How do you stop being invisible to women?

Despite all the efforts I've made to improve myself, to "make the most of the hand I've been dealt", I am still completely invisible to women. They don't notice or care that I exist, presumably because of my shitty genetics or fate, or whatever deterministic force beyond my control. I've been forced to watch as every other douchebag gets a gf without trying, while I'm forced to rot in loneliness. What was even the point of being born?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just be tall, handsome, fair skinned, deep voiced, thick wristed, broad shouldered, rich, intelligent man and don't be indian saaar

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm white, 6'1, work out regularly, but even that isn't enough to get noticed by women these days.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/7qbGjcv.png

        Despite all the efforts I've made to improve myself, to "make the most of the hand I've been dealt", I am still completely invisible to women. They don't notice or care that I exist, presumably because of my shitty genetics or fate, or whatever deterministic force beyond my control. I've been forced to watch as every other douchebag gets a gf without trying, while I'm forced to rot in loneliness. What was even the point of being born?

        Do you have a Job?
        Do you have a social circle?
        Do you make attempts to talk to women?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >6'1
        the average dutch zoomie is atleast 6'3. get gud.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah I'm aware that 6'1 is for all intents and purposes a manlet now.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            totally not manlet brotha, especially in places like murrica where the average white male is 5'10-5'11, it's just that woman want the top 10%.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it's just that woman want the top 10%.
            Yeah, that's what I meant. There is really no difference between 6'1 or 5'10.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like an autism problem.

        In my experience, it's hard to outlift that flavor of mental illness.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          OP is correct that free will does not exist. Your choices are dictated by desires that you cannot control.
          >b-but I can simply choose something I don’t want to do.

          So let’s take working out for an example. You naturally don’t want to workout, but you want bigger muscles, therefore your desire for bigger muscles outweighs your desire to not workout. In the end, you are still following your desire, and you can never choose your desire because when you go far back enough, your desire is simply a matter of ‘because I want it’

          Now, OP is likely autistic, he is tall, maybe average in the face but whatever, that should be sufficient enough to get a girlfriend. Yet he does not have one. Like someone suggested, he is probably autistic. He probably rarely talks to women or interacts with them, and his neurological structure is so damaged and different that he cannot probably CLICK in social situations.
          The only way to improve this is to interact with more women maybe

          I work in customer service, I have to deal with people regularly and have glowing reviews online for being super helpful and professional. I'm no sperg.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i am similar like

      I'm white, 6'1, work out regularly, but even that isn't enough to get noticed by women these days.

      6'2, fit...and yet, i am never getting notced...it's so fricking weird...only dudes check me out and this sounds super gay, but they are probably just assessing threats and if they could fight me (i do lift)

      maybe that anon and me and many others in our situation are just TOO handsome and thus intimidating...remember that manliness is being attacked for a good decade now and masculine men have a bad reputation...and women celebrate their indepence and society in general is getting more and more feminized...it all adds up, so manly men who could score easily in the past are getting left behind and wonder: wtf is going on?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >assessing threats and if they could fight me (i do lift)
        that's projection on your part

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          maybe. but why do only dudes check me out? it's pretty normal for men to assess threats like a tall and fit dude like me...we are hardwired to check for potential threats..and women are just too intimated to flirt with a gorilla like me

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >maybe that anon and me and many others in our situation are just TOO handsome and thus intimidating
        Yeah no
        If that were the case, even of women reject you or whatever, they'd still check you out.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This but unironically. Anyone with a gf or wife never had to try. They simply existed and got one.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >shitty genetics
    >fate
    >beyond my control
    Frick you. You are a cowarly piece of shit who blames everyone except the actual person responsible: yourself.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are you going to deny that we live in a deterministic universe?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I make my own choices. I have free will. You do as well. Are you saying you're not responsible for any of your life choices?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You THINK you make your own choices, but those choices are dictated by a myriad of antecedental factors.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Then why even make this thread? Why ask for advice? If it's all predetermined why do you bother.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you really thought this was true, then you would think there was absolutely nothing you could do to stop being invisible to women, because it was all pre-ordained.
            So that being the case...why bother making the thread?

            Why do people complain about anything that's beyond their control?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nothing in this thread is beyond anyone's control though. OP is just a pathological liar.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Nothing in this thread is beyond anyone's control though.
            Based on what? Do you honestly believe that attracting women is within ANYONE's power or you are just another dishonest shitposter?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I do attract women. Why is that?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you really thought this was true, then you would think there was absolutely nothing you could do to stop being invisible to women, because it was all pre-ordained.
        So that being the case...why bother making the thread?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Are you going to deny that we live in a deterministic universe?

        Are you able to prove that we live in a deterministic one? Because if we did then time travel wouldn't be impossible.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're not invisible. I can guarantee they notice you. But if you get nowhere it's because you unconsciously broadcast vibes of "Don't bother with me. I'm not worth your time."

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ask OP if he has ever asked a girl out. Or even talked to one.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >approach woman
        >a week later she decides she didn't like the conversation, reports you for sexual harassment, you lose your scholarship/get banned from the premises
        Yeah...

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          None of this happened though, including your dumb ass ever having a scholarship.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >let me tell you about your life
            Guys have absolutely had their lives ruined for flirting with women, you gas lighting homosexual.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lying homosexual.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/mans-life-destroyed-following-classmates-false-rape-allegation/news-story/05ba6eeffae4791c3b99993634afa226
            Cope, simp. She's not gonna frick you because you defended her honour online

            >Guys
            Have YOU?
            And yeah, guys have had their lives ruined when they either seriously pushed their luck or their advances were not wanted to begin with.

            Yes. I've chatted up girls in school and got openly laughed at in public for "thinking I had a chance with her".

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Guys
            Have YOU?
            And yeah, guys have had their lives ruined when they either seriously pushed their luck or their advances were not wanted to begin with.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How can you guarantee that? Sounds like an overly optimist assumption and not a realist one

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao. Yeah, that female intuition is really something. Funny how it doesn't work to weed out cheaters, bigamists, and wife beaters.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP is correct that free will does not exist. Your choices are dictated by desires that you cannot control.
    >b-but I can simply choose something I don’t want to do.

    So let’s take working out for an example. You naturally don’t want to workout, but you want bigger muscles, therefore your desire for bigger muscles outweighs your desire to not workout. In the end, you are still following your desire, and you can never choose your desire because when you go far back enough, your desire is simply a matter of ‘because I want it’

    Now, OP is likely autistic, he is tall, maybe average in the face but whatever, that should be sufficient enough to get a girlfriend. Yet he does not have one. Like someone suggested, he is probably autistic. He probably rarely talks to women or interacts with them, and his neurological structure is so damaged and different that he cannot probably CLICK in social situations.
    The only way to improve this is to interact with more women maybe

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Doesn't approach women
    >Doesn't flirt with women
    >Doesn't ask women out
    >"I'm invisible"

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If women don't signal any interest in you, then you're just wasting your time and only setting yourself up for public shame and humiliation.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Approaching women in the PUA definition this board uses of "asking women outside your social circle on dates" is largely a fools errand. It's irl Tinder, and the (lack of) results and endless b***hing demonstrates this.

      Have single attractive female friends and do those things at parties or other get togethers. This is what guys that actually frick do, if they aren't hot enough that dating apps work.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      women don't want get approached by a random stranger in a supermarket or on the streets or the way too somewhere else

      and even i as a man, i hate it when some random person approaches me on the street. most people just want to mind their own business.

      you have to be in the right setting, in a bar or club, and then scan the location and look for signs of interest in your person, and then make your move.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If women aren't approaching you, that's a sign they aren't interested. The boomer normie advice is just a cop out because they don't want to tell you the real truth. We're just fricking ugly.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just take a shower, get a haircut and be yourself bro

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    even attractive men have to pursue women
    women do not approach 90+% of men.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >even attractive men have to pursue women

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You're forgetting though anon, you know nothing about women OR about being attractive. So what the frick would you know?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What the frick do YOU know, anon?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well let's see, I have a lot of experience with women and I am actually attractive, so uh a lot more than you, obviously?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cool story bro.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Genetics or money

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