How do you make women genuinely fall in love with you only based off personality?

How do you make women genuinely fall in love with you only based off personality?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have to love yourself first

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Might as well ask me to jump to the moon.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Better get to steppin' anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So true man. People who just say 'love yourself' are so fricking out of touch. They think it's as easy it's turning on a faucet because they never had to think about it. It's the psychological equivalent of asking someone who's having computer trouble "Is it plugged in? Okay then I don't know"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not out of touch at all. It's not "easy" to love yourself, but it's correct. It's a process that can take years of unravelling mental bullshit, so no, a single post won't "fix you" - it's gonna be harder than that. But let's start anyway by questioning your own assumptions.

          - When you're hungry, what do you do? Go to the kitchen and make something to eat.
          Why? Because eating solves your problem.
          - When you have to shit, what do you do? Go to the toilet.
          Why? Because it solves your problem.
          - When you want to laugh or cheer yourself up, what do you do? You might watch a comedy or cartoon or something.
          Why? Because it solves your problem.

          Ok so:
          When you ???, you "hate yourself" because it solves ???

          So ask yourself: What problem is "self-hate" actually solving in my life?
          What problem in your life is solved by waking up and injecting 50cc's of pure HATRED into your veins daily?
          Does it make you happy?
          Does it help you reach your goals?
          Does it help you maintain friendships?

          If the answers to the above were "no" then ask yourself, "do I need this?"
          Is the self-hate necessary?
          If you eat because you're hungry, and you use a toilet because shitting your pants is uncomfortable... Then what reason are you hating yourself?
          Really examine where that feeling comes from.
          And I don't mean with bullshit vague external answers like "because I'm a failure" (says who?) or "because I'm ugly" (so what?). Like really ask yourself, where does that feeling comes from, internally.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            (2/2)
            You likely won't find an answer.
            At least, I never did in the years I probed for one.
            So then, where does that thought/feeling come from? "I hate myself" is an idea planted in your head from the external world. Maybe shitty parents, maybe shitty classmates in school. I can't say for you. You can dig into your past and figure out where that idea came from if you want to.

            Just like children indoctrinated into a cult, you were indoctrinated into the cult of self hatred and shame. It is not something that came from within you.
            Do you think squirrels walk around carrying self hatred? No. Because they don't have "superiors" in their social structure to instill that idea into them.
            "Self hate" is sort of a weird thing, because it requires all sorts of high-level concepts, like "self" and "other" and broader social context to even make any sense.
            Because like... A moose walking around the woods doesn't hate itself. It just... exists.
            So clearly "self hatred" isn't the natural state of existence - it's something that was added onto your life at some point. And over time, you internalized that idea, just in the same way you learned and absorbed the English language. And just like how you can learn one language, you can learn a new language too.
            And in this sense, we can realize how absurd "self hate" is and identify that it is useless to us, and learn to speak "self love" to ourselves instead.

            I can't possibly fix all your problems. But this might give you (or anyone else reading) a start into where to look.
            A real solution can't be summarized in a post. It takes years and lots of introspection.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Pretty based assessment, thanks for posting this to myself who sometimes struggles with feeling low self worth.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nice, thanks

            No problem. Therapy helps a lot (if you can afford it). It won't solve all your problems, but therapy works exceptionally well for precisely stuff like this: individual internal self perception issues.
            It won't make you an extrovert with a huge dick and an expensive car or something obviously, but you can learn to stop caring about that shit and just learn to live.
            But there's a cool period during/after therapy where you start to learn who the "real me" is and what parts were just the depression/anxiety.
            Like, I tried partying for a while, and even without anxiety I still didn't care for it. But now I know and don't feel like I'm missing out on life anymore. And that sort of stuff is hard to figure out if you've got self doubt, self hate, and fear controlling you at all times.

            If you're interested, try to find a therapist who accepts "sliding scale payment" which means what you pay is based on your income. I was able to get weekly visits for just $25 while working at Target and living out of my car. That was also like a decade ago, so prices may have gone up a bit. But there are affordable options.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nice, thanks

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >So true man. People who just say 'love yourself' are so fricking out of touch. They think it's as easy it's turning on a faucet because they never had to think about it. It's the psychological equivalent of asking someone who's having computer trouble "Is it plugged in? Okay then I don't know"

          I've dealt with self hatred and self loathing for years until recently, you have to be comfortable in your own shoes, women can pick up on that shit even the dumbest ones, once you get comfortable then you just start talking to them and things will evolve from there.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        if you already know why you hate yourself you're halfway towards correcting that situation

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      aaaaabsolutely not true. heard of the sad clown paradox? a big part of what drives me to care about other people's happiness is that I know how it feels to struggle daily with self-approval. hence why some of the blandest stumps you'll ever meet are naturally attractive guys. if they're not morons, they'll usually lean hard into things they're good at so they don't feel like people are just giving them everything.

      >This is wrong. For women it's

      that's not true at all, all the guys I know who are married or in long term relationships are average looking and aren't wealthy, they're just outgoing and people like to be around them

      that's like 90% of the world if you include "healthy". anon is just negative and feels hopeless, something that dieting, exercise, or surgery can fix in most cases. I've got some health stuff that makes me feel that way sometimes, and then I avoid getting it taken care of because I'm afraid I'll be wrong and it won't fix me. the difference is, I'm happy that other people are happy, since I can't seem to produce my own happiness in any lasting way.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cuck

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        it takes a lot of work to get out of that bad head space, going out everyday and talking and hanging out with normies was the best therapy tbh

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you have to "make" them fall in love with you its already over

      have a nice day

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can’t bro. Women are Hypergamous and can’t love a Man in the ideal way he wants. Femoids deal with Men primarily from Briffault’s law and if you can make her pussy tingle right at that moment. The sooner you learn and understand this the better.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Briffaults law
      Explain.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        google it Black person

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Briffault's Law - The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the family can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Men are hypergamous too. We want to horde many women for sure. But we also want someone pretty. Guys often end up with girls more pretty than they are.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Incels have no idea what the word 'Hypergamous' means, post #12,549,045 in a series

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gotta have the right mix of charisma, wit, confidence, compatibility. Depending on the woman, occasional compliments or affirmation also help. Normal women respond well to someone who can be supportive when it matters but no desperation or simping. Severely mentally ill women are a whole other story I would imagine

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Be a good person, stop wanting to make anyone do anything (i e. stop wanting to manipulate people), be warm, compassionate, and wise. Be a good listener, be affirmative without being a prick. Generally, watch the Kdrama 'The King Eternal Monarch' and learn how to be like Lee Gon. He is the perfect man personality wise. He is also beautiful and a literal king tho

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What a woman answer, bravo

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well he asked. Don't ask if you don't want to hear the answer i guess.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          No I think it's great that an actual woman chimed in, thank you for participating. It beats more incels b***hing and moaning, especially when you have such a balanced and normal answer

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ok captain redit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      b***h shut the frick up

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's not love, that's social approval

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Very well.
      How may you inspire a woman to be in an emotional state where she's excited to help a man do chores, be horny for sex with him, and show off how much time they spend together?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >chores
        Did you miss that she wants to marry a king? Do you think queens do chores?

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lift weights for 12 years. This will boost your testosterone which improves your personality.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I jokemaxx until someone falls for me

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Depends entirely on the woman. You can't be an uncharismatic, timid, no confidence bum and there should be a woman out there who will find you attractive or at least convenient for a relationship.

    It's more about what type of woman you want to attract and how do you see yourself in a relationship.

    Want a stable, loving, healthy relationship with a good girl/woman? Then you must be kind, confident, funny, trustful, and honest guy.
    You want a relationship with a crazy, insecure and thrill seeking girl? Then you must be exciting, kind of an butthole and arrogant.
    Want a shy insecure girl who never gets out? You must be indifferent, kinda stoic, milquetoast.

    Women seek very specific thinks, they want a guy who gives them that. They are not like men who kinda adapt to a girl personality based on attraction. You don't need to be charismatic, funny, confident to land a girl, you need to know which type of girl wants the things you already have, that doesn't mean it will land you a happy or healthy relationship but hey, you want a woman no matter what right?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You need at least 7" of personality for this to happen.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >T...that can't b..b...be true, right? It's still possible to find true love when you're only blessed with a 5.5x4.5 personality, e.. everyone knows that

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    just be your good lookin self

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Easy way is somehow (not obviously) get her to talk about her ex's. Then just do the good things they did and none of the bad things. Your personality can be whatever it needs to be.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you cant.

    But you can get a nice gf if you set on approaching every girl u like.

    It may take 10 approaches or 1000 or more.

    But eventually it will happen.

    But nobody wants to do some heavy ass approaches.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >only based off personality
    lol

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      this doesn’t make sense as there are plenty of ugly rich guys who bag hot chicks. The same is true (to an extent) with humor, stop generalizing everybody

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Name five

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Harvey Weinstein
          Salman Rushdie
          Billy Joel
          The guy who impregnated Heidi Klum
          The old fat rich guy who dated Ashley Olsen
          they have the intelligence/wealth factor and are objectively ugly fricks

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Elon Musk, Donald Trump, Jeff Bezos, Adolf Hitler, and Eminem.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >this doesn’t make sense as there are plenty of ugly rich guys who bag hot chicks
        ????
        it's additive, dumbass.
        being ugly but rich is just one step away from success - i.e. have a sense of humor or be remotely intelligent and you're set.

        however what OP was talking about was to succeed with ONLY personality which means you literally only have 1 out of 4 of the desirable traits
        i.e. an auto-lose because you're only at 25%.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Case #1: sugar daddy relationship
        >Case #2: beta provider relationship
        >Case #3: coercing her by leveraging institutional power
        >Case #4: fetishistic relationship that functions as an outlet for her daddy issues and/or poor self esteem
        I can assure you, none of these heckin' 11/10 supermodels who date ugly bastards are genuinely in love with them. Don't fall for the Hollywood meme where the hot girl falls for the ugly, awkward geek.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >pic
      It's the other way around except women don't care about intelligence, swap it for money and it's accurate

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is wrong. For women it's
      >looks + money
      For men it's
      >(looks + intelligence + humor - b***hiness) * libido

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous
        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          that's stupid, Chad is much easier than gross woman

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nope, even fat moids will get more matches on dating apps than Chads. Its not even close.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ok bro.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That is a very beautiful man though anon, like greek statue tier.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >having to reach this bad
            >thinking this disproves anything

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >CCP now actively hiring aryan breeding studs to tackle their demographic problem
            jesus christ.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The only problem with this is that women are biologically programmed to have different goals and values. Giving a woman everything she wants makes her absolutely miserable. It's like giving a goat $1,000,000 and saying it has an easy life. It doesn't. That goat wants to eat weeds and frick other goats, it can't even use money

          >yeah but the goat could use the money to buy food and goat prostitutes
          the goat will literally eat the money because it doesn't know what it is and then die of malnutrition

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >This is wrong. For women it's

        that's not true at all, all the guys I know who are married or in long term relationships are average looking and aren't wealthy, they're just outgoing and people like to be around them

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Shut the frick up

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you just have to spend enough time with one another
    love is just reflection of being around each other and talking to one another enough

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Make her laugh

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You have to be attractive for her to see your persolality

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Personality is not important. As a friend I could love you for just being you. But ultimately romance is about exchange. It is okay to want money, or usefulness out of your partner. I would say, take care of your life first and always be open to a relationship so long as you see yourself growing. Keep your finances, wealth, and so on in the dark. But you need to make sure that she does not doubt your ability to give her a stable life. You should be thinking about that too for yourself when thinking about her.

    Women love personality. Get out there in the world and do lots of social things. Get lots of social practice. Go home find a problem you found in your performance and learn the psychology of why it didn't work. Did you embarrass yourself, did you not get the girl, did the conversation become stale? Who cares, just grow. You'll know lots of people who have some awkward thing about them that they find hard to change, just don't draw attention to it and move on. The best way to do this is frequent a place where there are women you think you will like. Want smarts? Go to university. Want someone fit and health conscious? Go to the gym or a dance class. Any get together really, a café works if you have something to do on your computer, you can meet people there.

    Try to think about what about a mans personality that they would like. They want a provider and someone who is attractive. Can you do impressive things? Are you good at your job? A lot of personality is doing lots of interesting things, or things that improve your life and sharing that information with other people. After all talk is cheap, but doing all of these things and sharing them with other people is more expensive.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This means that you won't repel people because your life is a mess, people don't want to willingly associate with a dumpster fire be able to take care of yourself and the possibility of someone else and people will like your more.
      It means you will never not have things to talk about because there is always something happening in your life.
      It means that you can relate to more people because you do more things.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Quite literally be yourself near someone who would love that person.
    Its been said 19 trillion times in adv itll be said until the sun explodes.
    Its. An. Odds. Game.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hot and cold. Make her angry. If you make a woman get upset or frustrated, you'll live in her head rent free. When you don't do anything she says, she'll keep trying until she makes you. If you guys are dating/in a relationship, and have sex; and you end up being good at sex; now you're the "bad boy" and she'll never want to leave.

    Downside is you'll never be able to be nice to her or she'll cheat. Upside is you might find a genuinely nice girl who loves you if you run through enough women like this.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have a very attractive face and she'll tell you and everyone else that she likes you based off of your personality.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    "Women" are not a gestalt consciousness, dumbfrick.
    If you regularly interact with women you will eventually meet a few women that like your personality.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Source

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      lysanyma, my good man

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    By taking a shower and giving her all your money

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >emotional vulnerability and sensitivity
    Find a balance. Listen to women, but don't let them walk all over you. If you want to try the Ted Bundy route, be present and subtle while experiencing a socially-recognized pain that people can sympathize with. But don't fake walking with a cast or anything: just reveal some of your pain without traumadumping.
    >self-actualization and self-improvement
    Gain confidence and learn how to better fit the moral compass of the type of woman you want.
    >put yourself out there
    Visit more social clubs, volunteering gigs, extracurricular activities, and so on.
    >work on ethos
    Work through your moral complications, and form well-rounded opinions on topics like abortion and transgender rights.
    >gain skills and financial stability/literacy
    These make you more trustworthy and reliable.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

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    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Gain confidence and learn how to better fit the moral compass of the type of woman you want.

      this!

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can't
    Also need horny

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    dick them down until they cum their brains out
    then do it again

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He said personality not dick. You need personality to get them in bed, only then will this technique work

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you make women genuinely fall in love with you only based off personality?

    Poetry. The best answer you will get.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Easy. First you have to realise women are dumb.
    Ok now when you meet one you just have to give her an excuse (in her mind) to frick you. Ie put it in her brain her bf is a bad guy or purely isplate from friends so nobody will know.
    Then frick her. Be rough. Bite, spank, throw her around, little slap on the cheek, definitely choke, hair pull.
    She will be begging to be with you from then on. Honestly, theyll become a pain in the ass after that and its harder to get rid of them.
    For the 1st step an easy way is find someone who is an foreigner. They dont care what their new friends think. Thats why pulling the fake your leaving etc. Works as women get the excuse to frick you. Same why they are easy on holiday.
    On the 2nd step. Just fricking do it. Really throw a girl around. It might seem odd the first time but after that youll get used to it.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    be mysterious. go out on a date and just stare at her. Never speak. Just be mysteriyous

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      kek, wonder if it works approaching women like that. Don't say anything just stare into their soul.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Become a PUA

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Read the bible and really do and believe not in a lame way

    Watch lots of cool movies with masculine characters

    Stop giving a shit

    Get cooler clothes

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Go watch Beauty and the Beast. You gotta kidnap her dad, blackmail her, lock her up instead, starve and threaten her until she starts to see past your rough exterior.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just bee yourself

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >personality

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ah so it appears due to this correlation, looks is personality, hmm. But I'm an ugly frick and I get chicks anon.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Congratulations, you can add your singular data point to the graph. I'm sure it'll make a big difference.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The real question is, we know the correlation but what's the cause?

      >being a bad person makes you uglier (facial contortion, not respecting your own health and well being, having a poor diet, etc)
      >the two are simply biologically linked (we evolved to identify bad character traits and interpret them as physical ugliness)
      >we started treating ugly people bad for no reason and that made them bitter and resentful

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well I can't tell you how to do that, but I can tell you that if you want that, you shouldn't play the game in other words picking up hot chicks because of money or like work/field status. You have to stand on your own two legs outside of money, and outside the status an organization gives to you your intelligence, your looks, etc. But you know in this wiener-gobbling-consoom hellhole most guys only get their weewee wet because of their betabuxx.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll give you the darkside abusechadd strat. Find chick with mental issues/ from bad home, even better if she's already been subject and sticks with cult-conditioning from a religion her whole life. Fall into the traditional man archetype, gaslight her to hell and back, throw your wallet at her, throw out your guilt-trips and your bootstrap stories deploy them whenever you think you'll get what you want from the situation. Remember when you're an abusechad words have no meaning they're just shit you throw out and cycle through until you pick the lock. Profit by banging a nutcase and having offspring with them but remember, she's as fricked as you and she'll leave you the second you have no munniez.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Keep her on edge 24/7 and in the house so she becomes so fricked in the head from stress and lack of other human contact she'll fall for your tricks. Gaslight her into having your kids, everytime she starts realizing too much add something new to the mix. Another baby, another, a dog, some stupid vacation. Rinse and repeat you can do a similar thing for druggy girls but with drugs.

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