How do I find a BF who doesn't watch porn?

Are there any men in this day and age who aren't porn-addicted freaks? I just feel hopeless about it tbh.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There are, but you wouldn't give them a chance.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >There are, but you wouldn't give them a chance.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >he is brown, hyper-religious, and will beat your ass if you disagree with him
      nice try arab-chan

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Lost.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      unironically this.
      Porn is such a hyper stimulant that only people who are really wrecked by rejection that seek such a "hardcore" way for self improvement. So ironically non porn users are usually ugly manlet copers because "normal" people can just get a relationship while watching porn.
      That being said, dont bother sis. just go for a normal guy and not some asocial shizoid

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >being a manlet is worse than being a porn addict
        you heard it here first boys

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Some of us don't watch porn anymore and jerk off less frequently because it saps away our life-force, our mojo, our drive and motivation, if you get what I mean - some people call it vril or chi.
        Doesn't mean we are all manlet schizoids. We just have more discipline or self-control, which stems from mindfulness and is important for personal growth and direction.
        I know some ladies are intrigued or maybe creeped out by that, but you don't have to be.
        See

        What is the purpose of your sexuality, smartass?
        Is it not there but for procreation?
        Do you believe that this is an issue of pleasure and control?
        The behavioral feedback loop that she desires is in fact the most biologically favourable one, as it encourages bonding while minimizing the effects of frequent orgasms, which harm your motivation and thereby the both of you.
        This is the reason circumcision was invented, it is the reason so many ancient religions include the practice of semen retention, it is the reason Freud, Ghandi, the Dalai Lama, Tesla, Hitler, Leonardo Da Vinci, Descartes, Voltaire, Plato, Pythagoras, Socrates, Beethoven, Steve Jobs, Muhammad Ali, Tom Cruise, Kanye West, Mark Twain, the Wright brothers and so many others practice and practiced it.
        It's a sacrifice that will make you intensely interested in long-term gratification.
        If you were to actually experience the stress and danger of pure nature, believe me, you would not jerk off, you would be tired, exhausted and constantly working.
        And for it you'd be triple the man! What do you think Pavlovian conditioning is?
        The purpose of life isn't pleasure, it's primordial love, or in other words death, the concept previously called chi, prana, vril, od, orgone, awen and so on, known in all ancient cultures from the Americas to East Asia - throwing yourself out there and working hard to see through your dreams until they are realized or you are dead.
        That is the true purpose of life, the original purpose ordained to us by none other than God himself in the instant he dreamt up this world we live in.

        for a nice list of examples of people who practiced semen retention. It helps you achieve things and it helps you dream and be positive.
        When a man ejaculates, especially when having sex or using porn, it really is signaling his body that he's won in life and should settle.
        In that way semen retention, any extent or manifestation of it, is a sacrifice and a no to temptation.
        Video games and porn very dramatically emulate what we should actually do with our time, which is work for our dreams. They shortcircuit our brains and make us addicted so that others profit off of us, wasting our time in the process.
        Women ironically also do this, especially with social media.
        It's no good since that time isn't put to use for anything productive - that's the opposite of being an achiever or egomaniac, which is bad for a respectable gentleman, simply because it hurts our dreams and hammers down our perspective into something very small and pathetic.
        So maybe if that hadn't happened and everyone was more mindful and civilized, then those nerds putting thousands of hours into HOI4 could have possibly built fusion power already, instead of it arriving around 2040. Maybe we'd be more prosperous and more healthy, maybe there'd be less war or hunger and so on.
        And if the women of the world did the same then maybe they'd also help with all of those things.
        So you see, your personal behavior, the amount of primordial love or self-sacrifice you have, has incisive consequences on the broader world.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      fpbp
      You want a man who is assertive, has high libido, wants to have sex and is good at it but doesn't watch porn.
      >inb4 "when did I say that I want these things?"
      No woman like you wants a beta male who won't even ask her out. Unless you're a boomer, not watching porn, with how easily accessible it is (we're often forcibly exposed to it), is a symptom of asexuality, low testosterone or even unusual sexual preferences caused by mental abnormalities such as moronation, autism, schizophrenia and so on.
      All the Chads that I know watch a lot of porn and they know all the female pornstars like they're the US predidents or Pokemons. They are happy with their girlfriends and their relationships last.
      Looking for "men" who don't watch porn (I'm talking about normal porn where they have sex, not pinups, Tiktoks or weird anime shit) means looking for disfunctional men that most women (like you) would naturally find repulsing.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you might find one but there's no reliable way to find many. they can't even find enough no porno males to sign up for double blind university studies when they offer money to participate. those kinds of guys are basically extinct now

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    men who dont watch porn 99% of time are already in a relationship, your best bet is finding one willing to stop watching along the relationship

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >your best bet is finding one willing to stop watching along the relationship
      But that's not good enough because his brain will still be corrupted from years of chronic porn use.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        social media causes women as bad of brain damage as porn does to men. the only difference is that men understand that social media is a crutch for women whereas women will never understand how porn is a crutch for men.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about men who are in long term relationships and can have sex whenever they want but still watch porn.
          Porn gives men disgusting fetishes and abnormal sexual habits. Plenty of modern men are so brainrotted they'd rather jerk off than have sex with a real woman

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sounds like you got men all figured out. good luck in your search!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about women who are in long term relationships and can have attention from their bf whenever they want but still prostitute themselves on tiktok and instagram.
            Social media gives women disgusting mental issues and abnormal perceptions of reality. Plenty of modern women are so brainrotted they'd rather sit home and scroll through tiktok propaganda or sell themselves to simps than have dates or talk with a real man.

            Read reddit pages like r/loveafterporn if you want to see stories of women trapped in loveless marriages with men who would rather watch porn and videos of bimbos on tiktok rather than make love to their actual wife. You just don't want to accept it

            Even 10/10 women have to deal with this problem so what chance do us normal average girls have?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not the one in denial here.
            Take accountability for your own gender's issues before looking to point fingers at men.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            god do i despise american, what the frick even is a PA? a personal assistant? a pediatric anesthesiologist?
            how is someone supossed to know what it means? she typed a wall of text but couldnt spend 1/5 of sec on that?

            How do I find a gf who is a virgin?

            funny they ignored this one, vast majority of boys are completly ignored all throughout school and then some ppl act shocked when those same boys grow up into porn addicted man

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Porn Addict. She's saying she's 2hot and he still jerks off to porn, probably because she sounds insufferable to be around and ugly on the inside. Probably also frigid and uses sex as a conditional bargaining chip.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Men will really say a loving beautiful wife is "ugly on the inside" and will then go jerk off to onlyfans girls with mental disorders who rob them of their money. Just proves being a nice girl doesn't get you anywhere with men.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >loving and beautiful wife
            >trashes husband Reddit
            Lmao

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If the husband is a porn addict then he deserves to be trashed

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you are moronic

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The ugliest thing about her is how full of herself she is. Not a humble bone in her body given the content of that post. That isn't nice, that's insufferable, narcisstic and gross. "I'm so great look at me boss b***h coming through! I got the lashes and the abs and the career-" no self-respecting man cares. I'd rather be with a less attractive girl that has humility than take care of Princess Barbiedoll, much less try to meet her standards.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            None of that shit makes her a 10/10.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah imagine saying that having a boob job is a positive thing

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >the guys in my dms
            >the lunches packed with love notes
            >the asking "how was your day"
            >the good relationship with my family
            Those female accomplishments

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I have the $10,000 boob job
            This is where I stopped reading.
            I like how this was the very first thing she wrote when explaining how much of a 10 she is.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what chance do us normal average girls have?
            None, because of your laundry list of requirements. You say you want this one thing (a man who will make love to you and never use porn) but actually you want a bunch of other things as a result of your addiction to sm and media fashions.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This post (Yours, I didn't even read the image you posted) is so delusional I'm having a hard time not believing it's just bait.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Her image and status is her everything. She must be insufferable to be around.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about women who are in long term relationships and can have attention from their bf whenever they want but still prostitute themselves on tiktok and instagram.
            Social media gives women disgusting mental issues and abnormal perceptions of reality. Plenty of modern women are so brainrotted they'd rather sit home and scroll through tiktok propaganda or sell themselves to simps than have dates or talk with a real man.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wow you sure do know all about men, GOOD LUCK!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My lube and deathgrip feels better then anything a woman could offer me, without any of the hassle or drama of having a woman.
            I also get to jerk it to girls 10 times more attractive then the average women.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I also get to jerk it to girls 10 times more attractive then the average women.
            This is why. I don't need perfect but look how fricking fat the average American woman is and these hags blame us for being addicted to porn. What did you expect you when your naked body looks like a honey baked ham?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            jerking off is comftorble, Porn is easy. I don't jerk off to porn because I can't have sex with women. I do it because it's the equivalent of getting fast food instead of cooking a nice meal. Cheap, Slightly satisfying, but not as big of a pay off. Personally I see nothing wrong with it, I have a gf and she can care less that sometimes I want to just be alone and jerk off. If I suggest something weird I want to try during sex she can just say no. Honestly you guys are weirdos

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Damn youre ngmi

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >they'd rather jerk off than have sex with a real woman
            I promise you that's because modern women are toxic, selfish, and demanding even in bed.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        then good luck finding that needle in the haystack, maybe youll have better chances with mormons or muslims or something, that is if you can put up with their antics

        im saying all this from being a men and talking with many male friends, the only ones who dont watch porn are the ones that are never single
        (i wonder if there is a corelation there or something, surely the ever increasing amount of lonely men wont have disatrous consequence for society as whole!)

        It's really not that hard OP...

        i heard those lewd asmr video are pretty trendy right now, there are also ones that tell you how(?) to jerk off or something too

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You sound insecure so let me reassure of this, unless the person is mentally ill, you can get any man off of porn. And don't get hung up on the disclaimer there, most guys aren't mentally ill and will drop porn in a heartbeat for actual human connection. People watch porn because they can't get laid or because their relationship is unfulfilling. If you date someone, you have every opportunity to take away any reason they would have to watch porn. If you find someone that wants you, they will never have a reason to jerk off if they know you love them and want to frick them.
        >Their libidos are too high! They have weird fetishes! They like girls with different features!
        Welcome to dating. Porn did not give them fetishes or high libido, biology did. Find someone compatible to you.

        >his brain will still be corrupted from years of chronic porn use.
        You are an insecure moron who either thinks porn is breaking monogamous boundaries or believes this crap because you spend your freetime reading the blackpill bullshit from reddits like these

        [...]
        Read reddit pages like r/loveafterporn if you want to see stories of women trapped in loveless marriages with men who would rather watch porn and videos of bimbos on tiktok rather than make love to their actual wife. You just don't want to accept it

        Even 10/10 women have to deal with this problem so what chance do us normal average girls have?

        instead of just talking to men and getting to know them.
        >what chance do us normal average girls have
        Let me give you the truth about males: we will fall in love with anyone who is kind and flirtatious and shows interest in us. I'm sorry you've been rejected or heartbroken before but rest assured there is someone out there who loves your appearance. There is not a woman on this Earth who is unattractive to every male on the planet. You may not have met them yet but out there is a man who loves every feature you have and would ruin his life to get to know you.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm sorry you've been rejected
          >Implying women get rejected

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            this is a female mad about porn on NSFFW, she's been rejected before.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The brain is very plastic and can heal even from years of use.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      where is my girlfriend then?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw 1%
      oh the misery

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Lies.

      Christians don't look at porn

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Me, but I have no libido. I hope you like infrequent sex!

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      not OP but damn I wish

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's really not that hard OP...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lost.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ladies, why haven't you moved to Menver yet?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's over

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What's up with this latest trend of women being worried about men's masturbatory habits

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      so they can control men as they will be dependent on women for sex.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      zoomer women are hitting mid 20s and realizing the men they've rejected and ridiculed are now withdrawn from society and addicted to porn

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women are getting sick and tired of men being disgusting pigs with pornbrain and we're telling you "cut it out or we're done".

      Statistics show more women than ever are opting out of relationships, you dont think maybe this has something to do with it? Noone wants a boyfriend who follows 100+ tiktok thots and onlyfans girls and jacks his tiny weiner raw every night

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Goodbye lol
        Youve been replaced in appeal. Your gender waged war against mine

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Statistics show more women than ever are opting out of relationships, you dont think maybe this has something to do with it?
        Isn't this the same for men? That's what I hear parroted, both genders are dating less.

        [...]
        [...]
        It's crazy how you act like men don't use social media or something. You all have instagram and tiktok accounts where you creep on models, influencers and underage girls. Don't lie about it. At least women use social media for normal things like connecting with friends and enjoying our hobbies

        Ooooh, I see. Bait.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >"cut it out or we're done."
        Bye

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There's a TikTok meme going around instructing women to treat sex like a currency that men have to earn.

      Easy porn access undermines those plans.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Women give away sex easily and sleep with as many men as possible
        "NNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU CANT DO THAT, THAT MAKES YOU A bawd!!!"

        >Women treat sex as currency and make men earn it, having sex with very few men
        "NNNOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU CANT DO THAT EITHER!!!"

        Just admit it, you'd hate women no matter what we do.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How about a healthy approach to sex that's neither explicitly transactional nor explicitly frivolous?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Mh, how about give away sex easily when in a relationship and don't put out easily when not in a relationship. It's not that hard of a concept.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sex is only enjoyable when it's with strangers that you have no chance in pursuing a relationship with

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      they saw men being worried about their sucking and fricking 10000 strangers habit so they have to steal the hip new thing
      any other reason is cope

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        basically this; sexually "liberated" women began feeling called out upon realizing that nobody values them anymore, so they had to quickly fabricate an excuse

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They want sex and if the guy's wasting his horny on porn then they won't get as much sex, d'uh.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Aren't women getting lots of sex already

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No, they want you to want to have sex so that they can get power over you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >remember that orgasm is one of the most powerful reward systems we can experience, now link to pavlov and your pornography usage
      >train yourself to orgasm to humiliating and degrading women and girls
      >basically every man will admit that their porn content has escalted over time, often acknowleding it as a joke that they need more and more extreme content to get off
      >men increasingly inflict the degrading shit they see in pornography onto women in their personal lives, seen over time with the normalization of hairless pubic regions, anal, strangling, hitting, etc
      >more and more of my girlfriends say they've had guys start to strangle them during sex without even asking
      >omg why do they care so much though!
      moron.

      zoomer women are hitting mid 20s and realizing the men they've rejected and ridiculed are now withdrawn from society and addicted to porn

      average age of porn exposure now is something like 7 years old

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Women also watch porn. Around 30-40 of porn watchers are female and thats not even counting smut/erotica(much of which is depraved and violent). Women always talk about porn addiction in an accusatory tone like they arent part of the problem and that the boys who are falling through the cracks in multiple avenues of life and getting addicted exposed to it as children are evil. Not to mention life now is so expensive marriage is delayed to 30s and getting your own place is delayed to mid 20s. Meaning you have leagues of malsocialized young adults who are struggling with loneliness and sexual frustration. Porn is how they cope. It will never be fixed until becoming actually independent at 18 is possible again for most people. You read stories about people in the 80s and they were traveling across the country in their own car with enough money to sleep in motels and eat for a week at 16 years old so they can chase their favorite band around.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That's a very real problem you point out, not to detract from it and make myself special but
        >train yourself to orgasm to humiliating and degrading women and girls
        Skill issue. Any guy should be able to crank it to a normal video of normal, regular sex. You gotta get it together if you need something more leagues more extreme than that.

        >normalization of hairless pubic regions, anal
        where the frick is the degradation with hairless genitals. it's called shaving. everyone should shave their pubes man, a bush is uncomfortable. sodomy is also apparently degrading so i assume you're still recovering from your catholic upbringing, good luck with conquering the guilt and shame, you will become a well adjusted adult some day.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      see

      zoomer women are hitting mid 20s and realizing the men they've rejected and ridiculed are now withdrawn from society and addicted to porn

      Essentially it's the latest histrionic control freak thing from feminists. Every woman who gets on the "no porn" train deserves nothing but mockery and contempt, these people seriously expect the 90% of men they don't want to have casual sex with to just live a celibate existence working their asses off to provide a lifestyle for them whenever they're "ready."
      >b-but what about porn addicts!
      I'm sure they exist, I'm sure they also represent a single digit percentage of users overall. Most of these women who complain they can't compete with porn have burned their husbands/boyfriends out on sex and affection with them through frigid, c**ty, and self serving attitudes. Men aren't dildos you can just get out when you feel like getting fricked, I am goddamn tired of hearing women who don't know their boyfriend's favorite meal or color crying that he must not want another night of all pressure and effort on him sex because of the porn, frick off.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >lack of sex in the marriage is now the man's fault
      >as if the woman gaining weight, or giving bs 'my head hurts' excuses because she never was attracted to him in the first place

      Drink bleach troony.

      'Porn addicition' is just the latest anti-man boogey man that caught on TikTok. Only an idiot would believe that women are just hungry for sex and men are too addicted to PornHub to pay them any attention. You fricking c**ts never stop complaining.

      >he doesn't want to have sex with me
      >omg he watches so much porn he's addicted

      >he wants to have sex with me but i don't
      >omg he expects sex all the time because he watches so much porn he's addicted

      >he wants to try something kinky and outside your comfort zone
      >omg he saw one girl take a facial on the internet now he wants me to do it for him ew gross he's addicted

      Meanwhile women still pull the mind games, stay in contact with their exes, be bisexual , be vegan, and have male friends.

      You're all disgusting

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >be bisexual , be vegan, and have male friends.
        These are all normal things.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          so is watching porn

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about women who are in long term relationships and can socialize whenever they want but still scroll Tiktok."
    >Social media gives women disgusting behaviour and celebrity addiction. Plenty of modern women are so brainrotted they'd rather browse Instagram rather than interact with friends and family.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I find a gf who is a virgin?

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    hmm yeah i just wonder where the women who don't use social media and dating apps are???

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      "That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about women who are in long term relationships and can socialize whenever they want but still scroll Tiktok."
      >Social media gives women disgusting behaviour and celebrity addiction. Plenty of modern women are so brainrotted they'd rather browse Instagram rather than interact with friends and family.

      That's bullshit because you can read lots of stories about women who are in long term relationships and can have attention from their bf whenever they want but still prostitute themselves on tiktok and instagram.
      Social media gives women disgusting mental issues and abnormal perceptions of reality. Plenty of modern women are so brainrotted they'd rather sit home and scroll through tiktok propaganda or sell themselves to simps than have dates or talk with a real man.

      It's crazy how you act like men don't use social media or something. You all have instagram and tiktok accounts where you creep on models, influencers and underage girls. Don't lie about it. At least women use social media for normal things like connecting with friends and enjoying our hobbies

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        nope, you are being dishonest and describing a pathological person. i'll ask again - where are the women who don't use social media or dating apps?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Different anon (man). I use neither porn nor social media.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I use google for porn pictures but I don't have any social media at all.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not in the US, that's where.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Well I don't watch porn but I'm married so there's that.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you can't. men fall into 2 groups when it comes to porn:
    1. those who realize it's a problem and actively try to stop
    2. those who don't realize it's a problem or don't care enough to stop

    I know that your womanly nature makes you want to wait at the finish line and pick the winners but seems like porn has turned into part of the culture for young men and your only option is either to help them get through it or stay single until you die alone and rot

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you are moronic

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you are moronic

      I am moronic

      Men are moronic.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I may be moronic, but I have a good heart, and I do my best for the people that rely on me. If that counts for something, then I'm doing okay 🙂

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am moronic

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >don’t have gf so need to watch porn to vent off
    >women complain about men watching porn
    man, just mind your fricking business and leave us alone
    that said porn addiction is bad

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      maybe if you didnt watch porn so much you would have a better chance of finding a gf

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >maybe if you didnt watch porn so much you would have a better chance of finding a gf
        Explain to me the sixth sense women have that detects the porn viewer from the purist in the crowd. Frick you.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's easy when you attribute any undesirable quality to being a result of porn viewership. Don't ask about accuracy rates though.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wait until marriage to have sex and expect the same of a guy. This isn't a guarantee by any means, but it does correlate with opposition to porn and lower rates of porn use (in part because of religiosity, but also independent of religion). Notice how ITT, you've gotten multiple angry responses defending men's "need" for sex/porn--that's the kind of guy who takes sex as a given. A guy who substitutes a gf for porn as his sexual outlet still has the pornsick mindset, which is why it's not surprising that such men are much more likely to watch porn.

    It could help to screen for honesty, too. Pay close attention to how a guy presents himself, and whether he is upfront about things that don't make him look good (for example, if he is late to a date, and he says that he forgot instead of saying he was busy with something) while still trying to do right by you. This takes time, but once you're reasonably sure, you can be more confident in his answer when you ask him whether he watches porn.

    All this being said, I'm assuming that you want a guy who doesn't currently watch porn. Finding a guy who has never even seen it will be pretty difficult outside of religious circles, but it's not a bad standard if it's important to you. I wouldn't settle for a woman who had sex outside of marriage. On the other hand, it will be easier to find a guy who is willing to *stop* watching porn for you. Regardless of how strict your standard is, avoiding promiscuous guys and/or men who expect sex as a condition for dating will help you weed out the most porn-addled group, even if there are still a lot of porn-addicted guys you'll have to sift through.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You've never been in a religious circle obviously. I'm a Christian and have been my whole life. Anyone under 30 has seen porn at least once. It's just too strong a temptation to pass up doing at least once. I mean it, no man period.

      Also you can scream "cope" if you really want, but I just don't agree it's equivalent to women actually having premarital sex irl. It's one thing to watch it from a far while touching yourself and it's another to actually do it. I wouldn't rule out dating any woman who has read a streamy novel or read erotic fanfiction cause that would rule out basically all women as well.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Anyone under 30 has seen porn at least once.
        I have, too, but I'm not religious.
        Porn is pervasive in society, but the only people who seem to have a statistically significant chance of not just opposing it but avoiding it are the religious.
        As I said, that's far from a guarantee that a guy has never watched/doesn't watch porn. Just that groups vary.

        >I just don't agree it's equivalent to women actually having premarital sex irl. It's one thing to watch it from a far while touching yourself and it's another to actually do it.
        I agree completely. I don't think they're equivalent wrongs; watching a cartel execution isn't anywhere near as bad as killing someone oneself, even if it's still fricked up. At the same time, porn clearly isn't good for intimacy, let alone from a Christian standpoint, and it's not in any way wrong for a woman to have strong standards against porn, even if they exclude someone like us.

        What you want is called "asexual".

        >Look at how angry and dismissive tons of men ITT are acting towards OP for opposing porn
        Men have higher sex drive than women, it's a basic biological fact, so it's much more difficult for men not to watch porn than it is for women. Unfortunately, OP doesn't offer anything in return, so the post boils down to "I'm looking for a man who feels sexual urges but has the strength of completely resisting to porn, in exchange I will bestow upon him my mighty vegana, because you know, my vegana is absolutely divine and in general totally worth it and it's obvious that any intelligent man would give up porn for the rest of his life just to witness at least once the ultimate greatness of MY vegana". From any man's perspective this is simply a bad deal because OP is a demanding b***h and baseless demands are only going to continue.

        An overwhelming majority of men watch porn, at least to some degree. Considering the fact that the society isn't collapsing, I'd say, it's pretty easy to watch porn as a hobby and be a productive member of the society. You could point to falling birthrates as an issue caused by porn, but
        1. women are the relationship gatekeepers (just look at NSFFW)
        2. women initiate most divorces, and gay female marriages are consistently more likely to end in divorce than gay male marriages

        So maybe the real issue isn't men watching bouncy boobs, but rather women filling their heads with completely unrealistic views on relationships and ending up unable to sustain real-world marriages

        >OP doesn't offer anything in return
        She doesn't have to, just as no man is obligated to date her. Practically speaking, we could say some qualities will be better or worse in attracting certain groups, but if OP is looking for a guy who opposes porn, then her attitude is in itself a positive to that sort of guy, not something she has to "make up for".

        >Considering the fact that the society isn't collapsing, I'd say, it's pretty easy to watch porn as a hobby and be a productive member of the society.
        A society like Sparta managed to last for hundreds of years despite 90% of the population being treated worse than slaves and the other 10% being abused as children and raised to be cuckolds. Humans are resilient; that doesn't mean any orderly and self-perpetuating society is just as good as the next. How people relate to each other is important for its own sake, too. Modern society is extremely atomized and demoralized; it's gotten that bad largely because of how stable and materially prosperous conditions have been.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Modern society is extremely atomized and demoralized; it's gotten that bad largely because of how stable and materially prosperous conditions have been.
          Literal contradiction and complete opposite of reality. Ask any zoomer what future they envision for the world and most think it'll be hellfire. Even millennials don't expect any societal good to happen in the future, people are atomized and demoralized because they're hopeless about things getting better yet they need to continue to slave away or go homeless/starve.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't think they're contradictory.
            The former part of that quote was about how people relate to each other--how social institutions and unifying norms of the past have eroded or just crumbled.
            The latter part was about the stability of the state and economy (not the same as norms and institutions, but related). The second half of the 20th century, and this century to date, have been the most peaceful and most prosperous times in history. Famine has been completely eradicated in the developed world. Anarchy in a first world country has yet to happen. Stability and prosperity.

            I know that lots of people are gloomy about the future. Why wouldn't people feel depressed and powerless when so many of their connections to a community or senses of higher purpose (whether that's faith, family, a tight-knit hometown where people don't all move away at adulthood, or just a steady circle of friends) are gone? And part of the reasons those connections have withered is because our extremely prosperous society has made it so that people don't rely on each other as much. Welfare can save many people from near-inescapable situations. But it also enables people to burn bridges much more easily. Turns out, if you can go it alone, you don't care as much what other people think of you, and even if you do, our economy is geared towards free movement of people, not just goods. Very efficient economically. But it eviscerates stable, rooted communities.

            >" a guy who has never even seen it will be pretty difficult outside of religious circles, but it's not a bad standard if it's important to you."
            >"As I said, that's far from a guarantee that a guy has never watched/doesn't watch porn. Just that groups vary."
            >"At the same time, porn clearly isn't good for intimacy, let alone from a Christian standpoint, and it's not in any way wrong for a woman to have strong standards against porn, even if they exclude someone like us."
            I'm telling you no man period. Not in secular circles, not in religious. Not even gay men (they watch gay porn) no adult male has not watched porn.

            You're giving her bad advice. All I'm saying is she needs to lower her standards and accept that it's normal for your partner to have made mistakes in the past and move on. I'd even date a chick who was a bawd in highschool if she clearly has moved on and regrets it all. "not a bad standard" is bad advice.

            And I'm telling you that you're both overly pessimistic and coming to a false conclusion. Lowering standards for ourselves and others is what got us into this mess. Accepting whatever negative developments happen as a fait accompli won't help anything. Personally, I'd rather die alone than settle for a woman who doesn't meet my standards. I know plenty of women do, but even if someone proved beyond any doubt that no woman alive did, I'd just stay single.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >" a guy who has never even seen it will be pretty difficult outside of religious circles, but it's not a bad standard if it's important to you."
          >"As I said, that's far from a guarantee that a guy has never watched/doesn't watch porn. Just that groups vary."
          >"At the same time, porn clearly isn't good for intimacy, let alone from a Christian standpoint, and it's not in any way wrong for a woman to have strong standards against porn, even if they exclude someone like us."
          I'm telling you no man period. Not in secular circles, not in religious. Not even gay men (they watch gay porn) no adult male has not watched porn.

          You're giving her bad advice. All I'm saying is she needs to lower her standards and accept that it's normal for your partner to have made mistakes in the past and move on. I'd even date a chick who was a bawd in highschool if she clearly has moved on and regrets it all. "not a bad standard" is bad advice.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >but if OP is looking for a guy who opposes porn, then her attitude is in itself a positive to that sort of guy, not something she has to "make up for".
          Obviously she can't find him and she refuses to acknowledge the statistics

          >A society like Sparta managed to last for hundreds of years despite 90% of the population being treated worse than slaves and the other 10% being abused as children and raised to be cuckolds
          This touches a bigger question: are people in shit societies fundamentally unhappier? As in, were the Spartan cuckolds unhappy about their status, or did they think "I'm a cuckold but at least I'm not a slave, yay for me, I have a good life" because they weren't aware that it's possible to organize the society in a different way

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Porn gives us variety in a safe way thats not cheating. Its actually just unnatural to be super excited to frick the same girl for the 9000th time. Men in the days before porn cheated a lot and had second families and shit lol

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      1.) Set boundaries at the beginning of the relationship and be patient. You're fricking crazy if you expect to easily find someone who is abstaining from pornography before you ask them to do so.
      2.) Give back what you're taking away. Let them experience their fetishes in bed instead of through pornography.
      3.) If you can't do that, accept that some people either want or need a safe outlet for their sexual fetishes. Basically what said.

      t. cut back on porn when I was in a relationship because my ex-girlfriend asked me to. I'd "cheat" once every other month, and it had nothing to do with how I felt about her. She ended up cheating on me, talk about projection.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Let them experience their fetishes in bed instead of through pornography.
        The kinds of people who "need" to treat women like prostitutes and act out their depraved fetishes should be avoided, not pandered to. Ultimately, if OP's standard is a guy who doesn't watch porn, she shouldn't consider herself responsible for the behavior of others. If his behavior to meet the standard is conditional on her indulging him, he's not the kind of guy she's looking for.
        Just as it is for men and our standards (regardless of how much people complain about those, too).

        This isn't to say that OP should indignantly reject as wrong any expectations a man might have of women. Just that she shouldn't feel like it's her responsibility to 'make' men behave well. We're all responsible for our own actions, not the actions of others.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >>Let them experience their fetishes in bed instead of through pornography.
          >>The kinds of people who "need" to treat women like prostitutes and act out their depraved fetishes should be avoided

          Not every fetish is depraved or about belittling women you c**t. A fetish could be anything. It can be a different foreplay position, it can be an outfit or acting out roleplay scenario. It can be just letting them rub their dick on some weird part of your body.
          What the frick is the harm in any of that?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The harm is in treating sexual gratification as the primary or highest goal of a relationship—treating a woman like your personal prostitute, whose purpose it is to be a sexual plaything, is the demeaning part; that would be true even if a guy were only into missionary-only with the lights out, but still was of the mindset that a woman should put out early and often, or else he’ll cheat/watch porn.
            Look at how angry and dismissive tons of men ITT are acting towards OP for opposing porn. I’m not saying you’re one of them, but those types of people are exactly the ones who benefit from a paradigm where either porn itself or cooming is treated as a foundational demand in a relationship. That’s the kind of behavior such a mindset encourages. My point is that OP shouldn’t reinforce their mindset by substituting herself for porn. She should find a guy who won’t watch porn to begin with, who doesn’t place conditions on it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What you want is called "asexual".

            >Look at how angry and dismissive tons of men ITT are acting towards OP for opposing porn
            Men have higher sex drive than women, it's a basic biological fact, so it's much more difficult for men not to watch porn than it is for women. Unfortunately, OP doesn't offer anything in return, so the post boils down to "I'm looking for a man who feels sexual urges but has the strength of completely resisting to porn, in exchange I will bestow upon him my mighty vegana, because you know, my vegana is absolutely divine and in general totally worth it and it's obvious that any intelligent man would give up porn for the rest of his life just to witness at least once the ultimate greatness of MY vegana". From any man's perspective this is simply a bad deal because OP is a demanding b***h and baseless demands are only going to continue.

            An overwhelming majority of men watch porn, at least to some degree. Considering the fact that the society isn't collapsing, I'd say, it's pretty easy to watch porn as a hobby and be a productive member of the society. You could point to falling birthrates as an issue caused by porn, but
            1. women are the relationship gatekeepers (just look at NSFFW)
            2. women initiate most divorces, and gay female marriages are consistently more likely to end in divorce than gay male marriages

            So maybe the real issue isn't men watching bouncy boobs, but rather women filling their heads with completely unrealistic views on relationships and ending up unable to sustain real-world marriages

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            When you frame it like that, I can't disagree with what you're saying but in the case of what you're laying out, OP should've stated "I want a low libido man, where can I find them?"
            >cooming is treated as a foundational demand in a relationship
            If what OP is looking for is a sexual relationship, then yes, sexual satisfaction would be foundational. It'd be what separates her from just being best friends with this other person. Should it be the primary goal? No, like you said, that leads to unhealthy paradigm and expectations, but it's gonna be something OP has to accept and balance out.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If what OP is looking for is a sexual relationship, then yes, sexual satisfaction would be foundational.
            Sure. But that's not the same thing as wanting a committed, exclusive relationship. I'd argue that they're diametrically opposed: either you think sex should come before commitment (marriage), or that commitment should come before sex. In the former position, sex is prioritized. That's why it's foundational.
            Also, ironically enough, those who wait until marriage to have sex actually report higher sexual satisfaction, even controlling for religion.

            > It'd be what separates her from just being best friends with this other person.
            I wouldn't consider a friend as a potential spouse.

            >it's gonna be something OP has to accept and balance out.
            Depends what she wants. If she expects sex without commitment, then sure, she should expect people to place relatively more emphasis on sex. But that's not the only possible way to treat relationships.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            a relationship without fricking and thus cooming is a friendship. a (romantic) relationship has to include love, attraction and bonding through fricking. not because I'm a disgusting coomer who jerks it to porn, but because that is the context of a romantic relationship, people date to kiss, to hug, to frick, to (in some cases) have kids and build a future together in a monogamous couple.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >a relationship without fricking and thus cooming is a friendship
            No, it isn't. I don't consider any of my friends as potential spouses. And I have no binding commitment to be friends for life, let alone exclusively. Dating and marriage are completely different. That you don't think they are without sex shows how little you value relationships, and how excessively you value sex.

            > in a monogamous couple.
            Sex outside of marriage makes monogamy, in the original and most meaningful sense of the term, far less likely.
            You put sex before commitment, instead of putting commitment before sex. And in doing so, you devalue both.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            we will not agree on this. my view is that you are friends first, then it evolves into something more as you find more compatibilities and similar life goals, eventually it stops being a strict friendship and evolves into a relationship, at which point you try out sexual compatibility and further screen for potential issues, and then it evolves again into a marriage type situation. I disagree that having sex outside of marriage is a sin, so we wont agree on that and I am uninterested in attempting to convince you from your religious beliefs, they are yours to carry as you will. fricking people you love and hope to marry and have kids with is nothing bad in my opinion, even if you are yet to officially be married. I make the distinction by only dating and fricking people I love and fully intend to partner with for my life, so we might find common ground in disliking casual sex.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not religious. It's sad how people think that's the only way monogamy could be valued.
            >at which point you try out sexual compatibility
            Even leaving aside that "sexual compatibility" is a fringe issue that barely cracks the list in reasons for divorce, you don't need to have sex to do find it out. Practically any issue is resolved just as well if not better through waiting and good communication. And those who wait actually report higher sexual satisfaction.

            >by only dating and fricking people I love and fully intend to partner with for my life
            Yet your intent clearly doesn't bear out in reality, something you fully accept if you refuse to make that commitment before getting intimate.

            >we might find common ground in disliking casual sex.
            Sure, but I don't see much difference between your behavior and casual sex in practice. Both are sex without commitment. You're just open to something more, while casual sex is nominally closed to it. But people don't always act consistently; some people string others along for sex, while others hook up in the hopes of turning it into a relationship.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you try out sexual compatibility and further screen for potential issues,
            Not the anon you are conversing, but i want to comment on this. It looks reasonable on paper, but in reality is deceiving and destructive.

            True hppiness is not a perpetual state of ecstasy, but an enduring state of contentment. And the ones who can achieve it are those who can wisely manage expectations. People nowadays seem to view and expect marriage as a perfect ending, but our ancestors (with long-lasting marriages) do not share the same over-romanticized perception.

            In relation to the sentence i quoted from you; it is apparent that many with greater "experience" in the dating scene grew more vigilant, but also increasingly untrusting, uncompromising, and unappreciative. Empirical evidence of this is the popularity of proverbs like "the grass is greener on the other side", "get the bag/pussy/dick and get out", "all women are prostitutes", "all men are the same".

            Therefore, contrary to the connotation of the term "experience", prolonged time in the dating scene and recurring failed relationships turns one jaded and evidently worse candidates for commitment and marriage. As if the "experience" is teaching them all the wrong ways, into developing character traits that are detrimental to fostering robust companionship.

            Therefore it's increasingly apparent that there might be merit in limiting "experience" and to marry your first in haste, as the idea is to limit prejudices and excessive expectations betwixt the prospects in the face of marriage. To alter the outlook of marriage from (as mentioned above) an expectation of a perfect ending, into the healthier & more achievable learning process to grow together as better humans overall. To support this noble goal further, it's crucial for both spouses to guard themselves from external temptations, as there's no use fawning over others' lawn when you can choose to beautify your own.

            Best regards and wishes to all the faithful spouses.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            ChatGPT?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No. I am a human. One that is capable of compassion.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your word choice makes you sound like a tool.
            “Betwixt”? Seriously?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why so hung up on my diction? It got the message across, and specified there being only 2 parties involved. I'm sorry i opted for accuracy instead of pandering to your kiddie vocabulary.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Anyone who isn’t an autist is going to pay attention to tone, not just the literal meaning of words. Using archaic and flowery language makes you sound like a pretentious twat, which detracts from whatever meaning you’re trying to get across.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >which detracts from whatever meaning you’re trying to get across.
            It's a minor inconvenience at worst. And that is the only archaic word. The tone you accuse me of using is your own delusional inference. I was clearly not being hostile. You borne the prejudice that anyone using unorthodox diction must be maliciously motivated, and assumed i fall on the same stereotype. To further prove my innocence; i am ESL.

            And my message is not directed to someone fragile enough to choose to disregard the entire point to instead be offended by my "tone". If it falls on deaf ears for you, then my message is too profound for your conceited self.

            Speaking of tone, you should hear yourself. You are not any better than what you accuse me of.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I personally enjoy reading messages that challenge my vocabulary.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Its actually just unnatural to be super excited to frick the same girl for the 9000th time.
      Do people on this board actually believe in monogamy or not. I know not everyone is a good frick but I hope to god you'd only date someone who fricks you good.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Locate a man with discipline who finds you attractive. Agree to get him horny and get him satisfied as often as he requires, on the condition that he only uses his arousal on you, and not on a computer screen.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Are there any men in this day and age who aren't porn-addicted freaks? I just feel hopeless about it tbh.
    equates to in man-nese
    Are there any w*men in this day "of" age who aren't totally inconsiderate, non-emotionally intelligent, remorsless freaks? i just feel hopeless about, it feels like w*men are incapable of showing any form of unconditional love..
    >tldr get stuffed you jive turkey, can you dig it. also skill issue

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't watch porn, but I wouldn't date a troon. Sorry OP.

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't get to cum, but i still watch it when i work out

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t watch porn
    It’s stupid.
    In fact I think it’s weird people even talk about it, like how do I find a boyfriend that doesn’t watch porn.

    How about how to I develop better radar and a critical mindset and not be attracted to guys that I actually don’t like?

    I’m so sick of western women.

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You need an AVRT boy. Boys who will study AVRT vol 1 on youtube. Enough said

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't imagine I'd look at porn if I had a girl draining my balls everyday.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >women don't give 80% of men the chance of ever seeing pussy irl
    >"Are there any men in this day and age who aren't porn-addicted freaks?"

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      don't give 80% of men the chance of ever seeing pussy irl
      What fantasy world do you live in where 80% of men are virgins lmao

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not virgin's but it's increasingly strugglesom out here for at least the bottom 2/3rds or so of zoomer males.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >zoomer males
          Maybe because you're all fricking gay lmao.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Everyone watches porn, moron

    Now why do you want someone who doesn't watch porn? Insecure?

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are either looking for an asexual or a poor sap raised in church who still feels guilt about looking at genitals, that is if they're not still a religious conservative. Good luck having a sex life with either!

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't watch porn. Where are all the ladies that desire me?

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What's more unrealistic: A man expecting to find a virgin woman or a woman expecting to find a man who has never watched porn?

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    move to a developing country without electricity or internet

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can't believe anyone seriously engaged with this premise. You're all so fricking stupid it causes me physical pain when I see it.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you her personal walking fleshlight? or you "milk" him manual/oral at least?

    Would you be ok if he jerk off to lewd pics and videos of you or smelling your panties?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      pornbrain.

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Femcel who doesn't know what addiction means but diagnosing people despite not being qualified, thinking she has this huge pool of men who would commit to her when this is likely not the case

    Or just another psyop thread

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t agree. Every girl I’ve ever been with has had multiple fricked up fetishes. Preppy, athlete, goth, “normal,” mathlete, band, etc. I used to watch porn because I had sexual energy and no outlet - whether I had a girlfriend or not. It also wasn’t required to satiate the problem. I wake up with an erection or get erections throughout the day. I have a normal libido for a man. I am repulsed by prostitution and strip clubs. I think the problem with porn / sex work is exploitation and female insecurity. I don’t know men who think porn is real. I know a lot of women who think men think porn is real and create scenarios in their mind for what men want in bed. The answer: a faithful woman who loves them.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've been in a relationship where I was the guy into porn and I was with a straight edged gal.

    The problem was, porn come with things I really like, girls that talk to you, dirty talk, seem really into it, even a higher amount of intimacy (I'm into joi, pov and ASMR porn) and I could get off in like 20mins -1hr and it's honestly relaxing.

    Compare with sex with my gf who just lays there, doesn't say a word despite prompting, she moans but it's stifled. It's a whole body workout of for me. I make her cum multiple times, she can't be bothered to make me cum once. Sex would last several hours. Id have to finish myself off. It's an all around stressful situation and not very enjoyable.

    Then she had the audacity to complain when I had solo sessions, but also refused to put out unless I really put in effort. Porn is always a few clicks away, I can get cosy in my bed and be relaxed as frick.

    Ladies you tell me which sounds better.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've been dating this Christian girl for nearly a year, and shes aware of the fact that I use porn, shes also aware of the fact that I'm a hentai artist. Never hid it, sent her a link to my portfolio within the first 10 messages we went through bumble just to make sure she was well aware of the fact that porn is a major part of my life, and as far as I know shes never looked into the link (or she probably wouldve dumped me when she saw all the e-girl, futa, and tentacle rape). We get along pretty fine, I dont see myself marrying her since she has her own issues, but in the time we've been dating shes gone from always wanting at least 1 arms length distance between herself and me, to being comfortable with hugs.

    Someone using porn isn't a monster, they're trying to get something they arent getting from other sources. Why do I make porn? Part of it is because my chosen characters get no fan art outside of what I produce, but another is that I like seeing girls having orgasms and otherwise being fully immersed in ecstacy. My porn usage drops drastically when i'm in a sexual relationship, because I can get what I want without porn. The girl im with? She doesnt try to force me to stop, she doesnt bring it up, she more or less treats it like its not even there.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >post his e-girl and rape art to all the women he’s meeting with
      you’re crazy, man. be careful or you might be get someone calling you names

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not a serious question. You probably have issues that severely limit your choices.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A man can get rid of his porn addiction, but a woman can never return a virgin

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its actually impossible. They start watching it as young as 12 and those who dont arent apart of the bigger society of men

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >They start watching it as young as 12
      This. I watched porn ever since I was 11. It started simple. Big booty prostitutes wearing nothing but their panties and showing cleavage. Then it became progressively worse and worse

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        There was some guy in another talking about reading hentai lead them to get into scat and piss fetish and shit and I'm wondering- why?
        I also been looking at porn since I was like 11 but I arguably have gotten more vanilla with age, I used to jack it to lesbian four ways or gangbang videos but now a solo camvid gets me off just fine.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Could be environmental factors at play. Guys get into porn mainly because looking at nude women is arousing, but they can stay for completely unrelated reasons.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >NOOOOOOOOO YOU CAN'T HAVE PRIVACY THAT MEANS YOU'RE ADDICTED TO PORNOGRAPHY AND YOU DON'T LOVE ME
    Women.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Cope

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        wow insults, that'll get men to frick you lmao

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >all this shit you nogs are into
    at least you can do some of this shit irl with your girl, i was cursed with a giantess fetish and just barely below average height. i am NOT gonna be able to explain this shit to what'll probably be my midget gf.
    anyway, the truth is, only way a girl is gonna find a man who doesn't look at porno while single is if she goes to the bible belt and somehow manages to find herself a white man in church. i'd argue most men would give up porn to have a good girl, but even then they probably wouldn't stop whacking it to their own imagination when their libido inevitably gets high and they ain't getting it treated by their girl for some reason or another.
    that being said, i don't get people who watch videos of men fricking women unless they're bisexual or a cuck or some shit

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I do not think it is possible to find a boyfriend with a libido who does not watch porn, no. Men have higher libidos and that leads us to consume more porn. I used to, but I am on meds notorious for lowering libido (hair loss and ADHD meds) and while they work very well for their intended purpose, they crushed my libido and thus I no longer watch porn. So if you want a boyfriend who doesn't watch porn, he probably isn't gonna wanna have sex with you. He probably won't wanna be with you at all, crushing my libido got rid of any interest I had in women (which I don't really mind, there's definitely no attractive women interested in me).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Some men don’t want to have sex outside of marriage and also oppose porn for moral reasons.
      Obviously, men with very high libidos are unlikely to be willing or able to do that, but it’s not like his sex drive needs to be nonexistent to control himself.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think these guys exist. If they do, they're deeply in the closet or something.

        >it’s not like his sex drive needs to be nonexistent to control himself

        I think that very well may be the case actually. I mean according to studies exactly what percentage of men do not watch porn? What percentage of men have libido problems? Look at the actual data

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Hi I exist

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm white and live in America and u don't watch porn or jerk off. Im a virgin because I'm unlovable.

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    To be honest with you, this is a stupid requirement.
    Well I guess I should say if you're definition of
    >porn-addicted freak
    is
    >guy who watches porn at all
    It's stupid. non-porn-addicted guys shouldn't be that hard to find if you're being realistic about what constitutes an addiction.

    Having it as a requirement is just setting yourself up for failure. It's the woman equivalent of guys who are obsessed with only finding a virgin tradwife gf with no tattoos, etc.
    The guys you're going to be finding who don't watch porn are
    >90%: just straight up lying about it to sleep with you
    >9%: incels who only don't watch porn because they hate women so much they can't stand to look at them
    >1%: guys who actually just never watch porn - and also are probably weirdly religious

    By all means, if you find out that a guy is watching porn 24/7, or watches a bunch of super weird hardcore BDSM stuff then consider it a redflag, but if you find a guy who just watches normal porn some of the time then don't have a nice day in the foot over it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm a guy who doesn't watch porn and isn't religious or an incel. I don't really connect with this online culture stuff or politics stuff. Can I find a similar girl who is a virgin?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        imagine believing somebody on NSFFW who says they don't watch porn. Half the fricking website is porn.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Well I don't have a reason to lie about it. I just don't do it.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I turn off images when browsing. It improves the experience.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's me.

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    men:
    >I hope I can find a gf who hasn't literally been taking a new dick every single day for the past 5 years
    Women:
    >You fricking sicko, my past is my past, it's none of your business and if you ask about my sexual history you're a fricking bigot

    also women:
    >I demand to have control over my potential boyfriends current, and past masturbation habits during the 10 years nobody would so much as talk to him. And yes this is completely reasonable.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Who are you quoting?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He's quoting women.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      women will literally complain about everything and anything, i swear all of them have a superiority complex or something

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just suck his dick while hes on the computer

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You wouldn't believe a man if he told you he doesn't watch porn anyways.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You wouldn't believe a woman if she told you she doesn't sleep around anyways.

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not reading all these posts but the easiest way to make sure a guy doesn't look at porn is to have sex as often as he wants, every time I've ever turned to porn I'd rather be fricking but have either been single or gf didn't want it as often as I did

    So if you don't want a porn addicted bf just frick him often, easy

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's bullshit advice on par with "it's your fault if someone cheats on you".
      Arguably worse, since you're saying that porn is and should be a given until a woman replaces the prostitutes he whacks off to. At least the cheaters ostensibly wait for there to be a problem, but you're saying it's a woman's responsibility to make a man stop being a coomer.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I mean it's kind of true though. If my partner isn't satisfying my sexual urges rarely, I'll probably give her the benefit of the doubt and be patient, take care of business myself. If it becomes more common, I'll probably look at some porn. If the bedroom dies, I'll leave my partner, cheat, or look at even more porn.

        Relationships are transactions whether we want to look at them that way or not. If you're not selling what I'm buying, I'll take my business elsewhere, whether that's porn or another woman.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >yeah, I'd cheat, so?
          Then you're not the kind of man OP should be trying to appeal to.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Disingenuous representation of what I said. Cheating wasn't mentioned in my post until it was preceded by there being a dead bedroom. I personally wouldn't cheat, I'd break off the relationship, but I wouldn't fault someone for cheating or seeking a side arrangement (with their partner's knowledge, even) if they were a sexual being living in a dead bedroom.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >make a man stop being a coomer.
        Literally what is the problem with a man sexually satisfying himself and cumming when he wants? I know you're not talking about actual gooning, you're clearly saying men should hold in their sexual urges and frustration and not look at any woman until one decides to give them pussy.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Just because you don't think it's a problem doesn't mean everyone else shares your outlook. There are plenty of reasons why people would oppose porn, either intrinsically (commodification/perversion of sex, the extremely degenerate "industry", etc) or for its effects (a betrayal of intimacy, inducing depraved fetishes, negatively impacting a man's behavior or personality).

          >you're clearly saying men should hold in their sexual urges and frustration and not look at any woman until one decides to give them pussy.
          No, I'm saying that if someone like OP is against porn, then it's not her responsibility (or in her interest) to replace it for a guy who sees it as a need.
          I'm not proud of it, but I look at it myself. My point is that people aren't obligated to either discard their values or pander to those who don't share them. That applies to anything, not just porn. If you don't want to be with a woman who has a problem with porn, that's also your prerogative.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          the problem is you monkeys keep equating pornography use (and, subsequently, driving the demand for pornography) with masterbation. you've allowed pornographers to reprogram your sexuality so severely that you can't even fathom masterbating without it. whenever I feel the desire to masterbate, I just do it and focus on myself.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The "no porn" thing is just the start, if you give in on that she'll want no masturbation next, or get angry and demand you tell her what you're thinking about when you do it, it's all just a roundabout way to try to get control of your sexuality for her benefit, the porn doesn't actually matter to them and never did.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >The "no porn" thing is just the start, if you give in on that she'll want no masturbation next
            But why is that a problem? If you have a real-life woman willing to have sex with you, and you choose to stroke your wiener with your own hand instead, that sounds like you're homosexual or have some other kind of sexual problems.

            >or get angry and demand you tell her what you're thinking about when you do it
            That's entirely reasonable. Put it this way: If your girlfriend/wife was jerking off over the thought of sex with other men, would you be happy about it? Why do you expect women to be a cuck for you but you wouldn't accept getting cucked yourself?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that guy's whole post was just whataboutism+slippery slope anyway, no reason to acknowledge it. addicts always look for excuses and reasons to keep their addiction going.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You have a real-life woman willing to have sex with you
            Because you don't treat a woman, even your partner, like a walking Fleshlight and ask her to service your dick whenever hormones get released in your monkey brain. A normal man with an active libido will just get horny at any time for no reason at all, and if your woman doesn't wanna have sex, you're allowed to solve it yourself so you can be normal the rest of the day and not be an ape in heat.

            >If your girlfriend/wife was jerking off over the thought of sex with other men
            I feel like this needs to be reminded for the anti-porn crowd too blinded by laying blame on porn for their life's problems: porn is fiction. It is not reality, it is not real. It is simulacrum. It may affect your perception and opinions of real life and sexuality, but it is a fiction. You know how we don't accuse people who like violent gorey movies/games of being closet psychopaths because we agreed fiction is fiction? That extends to porn as well, it extends to what people enjoy seeing in porn and touch their genitals to. There is a magic box called a SCREEN between you and pornography that makes every pornstar, every piece of hentai and erotica about as likely to affect your personal life as a movie character. These people and situations exist in another realm, just like how Spongebob and Forest Gump are never gonna cross your path in real life, Lemon Stealing Bimbo prostitute # 2 is never gonna be in your backyard trying to frick your boyfriend.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >A normal man with an active libido will just get horny at any time for no reason at all
            Wtf no you don't lmao. You're definitely a porn addict if you think like this. You're not supposed to get horny until something provokes you to be horny. If you're single that might be seeing a hot girl IRL or in a movie or something, but if you're in a relationship it should be your GF.

            >and if your woman doesn't wanna have sex, you're allowed to solve it yourself so you can be normal the rest of the day and not be an ape in heat.
            Sure, but if you're going to jerk off in that situation, why not think about your actual woman rather than random bimbos you saw on ShitTok or Instagram or whatever?

            >porn is fiction. It is not reality, it is not real. It is simulacrum. It may affect your perception and opinions of real life and sexuality, but it is a fiction. You know how we don't accuse people who like violent gorey movies/games of being closet psychopaths because we agreed fiction is fiction? That extends to porn as well, it extends to what people enjoy seeing in porn and touch their genitals to.
            Bullshit argument. If you're in a relationship and you are sexually pleasuring yourself to the thought of someone other than your GF/BF, you are definitely engaging in a form of cheating (even if it is minor).

            I'm a man. If I had a GF and I found out she was schlicking her puss to the thought of some other random guy fricking her, I would be appalled and it would seriously jeopardize the relationship.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Porn isn't fiction. Those are real living human beings in those videos, often being abused and coerced. I also don't reward myself with orgasms when I play violent videogames, so that comparison is moronic. It's just a coincidence that guys increasingly demanded anal from women as it proliferated more and more in porn? That used to be basically unheard between straight couples back in the day. It's just a coincidence that men are strangling women more during sex? Just out of thin air? Frick outta here.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Those are real living human beings in those videos, often being abused and coerced
            This is abuse in Hollywood and in video games, in all produced fiction. We have entire exploitation genres because we recognized what was being produced and enjoyed the fiction anyway. There are actors who hurt themselves on set, there are crew that are underpaid and exploited, and there is coercion at every level of collaborative production. Does that remove your enjoyment of cinema and games as well?
            Yes, there is abusive/exploitative pornography, and just like you choose what to do with your life, you are able to control yourself and not watch or support that genre of pornography.

            > I don't reward myself with orgasms when I play violent videogames
            It's not a reward, it's a response to your genitals being stimulated. Your "reward" to playing games is experiencing them and enjoying yourself while you do. Do you deny yourself fun and enjoyment when you play games?

            >Anal used to be basically unheard between straight couples back in the day.
            It was "unheard of" because it was called sodomy and it was illegal, and everyone was taught as a child that if you did it you would be punished in this life then burn in hell forever in the next life. It was unheard of because before the 60s sexual revolution, it was enforced that sex was only to be done in missionary with the lights off for the purpose of procreation. And, before you harp on about "back in the day", that expression of sexuality is really only something that was enforced through religion, it doesn't track with much of actual human history where we fricked like apes with as many people as possible to have as much kids as possible, and for recreation as well.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            most of them will counter with stuff like

            Porn isn't fiction. Those are real living human beings in those videos, often being abused and coerced. I also don't reward myself with orgasms when I play violent videogames, so that comparison is moronic. It's just a coincidence that guys increasingly demanded anal from women as it proliferated more and more in porn? That used to be basically unheard between straight couples back in the day. It's just a coincidence that men are strangling women more during sex? Just out of thin air? Frick outta here.

            and try to shift goalposts and talk about fringe cases that don't reflect the reality of the standard porn consumer or pornographic site, it's the equivalent of asking how anyone can use facebook when murders have been streamed on it. The whole goal is to slowly chip away at what they'll "allow" you to have. I don't even watch video porn, I pretty much only read erotica to get off, but they'll be out for that next with a slew of nonsensical bad faith arguments, then they'll want any kind of sexual thing in media that appeals to men scrubbed (they're already doing this one.) It's all just one big lie, none of them care about any of these issues, your health, trafficking victims, it's all an attempt to tighten control.

            You'll notice none of this prudishness or restriction ever goes back the other way in any but the most hypothetical circumstances, which conveniently will disappear when they get what they want. They'll still protect hookup culture to their dying breath, they'll still put shit like Fifty Shades in theaters, they'll still all have a stack of smutty novels.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > You'll notice none of this prudishness or restriction ever goes back the other way
            What are you on about? I think all promiscuity is filth, as well as anything that promotes it. I’m sick of degenerates pointing to their counterparts in the other gender as if that’s an excuse for their own behavior. By all means, point out the absurdity of someone who defends whoring around but clutches pearls at porn. But that doesn’t mean any stance opposing porn is, by itself, absurd.

            Watching a recording or representation of a wrong is less bad than committing it oneself, but that doesn’t mean it’s acceptable, let alone good. Some of the anons ITT aren’t just attacking women for having standards against porn, but they’re even calling porn a positive good that they ‘need’ to have in their lives, one way or another.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I suppose I can respect your viewpoint even if I disagree with it, but I also think that of the anti-porn crowd people such as yourself who are just railing against degeneracy in general are an extreme minority and that it's mostly just feminists gunning for more social control.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you would be a porn addict too if you women didn't need to imagine a life of dates,talking, wedding day, doctors meeting with just a picture of a man just to cum

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not a woman though, I'm a man.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What is the purpose of your sexuality, smartass?
            Is it not there but for procreation?
            Do you believe that this is an issue of pleasure and control?
            The behavioral feedback loop that she desires is in fact the most biologically favourable one, as it encourages bonding while minimizing the effects of frequent orgasms, which harm your motivation and thereby the both of you.
            This is the reason circumcision was invented, it is the reason so many ancient religions include the practice of semen retention, it is the reason Freud, Ghandi, the Dalai Lama, Tesla, Hitler, Leonardo Da Vinci, Descartes, Voltaire, Plato, Pythagoras, Socrates, Beethoven, Steve Jobs, Muhammad Ali, Tom Cruise, Kanye West, Mark Twain, the Wright brothers and so many others practice and practiced it.
            It's a sacrifice that will make you intensely interested in long-term gratification.
            If you were to actually experience the stress and danger of pure nature, believe me, you would not jerk off, you would be tired, exhausted and constantly working.
            And for it you'd be triple the man! What do you think Pavlovian conditioning is?
            The purpose of life isn't pleasure, it's primordial love, or in other words death, the concept previously called chi, prana, vril, od, orgone, awen and so on, known in all ancient cultures from the Americas to East Asia - throwing yourself out there and working hard to see through your dreams until they are realized or you are dead.
            That is the true purpose of life, the original purpose ordained to us by none other than God himself in the instant he dreamt up this world we live in.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My sexuality is for whatever the hell I wish to do with it, just like my tastebuds aren't just there to detect spoilage or poison my dick isn't just there for reproduction. If you've got a problem with it oh well, go stare at a wall and contemplate eternity or something. Ascetic attitudes are just as dysgenic as hedonistic ones.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are a humongous homosexual

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are the one burdened by guilt and shame about touching your dick to the sight of naked women and you think other men are the homosexuals?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are not supposed to be ascetic.
            You are supposed to prioritise what is important and what is not.
            If jerking off is your big dream in life, go on. You're already there.
            But know that any other endeavour will be harmed.

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I quit watching porn when my gf started putting out more frequently. She quit reading her "romance novels" which are porn for women when I started making sure she cums at least once before I do.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He wouldn’t be watching porn if you were a good lay.

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Personally it is very easy not to watch porn when I have a girlfriend. She typically sends me pics, videos and audio, so I just prefer that. Some women aren't as good at seducing a man, and some men need a lot more than they can get from women. Sex and relationships is just more fulfilling than pornography to me.

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nope theres a reason we prefer porn over yall, society is doomed

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women dug their own grave. Now go back to work and provide for your ugly lesbian gf.

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Look all these moron getting bait by such a brain dead post

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The funniest part of this image is that the lack of sex causes men to watch porn.

  56. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nearly all men watch porn, but not all men are addicted.

  57. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how can you criticize men for simulating bawdtiness while remaining virgins irl when women are bawds in real life? the women are also doing and making the porn

  58. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am too tired to watch porn

  59. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Im single and rarely ever watch porn (maybe once a month, statistically), but even then I don't jerk off to it.

  60. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I
    You don't, since you can't fix being ugly. Seethe and cope.

  61. 3 weeks ago
    Nero

    This is just the other side of the "How do I find a GF who is a virgin?" coin. You assume that everyone is a porn addicted "freak" and refuse to even get to know them, then wonder why the perfect man has never fallen on your lap when many could have probably agreed to work on themselves if only you had talked to them.
    You're not single because men watch porn, you lack empathy and are selfish to the point of alienating the opposite sex.
    This isn't every men's problem, it's yours.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It is the other side, and both are right. Having standards for a partner doesn’t mean you lack empathy, and it’s incredible how you can say that it’s standards which are selfish, rather than acting on base impulse and indignantly demanding that everyone else get over it, regardless of their goals or values. I’d be hard-pressed to think of something else so colossally egocentric than the mindset you’re espousing.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Nero

        Goals and values are irrelevant in so far as they're a pretext for the exact sort of behavior that OP and many others exhibit. What is being discussed is a non-starter that would alienate the vast majority of the opposite gender's population without any room for dialog, improvement or resolution. Moreover, it's the sort of non-starter that is insidious enough to not be spelled out on someone's forehead. Not engaging with the opposite sex over the likelihood of that non-starter being true does reflect on your "values" and "goals" but those are merely reflections of your personality and experiences as well as a bit of genetic lottery. At a fundamental level it would be hypocritical to claim that you are empathetic towards the opposite sex while neither wanting to dialog or find mutual ground on an issue; in more concrete personality terms that would be a lack of openness and agreeableness. It's the same hypocrisy with which one claims that he's not selfish for having standards despite that being the very definition of selfish; to put oneself before others. Of course, that doesn't mean that being selfish or lacking empathy is wrong, those are judgments of value that you made yourself and hence why I'm indignantly blabbering out of impulse and you have goals, values and are right.
        After all, I never once said that OP should just get over her distaste for porn, I simply stated that if she actually took the time to get to know someone and then tried to address her distaste of pornography with them, without making ultimatums and other childish tantrums, the issue would most likely be resolved, or at the very least discussed and acknowledged by both parties who might even come out of such an engagement with a wider perspective then when they once started. Naturally, I'd much rather say all of that as curtly as possible because of my colossal ego, but also because a long, measured reply that no one that actually wants help would read is worthless and bothersome.

  62. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I know women are moronic and all but this takes the cake. It took them until 2024 to realize that porn replaces them? That no matter how good they look, their husband could always be a secret coomer who faps to 18 year olds? Holy kek. They should have worked this out in the 1990s at the very latest.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      women are not very smart

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I know women are moronic and all but this takes the cake. It took them until 2024 to realize that porn replaces them? That no matter how good they look, their husband could always be a secret coomer who faps to 18 year olds? Holy kek. They should have worked this out in the 1990s at the very latest.

        Women always hated porn you just never listened to them because you’re an incel

  63. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You may not get a genuine answer on a board infested with male coomers or asking how to get a gf. That being said, it's completely fair to have a partner that's not indulging in pornography, but it's highly unlikely you'll find one that doesn't porn. You will have to engage a conversation with your partner and let them know it makes you uncomfortable.
    Blame how both men and women enabling the
    widespread porn behavior and setting expectations lmao

  64. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >it would be hypocritical to claim that you are empathetic towards the opposite sex while neither wanting to dialog or find mutual ground on an issue;
    That's not hypocrisy. Those are two entirely separate things. The ability to empathize with others doesn't mean agreement or support for whatever others do. If OP were saying that men are intrinsically irredeemable, sure, I'd agree that it would be silly to claim that's empathic behavior. But saying that she finds a particular behavior objectionable (however common it is) isn't incompatible with being empathic.

    >I never once said that OP should just get over her distaste for porn,
    Maybe I misunderstood your point and assumed your point was similar to a bunch of others ITT.
    >I simply stated that if she actually took the time to get to know someone and then tried to address her distaste of pornography with them, without making ultimatums and other childish tantrums, the issue would most likely be resolved
    If her problem was assuming all men are porn addicts and refusing to talk to any of them, again, I'd agree. I interpreted your post to mean that her standards themselves were the problem, not her assumptions or interactions with others.

  65. 3 weeks ago
    just stop caring bro it's easy bro just be yourself bro emotions are a choice bro

    as a girl who used to watch tonnes of porn, I don't think watching porn is a big deal, although do vet his taste

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >as a girl who used to watch tonnes of porn, I don't think watching porn is a big deal
      >used to watch tonnes of porn
      Why "used to?"

  66. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Church

  67. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Be better in bed so they don't have time to watch porn..

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ayo dis b***h UGLY as fuk lmaoooooo
      homie face be lookin like a mouse n sheeit

  68. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't watch porn. I'll be your bf OP.

  69. 3 weeks ago
    maggotbasedsoftware on discord

    Where are you going to find prospective dates?

  70. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you are going to be hard pressed to find a man that doesnt watch porn and I dont know why its such a deal breaker. there are worse things in life than pornography, even if pornography is bad. I dont think people should consume it or even have sex before marriage, but there are definitely worse things from a human perspective.

  71. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Okay, serious answer: take advantage of the fact that you are a woman, and specifically filter for this by outright asking for it in like your bio on social media/dating apps. You have leverage so fricking use it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >implying most men wouldn't just lie

  72. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If your boyfriend watches porn its your fault.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If your boyfriend watches porn its your fault.
      Everyone watches porn, both men and women

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        False. Only the whoriest and filthiest of women watch porn

  73. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When I had a serious 2 yearlong relationship I stopped watching port 100%. Granted her and I would have sex at least twice a day. I had zero desire to watch it when we were together. The longest I went without seeing her was 2 months and I didn't watch porn or jerk off once.

  74. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Try looking in either a Catholic or Orthodox Community femanon the guys there are very likely to be opposed to lust.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >a Catholic or Orthodox Community femanon the guys there are very likely to be opposed to lust.
      and also ugly + with repugnant political beliefs

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ? It's the lefties who mutilate themselves and make an entire political program out of destroying nations.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you a filthy basedcialist? Where do you expect to find men who repudiate degeneracy? You're probably a degenerate yourself, you deserve to suffer

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          socialist*

  75. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pretty sure people only watch porn because they can't have sex
    Gr8 b8 b8

  76. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So, this is actually a multifaceted issue that goes both ways and is not entirely either gender’s faults. Porn is everywhere and incredibly accessible. This isn’t at all normal but it’s been normalized by the J’s and pushed extremely hard on men. Meanwhile, women have been liberated and are now being rereliberated by the very same people and indoctrinated into believing that every problem that exists for women is the fault of men. It’s really that simple. I don’t believe that men should be consuming porn. However, because women have more options than ever before, there are an increasing number of men who aren’t good enough for the majority of women. So, isolation breeds desperation in men. Not to mention mental illness. The result? A turn toward immoral behavior such as porn addiction and all sorts of other addictions far too many to mention. It doesn’t help when women feed this addiction by sexualizing themselves for money through a host of social media platforms. We all know what needs to be done but many are too afraid to say it because it’s going to result in the expulsion from yet another country for a very powerful group of people who you can’t criticize whatsoever. Facts are facts. If you have a brain then you understand the truths presented here. Now stop being a moron and start improving your life so that others may follow suit.

  77. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sure but I would only go for a woman with no sexual experience, so it is probably moot. do you expect a "normal" guy to not watch porn?

  78. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I will not date women.
    I will not have sex with women.
    I will continue to jack off to porn.
    Frick you.

  79. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Hey NSFFW porn addict users, where can i find a bf who doesn't use porn?
    <Nah, just accept it and date a porn addict, it's not like porn addicts are conditioned to sexually take without giving back which is essential in a marriage.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >giving back sexually
      >women
      women want 50% of your assets and eternal gratitude because they give starfish sex once every two weeks to their betabux hubby. teehee

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't. Find a spirit filled charismatic Christian woman.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >charismatic christian
          oh so find a heretic

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How is it heretical? It's all spritual, you're meant to cast out demons and talk with God.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            every charismatic i've known has been absolutely insane

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bro. Standing their like a maniac going
            >HOOBEDY BOOBEDY SHABABALALALA DING DONG
            and pretending that this is somehow "communication with god", is objectively schizo behavior.

            >falls over on a child
            nice one. definitely "the holy spirit"

            Watch Dan Mahler.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >watch celebrity/e-celeb pastor

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Watch Mark Driscoll

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bro. Standing their like a maniac going
            >HOOBEDY BOOBEDY SHABABALALALA DING DONG
            and pretending that this is somehow "communication with god", is objectively schizo behavior.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >falls over on a child
            nice one. definitely "the holy spirit"

  80. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I find a BF who doesn't watch porn?
    You don't. Next question.

  81. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can quit porn if you give me a second date.

  82. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The problem with the anti porn movement is it's just used to an excuse to shift the blame for lower birthrates from women onto men.
    > "Men today suck. If there was no porn they would be forced to pull themselves up by their bootstraps."
    The dating scene is brutal to young men. Banning porn didn't end the gender wars in Korea.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No one gives a fricking shit about birth rates. The reason for the anti porn movement is because misery loves company, and convincing people they should quit watching porn will make them a little more miserable, so that's what scummy people try to do

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >The dating scene is brutal to young men. Banning porn didn't end the gender wars in Korea.
      true, also panderimg to women and feminists has literally never made life easier for men. Its a fricking waste of time. A century of feminism and women are c**tier and more demanding. Whats the point?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >The problem with the anti porn movement is it's just used to an excuse to shift the blame for lower birthrates from women onto men.
      A huge part of the blame is on men though, and yes porn has a lot to do with it.

      This website always brings up the higher rate of virginity among zoomers but you get the causes of it all wrong. You assume its just cause "they're all incels", but you disregard the fact that Gen Z is the first generation in history to be raised with instant access to free online pornography since they were children. It's completely fricked up their sexuality to the point that many of them don't even like real sex. Some people coined the term "pornosexual" to describe Gen Z men, meaning they can only derive sexual pleasure from sitting in front of a screen jacking their wiener to other people having sex, not having sex themselves. This is also why so many of them have cuck fetishes.

      >The dating scene is brutal to young men.
      Due in large part to the fact that so many of them refuse to participate in it. Zoomoids spent years locked indoors during covid reading incel manifestos on Reddit and Tiktok, and now they have a warped vision of what women are like. Dating apps aren't good either, but zoom-zooms refuse to go outside and talk to people IRL.

      >Banning porn didn't end the gender wars in Korea.
      Korea didn't ban porn though?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dont foidsplain male sexuality to us roastie. The best predictor of porn use is libido, not isolation. Men with high libido are more likely to watch porn regardless of whether they have a partner or not. Just like habitual cheaters will cheat regardless of whether their partner has sex with them or not.
        >Due in large part to the fact that so many of them refuse to participate in it
        That makes no sense, if more men are dropping out of dating, shouldnt it be way easier for the men still trying? But it isnt so the only logical explanation is that women have higher standards and are more likely to hold out rather than settle.
        Porn use doesn't stop men from getting relationships, in fact most men in relationships already consume porn(so do most women; yes smut is porn).
        >A huge part of the blame is on men though
        Birth rates already fell below replacement decades before internet porn. The reason is because womens education and work delays their marriage and raises their standards so it nukes their potential fertility. This is a constant universal fact across every first world country. It is a female issue not a male issue. You cant fix it by changing male behavior which doesn't affect TFR significantly.
        tl;dr porn use wont stop any socially or physically attractive man from getting or pursuing a relationship if they want it. Lazy and low libido males now have an easy fix instead of having to compete with much more ambitious males. Women are even more demanding while offering less, further discouraging lazy low libido males from pursue.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Dont foidsplain male sexuality to us roastie.
          I'm a man.

          >Men with high libido are more likely to watch porn regardless of whether they have a partner or not.
          Wrong. You can have a high sex drive and still not want to jack it every day.
          And you can look for examples on this website of the countless men here who have crippling porn addictions yet zero desire for IRL sex with a real woman.

          >That makes no sense, if more men are dropping out of dating, shouldnt it be way easier for the men still trying?
          It is, or at least, it's not any harder than it used to be. Why are you pretending like all young men are virgins or something? This argument is really fricking weird. I don't know why people on this website are so desperate to pretend like incels are the majority.

          >Birth rates already fell below replacement decades before internet porn.
          It's not the only factor but it's clearly a factor.

          Look also at the rapidly increasing rates of homosexuality and transgenderism, both of which are intimately linked to internet pornography. Men grow up watching porn, develop weirder and weirder tastes, and become gay/transition. Many such cases.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >And you can look for examples on this website of the countless men here who have crippling porn addictions yet zero desire for IRL sex with a real woman.
            this entire website is full of tfw no gf types who would love to have a woman even look at them

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lol. 10 years ago it was. Not anymore.

            Just have a browse of the catalog of this board or, better yet, /NSFFW/. This website is full of barely-closeted homosexual men who hide their gayness by spamming about how "all women are prostitutes who only want chad". Anons here talk more about "chad" than they do about women.

            A decade ago this board and /NSFFW/ used to be full of genuinely sincere threads made by guys who wanted to really learn how to get a GF, or how to win over their crush. Now its just endless threads about how women are bad, women are loose, women are fat, women are ugly, etc. Things changed a lot.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I dont go anywhere near NSFFW and for good reason

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It used to be ok back in like 2012.

            Now its just
            >gay porn
            >cuck shit
            >schizo spam
            >third worlders
            >moronic zoomer humor
            >transsexual grooming cults
            >e-girls

            Last time I went there, there was some guy spamming the same thread every single day about white male suicide rates. Apparently he was Asian.

            It's really obvious how much this website's audience has changed in recent years.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Wrong. You can have a high sex drive and still not want to jack it every day.
            You can, youre just more likely to watch porn than a single low libido male
            >it's not any harder than it used to be.
            >source: your ass
            60% of young men are single, 45% of women still refuse to settle. Men dropping out isnt helping the men still trying. Yet they still have to deal with higher standards
            >Look also at the rapidly increasing rates of homosexuality and transgenderism, both of which are intimately linked to internet pornography
            I dont disagree but doesnt prove your point. Porn use still doesnt stop men from getting relationships if they actually want them. The real deciding factors are physical and social attractiveness.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >60% of young men are single, 45% of women still refuse to settle.
            >DOOD LOOK AT LE HECKIN POLLS!!!

            Polls are not designed to reflect public opinion, they're designed to shape public opinion.

            When all the polls for the US election in 2016 were showing Hillary winning by a landslide, the intent was to make non-Hillary supporters think "its over. don't even bother showing up to vote". Now think what the purpose of polls lying to you that "the majority of men are incels" might be. Very rich and powerful people want you to think "its over, don't even bother trying to date", because the lonelier you are, the more money they can make off you.

  83. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm literally right here. If you have red hair, you may very well be my soulmatey. Argh! Let's sail the seven seas!

  84. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I quit watching porn, but I also don't particularly like sex even though I have done it.

  85. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I find a girl that doesn't use social media, who are attention seeking-addicted freaks?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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