How to better my chances on dating apps

I need help bros

I'm trying to put myself out there on dating apps since they're are literally zero women in any of my classes or workplace. I'm a 5,8, 19 year old, khhv and have no idea how to put myself out there and was wondering if any robots had cheat codes tha helped them.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're 19, no women are going to go for you bro. Lift weights and focus on your career for a couple years. Your competition are men ages 20-25

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly I don't think I have the time or energy for weightlifting right now. I'll give it a shot though, hour workout saturday and Sunday could be doable

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >BRO BRO JUST WORKOUT AND FOCUS ON YOUR CARRER TILL YOUR OLD AND GREY AND MAYBE THEN YOU CAN GET CHADS LEFTOVERS

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Get nice pictures taken by another person
    >Get nice clothes
    >Have hobbies
    >Have some contrast within your hobbies, clothes etc so you spike some interest

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Can you show some pictures of "nice" clothes because I would rather not overdressed and look like a dork

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You really just gotta try out what style fits you the best. Pick out a direction you wanna go for like casual and then just try

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I've thought of going for a more bookish fashion choice, I can give it a shot and experiment.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Do it. Took me years to find my style and I used to dress like a complete autist, but its worth it. Dressing good is a massive confidence boost and so are the compliments you get. Also try out different hairstyles and beards (unless you already got that figured out)

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The answer is the same as it has always been.
    Go on Grindr and get TOPPED

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Shut the frick up degenerate

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        it's degenerate to use dating apps at all. go outside you moron, nobody is going to match with you on a cuck app.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Not op but I agree.
          On tinder, you need to mog most chads. You need to be the literal 1% plus your pics have to be good.
          The question is, how does one approach a girl irl without seeming like a creep? Most of those cold approaches I see online are cringeyand you really need looks to pull it off plus I don't see any girls my age even in the city.
          I saw a thread a while back saying that girls basically dissappear in their early 20s and reappear in their middle ages and it really is starting to feel like that for me.
          I just want a gf.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >cold approaches
            >tinder
            YOU PEOPLE ARE FRICKING FRICKED IN THE HEAD, WHAT THE FRICK IS WRONG WITH YOU?

            you do not want a girlfriend, stop pretending like you have any fricking interest when the best you can come up with is le cold pua approach and swiping on some photos on your phone, piece of dog shit i am mad

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well jackass since you have all the "correct" answers how about you spill the beans then

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's spill the tea, not spill the beans, boomer.
            There are stages in life. There are subcultures and traditions in your country. If you want to be closer to one (1) woman intimately and romantically, then you should probably have a lifestyle that tends to bring you closer to women. The only tea I can spill without knowing what you're doing (other than being a total fricking moron that avoids women), is that you need a foundation, a network, a common interest that introduces you to the type of woman that you can see yourself being with on a regular basis, like until you have a solid social circle it should be new introductions every day or every other day.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what 100 failed cold approaches does to a man

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Another issue is that women have stigmatized cold approaching period. Sure that girl in the office or in the cafe is cute but I'd rather not catch a case. Best case scenario she says yes to a date or gives you her number(and that could go good or bad) wors case you get the cops called on you. It's not worth the risk.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Creepy men stigmatized it, honestly. Most women like to be approached in a social environment but you probably think it has to do with looks. You're not just risking the cops being called, someone like you would be risking instant death from an act of god.

            Just go to concerts or house parties and you'll be fine.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yes anon it does deal with looks. The halo/horns effect is very much a real thing. I'm no looker myself and would rather not risk cold approaching
            >concerts
            >house parties
            Forgot to mention I'm autistic so I could only do houseparties, and honestly I don't know how I'd even get invited. Do I just find one?

            It's spill the tea, not spill the beans, boomer.
            There are stages in life. There are subcultures and traditions in your country. If you want to be closer to one (1) woman intimately and romantically, then you should probably have a lifestyle that tends to bring you closer to women. The only tea I can spill without knowing what you're doing (other than being a total fricking moron that avoids women), is that you need a foundation, a network, a common interest that introduces you to the type of woman that you can see yourself being with on a regular basis, like until you have a solid social circle it should be new introductions every day or every other day.

            I see your a moron and did not read my original post. Im 19 and they're zero women in my college classes and the closest women in my workplace are a department away and several decades older than me. The closest woman in my age group is several departments away and I see her twice a week at most.

            Dating apps suck yes, it is common knowledge but I don't have a choice. If your just gonna ree like a moron instead of giving advice to help than frick off

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >classes
            >work
            You are a moron and I truly hope you never figure it out. Dating is not always supposed be convenient. How fricking stupid are you holy shit. When you date a girl do you expect to just go to college classes with her all day? degenerate c**t.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >get invited
            Since you are autistic which just really means low IQ, you should not get invited. How do you get invited to buy groceries by the way? Do your parents do that for you?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yes yes I'm a complete drooling moron because I struggle with socialization. Having my parents fill out this captcha rn as I bang my helmeted head against a wall.

            >classes
            >work
            You are a moron and I truly hope you never figure it out. Dating is not always supposed be convenient. How fricking stupid are you holy shit. When you date a girl do you expect to just go to college classes with her all day? degenerate c**t.

            Ok you seem to be missing the point. Your raging like troony about how I need to meet and connect with women the old fashioned way and how dating apps are terrible and degenerate. I'm telling you there are no women for me to connect with, and I'm not completely changing my major or my job just to get some.

            Honestly just from how you type and act you sound like you yourself outta touch some grass. Last (you)

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It would be funny if you have this much conviction about how to meet women while being some clueless moron that resorts to dating apps and talking about college classes. Some people just choose to be alone I guess.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            2/10 bait, really boring and needs work.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You are missing the point. Some idiot from earlier was claiming that he doesnt know how to meet women, in a time where its easier than ever to meet a lot of people

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Apart from some awkward back and forth and her dropping hints to go away, the cops won't be called. That's just you overthinking.
            Aslong as your average looking, not a sperg and have good hygiene, you might get lucky.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm ugly and a sperg. I do have good hygiene though mainly due to how I was raised

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So first you should have a little more self-awareness, you ask for advice on dating apps when really you just want advice for meeting women in general. Being honest with yourself and how you present yourself to others is socially important and requires self-confidence and security. If you're not confident or secure in who you are it's likely because you're not living up to your own expectations. Get some discipline and improve the areas you're dissatisfied with, and own who you are.
    You're in uni, so this is really one of the easiest times you will ever have meeting women. No women in your classes is no problem, plenty of college bars/clubs near you. Get a fake ID and go with some buddies, if you see a girl you think is pretty, go pay her a compliment and ask if you can get her a drink. Conversation points are built in in college (what's your major? where are you from? yadda yadda). EZPZ
    Cold approaching anywhere not at a place that is designed for men and women to meet each other is moronic, so don't do that unless you're already getting strong signs from a girl that she's into you, which is already far from cold-approaching.
    If you're bad at socializing, practice that and making some friends/meeting people before you go for a gf. All that takes is talking with others with a sense of self-awareness, look for what people positively and negatively respond to (which will differ on a case-by-case basis, but you'll learn certain types and learn to recognize indicators of them), and do more of what they like and less of what they don't. That's just acting with consideration.
    Finally, no girl is going to be physically attracted to you if you're unhealthy or slovenly. If you're fat lose weight, and if you're skinny build muscle. Look at the people around you to learn what's in and pick some decent clothes that fit you (if you're unsure how to recognize what a good fit looks like, you can ask the employees at any decent clothing store for advice) and wear that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I genuinely appreciate the advice anon, thank you. I'm in a community college however but I imagine most of your points still apply. I'd say your right in that I should focus on myself before trying to date.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Definitely, that's advice nearly anyone can use at 19.
        Just from reading the thread, don't be so caught up in the idea that the only place you could possibly meet women irl is at work or in classes. That belief is a crutch for your ego, as are most reasons guys have as to why they're single and not putting themselves out there. Other guy doesn't need to sperg about it the way he is but he's making a good point you should listen to. Just because someone is mean doesn't mean they aren't giving you sound advice.
        Anyways, advice is fine and all, but remember that experience is the best teacher. Biggest boost of confidence you can ever get when trying to pick up women is not making it life or death in your head. Intimacy is about being vulnerable, so being relaxed, confident, and honest is key, just be who you are to who you are interested in. If she isn't interested back, no biggie, other women out there.
        One major advantage you have is a lot of men your age fricking suck at talking, so just by making good eye contact, being sincere, and speaking clearly you're already a step above a lot of the competition

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks anon. This some good shit.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No problem man. Growing up is tough and figuring women out is tougher. Just remember they like guys, and you're a guy. No harm in seeing if you're one of the ones they like, and your openness can lead to more hapiness for both of you. Good luck man

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In regards to dating apps, what sorts of pics should I use? I've looked online and girls are picky as hell when it comes to pics. Chad lites will get swiped left just because the girls don't like the background.
    My pics were probably one of the main things holding me back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If your friends dont help you make good pics, then just forget about dating apps in general. Young people dont use dating apps anymore, especially since that big lawsuit came out. Meet some people that are active on instagram and maybe try group chats if you dont normally go to parties and events

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You make a lot of excuses, I can tell you that much. "wahh it's impossible for me to meet women besides dating apps as a 19-year-old in college, wahh I don't have time to workout". You're full of shit OP, I'm glad you're alone

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