How does it feel to be a submissive man in a world where it is heavily frowned upon? What is your dating life like?

How does it feel to be a submissive man in a world where it is heavily frowned upon?
What is your dating life like?
What made you this way?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    where's the line between "submissive" and just "doesn't have strong preferences"?

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  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How does it feel to be a submissive man in a world where it is heavily frowned upon?
    Bad.
    >What is your dating life like?
    Nonexistent outside of e-dating.
    >What made you this way?
    Being abused, if I had to guess.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just don't date. I'm not normal enough to be in a relationship with anyone, and if I met someone weir enough to be in a relationship with I wouldn't want it anyway. I will be alone. When my immediate family dies I'll know true isolation. And that's ok. I have enough self awareness to understand.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Man I might be a lot of things...
    >Autistic
    >Cringe
    >Ugly
    But I will always be thankful that I never fell into the massive pit of simpering homosexualry that is "Submissive men". Holy shit, it must be the most embarrassing thing in the world to identify as a submissive man

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What I've discovered is that you can be autistic, cringe, and ugly and still pull girls. But submissiveness is the one thing EVERY girl dislikes. It's 100% universal, not even 99.9%. That shit is hardwired into the female brain. If you are a sub male never ever admit to it or give off hints that you're a sub.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >the one thing EVERY girl dislikes. It's 100% universal, not even 99.9%
        Good.
        Honestly I even hate submissive men working on my team since they are absolutely the worst people to make important decisions when they need to be made.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not true I love my cute subby bf

        >How does it feel to be a submissive man in a world where it is heavily frowned upon?
        Ehh, okay-ish. People can really hurt you if they're bullies

        >What is your dating life like?
        Decent. I've embraced my femininity and that makes me stand out. Also helps if youre funny, i don't what I'd do if i wasn't funny and/or confident.

        >What made you this way?
        I think i was born with the predisposition to be a little b***h

        Are femininity and submissiveness directly connected in your mind? One thing that has always bothered me as a dom woman is how often times femininity is equated to something humiliating or weak.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Are femininity and submissiveness directly connected in your mind?
          nta but yes.
          also femininity is not humiliating the vast majority of the time

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >but yes.
            Why?
            >also femininity is not humiliating the vast majority of the time
            Femininity is not humiliating at all, but so much of the cale centered male focused (90% of femdom) have made it into a tool for humiliation fetishes.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Neither of those anons, but submissiveness is obviously a disproportionately female trait.
            >Femininity is not humiliating at all
            When you grow up being shamed by both women and men for exhibiting feminine behavior it is. I can't see it as not humiliating. Luckily I developed a fetish for being humiliated.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Why?
            Nearly all women are submissive, hence the connection.
            >Femininity is not humiliating at all, but so much of the cale centered male focused (90% of femdom) have made it into a tool for humiliation fetishes.
            Depends on the level of it; doing the femdom adjacent stuff is obviously a tool for humiliation because it's so far off the beaten (accepted) path, whereas slightly feminine traits might get someone teased, but are generally innocuous

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. Some traits correlate with femininity, not just the cultural things we have learnt to associate with femininity but also agreeableness, extraversion, neuroticism, openess.

          You don't have to engage in activities where your submissiveness will hinder you. I just naturally don't wanna have conflict with people and pick friends who don't walk over me. Play to your strengths

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Are those traits inherent to women or a result of female socialization?

            Neither of those anons, but submissiveness is obviously a disproportionately female trait.
            >Femininity is not humiliating at all
            When you grow up being shamed by both women and men for exhibiting feminine behavior it is. I can't see it as not humiliating. Luckily I developed a fetish for being humiliated.

            Thats all cultural. There is nothing inherently humiliating that comes from being a female.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Inherent in a sense that youre more likely to have these traits if youre a woman. We can and have measured this. Doesn't mean though that there can't be women who are more masculine than an average man

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My boyfriend is completely traditionally masculine but still prefers to let me lead in the relationship (in all aspects not just sexually) these traits are not connected to gender. It is dependent on the person.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Happy wife happy life. Wouldn't equate that situation with being submissive

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because I do not want to go into explicit detail about our sex lives. But he wants me to own him completely and use his body as I please for example. He is my good boy, he lets me do that because of trust. Not weird gendered power dynamics.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            sexual fantasies and "fetishes" are a completely different beast. I would be very careful drawing parallels between personality and those things. who knows where he acquired that stuff. sexual preferences are messy and complicated.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >these traits are not connected to gender
            You do realize you're an outlier here, right?
            These traits are absolutely connected to sex, just not in your specific instance

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If women were naturally submissive we would not need things like laws, physical violence, and religion to constantly subjugate us. Its socialization.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's a huge leap. Innate submissiveness does not mean complete submission or docility.
            Socialization plays a part, but nature factors in as much or more than nurture here.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Thats all cultural. There is nothing inherently humiliating that comes from being a female.
            Nothing is "inherently" humiliating, it's always culturally relative and so you cannot remove that context.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Nothing is "inherently" humiliating
            being a cuckold will always be humiliating tho

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I hate cucks, frick them.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    surprised there aren't more posters, given we're on NSFFW and all

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Submissive? Dominant? I just do both. I've dripped precum from getting my ass fricked and I've dripped from squeezing hands around a woman's throat. Why limit myself? I can be everything.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      are you literally me? based hands typed this post there is nothing like domming my girl while she's diddling my butthole
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  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finding a good partner is hard as a dom woman too. Given the imbalance, you have a bunch of really desperate and horny men who want to treat you as a kink dispenser trying to talk to you. I am glad I found my perfect boy pet though

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    at some point, something is funny

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How does it feel to be a submissive man in a world where it is heavily frowned upon?
    Ehh, okay-ish. People can really hurt you if they're bullies

    >What is your dating life like?
    Decent. I've embraced my femininity and that makes me stand out. Also helps if youre funny, i don't what I'd do if i wasn't funny and/or confident.

    >What made you this way?
    I think i was born with the predisposition to be a little b***h

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nature and nurture ofcourse. Youre born with a set of predispositions and through maturing, some traits will be amplified and some will be suppressed, depending on your aptitudes.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Love it. I stay home and cook and clean and my nip D cup gf works and pays the bills. I massage her and suck her clit on a regular basis and she lets me sniff her feet and jerk off. It's heaven, honestly. I'm working up the courage to tell her she can start fricking other guys, too. I want her to get a Chad bf who creampies her so that I can go and lick it up after.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My girlfriend digs it.
    She's Filipina, and a head shorter than me. But loves the role of being the dominant in the bedroom.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Good in a way. I can be proud of the fact that I was truly born different.
    Non existent, though I'm content as I am right now and not making any efforts to change it.
    Idk but I like to imagine I was born

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