill to swallow I'm sure, but it is what it is.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Focus on getting a relationship is all I’ll say. Lost mine at 22 in a pure hookup and didn’t have it again until a year later. Blue balls and regret filled that time. Fooled around with another girl recently but ended it cuz I knew for a fact I didn’t want a relationship with her (still had crazy blue balls after and we didn’t even bone)

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You are doing a lot right anon. You can't be for your body, but being healthy and fit and fashionable is a great addition to your life even without women involved. What do you do for work, or education? That is really the only improvement I really see. If you have wealth, income, education and are good at whatever you do, that is a recipe to keep whatever woman you do find that likes you.

    You need to be in places where there are women, and you need frequently go there. Find some guy friends and gal friends and socialize, work on your social skills. Being in proximity and frequency to someone is one of the highest predictors of attraction and comfortability. If you can be there and be a familiar face then you greatly increase your chances. Not to mention competition in person is a lot less when comparing online dating. Dating apps allow everyone to have infinite options and let users to never have to settle and always be looking for the next thrill or better person.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i feel like people are glossing over your friends cutting you off for being a virgin more context?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why would a group of normal sex-havers want an incel crashing their social gatherings?

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    the fact that you worry so much about it means you should pay for a prostitute, I did and those worries have left my mind, I know now that my misery is due to me being a loser with no goals or aspirations who runs away from hardship, not a lack of pussy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No goals or aspirations sucks. Not know what to do with yourself. However, anyone who runs toward hardship is a masochistic person. Usually a goal is running away from hardship but if you don't have hardship, you should figure something else out.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah, but hardship is gonna appear no matter what you want.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do men really cut each other off over sex status
    Really the trashiest gender; they say women are backstabbers
    Man am I lucky to be non-binary

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Preach xis

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >gymcelling
    post your numbers and show body
    every single one of you who say you've done this are skinny fat homosexuals who have never done the most basic cycle

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Even setting foot in a gym once a month puts you ahead of 90% of people on earth

      This is the lowest IQ, most bitter kissless virgin reply I have seen today.

      It’s true though. Why else would women get into relationships like that? Because they date the guy for being 6ft

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        > Even setting foot in a gym once a month puts you ahead of 90% of people on earth
        not to women it doesnt, you need to be jacked and then ure on a diff level of existence to most women
        it's not as good as being rich but most people cant just be rich no matter how badly they want to. any fricking idiot can inject a gram of test a week and get enormous even if they eat like a complete jackass

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >inject a gram of test a week and get enormous

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Easy, turn 22

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    this isnt the advice you waant but after you lose your virginity it becomes really god damn easy to hookup or whatever. idk what it is but its like a hurdle you have to clear and then all of a sudden its easy. granted its probably a bit more difficult for men.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >my only friend group have cut me off for being a virgin.
    No they didn't.
    OP is making shit up.
    I'd recommend simply not caring about sex, like I do.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No you haven't, no you haven't, no you haven't, no you haven't, no you haven't.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You cope by staying single
    You cope by paying for escorts, prostitutes, and hookers

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