How do I stop being so jealous/angry at women for how easy it is for them to get dates, sex, and parties?

How do I stop being so jealous/angry at women for how easy it is for them to get dates, sex, and parties? it's eating away at me.

It's been 4 months, and I guarantee my ex-gf has probably already fricked so many people. I was always super jealous and resentful of her body count. Mine is like 11 and I'm a 28 year old man which is weak and I'm insecure about it, whereas hers (was) close to 30.

It's not fair. Women have it 100 times easier in life, and they have the audacity to say they're victims. Women can have infinite sex, attention, and parties and say they're victims to men.

Frick my ex, she was like that, a hardcore feminist who said men have easier lives. Bullshit. She's living it up partying and fricking random people.

How do I cope with this anger? It eats away at me all the time. It's not fair how much easier women have it in life.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bro, you're clearly still hurting about your breakup, and spending too much time on the internet while you try to recover.

    I say this literally, not trollingly: go outside and touch grass.

    Seriously, go out in the world. Go for a run. Hang out with friends. Take care of your sleep, exercise, nutrition, and work/study life. The rest will fall in line.

    Your body count is 11 at 28, which is just fine. You're very likely normal. All of this feminist shit, and identity politics and all of that is all online. It barely exists in the real world.

    But if it makes you feel any better:
    Women hold the keys to sex, and men hold the keys to relationships. I'm sure most of her 30 were guys that led her on, thinking they'd date her only to pump and dump. Most of those were emotionally painful to her. She's not having a great time.

    You're gonna make it friend.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Actually, this makes me feel a bit better thanks man, Specifically the part:
      >Women hold the keys to sex, and men hold the keys to relationships.
      I remember her once telling me she hated the first time we had sex. I asked hey why, and she said,
      "I really liked you, and I was afraid that now that you've gotten what you've wanted, you'll leave".
      And she definitely has some trauma like that. Plus sex is generally better for men anyway. But that does make me feel a bit better, it makes things feel a bit more fair and balanced.

      I know it all stems from me just being jealous. I'm not proud of that, but I fully admit/acknowledge that. I wish I was as sexually experienced as her, and I'm angry because I just can't get laid as easy as she can. She'll always have more sexual pleasure.

      But at least there is somewhat of a balance like you mentioned.

      I am still hurting about the breakup. We were together 2 years. It ended pretty nasty, awful things were said. Deep down I miss her a lot. She lives so rent free in my mind everyday, and she has no idea. I both miss her a lot, and I also hate her on some levels.

      I do spend too much time on the internet, you're right. I'll think about her getting laid at parties and I'll just simmer in my own rage haha.

      Thanks man. I didn't expect to feel a little better, but I do.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She probably won't always have more sexual pleasure than you, if she's with a guy once or twice odds that she's actually having satisfying sexual encounters are low. Most men don't know how to satisfy women, at least not without learning how that woman likes to cum and that can take time. And then a lot of women don't fully know how to satisfy themselves, one woman confessed to me she'd never even had an orgasm until she was 26, even though she'd been sexually active since 18. She is one of the most extreme cases I've heard, but she is by no means an isolated instance. Real quality sex tends to most often come in satisfying long term relationships. A woman who has had sex with 30 men once each has had far less sex than a woman who has slept with one partner for years.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah but there's the undeniable fact of the adrenaline of the first encounter adds so much more pleasure to the overall experience.

          My ex has such a grip on my mind. It's killing me. I know at this point it's more a projection than reality, but even still.

          I've just been lonely. I'm living by myself in the apartment we got together. I'm unhappy. Meanwhile she's having the time of her life and winning in life, having so much sex and parties. It just doesn't seem fair, but there's nothing I can do to change it. I'm not even close to there yet, but maybe one day I'll be happy for her and all women, idk, it's just too far off right now

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Huh, I've never experienced anything like that.
            How'd you get started on having adrenaline for human interaction? Can you do that while skipping loneliness? Sounds fun

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's just the natural adrenaline/excitement you feel the first time you sleep with someone new

            >I choose to base my self worth on romantic interaction with the opposite sex
            >I do not have romantic interaction with the opposite sex
            >Now I am sad.
            >What do I do?
            Gee I dunno dickhead.

            Well that's the point, I'm trying. And the whole point of this is frick my ex and other women for it being so easy for them. Women have easier lives and they're infinitely privleged socially.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    First of all, having a high body count is not something to be proud of. You can cope with this mindset that the more casual sex you have somehow makes you better, but, in reality it’s the opposite. I’ve probably fricked close to 30 women in my 28 years, but only one of them has had my heart and still does to this day even though we don’t talk and I’m sure like your ex, has probably already hopped on a million dicks since leaving me. Those other 29 were completely forgettable because I didn’t love them. Being a man is realizing and living with the fact that you’re completely fricked and disposable to women and society at large. It’s not your fault and it’s not even the fault of your ex or her peers. It’s boomer women that established this Judeo-Feminist-Marxist culture and we are now in the final days of this cancer which plagues our very existence. So, the solution? There isn’t one. Let society do what it’s been doing and simply embrace your autonomy while you still can. Be your best friend and say no to the culture we live in. Keep in the back of your mind total collapse and be as prepared as one can be. For this is all a man can do.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I appreciate it man, but I have to admit it's hard to not attribute value to bodycount. Like I'm jealous of you for having that high of a number. It actually makes me feel pretty insecure about myself. It makes me feel lesser to my peers too.

      I gotta solve this mindset somehow.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        For what it's worth, 11 partners is more than most men get in their lifetimes, I'm pretty sure.
        Just look at all the incel seething going around nowadays. You're fine.
        Also why did you get involved with a feminist prostitute in the first place? Good riddance I say

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      t fricked lots of fat hags of tinder

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I was always super jealous and resentful of her body count. Mine is like 11 and I'm a 28 year old man which is weak and I'm insecure about it, whereas hers (was) close to 30.

    OP, how does this even happen? I’m not trynna shame you here, but how can you feel resentful and insecure about this? 11 body count? Bro. Mine is a body count of 2. I am 30. I am married and I don’t give two tugs of a dead dog’s wiener about my body count.
    You can be happy with a body count of 2, 1, or even 0, I can swear to you this is true.

    Have you considered that maybe it’s less to do about body count and more to do with a warped idea about what you consider to be ‘success’? And you are simply afraid at not being perceived as successful?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cont.

      I also wanna add. Don’t guilt yourself for your feelings. You’re not wrong for the jealousy or anger. Feelings are irrational, and insecurity isn’t something to damn yourself over. Even though I don’t get insecure about body count, I am highly insecure over other areas of life.

      You are grieving. Give yourself some time and cut yourself some slack

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cont.

      I also wanna add. Don’t guilt yourself for your feelings. You’re not wrong for the jealousy or anger. Feelings are irrational, and insecurity isn’t something to damn yourself over. Even though I don’t get insecure about body count, I am highly insecure over other areas of life.

      You are grieving. Give yourself some time and cut yourself some slack

      I'm not really sure, I can't quite figure it out myself. I don't know where it came from, but it's clear that I attribute a lot of value to body count, "success" as you said. It's not easy to change that, but I'm trying.

      On the other hand, it might stem from jealously. I think deep down I want more sexual experience. I felt so inferior to my ex in that regard, jealous and spiteful deep down.

      When we were breaking up, things were getting nasty. She knew how I felt about this matter. Just to spite me, she told me, "Btw, when I was 17, I once fricked two different dudes in one day at a party." And that nearly ripped my soul out of my body when she told me that. It makes me full of rage even just thinking about that actually.

      Thanks for the bit about acknowledging feelings. I'm trying to get better at that.

      I'm actually seeing a therapist, but she's a woman roughly close to my age, so I'm too afraid to be fully honest about all of this. Partly fear, partly pride too, it's embarassing to admit this.

      But this is just agonizing me. And I'm so jealous of women as a whole. I know that's incel like thinking, and I don't want to be like that

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How hot was your gf, OP? Mine current one is super hot but the situation is identical to yours. I am full of resentment towards her for her high bodycount. She had 16 by the age of 23, I have 4 by the age of 29.

        One of the few things that really helped me with all of this were:

        - Honest, raw conversation with her about all of this and how I really feel;
        - Crying about it (she started loving me more after this);
        - Telling her I want to frick more women to gain experience (she agreed to this, but urged me to use protection);
        - Knowing I was the first and only one who came inside her; the rest didnt;
        - Making porn videos with her; again, it was the first videos in her life with me;
        - I want to have sex with her in a public place like a toilet or a balcony; I hope she didnt do it before me, but I dont want to ask about it yet;

        In short, making new unique experiences with her, which she didnt do with other guys. Making special experiences between me and her. She still loves me to this day and has let me frick other women on the side but with protection and without telling her this.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She was super hot, and yeah I was always full of resentment

          I mean that's great man, I hope it works out.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Its funny how you jump from "help im always angry with women" to "fricking women no good bawds" lol
    Anyways, you're a step ahead because the women hater types dont even recognize their shortcomings and continue to self sabotage their dating life, so thats good.
    Women have it easier with dating, I can believe that. Men have it easier in other things, It just so happens your problem is heavily focused on dating so its easy to see where the hate comes from.
    In another other perspective, your mad at your ex for hooking up with others after the breakup, but you would likely do the same if you could. So sex should be easier for guys? women should be less picky and sleep with whoever? genuine question, no snark.

    And you compare you and your ex's body count, which is weird because you said women can have "infinite sex", so you're comparing to an unreachable number.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >your mad at your ex for hooking up with others after the breakup, but you would likely do the same if you could
      I'm mad at her because I'm deeply jealous of her and insecure about my own inability to do it. I'm mad that women have it so easy to get access to sex. I'm mad that she put me through so much hurt, and she's winning in life and having the time of life having as much parties and sex as she wants just because she's a woman, it doesn't seem fair. Why does she get to live life to the fullest and go party have get laid whenever she wants. I'm just mad about that.

      I'm also mad about the men vs women thing, because it feels like women have it so much easier and complain about men. Like a women NEVER feels lonely, because you guys can just go get attention/laid whenever you want. You get to live life to the fullest, have threesomes, etc. You're so lucky, like it seems like being a women is the better deal in life, and I don't understand why they all say men have it easier? Like I don't get that at all.

      I'm just deeply jealous of you all

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You put sex on such a high pedestal.
        You should focus the hate into working out, imagine how ripped you would be lol

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          That's the thing haha, I am pretty ripped, I workout 5-6 days a week.

          That's why I'm so mad about it. It's so much harder for men to get dates and laid. I have a great job, my own apartment, I'm buff. I'm good looking, (as I'm told, by women, very often, you don't have to believe me that's fine, but women tell me that all the time), I'm told I'm funny, I'm great on dates when I do get them.
          Despite all this, it's like impossible to get laid. The dating apps completely cater to women, 100%, and where else would I even meet them?

          It's such bulllshit, my ex doesn't even have to TRY. she can get laid literally as much as she wants, she doesn't have to do anything, because she's a pretty women. LIke what a luxury that is, she NEVER has to feel lonely. Friday night? She can go get laid with a 100% success rate. She wants to have a threesome/experiement? She can just go do that.

          Like looking at the above situation, of course I'm resentful and bitter, she doesn't have to even try, she never has to feel the awful feelings of loneliness or wanting physical intimacy. And then she has the audacity to say that she's a victim and men live easy lives?? Like how??? how does that even make sense

          Women are so privleged and they don't understand that. If we switched places for a day, you'd never want to be a man. But women will continue to just blame men and say they're victims I guess? Literally how lol

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Women get pregnant and hit the wall much faster than men do.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's an awful counter argument. Oh sorry you're hitting the wall at 30, must really suck, good thing you got limitless sexual experience before that time. Like? That's barely a con at all. It doesn't even matter if you hit the wall earlier, you have limitless pleasure before that point.

            Women get pregnant. Also hardly a counter argument. Just use condoms? Every girl I've slept with that's asked me to use one I've never had a problem with

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The true counterargument is that pleasure is worthless. Having casual sex is no different from being a coomer. Feels good then you feel like shit after.
            Love is the only thing that really matters and it's much harder for men and women to find.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Man youve been doing 4 months of this ? I know you can get drunk off anger but got damn..

            You want some facebook quotes?
            >If you're digging a grave for revenge, dig two
            >Revenge is a dish best served cold
            >The best revenge is living a happy life
            >If you're feeling full, at least youre feeling something.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, it does feel good to get it all out a bit.

            Like I said, I'm just butthurt about it. I'm jealous that women have it so easy in life. They don't know how lucky and privileged they are, so it just baffles me that they say men have easier lives.

            It angers me that my ex hurt me so bad and she gets to have so much pleasure and live life to the fullest, like how is that fair or just? I'm so jealous of her.

            I just have to accept that's how it is. Women like her are living life on easy difficulty and she will be able to have as much pleasure, fun, attention, and sex as she wants. I'm just screwed because I'm a man, she is very privleged and she doesn't know it, even worse she perpetuates that being a man is better and hates men for it? Baffling

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            hol' up
            >shes a hardcore feminist who believes men have more privilege
            >you believe women have more privilege

            I bet you miss fighting with her and you used similar arguments in this thread lol

            t. year 0 psych student

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Believe it or not, our relationship started off so nice. It was so wonderful for so long.

            I was always, always insecure and jealous about her bodycount.

            Also, why is it that when women hate men for reasons about men having easier lives it's applauded by everyone

            But when men talk about how they're human and feel lonely and want sexual experience and how imbalanced that is, the response is, "men wanna be victims so bad" or "shut up toxic man"???

            Like bruh?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >the response is, "men wanna be victims so bad" or "shut up toxic man"

            from WHO? r/feminism?
            I never heard this argument in real life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I see it literally everywhere. Here's a small example that's reflective of what it's like.

            I saw meme recently on Instgram. The top pane said "Women: Omg I haven't talked to anyone in hours, I feel so lonely." The bottom pane was footage from silent hill 2 (guy wandering around aimlessly with fog everywhere) with the caption "Average male day to day experience."

            Which is true. Again, women get limitless attention just because they're women and they live life on easy difficulty.

            The top comment was from a woman that said, "Men wanna be victims so bad." Which is absolutely baffling and how unaware she is of how socially privleged women are in our society.
            Nobody gives a frick if a man is lonely or craves physical intimacy. Women get it in limitless abundance because they're women, and they complain about men having the better lives, that's again what blows my mind.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > Nobody gives a frick if a man is lonely or craves physical intimacy

            This is very true in my experience and if a guy (like me) craves it and finally does obtain it after years of searching, he finds it fleeting just as quickly as it did arrive to him. For me, loving just one woman was enough for a lifetime and I was prepared to do anything for her and to keep her safe, loved and provided for. And still it wasn’t enough for her. Life is cruel, unfair and for men finding true lasting love
            is not possible. They’ve weakened us and soon will obliterate us for standing in the way of a gynocratic one world govt of, by and for women only. They might let you live if you transition into one of them (fate worse than death).

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Get off social media. Social media isn't real life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Believe it or not, most (good) women don't care about casual sex all that much. Sure, a lot of them still go for it, but it's not some badge of honor like it is for men. They care more about getting one good man and giving him their all
            Usually when a woman is promiscuous, she has issues. Often times, daddy issues. I wouldn't be too jealous of them really

            And I get that more sex makes you feel more accomplished. But I hope you realize that nobody really cares but you. The people worth impressing will not be impressed by your body count. I hope in time you can internalize this and focus your energy in something more productive

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I wish I knew why I felt so much rage about it all. I don't. Even just reading "women is promiscuous" like immediatly triggered such anger. I'm in inner turmoil everyday thinking about my ex having sex with all these dudes, not even because I have feelings for her, but the fact that she just gets to.

            Why do I have this rage? Why do I place so much emphasis on all of this? I don't really know.

            I still think it comes from jealously. I equate sex as living life to the fullest. So I'm jealous she gets to so easily. God why does it make me so angry.

            I don't know how to heal it either. I don't want this to bother me so much, but it does. It makes me so angry towards women for having such easy access to it all. Why does imaging a woman being promiscuous make me so, so angry? I don't understand it myself.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Clearly you put too much importance on sex. Maybe your therapist can help you deal with that, but I wouldn't go to a woman. They don't get it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe you're on to something. If sex didn't have as much weight as it did it in my mind, it might not cause me so much inner turmoil.

            idk man. Yeah, I really like my therapist, but I can't tell her all this. Which sucks, because she could probably help

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sure you can. It sounds like this is precisely what you should be telling her. I'm sure she's heard worse, don't worry

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >this is precisely what you should be telling her.
            Idk it's a bit intimidating to tell her this. You're absolutely right in that I need to be telling her though, but I'm a bit afraid to. She's a woman roughly my age, I don't feel like this will come across well.

            At the very least, getting all my anger out tonight has helped, I kinda feel better, that was pent up for so long. It's of course not fixed or anything, but still helpful.

            Get off social media. Social media isn't real life.

            Yeah but that's still the attitude, and the real life is true that I stated of women like my ex having limitless attention and sex.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If she takes it personally, she's a shit therapist. She's a professional, and you're a person in need, paying for her professional services. Have some tact, sure, but don't hold back. I'm sure she's fully aware that some men resent women, just as the opposite also happens. And you showing that you're looking to fix this issue should at least make her more predisposed to helping you out

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I suppose you're right about that. I guess the next step is up to me and balls up and talk about this all.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Transition and recieve the physical abuse that you men perpetuate against us?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I choose to base my self worth on romantic interaction with the opposite sex
    >I do not have romantic interaction with the opposite sex
    >Now I am sad.
    >What do I do?
    Gee I dunno dickhead.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop buying into the dating market is human market dichotomy, OP, and think about how dehumanizing such a view is. Cherish actual connections, deep and authentic ones, not the amount of numbers and meaningless lays people have.

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