How do you deal with family and friends asking why you don't date/haven't got a girlfriend?

How do you deal with family and friends asking why you don't date/haven't got a girlfriend? I'm fairly tall (6'2"), reasonably good looking, decent body from sports, not an autist, but I don't date and have never had a girlfriend. And that isn't going to change. I get asked at least once a month about this. I can't say why (I have a small penis about 4"), and at 25 people are starting to think I'm gay or something or worse. Any ideas on what I can do to stop this?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why can't you just tell them you have a small penis?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lolwut? I'm not going to tell anyone I have a small penis, except anonymously.

      >mentions height first
      Why do tallgays always think height matters in a relationship? Like it obligates them for pussy or something. Cause if that were the case OP would've been laid by now.

      I'm just saying I'd be considered fairly attractive. If I was 5'6", people would just assume I can't get a girl because I'm short.

      I'm not trying to "get laid". I don't want anyone to see my penis, hence why I don't date. I see escorts a couple of times a month, so I sort-of get breasts and pussy when I need it.

      >I can't say why (I have a small penis about 4")
      Are you circumcised? If so, there's a good chance it stunted the growth of your dick.

      Nope. I'm not israeli, Muslim, or American.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm not going to tell anyone I have a small penis

        Why not? Is it better to be thought of as a homosexual?

        As you know damn well, everyone is starting to assume that you suck wiener. Why not dispel that rumor by owning up to having a microdick? They'll look at you weird for two seconds - and then never ask you any stupid questions again.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >mentions height first
    Why do tallgays always think height matters in a relationship? Like it obligates them for pussy or something. Cause if that were the case OP would've been laid by now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This place psyops socially awkward tall guys into think they'll get a gf just by going outside and then go crazy when they try to grasp with how deficient they must be for not having success.
      >6'5 dude who made it all college struggling with this and then realized it's all horse shit both ways

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Kidnap and rape a girl and hope she thinks you're chad enough to not snitch on you. Also a dick feels 2x bigger for women during rape so don't worry about your 4incher.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't say why (I have a small penis about 4")
    Are you circumcised? If so, there's a good chance it stunted the growth of your dick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Being circumcised wouldn't cause you to have a 4 inch dick unless you were already going to have a less than 5 inch dick. That study you posted a screenshot of shows the difference between newborn circumcised vs. circumcised after the newborn period was 12.97 cm (5.1 inches) vs. 13.75 cm (5.4 inches).

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Same height, but 6.6in. At 29, my parents have already realized it's not happening so they don't ask anymore. My grandpa drunkenly asked me if I'm gay when I was 24. I told him to go frick himself.

    My few friends know I'm a coomer who doesn't want marriage and kids so they realize I have no good reason to chase foids. The one friend I have who has a gf complains about money and freedom and wonders if dealing with his foid is worth the sex he gets.

    >what can I do to stop this.

    It'll stop when you get older, or if you start showing people that you are happy without pussy, like I did.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ask your mom to teach you. Or your uncle.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nobody I know has had a girlfriend in the last four years

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    It's just standards being extremely high. Height and good looks alone won't "carry" you anymore. You have to be extroverted and appear reasonably wealthy as well. That is if you want to get laid with a woman who is reasonably desirable.

    If you're ok with landwhales, old roasties and anything in the 1-6/10 range, you will get signals and even approaches and you might score if you risk and approach. But in my case, I don't want sex/relationships with women I'm not attracted to.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    at this point, I simply avoid most social functions and people. If I do socialize, I avoid the topic or get quiet if people start discussing dating and things. I clam up when asked at social functions or about "past" relationships (nonexistent to me)

    I was getting asked at every single wedding why I never had a date. At first I was honest about it. Would just say it never happened. Never met the right girl, etc. They'd hound me more - it was usually women asking (who had boyfriends, they weren't flirting). I'd elaborate. say I never tried dating, viewed myself as having low worth due to lack of any interest, or that never been approached. people usually lambasted me for never trying, claiming it's a numbers game. they'd blame me entirely in effect. they didn't believe that I had never been approached (I am decently attractive and successful career-wise, while able to feign sociability despite being kinda awkward/nerdy). That or they'd give me empty, remarks that it would happen for me some day (which is meaningless once you hit your 30s and you are a khhv). It's almost pitying.

    I adapted for a while after. I'd make them feel uncomfortable if they kept hounding me about it. I'd throw the question back at them for them to tell me why they think. I'd just become terse. Avoided it.

    I don't really socialize with most my former friends anymore. Most functions became couples types events. Many had kids and started families. I found it impossible to relate to them any longer. They are in a totally different state of their lives - different life experiences. I just work excessively and gym now.

    I could get laid if I wanted to. I don't give a shit about the lack of sex. I want a relationship though, and no woman has ever considered me for a relationship. It's as if I am invisible to women. The only people who hound at times are coworkers or my sister(s). My sister is the worst offender, especially if she is drinking. I don't give an answer any longer.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ever since I was deemed "old enough" to date I have told them I wanted to focus on school and myself.

    I'm reasonably good looking, Light brown hair, blue eyes, 5'3 and a bmi of 18, I have good facial features and decent skin. I take care of myself a lot. I'm rated as a 6-7/10 on average when evaluated by external sources.

    I have had guys pursue me in the past but I just have no interest in relationships. I have never seen the point in being emotionally burdened and responsible for someone's wellbeing for several years only to procreate with them. It's a pointless pursuit. Nowadays I'm blatantly honest with my family and they are aware of my "aromanticism", which made them lay off to a satisfactory degree.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Did you not read the OP? I have a 4 inch dick, I don't want anyone to ever see it not to mention I'd be rejected immediately by 99% of women anyway.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the veganal length of females is on average 3 inches, you will pleasure her. the idea that women only like 8 inches and above is devastatingly invalid. the longest veganal lengths are 5 inches, 8 inches is painful and unnecessary.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm ex-wizard anon. My virgin 4inches made a sloots legs shake. She barely even looked at it anyway, just reached down and put it in.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have a physical and mental block about anyone seeing it. I nearly pissed myself once because I can't use urinals, I could stand there all day and not be able to take my dick out.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Ah, I kinda get that. It probably took until I was like 15-16, maybe later before I could use a urinal. Not because my size, just the idea that someone might glance over at me. I finally realized that no one cares, its just a bathroom.
          I did actually wait until the last minute to take off my drawers and slip under the blanket with her, so she wouldn't get a good look at it, but it also seemed like she didn't really care either.

          Also, did you really get magical powers? Haha.

          I'm technically a virgin, but I've eaten pussy and sucked breasts (escorts/callgirls).

          I kinda think so actually. They say that Issac Newton's proudest achievement on his death bed was a lifetime of celibacy.
          I remember my head was in a fog for several hours after my first make-out session. And now I'm worried that this girl might turn crazy on me now that I agreed to make it official and go steady.
          Its really cramping my style tbqh, I haven't been able to practice my hobbies properly since all this started.
          I can see now why monks are celibate, it helps them focus on more important things. Newton may not have been able to do the work that he did otherwise.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Also, did you really get magical powers? Haha.

        I'm technically a virgin, but I've eaten pussy and sucked breasts (escorts/callgirls).

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Mom sometimes asks me

    I just reply "don't bother me woman" lol

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Please listen to me.

    If a girl likes you, and you are otherwise attractive, then she will not give a shit about your dick size. This is 100% the truth, ignore what these loser virgins here say.

    HOWEVER - it is important that you communicate beforehand that you don't want her to share that with her friends. THIS is what actually makes you uncomfortable, no? You can just date a girl for a while, then when the topic of sex comes up, you can just tell her that you have insecurities. She will most likely be understanding, but then you need to tell her that she shouldn't share this information with anyone.

    There are 100% A LOT of girls out there who legitimately don't like big dicks. They just think that they do, but once they sleep with someone with that feature, it's horrible. Many girls don't even like penetrative sex.

    It's not over for you, live your life, just make a good descision about who you date (don't go for the "wooo" party girls who drink a lot.)

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >HOWEVER - it is important that you communicate beforehand that you don't want her to share that with her friends.

      Immediately after you have that conversation, she will tell her friends.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nice bait, I'm seething.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Seethe, Black.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    god doesn't let me have sex. hes also been giving me concussions every day and raping/strangling me with a ghost. i've spent thousands of hours screaming in agony with no way to die, hes omnipotent.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you fools think i'm making it up. there is a sickening plot twist which will be revealed to you when you turn 25. it involves getting raped and strangled every night until you have a nice day

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    thankfully people don't ask me yet, but if they do ill just say
    >dunno, just haven't met anyone yet

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you deal with family and friends asking why you don't date/haven't got a girlfriend?
    "IDK chief you were there for my whole ass childhood too, take your pick of mental health disorders you've contributed too you goddamn mong."

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >reasonably good looking
    >never had a girlfriend
    These two statements are mutally exclusive. Pick one.
    >Any ideas on what I can do to stop this?
    Tell them to stop gaslighting you.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Not having family that doesn't give a fuk
    Dunno what to tell you.
    >Friends
    Imagine having friends lmao. I watched as our group dwindled and deteriorated as each one got hitched and had kids. Then it was why don't YOU do it? Why can't you see how happy(re: miserable) we are? Women are evil. Plain and simple. Everything good they see they just have to go and frick it up.

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