How do I go up to and flirt with girls without being creepy.

Last time I tried to approach a good-looking girl she was walking forwards and I came from the back. She reached a stairwell when she suddenly turned around. I tried asking what's her name but she didn't reply and instead left quickly. Some time later I get called into office for "making girls uncomfortable". How do I make sure this doesn't happen next time.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop literally sneaking up on girls from behind you fricking autist. That's a start.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I wasn't sneaking i was tryna catch up to her while keeping a good distance. But yeah i've realized not to do it. What is an ugly guy like me supposed to do

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >What is an ugly guy like me supposed to do
        Well here's another tip for no matter what you look like. You don't just go up to random girls and flirt out of the blue without cause, and you don't go up to them and say "what is your name?" Either go up to them for a reason or to ask a situation-dependent question, OR if you have some balls just introduce yourself and tell them YOUR name instead.
        From there, gauge how it goes and THEN start flirting, if the vibe is there.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >if you have some balls just introduce yourself and tell them YOUR name instead
          but what if in her head (or out loud) she's like
          >"Ew why is this guy I don't know telling me his name outta nowhere"
          >"what a weirdo"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >in her head
            You're the one making this up though.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ok but you have to admit it's a very real possibility

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >>"Ew why is this guy I don't know telling me his name outta nowhere"
            Ok but why would this not apply to you asking her name out of nowhere also?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well because I already have an intention to hit her up thinking "Damn she's really cute and I want her to be my gf", while she doesn't know why I'm here (unless she guesses that I'm going to hit on her). I don't understand what you're getting at here.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's precisely for the fear of coming off as creepy and getting in trouble that I don't make any moves or whatever you call it. I can be friends with girls but it's just so hard to take it to the next level.
    Maybe cuz I am ugly which is why girls think I'm creepy

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Try and error. You will get rejected 100 times, but you gotta learn learn from your mistakes. Learn social interaction in general, watch others. Every new interaction will be smoother. After some time you will start getting numbers and dates. There will be dates where everything was great and you still did not score, but if you go on trying you will reach some degree of intimacy with a female (which I suppose is your current goal)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >You will get rejected 100 times
      I don't want to be rejected in a way which causes me public humiliation. And also I don't want to be gossiped about. One time I asked a girl to be my valentine and she told her entire friend group about it which caused me unimaginable embarrassment.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You fear failure more then you desire success. NGMI, until you change that mindset. That's how life works, bro.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Anon I'm not tryna become the guy every girl in the school wants to avoid and remain wary of.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then don't shit where you eat! School is not the only place to can meet people.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then choose your targets better. Go up to girls you actually have a chance with or who have shown you some interest also.
            If that's none of them, oh well.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    God, I miss him.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s a complete tossup they’ll either be attracted to you and talk to you or they wont and will call you a creep or they’ll be uncomfortable and fold to you socially hoping you leave them alone soon
    Those are all the possibilities if you’re just talking to strangers

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >they wont and will call you a creep or they’ll be uncomfortable and fold to you socially hoping you leave them alone soon
      what do I do when this happens in order to save whatever reputation I have.

      Then choose your targets better. Go up to girls you actually have a chance with or who have shown you some interest also.
      If that's none of them, oh well.

      >Go up to girls you actually have a chance
      How do I know who I have a chance with?
      >or who have shown you some interest also
      I don't know if any girl has ever shown interest with me, and if someone probably did then I guess I'm too much of an autist to see it. How do I know when she's showing interest?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I guess I'm too much of an autist to see it
        You said it, not me.
        The reality here is that you're not ready for this kind of thing, clearly. Git gud at just talking to women, or even understanding women in general before you worry about hitting on them.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    People only flirt with people they already know or build up some rapport in social setting, those being meetup with friends or in school.

    If you ever try to speak outside of these 2, it's always creepy, but in school or through friends it's fine. Flirting only comes in after initial ice break and once you know enough about one another to have something to actually like in each other.

    Quit your job and go to university again if you don't have friends to invite you to parties.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    dont be ugly
    simple as my autis homie
    and i mean the aspects within ur control aka good grooming/hair cut, nice clothes, general hygene
    its easier to talk to a guy who doesn't immediately exhude social reject vibe

    aside from that learn how to converse without stuttering like a gay
    when social rejects try to converse they all to often forget speech is like a muscle if you aren't having prolonged verbal conversations with people daily you will naturally stutter like a b***h when th time comes

    learn a buncha normie general knowledge that the type of woman ur appraching takes interests in
    listen to them speak interject if you have anything to add if not then use the solid snake codec call strategy of simply repeatng sujective nouns with an inquiry tone people love explaining shit they hink they know better that you
    use gems like "oh x object whats that" "hmmmm when did x thing happen" "hey why do you like x thing"
    shit like that they eat it up and if you follow the general prerequisite of not being a repulsive piece of shit women should be willing to converse with you
    beyond that its up to whether you and the foid have any organic chemistry or not
    like it or not a majority of women will not be compatable with you
    you will have to rely on trial and error until you find one who clicks with you

    there i summarized it for you manchild man
    hope it helps

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You still haven't told me how to approach without scaring the girl away

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