how does a female loser get a boyfriend?

shes brown, has short hair, doesnt like showering, a shut in, likes anime/manga and games, virgin, socially incompetent, shes 18-20 years old.

how can such a woman find loyal love and possible intercourse (combined)?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    take showers and talk to men, simple as

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this female in question has a very, very low social stat. but lets say hypothetically she magically improved it, where does she find a possible boyfriend?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Men care way, way less about social status than women do. Many, if not most, do not care at all.

        If you are looking for a nerd guy there are nerd spaces out there. Hobby shops, conventions, whatever. In some ways the internet is a lot easier because it's just faster to get in and around spaces but it's harder in that there will be a lot more of 'those' men.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          the female already goes to such places. what online spaces do you have in mind?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not here. Social media places where its normal for people to upload pictures of themselves and their things and it's easy to contact them. Places like facebook or myspace used to be. Facebook is probably a bad example cuz it's for old people. But I don't know where the kids hang today. Shouldn't be too hard to figure since there is only like a dozen social websites that are not ghost towns.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            thats a bit nerve-wrecking too, but i might try that in the future.

            thanks for all the advice so far

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          pretty much, any Games Workshop or tabletop games or 40k store would have like 99% single men in it, and they probably have good jobs and big wieners. Did I mention I was thinking about going to one of those?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            alright, the female in question shall try to go to such places alone in hopes to increase her chances of getting a possible boyfriend. what then?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            When at such places engage in the hobby first and use it as a going off point to talk to people. If you find someone you like talk with them more and do more activities such as video games. Also take a fricking shower.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Men care way, way less about social status than women do. Many, if not most, do not care at all.

      If you are looking for a nerd guy there are nerd spaces out there. Hobby shops, conventions, whatever. In some ways the internet is a lot easier because it's just faster to get in and around spaces but it's harder in that there will be a lot more of 'those' men.

      this seems like irresponsible advice for a socially incompetent/inexperienced girl.
      i think girls who use male dating strategies are more likely to end up in abusive relationships or with some neurotic frickhead.
      OP asked how to find "loyal love", which if you're a girl is much more difficult than finding sex. i suggest people post with this in mind.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Take showers, go outside or talk in places dedicated to people in your area
        You have to become someone worthy of love before seeking it

        Finding loyal love is hard regardless
        My mom left her husband for my dad then fricked the neighbour for a year after being married for 25 to my dad before getting kicked out by the neighbour.
        Both of my brothers got cheated on in long term relationships

        You can't just "find" loyal love, you find love and go from there

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Just because bad things can happen no matter what doesn’t mean you should ignore the risks of being reckless.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're a fricking moron man. All you gotta do is lower your standards and actually talk to the guys before you meet them in real life. There's a fricking male loneliness epidemic even among the most respectful members of society. But women get "trapped" in abuse cycles because they aren't willing to date the ugly and short guys. If a somewhat attractive tall guy is prowling on a dating app for ugly girls, then he's probably an abuser. Just lower your standards, even just a little, and you'll unlock a whole new world

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >male loneliness epidemic
          I keep hearing about this and my only conclusion is too many men have become women. No one gives a shit, least of all other men. Stop whining like a little shit.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ladies and Gentlemen, a man with b***h think

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She's typical of every autistic woman that's 'lonely', I just ignore em at this point because they run off like scared little children whenever you give them what they wanted such as attention.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The last thing that society needs is people lowering their standards even more.
          Sure, nobody, man or woman, should put up with an atrocious personality or immorality because of superficial attractiveness. But those are independent things.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Frick off c**t
            Men have lowered their standards for decades while women's have gone up.
            Lower yours willingly before you will be forced to do it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You can't really force people to like things they don't like, many people if given the option would stay single over forcing themselves to go with someone they're not attracted to. You can't blame people for what they are (not) attracted to either, only blame them if they complain about not having it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not forcing anything
            But in the long run society will swing back so hard and or be in such hardship that women's hypergamy will be knocked down significantly.

            >Mato Seihei

            YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
            (Kyouka, Bell, and Fubuki are better though)
            Also no one I know cares about a girls status. In fact it makes a girl more picky and potentially annoying since you have to compete with her achievements. That stuff is a straight up pain in the arse.
            Hell, I watched a vtuber talk about how she used to not even want to clean her room and found her condition more cute than anything else.
            So long a she remains affectionate, loyal, and kind and isn't ugly due to her own negligence. Something can be made to work.

            New chapter this friday brother.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a man.
            Men having low standards is a huge part of this mess. It also contributes to the subset of superficial women having astronomically high (physical/material) standards, because there's always another desperate horndog ready to date the serial cheater with STD's.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't be brown, if brown becomes morbidly obease because that's in style for some god forsaken reason.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the female cant stop being brown and shes not morbidly obese. any other advice?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >the female cant stop being brown
        It's over.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          it is what it is

          Find a twink with low self esteem and a need to be stepped on/dominated
          Make him dependent on you and convince him that nobody will ever love him except for you. Make sure to peg and degrade him so that he doesn't forget his place and he will never leave you

          thats not loyal love, anon. that sounds like mind control

          I met this girl online. She was friendly and cool. We met near Los Angeles where she lived. I stayed a few days.

          She told me she had some condition where her pussy didnt open up for sex. So even though she wanted to try, it hurt her. She told me to look for some type of lube and i grabbed some shit on her bathroom sink. Apparently it had alcohol in it because she started freaking out "AHHHH IT HURTS!!!" so we didnt talk anymore and went to bed. I left early the next morning.
          That was fricking weird

          im not from america nor live there

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Find a twink with low self esteem and a need to be stepped on/dominated
    Make him dependent on you and convince him that nobody will ever love him except for you. Make sure to peg and degrade him so that he doesn't forget his place and he will never leave you

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I met this girl online. She was friendly and cool. We met near Los Angeles where she lived. I stayed a few days.

    She told me she had some condition where her pussy didnt open up for sex. So even though she wanted to try, it hurt her. She told me to look for some type of lube and i grabbed some shit on her bathroom sink. Apparently it had alcohol in it because she started freaking out "AHHHH IT HURTS!!!" so we didnt talk anymore and went to bed. I left early the next morning.
    That was fricking weird

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    are you Hot ? if yes you can date me
    *guy in pic is me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      im most likely very average looking. however, the thought of possibly dating a random anon is a bit nerve-wrecking

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >doesnt like showering
    red flag

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      rude

      Showering and going outside.
      Growing out her hair (if not black) or styling it (black).
      Dating accomplished men within her race (otherwise inviting coomers and/or unhealthy dynamics), which requires not being a bawd. Guys who push for sex as a precondition for a relationship should be avoided, not pandered to.

      so once i shower and simply go outside more ill get a boyfriend? will he approach me? this plan seems a bit unsteady. id like to lose my virginity to a man ill be with forever

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        99% chance this is a larp, but if not, you sound severely autistic, and I worry that someone will take advantage of you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          thats quite mean, what made you say that?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >so once i shower and simply go outside more ill get a boyfriend? will he approach me? this plan seems a bit unsteady. id like to lose my virginity to a man ill be with forever

        I'll be dead in a few decades anyway so we can go travel the country and have fun.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Showering and going outside.
    Growing out her hair (if not black) or styling it (black).
    Dating accomplished men within her race (otherwise inviting coomers and/or unhealthy dynamics), which requires not being a bawd. Guys who push for sex as a precondition for a relationship should be avoided, not pandered to.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Guys who push for sex as a precondition for a relationship should be avoided, not pandered to.

      Why though? What happens if you just want something casual and then the other person later on wants a relationship?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >What happens if you just want something casual and then the other person later on wants a relationship?
        depends if the other person went to casual >>> serious.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    nvm youre too young, i dont go below 21-23

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What?

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Try getting more used to talking to people, try adding strangers on discord or even more anonymous apps like session but you'd have to ask someone for their tag because they are really unique, like mine is:

    0506752a33bcbfc053bc036bc070bb4074396f2ef2220f17b91d7ec1e0b57cdf00

    All in all, get your feet wet with socializing and then move from there! Good luck.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i made an account, how do i add people? this is making me a bit nervous though

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's like an old fashioned message board, you click the speech bubble then the plus in the top right and copy paste someones code, mine is

        0506752a33bcbfc053bc036bc070bb4074396f2ef2220f17b91d7ec1e0b57cdf00

        for example. You can also be added to groups, if you want I can invite you to a few smallish groups so you can get used to socialising more. If thats something you want you can add me and we can go from there.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i tried, it didnt work

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry! I thought you were talking about Session my discord is:

            exuberant_peawiener_56022_98226

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Theres nothing to be nervous about, just take things at your own pace. Theres no pressure.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          thats reassuring, thank you

          my bad, those seem a bit 'scary'

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Use literally any dating app. You will be inundated with options.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1. go on dating apps and go through the chores of date after date till you find someone atleast somewhat okay
    2. speak to your male friends that you may be attracted to

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >shes 18-20 years old.
    that makes up for the rest

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >18-20 years old
    get a 30 year old boyfriend who will shape you into a good wife

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    SHOWER!
    TAKE
    A
    FRICKING
    SHOWER
    THIS IS NOT OPTIONAL
    outside of that she is pretty much set if she cares to look somewhat decent. being into anime and vidya basically means she has a shitton of possible topics to talk about with a guy. attend local places that are dedicated to a hobby or work somewhere where you can meet a lot of young people (for instance: cinema). you'll inevitably get approached at one point

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >loyal love and possible intercourse (combined)?
    The first requires friendship to begin with. The second any man will willingly provide, just don't expect to see him again.
    In this case I would suggest said female get off her fat arse and attend the next "anime/manga and games" convention which exists within 1 hour travel, and while there socialize with other similar losers where possible, possibly after a gin or two (but no more than that).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      problem is most weebs want a 12 yr old e-girl gf from japan

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >hurr all weebs are e-girlgays
        Give me a woman like this

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Mato Seihei

          YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
          (Kyouka, Bell, and Fubuki are better though)
          Also no one I know cares about a girls status. In fact it makes a girl more picky and potentially annoying since you have to compete with her achievements. That stuff is a straight up pain in the arse.
          Hell, I watched a vtuber talk about how she used to not even want to clean her room and found her condition more cute than anything else.
          So long a she remains affectionate, loyal, and kind and isn't ugly due to her own negligence. Something can be made to work.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I can smell the virginity and/or broken home from across the pond

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >anon talking in a forum full of virgins
            i mean...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Virgin? Why yes, but who cares about that~

            Kyouka is a top tier choice so don't be talkin shit about that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Where do you think you are motherfricker?
            Mato threads on NSFFW always hit bump limit for a reason, because Mato is fricking good

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll be your bf if you're cute and funny.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Go to the gym and get in decent shape
    >learn to cook
    >clean yourself
    >be receptive to most men, not just chad.
    >make your hair either long or try to go for a nerdy tomboy look
    >be pleasant
    And if you aren't fat and since you're 18-20 and a virgin, you pretty much are a top pick, no offense, white women are still going to outrank you, but I have found some great looking brown women.
    But if you're a Black, well... tough luck. You'll still have an easier time than men who have more SMV than you.
    Also you like anime and vidya so you made yourself more of a catch as well
    Seriously lady, if you still can't find a man, it's 100% your fault, because men at least have things they can't control that makes it harder to get women.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women just have to exist to get men. Men pursue women. It's the law of nature. It's how it goes, and reflected in the sexual act itself. Maybe she is around men who are too wimpy to actually ask her out but I guarantee that dudes are interested in her.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >get hygiene in check
    >if fat, lose weight
    >actually go outside bruh

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    grow your hair out, go outside

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you just described the qualities of a perfect vtuber. Just give up and become one. Along the way, groomers will flood your chat so you just pick one of them and cuck your entire audience

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    is she thin?

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