How to make sex more enjoyable for my gf?

Fresh new relationship, took eachothers virginities and neither of us knows what they're doing. We have had sex a couple of times since, but it hasn't been great. Usually it goes like this: lots of making out, going into pussy eating, then missionary but she uses her legs to prevent me from going in too deep (genuinely, only half of my wiener has been inside her). I usually go really slow as to not hurt her. We use plenty of lube, but it is always clear that I'm mostly just hurting her, which in turn makes it less enjoyable for me.

I think my size is the issue, but I'm not sure what to about it.

>inb4 communicate with her
yea but when I do she tells me she doesn't know what to do either

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kiss slowly, then heavily. Massage her back as your kissing. Start kissing her neck. Kiss downwards to breasts. Kiss, suck, and lick breasts. Kiss downwards on her stomach to her pussy. Start licking her pussy. Eat it out. If you're jaw doesn't hurt by the time you stop, your moving too fast. Start fingering her. If both your hands don't hurt by the time your done you're moving too fast. She should hsve comed at least once or twice by now. If not, either you're doing something wrong, or she's a fish, it happens, many such cases. You want time time the second or third come with when you penetrate her. Start slowly and go faster over time of course.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As a femoid Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and just accepted that sex hurts and sucks and I don't get to orgasm lol

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Eating pussy isn't rocket science though. Make him get you off first, then frick.

      Don't know what'd feel good for you? Then experiment with him, be assertive.
      You deserve to cum as well - t - guy.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      PSA: There are no women on NSFFW. You c**ts give them the ick.

      Trannies aren't women you dumb b***h.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      your boyfriend sucks at sex

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're in luck because there are entire books written on just that; all the things you can do with your partner to make sex more enjoyable. Hundreds of pages of instructions on different actions, positions, methods on satisfying each other.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Frick her in the forest.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Make sure it's a good season for it. Being bitten by ants, gnats, mosquitoes and gadflies isn't all that sexy once you get into the forest.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sex doesen't have to be all about penetration. Get some toys, have foreplay. Getting off can become a fun bonus in comparison

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You can't

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Make her cum before it's your turn. Use your hands. Women don't orgasm from penetration anyway. After you've given her hers, get yours

    I'm a virgin btw so no idea how good this advice is

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm a virgin btw so no idea how good this advice is
      Everyone here is, you're just the only one honest enough to disclaim it.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Make her cum before it's your turn
      how true is this? dont girls have a refractory period?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I was under the impression that they can orgasm multiple times in a row.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        We do not.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >we
          >is troony

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            As a young white hetero cis male, I don't have a refractory period either, I can go on for hours

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Needs to make you know that they are women

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i do

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Some women do but most dont

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Women don't orgasm from penetration anyway.
      Lies. A good portion of women don't but a good portion do. My first gf got off from penetration easier than oral or manual stimulation.
      She was also on the pill. Frick that was great sex, I miss her sometimes.

      >Make her cum before it's your turn
      how true is this? dont girls have a refractory period?

      Not really. My first gf I referenced above could orgasm two or three times in a row if I kept fricking her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My wife can orgasm from penetration

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Or so you think.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does she have vaginismus? If so, the first thing to do is STOP having penetrative sex and talk to a sex therapist.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >vaginismus
      That shit scares me so much, what if I get it my first time? Then no man will ever want to be with me. Vaginismus is uncurable

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How big are you? First time I had sex with my wife I had the same problem by she got used to it like 5th time around. I'm 6.5 inches.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >took eachothers virginities
    >before marriage

    DIE

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Son I was once like you. First thing you need to know is that if you're hurting her going in there are two problems, 1 she is not turned on enough and/or 2, she isn't wet enough. You need to stop with the "is it okay?" "do you feel good?" and other questions like that, be confident and read her face, if she's grimacing then just shift things up, don't ask. Asking will take most women out of the moment, they don't want to give permission with words, just read her body language(this is a learned skill you must develop). During foreplay if you're going down on her don't start by treating her clit like a speedbag with your tongue, go in soft and slow like a butterfly lapping nectar, slow up and down movements, most of the time you don't just scream in there and start wailing. During sex I can promise you that your size isn't the problem, women give birth, some women buy dildos the size of vacuum cleaners for fun, the vegana is a very durable thing. Focus on getting her engine running, if she's got a kink play into it. The resistance she gives you MIGHT be her trying to get you to flex your muscles a little, go easy but see how she handles a deeper thrust.

    Ultimately if she's not comfortable or able to let go and enjoy herself it's going to be rocky for a while. Just make sure that it's fun for her and she's going to slowly become more comfortable. Make sure she gets off, be it going down on her or sex. If you cum too fast then learn the ancient super power technique of "box breathing" to control yourself, taking a slow, deep breath as you frick. Be consistent, a few seconds in, hold a second, a few seconds out. You'll go from cumming in 2 minutes to being able to last as long as you want. It helps you not get "too turned on" to the point you go caveman mode. If she knows you're not going to cum prematurely then she'll be in a way better mood for the sex itself and probably get off way easier.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It sounds like you need a harsh BDSM master like me to come in and spice things up!

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