How to make it more likely to cum during sex

So, I have trouble cumming during sex, I'm probably too used to masturbation, plus I don't have sex much often with my gf, and I get nervous when I realize I'm not cumming yet.
I'm working on watching less porn and jerking off less, but is there anything I can do just before having sex to help me cum? Like maybe edging before having sex, or is that moronic?
Any tips in general?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How long do you take to cum?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not op, but I can't cum from sex period.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      OP here, sometimes I cum, but some other times I just can't cum and either lose the boner, or my gf starts saying it hurts.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        homie not using lube hahah

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    being nervous definitely makes it harder to ejaculate with another person, the same way it makes it harder to get/stay hard

    if you can stop jerking off for a week you will have zero problems

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      secondly, is her vegana loose? ive been with two females who had loose veganas and there was barely any contact between skin. other girls were really tight and that obviously was easy

      if you have deathgrip from constant masturbation plus her vegana is loose, thats a recipe for disaster

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Next time we frick it'll be 4 days without jacking off, which is a lot for me, so I'm hoping that will help a lot.

      secondly, is her vegana loose? ive been with two females who had loose veganas and there was barely any contact between skin. other girls were really tight and that obviously was easy

      if you have deathgrip from constant masturbation plus her vegana is loose, thats a recipe for disaster

      Maybe, I don't have a point of comparison. We also frick using condoms, and I'm circumcised, which makes my tip less sensitive. Those two things frick me up as well.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yeah dude, i think i came maybe 1 time ever, using a condom (also cut). that's not easy.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its one of 2 things:
    - you’re prone jerking off (kills never endings, never do this)
    - you’re watching porn (stop for 2 weeks completely)

    if you can do both of those things and can’t cum you’re gay

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >prone jerking off
      Wtf I didn't know this was a thing. I do touch the tip a lot when stroking it, with saliva so my hand can slide through it. Could that kill nerve endings as well?
      And I'm half a week through without jerking off and watching porn, I will try to get to 2 weeks, but it's hard.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        literally all masturbation damages nerve endings, but prone masturbation damages it the most. i recommend stopping touching your dick entirely. just let her touch it or no one. your nerves will regrow

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >your nerves will regrow
          Thought it was bro science but I googled it and apparently it's true. I was really afraid for a moment thinking I fricked myself up. I just have to resist jerking off (it's too hard).

          yeah dude, i think i came maybe 1 time ever, using a condom (also cut). that's not easy.

          This makes me feel much more normal, thanks. And I've been able to cum in the past, recently actually, so it's not that bad. I just need to quit porn, because either way it's not good for me, and wait for the day we live together, so we can frick every day.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            porn is vile. everyone should quit porn. if you want to look at a naked female by herself in images or videos, thats entirely fine in my book. but the less external stimulation the better. if you can jerk off using your imagination thats god-tier

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had the same exact thing I'm about q week in gonna try to hold it till I get a chance to frick

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guy w same issue here. For me it‘s a lot if my wife is into it in the moment or not. Also some good sex-talk helps a lot. And as I love doggy including the view, I kind-of found a way to increase the chance to com to maybe 50%.
    You have to find out what works for you both.

    And, prone jerking off and death-grip is indeed a killer, as mentioned already.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t jack off, connect your penis to your mind, and enjoy the fact that you cum hard, frick her good, 10 minute penetrative if she gets dry go down and give her oral then start again, she will pour like a fountain. Make her go crazy, and try getting ridden or reverse rideen by her

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wish I could do that.

    I usually come in 5-6 strokes!

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Oddly enough I'm in a very similar situation. I don't have a specific "just before sex" option for you - but I'll tell you what I'm doing that has helped me out.

    Supplements: L-arginine and Pygeum. The former will help you feel like cumming and the latter will give you a little more volume. I've attached an image that is for "god tier cum" that may or may not be useful to you. Having more amount helps me at least. I haven't done the kegel exercises yet and wouldn't worry too much about those for now. For the two I mentioned, take them regularly, I don't think you need to time them or anything just have them in your system.

    All of that is pointless if you're dehydrated though. Get plenty of water or at least propel or something. In my experience sodas and teas don't hydrate me enough for this but do what works.

    So in my case my gf is super thin / super small like in your picture. Plus she's short. What I found is that I wasn't really positioning myself well and not really moving in a way that turns me on enough to cum. Turns out I like a lot of body contact. I like having my arms around her and holding her close. Even though I was still hard and going at it, once I found a good position that put her body against mine and found a posture that I really liked, that helped tons. Although I actually think I'd be a little more compatible with a larger girl just to have more of her to touch / press against me. But my point is that try and change things up until you find something that turns you on more. Even stuff like arm position can make a difference.

    I'm an oldgay so I'm on tadalafil to get my shit working. It sounds like that aspect of things isn't an issue for you but maybe something to consider if needed.

    Good luck anon.

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