How do people even hook up in 2024?

How do people even hook up in 2024? Literally haven't seen a "live" bar/club pull in years and nobody i know is getting laid regularly. I can't believe that a significant portion of 18-35 year olds are sexless so something has to be going on.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >types of women you'll meet at the bar
    got an uncanny feeling reading that

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hooking up with strangers doesn't happen anymore outside of dating apps. Chad rotates through the women in his social circle. Sub-Chad men jester and status max until they can get into a relationship which might entitle them to sex.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is probably the closest to the truth.

      My female friends are basically in three groups: old relationship with above average dudes they managed to maintain, a toxic open/failing relationship with your average sucker or in Chad's rotation (and we are not kids: we are in our late 20s).
      Younger people probably have an even worse dating scene.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I often hear girls complain about lack of sex or a boyfriend (latter more common) but then they ignore every guy that is trying to get with them lol what do they expect that a nfl star is going to date an average 25 year old chain smoking chick with a useless degree and no prospects? But i sort of get it, imagine being offered constant sex by bikini models only they never want to date you...you answer their late night booty calls because why wouldn't you want to sleep with a bikini model but it always goes nowhere..so then when you see the average Jane next door doing things for you and willing to be with you..you get the ick because it feels such a downgrade to the bikini model you're sleeping with

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I often hear girls complain about lack of sex or a boyfriend (latter more common) but then they ignore every guy that is trying to get with them lol what do they expect that a nfl star is going to date an average 25 year old chain smoking chick with a useless degree and no prospects? But i sort of get it, imagine being offered constant sex by bikini models only they never want to date you...you answer their late night booty calls because why wouldn't you want to sleep with a bikini model but it always goes nowhere..so then when you see the average Jane next door doing things for you and willing to be with you..you get the ick because it feels such a downgrade to the bikini model you're sleeping with
          I had a guy complaining on /b/ because like 10 years ago, women would send nudes for attention, now they ask for cashapp before sending nudes LOL

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I think everyone is wanting to do as best as they can and women up to their mid 20s are simply not willing to settle ie they would rather be alone than be with a guy that has some perceived flaw or is simply not impressive enough. I think there is also a lot of peer pressure, sometimes girls enjoy hanging out with a guy and they would make a good couple but because none of her friends would find him impressive they will never give him a chance. Girls in their youth want the best and a lot of them would rather take the bet that they can get Chad to commit to them by pleasing him rather than be seen with someone whom they or their friends consider as beneath them.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >sometimes girls enjoy hanging out with a guy and they would make a good couple but because none of her friends would find him impressive they will never give him a chance
          When I first got with my girlfriend (soon fiance at this rate), this almost happened. Her friends HATED me because I was unemployed at the time, not tall enough, et cetera. Thankfully she ignored them and stuck with me. It was her fat friends who were most vicious about us, too.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Chad rotates through the women in his social circle
      guess who spent the past 2 years building a social circle full of women. hahahahaha

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They text each other on Instagram and ask to "hang out", then they choose a place (someone's house), put on Netflix, smoke some weed and frick. That's it. If the sex is good, it becomes a "situaionship" where the woman pretends like she's in an Ariana Grande song about a tumultuous, dramatic adventure of a relationship, while the guy is just sort of bombarded with her negative emotions until one of them gets bored and moves on. That's modern romance.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Oh, and to clarify, normally it's the guy who messages first, of course. Chicks just post "thirst traps" (pictures of themselves at the gym or beach) with captions about being lonely or whatever until some guy they find hot enough to swallow the cum of messages them.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >pretends like she's in an Ariana Grande song about a tumultuous, dramatic adventure of a relationship,
      This might be me actually

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's literally every woman or homosexual under 35 doing this. They are ALL like this. ALL women want every relationship to be like a pop song where the two of you get back together after having a big fight and she has her cathartic moment of release. Women in previous generations were like this but the romantic media they consumed was different and was largely about being rescued from their boring life by Fabio (who was also a rapist, but a misunderstood and HOT rapist) before becoming a housewife. Now it's about some guy rizzing you up and blowing up your DMs before cheating on you, then you cheat on him, then you fight, then you get back together, then you cheat on him, and he cheats on you, and you fight, et cetera, until one of you cracks.

        It's awful.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This.
      Also note they aren't on dating apps. Dating apps are garbage.
      They are on literal social media where they can directly evaluate a guys lifestyle in real time more effectively than an artificial dating app profile. If your instagram isn't active then that is a red flag. If your instagram isn't what is effectively a good "lifestyle" ad, then that is a red flag.

      Women are animals who see men as a lifestyle product object, not people. All the crying about men dehumanizing women is just projection.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >If your instagram isn't active then that is a red flag
        I guess it's over for me then, I fricking hate posting there though

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      wow you literally just described my entire "romantic" life... god I fricking hate social media so much for doing this amount of irreparable damage to society

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Correct. This isn't new, it's how it worked for me 20 years ago. People were just less naive and entitled about it. People understood that you were frick buddies for at least three months before going public. They didn't frick for a couple weeks and question if they were in a "situationship", both sides knew the score.

      >bombarded with her negative emotions until one of them gets bored and moves on.

      That's the entitlement I was talking about. Read stories about how insecure women get butthurt about how the guy "doesn't want to be seen in public" with her after they've fricked once. They think putting out once entitles them to commitment, and their expectations balloon out of control.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        they also expect the guy to basically be a free therapist to them but god forbid he tries to tell her how she feels ...

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I can't imagine how bad it must be now. It wasn't very good back then, but I got lucky. I found a woman that invited me over, we fricked, she made me breakfast in the morning. Next time I came by I brought by some cheddar popcorn, and she surprised me by finding an import weeb snack I had mentioned enjoying but being unable to find. I NEVER hear stories like that anymore, just situations where it's all expectations from her but no escalation of commitment/effort on her part.

          It really shouldn't be that hard. You're attracted, the sex is good enough, and then you buy little token gifts for each other, gradually raising the stakes and effort until you're married.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Literally haven't seen a "live" bar/club pull in years
    That's because most of the younger generation meets people online and online all that matters is looks which is why the "chad" meme has become a thing. Online all that matters is looks, learn about the 80/2p rule.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Literally haven't seen a "live" bar/club pull in years and nobody i know is getting laid regularly.

    The bar is on the floor, talk to women, be charming, and pull the trigger

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody approaches live anymore. Everyone is split into groups and staring into phones. Its considered creepy to approach in 2024

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do people even hook up in 2024?
    They slide into each other's DMs and make the necessary arrangements.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Where's the fun of hooking up with someone through dms? Thought it was exciting to have an in-person interaction, that's half the fun of scoring/getting laid in the first place. Sliding into DMs is one step above ordering a hooker, depressing.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Young people are too poor to go out drinking now. Where I live, one drink at a bar or club is between 16 and 40 dollars. Young people cannot afford that at all. Young people can't afford anything, really. They save up for months to hit the town for a single night.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Kek i live in an europoor country where 1L of wine is 15 eue. So it would take about 1-2 hours of student work (student waiters get anywhere from 6.5-10eur pr hr plus tips) to get drunk outside (1L is enough for a student to be considerably buzzed and a woman piss drunk) but people still dont go out anymore.

          ?
          You are making the arrangements to have an in-person interaction.
          Some people will explicitly discuss that hooking up is the plan, but it generally works better to treat it as an understood subtex that the details of that aspect of the evening will be worked out face-to-face.

          Still way more depressing than hanging at a bar and meeting someone spontaneously. But i suppose you're right, people now decide through social media if they even want to talk to someone.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody wants to buy cheap box wine and drink it on a park bench, that's not what "going out" means. "Going out" means going to a bar or club, ordering drinks, and dancing in slow motion with other attractive people to music that goes "HEY HEY HEY" and has stomping and clapping in it. You can buy a litre of vodka for cheap but what do you do next? Drink it at home. Not a viable way to meet other young, attractive people.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I feel sorry for you americans but excellent quality wine here costs 1.5eur per glass lol

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The plight of richgays i guess. As far as i see where i live clubs are the exception, not the rule. Bars are common enough. Sometimes there's music events out in the woods or small concerts in town. Most people will just hang out and drink/smoke.

            I know it's popular to clown on the wealthy, but not being able to just buy a cheap bottle and hang out with people sounds like such a sterile and depressing social life.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You met them "spontaneously" online, chatted a bit to see if you're vibin', and then slide into the DMs for the "your place or mine?"
            Then you probably get to do it all again when you meet up, since people's online and offline demeanor often do not match.

            Also, even if you meet someone at some IRL event and hit it off, you're probably only going to exchange contact details and do the above anyway, unless you're in a social meat market.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ?
        You are making the arrangements to have an in-person interaction.
        Some people will explicitly discuss that hooking up is the plan, but it generally works better to treat it as an understood subtex that the details of that aspect of the evening will be worked out face-to-face.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I dated my friend who had bpd, just sent me a booba snap chat and we started dating right after. Was a wild 4 years of love and alot fights.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just came back from a bar. Against all odds, I was invited there by Stacy for her birthday.
    There was zero flirting from anyone. Whoever was single kept to their friends. I could notice one or two friends of hers eyeing me (creaturas), but there was no clear sign of interest and I wouldn't do anything anyway. I had the company of prettier mutual friends I have with Stacy, and none of them showed me romantic interest either.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If only the ugly ones were eyeing you, that means you are ugly. Are you a virigin? If so go frick one of them

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not a virgin because I date a 4/10 who suddenly fell head over heels for me. I've had very beautiful chicks show me interest before, though, but am too socially incompetent to make it work - only the 4/10 did all the work it takes for me to engage a woman.
        The only beautiful chicks in the party were the birthdayer and our mutual friends who kept me company. All of them show me 0 sexual interest, but are very friendly. One of them told me she'll invite me to her birthday next month, but I'm sure it's a lie.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How do you know if a girl eyes you? sometimes i see random chicks staring at me for longer than normal but then nobody smiles and its just awkward eye contact before someone looks away

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Do not fall for this, she wants you to come over and validate her then she will tell you to buzz off.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            When are u supposed to approach her then anyways only if she smiles? I think that happened like twice in my life lol. I can see girls staring but they always stare like morons with no sign if she's interested or not and i dont want to smile at her like a moron for her to then look away

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Don't listen to the other anon. If a women is staring at you, she's interested in you. Women are cowards and hate those they don't find attractive. If she's taking time out of her existence to stare at you, it mean she is interested in you. Next time you notice a women staring at you, go up and talk to her. It's up to you to figure out what you'll open up with, but that's part of the awful fricking game we all go through to find a women.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I havent had a gf in 10+ years, most women like toxic relationships/ men

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't find girls that use instagram GF material. What do?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      95% of men are having trouble, if you ugly then stop being ugly

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