How do you attract 18-25-year-old women as a late 20s guy? Seems bars don't work so well.

How do you attract 18-25-year-old women as a late 20s guy?

Seems bars don't work so well. Obviously there's University/College, but I don't go to this anymore.
Maybe a certain job could work, but that's a lot of time just to potentially date. I already have an established career.
There's dating apps, but seems a waste of time unless you're a 9/10. I'm a 7/10.
I've found a bit of success just striking up convos in city/national parks and getting numbers.
Party vacation spots with beaches seem a good option too, but it's expensive and a big time commitment.

Overall, seems work and college are the only reliable options for an average guy, but in my late 20s as a post-grad seems pathetic to get a waiter job or taking college classes just to meet zoomer chicks.

Am I missing any other options?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Money.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How much and how?
      Like I said, I could just go to party vacations spots, maybe move to college towns and throw my own parties, but these cost a few grand a pop. All to get maybe a zoomer chick or two, for a bit. At that point, I rather just get an escort.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        its never going to happen dude

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How exactly does money get you women? You still have to somehow find them and approach them, which is the hard part

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Money gets you an active lifestyle that is attractive to women. You can partake in expensive hobbies, focus on fitness, get nice clothes, pay for nice restaurants, etc. It’s not like you’re giving them money.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >You can partake in expensive hobbies,
          How does that help you find women? You go golfing and meet them there?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The money cope is the final cope.
            >i-if I get a million dollars girls will definitely somehow materialize around me!!
            No they won't. It's just impossible to get women. If you have to ask how to get them you won't get them

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, you don't get it, neither does the other poster. It's not the money per se but the status you built that gives you money. If you have a high status position woman will naturally gravitate towards you wherever you are in that position. The money is just a symbol of that status, it's expected that with status you'll have money to throw around, and that's one way you can fake high status

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i bang new teens off seeking every 2 weeks. been with more virgins than ud think too (all euros). sometimes i dont pay them anything except economy ticket, sometimes i help them with rent. never paid what even mid escorts charge. i literally wont dm girls older than 19, and they msg me first usually because im probably the only decent looking non-old ass on the site
        technically they dont know im rich. i just put that i am (i am actually) but they dont verify shit and im often at non-fancy airbnbs with non-fancy cars so all i can say is a lot of them just want to frick an older guy (im 35 i have no clue how much older, some say they’d date up to 60) and money is kinda like being preselected, they trust you, feel comfortable, and maybe think money = status/power
        on the other hand i do have a lambo mclaren range and other shit at my main house, and i have had girls approach me and hookup when i was sitting in the lambo, and i could park the mclaren at a uni with my ig on a sticker or whatever, but end of day i just do what i said above
        ive banged young girls approaching a few times outside, its just annoying and takes too much time because im too picky about the girls, but ultimately i dont think young girls care about money much since ive never been asked to buy anything and ive fricked at least 100 girls in years
        older hoes priorities change
        fwiw i snoop hard as frick into their pasts and these girls usually have fricked complete dorks. guys wearing video game tshits with pencil necks. guys this board thinks couldnt touch teenage vag

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Buddy just dm them on Instagram. These hoes are too easy. If dating hasn't gotten easier for you as you get older as a man, you're doing it wrong

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What do you dm on IG? I only use social media to keep up with some friends and family here and there. Dating was easier when I was in school and had easy access and invitations to everything. Now I'm older making over 100k annually, but everyone I know is married or the chicks at work are 30-40+

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Basically the same shit you'd dm them on tinder or any other dating app

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          how do you even find the chicks to dm?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Search bar lol

            But for reals, back when I was single I'd occasionally hit up a chick I knew from way back, sometimes it came to something, other times it was not. You could really just pick a random thottie and dm.them if you wanted. But in reality man, you'd probably have just as much luck on tinder or going somewhere social

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, I still do Tinder but the girls are always the least attractive from what I can get elsewhere. Basically whatever the 9/10 dudes dont want. At best I'd get girls those dudes pump and dump if I make it seem I'm looking for a relationship kind of thing, beta bucks.

            >going somewhere social
            I'd be grateful for any ideas. Like I said, parks seem alright sometimes, especially if I leave my town for a big city. Last weekend I went to San Diego's balboa park and met a few chicks there without really trying. Another thing is going to spring break vacation spots, but it's really out of my way to do it, and I can only stand being around drunks/junkies for so long.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm confused at what you want then, csn you clarify?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is hit or miss like tinder. Yeah I've gotten some women to respond to me sliding in her DM's but the ones I actually took out and fricked I can count on one hand and none of them were 18-21. Even worse if you do manage to get one to respond and you find out she lives in Australia or some shit. Instagram.com isn't bad but it can be a time sink.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Idk brotherman, flying a chick out is a bit of a flex sometimes if you're willing to do so. Practically guaranteed puss at that point. You're right tho, it's hit or miss, but the smart man pulls from every available source

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    People always say "money" but it's important to realize that simply having cash in the account won't attract women, nor will pointless status purchases. It's a mindset, of knowing that money won't be a problem, not an obsession with income. No reasonable woman gives a shit what is on your tax returns or in your investment portfolio, as long as you are able to not be hung up about it and you won't be asking her for help paying rent.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This, dudes think it's just flashing cash when in reality it's the ability to have enough money that spending it doesn't bother you. You don't need to buy Lamborghinis and shit, but when you do make a purchase, you don't flinch or complain about the price. You buy what you want and love it.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you don't

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    are there any 18-25 yo women you would hang out with if they didn't have bobs and vagene?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like the bubbly youthful feminine energy. Girls after 25 just take themselves too seriously

      I'm confused at what you want then, csn you clarify?

      what social spots would you recommend to frequent? Idk if the problem is just my location or I'm not going to the right things locally. Places where it's not weird to talk to strangers

      Same as all other women

      either meet one through friends or quit your job, enroll in uni and speak to them there

      none of my friends are around any attractive girls. It's all 25+ and usually less attractive chicks than I can already meet off dating apps

      >enroll in uni and speak to them there
      yeah, tempted to just enroll for music and art history or whatever

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You said something about being in San Diego. Are you in socal? This shoukd be a cakewalk for you man. Look up coed sports in your area, or hit up bars. You did say you had success at the parks, why not do that more?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nah I'm around phoenix, AZ. I just go there sometimes to escape the heat.

          >coed sports in your area, or hit up bars
          yeah, seems these are the best options. I'll probably just keep at it, maybe moving until I find a good sweet spot for my dating life. Outside of work, I just spend most of my time on hobbies and travel.
          I also work remotely, so I'm considering if other countries would be a better deal for me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Homie, Phoenix is a college town. If I were you, I'd be on tinder constantly. If you're looking to get some prime coochie constantly thats the move. You'll find exactly what you're looking for if you keep looking there. Be that in the states, overseas, whereever... You'll find it

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Homie, Phoenix is a college town. If I were you, I'd be on tinder constantly. If you're looking to get some prime coochie constantly thats the move. You'll find exactly what you're looking for if you keep looking there. Be that in the states, overseas, whereever... You'll find it

          Ah, it's gonna suck doing these in 108 degree weather. These are the only ones available this summer. I'll probably just stick to bars and keep at it. That and traveling to different towns.

          >Phoenix is a college town. If I were you, I'd be on tinder constantly
          Yeah, that's what I do, but like I said, it's pretty trashy. Idk, maybe I need to focus on professional pictures or paying for all the premium features.

          I get better girls at the bars, but I don't really enjoy the environment. I just shamelessly talk to literally every girl, compliment them and go from there.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nah, you'll be fine. Think about it bud, you're going to be around women who are working up a sweat and shedding layers. Then yall can go get some refreshing drinks or some shit afterwards. Besides, if you're fit, just shed your shirt and watch them mire

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Socal isn't the best man. Trust me, I live here. Nothing but ghetto nigs and hot chips eating tortas, yeah you can probably get some variety going to the valley or inland empire, but over atleast in Los Angeles, its nothing but filth. Even the 18yr olds are moronic

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I hear ya. However there's a reason the saying is "young, dumb, and full of cum"

            I'm in michigan, it's not bad up here, got a great mix of everything. But also detroit, so there's that.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >are there any 18-25 yo women you would hang out with if they didn't have bobs and vagene?

      No. In fact they enrage me. All of their problems are inconsequential and useless to even talk about for the incessant hours that they do. It is no fault to their own as they are young (and female) and therefore haunt had as much experiences as even men their age.

      If it wasn't for the utility of childbirth and a companion i dont think id ever talk to young females and would then be perfectly happy. Women who are ~30 are absolutely perfect imo - its just that they all are used up and damaged individuals.

      Perhaps ill talk to a crazy Mormon girl who is ~ 18/19 , hot , and living via her value stream.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Same as all other women

    either meet one through friends or quit your job, enroll in uni and speak to them there

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Meet them through social circle or just having a life in general, OR just be better looking and use apps or anyway. Or rather, realize that if you're a 7 that should be plenty good enough.
    You do not need to be a 9, or else they wouldn't be as popular as they are. Trust me, I've seen some ugly/average ass dudes who met someone online.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >dude just go to college
    University is an awful place to meet women in 2024. The parties are all lame as shit (I would know, I was in the frat) and only the trashiest girls go. Everyone is stressed out all the time and when you finally find someone you’re sweet with you can lose the window of opportunity really quickly because of how classes change up every semester.
    I only had one gf in all my time in uni. It was bad. Most of the other dudes were in the same boat.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What you describe was the same in 2008-2012. Most uni students go to class and then go home.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Maui. Wealthy people take their daughters there to meet other well-heeled people. Go to the outdoor restaurants and sit down at a table with a young woman who doesn't seem occupied, or a mom and daughter pair. Hang around hotel lobbies/check-in areas. Also, learn tarot and have a deck in your pocket; learn palmistry.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fetish communities, anime/scifi communities, anything niche. Cosplaying for example, renaissance festivals, etc.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you were a 7/10 you would would have women dripping off you because you'd be amongst the top 15% of most attractive men on the planet. If you were a 9/10, you'd be george clooney or amongst his 0.5%

    In truth you are neither and deep down you know it. That you're having sone success suggests probably a 5/10, average looking person.

    >> Seems bars don't work so well

    No one ever told you to go to bars. You were told to go to the club, and you fricked that up. No, work and school are not places to meet women. Social activities are. Any kind of event, gathering, group, or other activity where social interaction is a part of the activity, is a place to meet women. Listen this isn't rocket science. If ~~you'd~~ a normal, reasonable person would feel fine with a random man coming up to them and getting chatting, then it's generally ok to do the same with women.

    Examples include but are not limited to, the clubs, musix festivals, concerts, parties, special interest groups, sporting venues. Learn how to be a fricking person.

    If you don't have friends, you're wasting your time trying to get women. Friends are a prerequisite. Then do social activities with your friends regularly (2-4 times per week).

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Seems bars don't work so well

    have you ever approached a girl in a bar before?

    cold approach is already a pretty good way to meet women, and doing it in a bar/club/event where people are already expected to be social, is a even better way.

    I'm 31, I was in a relationship for the last 5 years with a girl that I approached in a club, now I'm single again and already dating 2 girls, one I meet running in the park and the other in a bar, so you are full of shit.

    And yes I go for bellow 25, which is harder than the desperate for a husband closer to 30 women.

    Most guys are fricking boring, they have ZERO clue on how to flirt with women, ugly, dressing like clowns, broke with nothing interesting to offer, I swear the bar is so low that I don't understand how can men nowadays struggle with dating.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >which is harder than the desperate for a husband closer to 30 women.
      women 30+ will say guys who date younger are desperate and do it as a last resort while they're really want to date women their age

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Become 30. Until then I would honestly lift and work. You'll know when you wake up on your birthday. 23-25 and 27-30 suck ass.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well I'm 26 and it sucks ass.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how does turning 30 help? Doesn't that turn off most 18 year olds when they hear you're 30?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        being over 30 means you start gaining wizard powers

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why would you want to go for 18y olds when you are 30? And I mean aiming for LTR, which is what you should be.

        And it all comes down to resources, if you are a broke fat 30yo, you are not going to compete against a skinny broke 23yo.

        The men in their 30's that can get young women are the ones that worked well during their 20's and now have both money, time and energy.

        Most single guys I know that are over 30 are destroyed by a decade of a shitty life style, the ones in good shape are already married.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm a 7/10.
    a 7/10 wouldn't have this issue.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There's no way I'm reading all that shit when you post an image with all that legs and feet action going on.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Really just have to separate yourself from all the other NPCs your age.

    Drive a truck, motorcycle, or exotic sports car. Get tattoo sleeves. Get a nice condo located downtown or in the boujee part of town, or get a dope house with a pool and throw parties, or get a big ass boat if you live near the water.

    Just being "a guy" with the means to pick a girl up in an NPC-sedan to go to an average restaurant or coffee shop just aint gonna do it in 2024 because if she's even moderately attractive, her DMs are getting blown up by everyone and their dad.

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