How do you avoid people in relationships?

People wonder why I don't like going out and socializing... because you are guaranteed to see couples everywhere. It will either be some guy who is better-looking or wealthier than you, or it will be some lucky schmuck dating a girl out of his league... either way, it doesn't matter. It's unbearable to see couples irl. Then you meet people and they will speak about their partner, and that's another reminder that you're alone and unwanted. Is it better to become a hermit and avoid this negative stimuli as much as reasonably practicable?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just stay at home. I wish I could avoid them IRL, but they are everywhere. All my friends are married too, one invited to their wedding...

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >one invited to their wedding
      Same. I've been invited to one this summer. The rest of my friends are going with their partners, then I'm going to be there on my fricking own again. I will go, because I don't want to let my friend down, but I'm dreading it. I'll have to get shitfaced drunk to get through it.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I used to be like you so i can understand the feeling. The only advise i can give is you still have to learn a lot about yourself and be open and willing to put effort in this process. Firstly stop focusing on others and focus only on yourself. couples are a given in this world and there is no avoiding it. you'll need to work on altering your mindset and be at peace that the world is how it is. this in turn will also make you a more likable person and easier to make contact with. i think starting to compliment people on how good they're relationship looks is good goal to try to reach and be genuine about it. ask how they met, this could also give you some insight in finding someone for yourself. good luck with your journey!

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >that's another reminder that you're alone and unwanted

    how many new women have you spoken to, irl, with intent to mate and date in the last year?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >how many new women have you spoken to, irl, with intent to mate and date in the last year?
      There are no women attracted to me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >There are no women attracted to me

        How does that anwser my question?
        Do you think all women attracted to you will make it known? Who has the vegana and who has the balls? Who has the testosterone and who doesnt? Who is the man and who is the woman?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >How does that anwser my question?
          It answers your question perfectly. There are no woman attracted to me, so who am I asking out? Who's giving me a chance?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are an idiot.

            How the frick is a woman supposed to become attracted to you if you dont court her?
            Unless you are justin bieber or some fashon model, you need to court women.

            But courting women require balls, I talk to a thousand girls every year just to end up fricking about 10.

            I doubt you have the constitution to put in such work.

            So remain miserable, most men arent meant to reproduce anyways.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            larp

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            nta but in 2023 I only talked to 3 women, only once and just a couple minutes each.

            I don't know anyone and I wouldn't necessarily mind cold approaching strangers but I don't know what I would say after "hello"

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >But courting women require balls, I talk to a thousand girls every year just to end up fricking about 10.
            You're better off buying a prostitute for that ratio.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I frick 10 women in a year, more than the average man does in his entire lifetime and you still have the audacity to talk down to me.
            Lower your tone and know your place, son.

            nta but in 2023 I only talked to 3 women, only once and just a couple minutes each.

            I don't know anyone and I wouldn't necessarily mind cold approaching strangers but I don't know what I would say after "hello"

            All roads lead to Rome. Doesnt really matter what you say. Just tell her what you want and take it from there. Believe me, the biggest problem isnt what to say but 1) your approach anxiety and 2) the fact that 99% of the girls you talk to wont be interested. Which increased n°1.

            If you are still interested, check out this youtube channel.
            https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCARupPQ9t3-ykpnUEuOS4FQ/videos

            Once youve approached about 100 girls, leave a comment on one of the videos, we might contact you to join our discord.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody cares.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Step aside guys.
            The Approooacher is talking.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > join our discord
            Oh there it is, you’re not actually giving advice you’re just some chronically online weirdo who enjoys humiliation porn made by other chronically online weirdos you bait into your weirdo bullshit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            /thread

            op is a miserable ugly ass sperg w no charisma & negative attribute points in social awareness & manhood.
            prob untalented, poor & moronic too

            truly living life on self induced hard mode

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >op is a miserable ugly ass sperg w no charisma & negative attribute points in social awareness & manhood.
            Let's say that's true, how is that "self-induced?"

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            because:

            >how many new women have you spoken to, irl, with intent to mate and date in the last year?
            There are no women attracted to me.

            >How does that anwser my question?
            It answers your question perfectly. There are no woman attracted to me, so who am I asking out? Who's giving me a chance?

            >But courting women require balls, I talk to a thousand girls every year just to end up fricking about 10.
            You're better off buying a prostitute for that ratio.

            Nobody cares.

            this anon is literally telling you to git gud, and giving you a general overview on how you can approach doing so, and you're just basically saying,

            no.

            dating females or just generally attraction isnt an innate thing, much like everything in life.
            you really need to TRY even though that means failing, a lot.
            that's why there's 3 shit posts a day about good looking dudes who cant get girls; because financial stability, good looks, and non toxic behavior isn't a end all be all
            Just because youre not inherently or abhorrently terrible in every conceivable manner doesn't afford you THE RIGHT to be attractive.

            you need to put in the work.
            and if you refuse to do so then that is straight up self induced.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you need to put in the work.
            This is an absolutely worthless, empty statement.
            Men do not need to reach a power level in order to find a girlfriend.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Men do not need to reach a power level in order to find a girlfriend.

            and yet op doesnt have a girlfriend meaning what you are saying is false. Do you even think before you write your stupid replies?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >and yet op doesnt have a girlfriend meaning what you are saying is false. Do you even think before you write your stupid replies?
            How is it false? The idea that you need to "work at" getting a gf is demonstrably false. There are men who attract women without trying. They stumble ass-backwards into relationships because women think they're cute or they have the right personality type or whatever. They didn't work at it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >The idea that you need to "work at" getting a gf is demonstrably false

            idgaf about your stupid theories.
            I worked my ass off and got into pua, and today I'm getting laid so frick

            >There are men who attract women without trying

            op is cleary not one of them, so he clearly need to start trying if he wants to get laid ! wtf am I talking to a moron?

            >Do you think all women attracted to you will make it known?
            Yeah lmao.
            They need to at least provide some kind of signal even if they don't ask me out.

            as I said, if you were super attractive or a super star, there would be a ton of girls trying to frick you. But you aint that. So no girl will be interested in your ass as long as there is even one better option.

            Frick this shit. Sick of repeating myself here. Frick you, remain an incel.

            > join our discord
            Oh there it is, you’re not actually giving advice you’re just some chronically online weirdo who enjoys humiliation porn made by other chronically online weirdos you bait into your weirdo bullshit

            Our discord is for supporting eachother and exchanging ideas.
            we arent chronically online thats why i even said he must have taken action before being allowed to join.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i was literally just answering the question you asked me,
            i was completely content with just leaving it as,

            wow self induced failure of a man.
            you literally asked for an explanation.

            i wasn't asserting you need to 'reach a certain.. find a girlfriend,' i was explaining to you why men/people in general arent inherently attractive.

            and by "attractive," i dont mean that in a literal and superficial sense.
            an ugly fat disgusting piece of shit can be attractive to a large demographic of people, it's just how you present / carry yourself.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Men do not need to reach a power level in order to find a girlfriend.
            But you don't know what it takes to find a girlfriend. Since, obviously, you can't do it and all...

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Do you think all women attracted to you will make it known?
          Yeah lmao.
          They need to at least provide some kind of signal even if they don't ask me out.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >cry when a guy is better than you
    >cry when a guy is worse than you
    Maybe you're the problem here? Also you can become a hermit if you want but that's going to exactly increase your chances of finding yourself in a relationship if that's what you want so badly now is it?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It doesn't matter what I want. I never get what I want. I've wanted a girlfriend since I was a little boy, but I've never had one. Women aren't into guys like me. They might as well be a monolith to me, because none of them show any interest in me.

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