how to fuc on tinderz

I got tinder for 6 months approx, used it for the first 3 and got some but not many matches, wrote with some girls, was very close to getting a date, or even scheduled it, but then got ghosted at the last moment, stopped using it for some time, now I started again and even paid for 1 month of gold.
I got 3 likes, aka matches with gold in 3 days, but they didmtneven answer the text.
anyway I live in a big city, I dont understand hows it possible that so little girls like my profile, I'm at the very least decent looking, but I think I'm good looking, not a Chad but I'm fine, so with the thousands of girls scrolling tinder how tf is it possible so little like me bruh.
I've now been resorted to using muh musclurar pic while before I used less explicit ones where I was in the mountains or just normal pics of me.

idk dude maybe my account got rekt bc of the points system bc in the past I used to like almost everyone, or maybe bc I didnt use the account for some months, i tought i was shadow banned but got 3 likes so I'm not I guess.
thinking of keeping this account but also making a new one just to see if I get better results.

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Height? You basically need to be in the top 5% to have any luck on Tinder beyond landwhales.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 171cm approx, so between 5'7 and 5'8 , but that's not in my profile so they cant know

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Height? You basically need to be in the top 5% to have any luck on Tinder beyond landwhales.
      Cope, top 20% and you'll be able to get 5/10 non-fat pussy relatively easily.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's not what the data shows

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          yes, it does. 20% of men get most of the pussy, while the rest get scraps. Keep in mind that all dating apps have a huge number of autistic, yet hopeful chudcels with dirty mirror selfies so the average on Tinder is probably lower than the IRL average.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            80/20 was applicable 5 years ago, it's more like 90/10 now

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            no, it's not. you're just somewhere between ugly and average. HTN is enough to get mid pussy easily.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            HTN is top 10%

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            depends who you ask. imo it's top 20%.
            Even if not, 80th percentile is enough to get mid pussy easily on tinder.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >inb4 you got to meet gurls irl

    I wholeheartedly agree but tinder is a supplement, atm my social group is small, but it's there, I'm working on meeting new ppl by going out with the ones I know, and most of the time where always the same ones but sometimes a friend of a friend comes or theres another group joining etc so I get a chance to meet new ppl, or develop some acquaintances I already got I'm also trying to do some activities where I'll be in social context like hiking groups since I always go innamountains, now I'm also thinking of just randomly going out to places and see if I meet someone but I'm too shy usually for that, my friends aren't very active so getting them to come out to pubs is not rare but not frequent, and they're not extroverts that'll go and try it with girls, so I cant be carried by them so to speak, I need to build all for myself.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    where are these stats you talking about from

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6'2 and it's not a lie. Most minimum effort and they'll flock to me. I even did a test and removed my height from my bio and then put it back in. Massive difference.

    Also if you're shirtless you lose 50% of women right away. You gotta play that bullshit game of acting like you both want more than just meaningless sex in order to get meaninglessness sex. Women don't want you to call them/treat them like prostitutes till you're in bed with them.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Also if you're shirtless you lose 50% of women right away.
      `probably because your body isn't worth showing off.
      Also 6'2 is manlet.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    try another sim card, another phone, another wifi etc. you are probably shadow banned

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i think i can advise

    i made a tinder a month ago. at the first day i had like 5-6 likes (because tinder boosts your profile, this is normal). i got some 25 matches, give or take. i am however somewhat selective, i do not want 'normal' women, therefore this number could be a little (a lot?) higher if i went on a like spree. i swipe about 80% left or so. my matches all fit this criteria, and i have a date with one next week. my profile is empty aside from a spotify song and height

    anyway, i think your picture is unflattering. i also lift, and although i am a little bigger than you are, if i take the same picture it will also look like shit. what i think when i see your picture is 'no normal dude would take a picture in boxers superman posing in the middle of the house'. this is important, normies care about this stuff a lot. its okay to have thirst inducing pictures, but they have to be better, with better angles and/or 'artsy', if you will. picrel is one of my pictures and three different girls have commented on it as an opener - they called me, and said something like 'wow nice back' or something. because it looks aesthetic to a degree, despite obviously being sexual. again, if i superman posed, im 100% certain it would not have this result. i'd remove that picture entirely and take new ones, again, try to be artsy about it, mess with lights and exposure, play with how rays of light shade against your muscles. i can offer more advice and example pictures if you want, but im confident this is what gets me matches

    also, ive come to learn tinder is very ruthless. people have no empathy, they will ghost and unmatch and block you at the slightest inconvenience. this is normal. i do not like it, but it is what it is. i have started being way more direct in my exchanges and it has worked. open with a friendly/funny remark if you want, but get yourself a physical date/sex asap after that

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >at the first day i had like 5-6 likes
      I get suicidal thoughts if I get less than 20 on the first day and I live in a small city.
      How did you even manage to get 25 matches?

      and what do you mean by empty? Like no pics? lol

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        idk bro, im happy for you then. for me its enough, truly. i am currently in talks with two women from tinder and i would not be able to manage four or more

        >How did you even manage to get 25 matches?
        i take you mean that its very little? again, im somewhat selective and aim exclusively at the 'nerd/alt/goth' crowd. the girl i have a date scheduled with is very, very pretty, the prettiest of all my matches by far, and i think any dude would be content with her, really. if all goes right and im not stood up or something then i really am lucky

        >and what do you mean by empty?
        i had 4 starter pictures. i went on changing these as i got better ones throughout this one month, and only yesterday did i upload a face picture, as i think my selfies look cringey and it took me a while to manage a nice one outside. bio is empty, the whole 'about you' and tastes is empty, aside from height

        i dont claim to know my shit or anything, im only advising OP because i believe my situation is better than his, currently. ive seen some male profiles on tinder and theyre very 'quirky', with lengthy funny bios and everything filled out and stuff, i dont think thats a good luck, particularly in cases such as mine where theres not a whole lot to put in - 'i like military history' and 'i play lots of weird vidya'? i left it empty for good reason, and i believe mystery in this situation is far better than just trying to 'be yourself'. tinder is an extremely competitive platform, its like youre playing pvp with all other men, it is not the place to be yourself, its the place to be the best you, the best 'product' for women, if you will

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >i take you mean that its very little?
          No, it's a decent number of matches if you're very selective like you said. I assume you got many more likes than that? I just find it weird because with those numbers I would've expected you to get like 50+ likes in your first 24 hours.

          > 'nerd/alt/goth' crowd.
          damn, if that's what you're into lol. I never saw the appeal of goth bawds personally.

          >only yesterday did i upload a face picture

          wtf, so what even was your profile? Just body pics?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            its hard to tell how many likes ive gotten, since those turn into matches when i swipe right (duh) and simply disappear when i swipe left, so id have to keep individual track of each like and all. i for sure didnt get 50 likes within 24h lmao, and yes im also at a smaller city. set range to 8km, age to 30 and under (im 25)

            >damn, if that's what you're into lol
            i just want personality. it tires my brain to go through the profile of the 29th fake blonde big titty woman on the day and see she likes 'sushi', 'concerts' and 'bar hopping'. i just slide left on those because the likes we get are very limited, we cant just spam right

            >wtf, so what even was your profile? Just body pics?
            there was one face pic, which was the very first one, but it was a side shot, also 'artsy' in nature (like the back one) which wasnt a clear, proper view of my face. yesterday i uploaded a face shot using the gym mirror - it gives a clear view of my face, no filters, no angles, no bullshit. aside from that, yeah, all body shots

            picrel is probably my worst picture. its cropped (the one on tinder shows lower face), but it was also taken in the same manner as the others, being 'artsy', playing with light, etc. i think presentation matters a lot and OP would have a lot more success with this kind of picture, which is about as thirst inducing as tinder allows. im just playing to the strength of my 'product', i mog most dudes at the gym, therefore i believe i mog nearly everyone on tinder in my region, body wise. again its not a 'fair game', youre not meant to 'be yourself'. its a bit sad but it is how things work

            also i have long messy hair - most women dislike it, but those who like it, REALLY like it. this is evident in nearly all pictures and its safe to assume ive lost a few likes because of it, since its very niche

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            i think i can advise

            i made a tinder a month ago. at the first day i had like 5-6 likes (because tinder boosts your profile, this is normal). i got some 25 matches, give or take. i am however somewhat selective, i do not want 'normal' women, therefore this number could be a little (a lot?) higher if i went on a like spree. i swipe about 80% left or so. my matches all fit this criteria, and i have a date with one next week. my profile is empty aside from a spotify song and height

            anyway, i think your picture is unflattering. i also lift, and although i am a little bigger than you are, if i take the same picture it will also look like shit. what i think when i see your picture is 'no normal dude would take a picture in boxers superman posing in the middle of the house'. this is important, normies care about this stuff a lot. its okay to have thirst inducing pictures, but they have to be better, with better angles and/or 'artsy', if you will. picrel is one of my pictures and three different girls have commented on it as an opener - they called me, and said something like 'wow nice back' or something. because it looks aesthetic to a degree, despite obviously being sexual. again, if i superman posed, im 100% certain it would not have this result. i'd remove that picture entirely and take new ones, again, try to be artsy about it, mess with lights and exposure, play with how rays of light shade against your muscles. i can offer more advice and example pictures if you want, but im confident this is what gets me matches

            also, ive come to learn tinder is very ruthless. people have no empathy, they will ghost and unmatch and block you at the slightest inconvenience. this is normal. i do not like it, but it is what it is. i have started being way more direct in my exchanges and it has worked. open with a friendly/funny remark if you want, but get yourself a physical date/sex asap after that

            yes you might be correct, thing is in not as ripped as in that pic anymore so I cant take another one until I get that fit again, I still work out but I used to do competitive boxing 5 days a week before, then stopped and out on some fat and lost some muscle, owning started working out seriously again but I'm not like that anymore, and I know it's a bit dishonest but I want to get some pussy, so if I'm similar to that but less defined its not a letdown like showing up and being a lardass, and when I'm dressed you cant tell that much.

            anyway I'm trying different things to see if they make a difference, muscle pic and no muscle pic, long "funny" bio and short bio, I just switch it up to see if I get different results, but your advice seems valid

            try another sim card, another phone, another wifi etc. you are probably shadow banned

            idk, I got 4/5 matches in the last 3 days and one girl I actually rizzed up in chat and am this close to a date, she actually agreed to it but she hasn't answered the latest message about the time we should meet, idk if I just got ghosted or she'll answer later

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is it even possible to meet people outside of dating apps? Seems like more and more people are terminally online.

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