How do I hit up girls on Instagram, and how do I keep conversations going on with them.

How do I hit up girls on Instagram, and how do I keep conversations going on with them. Most of the time when I dm them they don't even bother opening it, so what do you suggest I should write for my first message?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OP here, I have found that sending voice messages often gets a response, but you can't message some girls because they only allow invites which is text only, but after that they don't even bother continuing the conversation.
    Btw I use this pic sometimes when DMing them, is it a good idea?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Forgot pic

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous
        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Lmao what gaymaxxing

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How is it gaymaxxing?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No I don't think that's a very good idea HAHAHA most girls will probably find it corny.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What should I send then?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          dude you'd be better off sending them your dick
          no one is gonna reply to that shit

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          not gonna lie i dont want to hate on you anon and im sure you got a good thing goin but yea in my opinion this is kinda corny tbh
          some girls might like it tho

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What why?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Someone please help

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is so moronic. Why are so many gays here using instagram instead of a dating app where actually available women are clustered? Do you think women who are mostly in relationships already want some NSFFW spergs spamming them with PUA routines? Instagram makes it hard to pm people they have to accept.

    Use a dating app moron.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There's also single and available girls on Instagram, now either help me or frick off.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes but on Instagram you can’t easily dm non followers. There is also no place to state relationship status so mostly you’ll just be sending messages to unavailable women that they won’t read unless they accept the dm from you. Which they won’t.

        You’ll be wasting time.4d0

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      instagram works if you actually have a decent profile: this consists of you doing cool things with friends. it's a glimpse into your life and she can make a judgement call on if you look interesting enough to tag along. it's also "safe" in that she can just block you if needed and no actual personal information (phone number) is exchanged.

      this is absolute cringe

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        dude you'd be better off sending them your dick
        no one is gonna reply to that shit

        not gonna lie i dont want to hate on you anon and im sure you got a good thing goin but yea in my opinion this is kinda corny tbh
        some girls might like it tho

        you guys got any good image she'll like?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          have you tried opening with a relevant, well thought out statement that actually generates a decent conversation?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >relevant
            In what way, and no, cuz I don't got any such statements.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            like something about her most recent post or story.

            >hey, that looks like a fun trip! i really like that dress, too! where was this?

            she's way more likely to respond to that instead of some dumb meme.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what if her profile's private and she ain't got any photos or story

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            then you failed to build the rapport in real life required to gain her as an instagram friend add

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            but I'm messaging girls that I haven't met in real life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            then you're fighting an uphill battle. what does your own profile look like? would they actually want to be a part of your circle based on your own posts?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            my profile's full of photos of me and some of my friends and some shit we do.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            describe this shit. LAN parties with your bros ain't gonna be it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I have a pic of us bowling and a visit to the beach

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            that's not "full." you need to do cool shit and post about it more often. once a month at the least. once a week or more preferred.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's generic and lame af

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            btw I tried this by sending my very first message to this one girl about her trip to the Caribbean. She left me on read and unfollowed

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >doesn't work one time, best to give up

            maybe your meme pic would've worked instead.

            This seems like another LARP event. Why wouldn’t you name what you are organizing? Probably because the more specific the more easily a LARP is outed like with fortune telling.

            Lots of masculine activities like say organizing Muay Thai, mma or bjj fights/competitions aren’t exactly going to make womens’ panties drip.

            it could be a lot of things. rugby, hockey, diving. just because you can't believe it's true doesn't mean it isn't.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            A very good rugby player, diver or hockey player could easily get women with the social status from his talent. But this cosplayer is saying he organizes a “manly activity”.(which would preclude diving)

            not that anon, but i gave you three examples of what it could even potentially be. you'd be well versed to go out and meet women instead of trying to play "gotcha" on an anonymous mongolian basket weaving internet forum.

            Also frick your self with the going outside and meeting women you terminally online moron that can’t spot an obvious online LARPer.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            diving is manly. they're absolutely ripped.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Diving isn’t manly moron. There are probably as many female divers as males. It’s not like muay Thai, boxing, wrestling, mma where most the fans and participants are male.

            And simply organizing a manly activity isn’t going to get parties thrown into your face.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I meant to type panties.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >anon shocked that women don't like half naked men beating each other but do like half naked men moving gracefully in the air

            when was the last time you touched a woman consensually?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Moron he wrote he that organizes a manly activity:

            I hate social media. Have no personal accounts. I had to start a instagram page for something cool I do. It involves other men in an organized event. Very masculine activity. I’m in charge.

            I’ve had women fricking dropping off the page. I’m married. I’ve zeroed in on one woman I’m having a pretty much affair with.

            I’m not doubting that more women possibly like diving than mma or combat sports. That doesn’t make diving a manly activity though.

            And certainly someone organizing diving events or a diving club isn’t getting women via that act of organization.

            It’s a sport.

            And I literally got pictures panties tonight in my DM’s

            The larping never ends on this pathetic board.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            jason statham was a diver for britain's national team before he was an actor. are you suggesting he isn't manly?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I’m suggesting diving isn’t manly because as many women likely do it and are fans as men like I wrote before.

            As for Statham I don’t give a shit about him and he certainly isn’t a tough guy.

            Organizing “manly activities” isn’t going to
            get you laid. Being a concert promoter will probably get you laid if you offer free tickets.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            ah, so you're just being pedantic. welp, good luck with that!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I’m not being pedantic, I’m just not a moron. Diving is more gender neutral as a sport. Hockey, rugby which you listed are more masculine. Figure skating and ballet are more feminine.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If it wasn’t cold we’d probably hook up somewhere outside tomorrow night

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        instagram isn't for finding LTR or normal relationships. it's for status. if you don't have enough followers she won't give 2 shits about you. so no it's not a defacto dating app. it's for influencers, streamers or "models" to network or frick each other or get paid to be escorts.

        if someone asks you for your instagram the first thing they look at is followers.

        and it's creepy to need to see a whole page of pictures of someones life just to talk to them.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          That’s a good observation. For people with established Instagram accounts that have large follower counts and that are interesting — it’s likely possible to leverage that account into a vector to date local women.

          But for anyone else not so much. You’ll just be a creep and women won’t even likely accept your DMs. It’s probably worse than dedicated OOL apps.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Instagram is a de facto dating app actually. If you’re not ugly and/or have pictures and bios that shows you’re NT, exciting or popular, it could work.

      And to use an anecdote, a female friend of mine had a guy slide in her DMs who she never met before and went on two dates with him (they’re both average looking at best). And some chad I know got some stacy to slide in his DMs and they went on a date too.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >NT
        What's NT?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          neurotypical

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            ty

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >NT
        What's NT?

        Oh and how do you find someone to slide into her DMs?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          wdum. just find girls who are in your city.

          go to an Instagram page of a bar, club or college/uni in your city and scroll through the people that follow it and choose a girl you like. Or go through the followers lists of your friends. maybe having a mutual connection can help

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'll try that. I'm just new to instagram

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hate social media. Have no personal accounts. I had to start a instagram page for something cool I do. It involves other men in an organized event. Very masculine activity. I’m in charge.

    I’ve had women fricking dropping off the page. I’m married. I’ve zeroed in on one woman I’m having a pretty much affair with.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dripping not dropping

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dripping not dropping

      imagine that, incels: men doing manly hobbies with other men attracts females. it's not rocket science.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This seems like another LARP event. Why wouldn’t you name what you are organizing? Probably because the more specific the more easily a LARP is outed like with fortune telling.

      Lots of masculine activities like say organizing Muay Thai, mma or bjj fights/competitions aren’t exactly going to make womens’ panties drip.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why wouldn’t I name my organization and dox myself? Are you insane?

        Don’t believe, I don’t fricking care. I don’t have shit to prove

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I’m not telling you to name the org you definite cosplayer. Name the activity or sport.

          You won’t because like with fortune telling the vaguer the lie, the harder it is to get caught in it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not that anon, but i gave you three examples of what it could even potentially be. you'd be well versed to go out and meet women instead of trying to play "gotcha" on an anonymous mongolian basket weaving internet forum.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Use emojis. Send them reels that relate that to their interests or things you’ve discussed. Develop a shared vocabulary or inside jokes between your to. Respond appropriately (it’s hard but find the right balance of not enough and to much). Don’t be creepy. Do interesting things.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s a sport.

    And I literally got pictures panties tonight in my DM’s

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ------- PLAYERS use insta for setting up dates IRL--------

    but i know u r noob

    BASICS :

    girls receive 100s of DMs.

    RULE :

    U need to be different, stand out. Confidence is must.

    1. First follow lot of girls, girls will not read DMs from randoms, unless they are very very very very very interesting. it's okay if they don't follow you back.

    How to find girls? :

    (Go to local university, educational institutes, cafes, bars, clubs insta pages, go to "followers" list, follow girls)

    2. let's say you sent 80 girls follow request (limit of sending follow requests is like 100 i think)

    - 40 of them would approve (this approve rate depends on your attractiveness, followers count, interesting personality)

    - so you have 40 girls, u need to get an opening line to send them all. that line should be attention grabbing, unique, original. don't use voice notes as opening DM.

    - u DMed 40 girls, 15/12/10 girls will reply (this rate depends on ur msg)

    - Now u have 10 to 15 girls in your DMs.

    it's all numbers game.

    Now the manipulation game begins
    -------------------------------------------------

    don't talk about deep politics,

    do not ask questions, that answers in "YES" or "NO"

    once u have initial conversation going on (4-5 DMs from each other), start sending voice notes.

    send her videos of u playing with animals, you working on something.

    be caring guy.

    ask her open ended questions. for example :
    - what's your goal in life
    - what's ideal date according to you
    - what's the story behind that outfit (one of her pictures)
    - who is your idol in life?
    - if you could do one thing over and over again in life, what would it be?

    HINGE prompts are good questions.

    Once u make sure to her that, you are chill, non-judgmental. both decide call. talk on call.

    if she says something bad (like her guilty pleasures) - roast her lightly.

    ----------------------------------------

    HIGH RISK OF GETTING FRIENDZONED , SO TEXT GAME IS RISKY.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lamfo at this idiot. You’re proposing to mass spam women to turn shitty Instagram into a dating app.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Instagram is best dating app if you are average.

        you can always unfollow girls if they don't respond.

        also there is risk of her boyfriend DMing you, asking, why did you text her lol

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