How true is it that girls playing hard to get is just an indicator of low attraction for the guy?

How true is it that girls playing hard to get is just an indicator of low attraction for the guy? Is it really slam dunk easy for the guys they actually like alot?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Its weird because its 50/50.
    They are either playing hard to get or they just dont like you and are ignoring your advances.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    True. If woman is very attracted to you, she will either be throwing sex at you or begging to be your girlfriend. If she's "hard to get" she either isn't attracted to you at all or only has a lukewarm attraction. And i she outright rejected you but you still think she wants you in some capacity, you're just moronic

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >If she's "hard to get" she either isn't attracted to you at all or only has a lukewarm attraction
      You can use the difficulty of getting her attention as a gauge of her true attraction for you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      based

      >If she's "hard to get" she either isn't attracted to you at all or only has a lukewarm attraction
      You can use the difficulty of getting her attention as a gauge of her true attraction for you.

      that makes sense but that kind of logic is a slippery slope that ends up in deluded redpill idiots debating about IOIs lol. its better to keep it simple and not use any "gauge"

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why didn't the thread end here wtf.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls are told to play hard to get, it is not instinctual. It’s just like PUA advice for women, that not all of them follow

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's incredibly stupid

      if you have to try, its over. if it doesnt come naturally, its over. that's it. its really that simple you just have to face it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly true. Even if you manage to get her after all the effort, you will have to live knowing that she feels meh about you and that the guys she actually wants wouldn't have had to do all that.

        It's a power thing.
        They want you to demonstrate your male power (independence, creativity, persuasion, money) and/or demonstrate support to their female power (showing care, humanitarian attitude, outward softness)
        Most girls prefer the former over the latter

        Dumb take. Those are not male or female traits, those are personality traits. There's plenty of girlbosses who are independent and have money and there's plenty of sadbois who are sensitive and soft.

        Not all girls behave the same. You have to observe how girls interact with you and how they interact with other guys. Say she comes up and hugs you every time she sees you. Cool, but you have to know if she's a hugger or if she's going out of her way to hug (You)? Or maybe she's doing that thing where you hug everyone so it doesn't look so obvious when you go up to hug the one person you like. You have to be observant of body language to figure it out yourself.

        Some guys become attractive to women by putting themselves out there. Some guys are just attractive without doing anything. There isn't a one-size-fits-all technique to matchmaking.

        You mean women aren't a hive mind?? Blasphemy!

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Honestly true. Even if you manage to get her after all the effort, you will have to live knowing that she feels meh about you and that the guys she actually wants wouldn't have had to do all that.

          Based

          Plus many relationships shouldn't even be called that. Sometimes people are in a relationship but she's really wishing she still was with her chad ex, cheating, or just not really into the guy but doesn't want to leave him either. That's worse than being alone and if you have to try that's the best you could get lol.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Juju phrasing. That's Reddit shit

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > Is it really slam dunk easy for the guys they actually like alot?
    Yes. In fact they are difficult to get rid of.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a power thing.
    They want you to demonstrate your male power (independence, creativity, persuasion, money) and/or demonstrate support to their female power (showing care, humanitarian attitude, outward softness)
    Most girls prefer the former over the latter

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      just demonstrate your creativity bro

      at what point is it demonstrated enough? after the 20th rejection?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That would be something akin to taking part in alive music act or an art gallery or something

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          oh yes then any girl you want will be yours because you have demonstrated so much power. but if you're short it'll have to be an expensive art gallery i guess. or show up to the gallery in a rolls royce. just to make up for it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Get some perspective kid, you wouldn't be doing all that to get laid. Way to hyper focus in on an extreme example to give yourself an excuse for not having a solid idea of how to present yourself socially

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How would I know how to present myself socially? You're the male power expert. I guess maybe that's something to consider before moving on the more advanced power moves. So how do you present yourself socially?

            Let's say there's this 10/10 russian influencer that you just have to get, but you're a balding manlet so she says no. How do you present yourself socially to overcome that? Good posture and a full Jason Statham style head shave? And then what? How many art galleries?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            NTA
            If you're hyperfocusing on all that shit then you're probably thinking about it in social situations. You'd definitely come across as insecure. It's typical for many younger guys.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If she isn't pestering you, she doesn't like you.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women who like you will go out of their way to be around you whenever possible.
    Games are for kids, if you want to waste time just buy a Playstation.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've mostly experienced girls being cold and distant, some of them seriously couldn't wait to get away from me. The few times they've acted outwardly nice, they were trying to get a laugh out of their friends or they wanted something from me.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In my experience, yes girls who are really attracted to a guy do not play hard to get. They make it easy as frick to get.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Not all girls behave the same. You have to observe how girls interact with you and how they interact with other guys. Say she comes up and hugs you every time she sees you. Cool, but you have to know if she's a hugger or if she's going out of her way to hug (You)? Or maybe she's doing that thing where you hug everyone so it doesn't look so obvious when you go up to hug the one person you like. You have to be observant of body language to figure it out yourself.

    Some guys become attractive to women by putting themselves out there. Some guys are just attractive without doing anything. There isn't a one-size-fits-all technique to matchmaking.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Generally when a woman likes you it's pretty obvious, even their hard to get games are (but men tend to disqualify them as hints).

    If you're confuse it's that she's kind of interest but not that into you, they may have better options or wait for one.

    For all others case she just don't care. Women that don't like you and where there is almost no chances are also pretty obvious about it. That's my 2cents but obviously YMMV.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      it's even simpler: if you are confused, she's not into you. if you have to try or tell yourself she's "hard to get", she's not

      anyone who has any questions about this should just chadfish and shut the frick up. every man should do at least one tinder chadfish in order to see the truth. but it'd end many marriages and a huge chunk of the population would suicide

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Also my advice is to physically feel the chemistry between you two, which usually needs you to have your balls not empty.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      "just nofap bro"

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It works

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          this is insanely sexist

          this borders on the insane neo nazi idea that women drain men to enslave them.

          do you believe that a woman sleeping with a man is brainwashing him into being a boyfriend?

          sick of the male entitlement on here
          i literally had a nofap bf who refused to sleep with me and saw me as a "sucubbus"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like a crazy woman.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not. I'm a victim of redpill men. All I wanted was a good normal man who loved God. Instead I got neo-patriarchal neofappers who don't like sex every day because it "drains their power"

            how am I supposed to cultivate true love if I can't sexually pairbond daily?

            this fricking NSFFW website ruined my life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well there is some truth to it. Fighters don't frick before a fight because it makes them weaker. Women don't get it because your sexuality works differently, but we do feel drained after nutting.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i like how my ex acted after sex, relaxed and calm and sweet and touchy feely.

            But he would go weeks lifting and making me wait and .. yeah he was more "badass" but i was genuinely wanting to get pregnant.

            He also made me get an abortion because he believed i was going to force him to pay child support forever

            i tried making him understand i don't need a "badass" I just need him and I am willing to mother him and treat him in a sweet gentle way. But he has this idea he HAS TO BE chad superwiener and give me BDSM orgasms every month or ill leave him

            finally he dumped me because i was asking for marriage and he thought i was going to "divorce rape him"

            FRICK REDPILL SHIT. FRICK NSFFW. FRICK MISOGYNY. YOU ARE THE REASON PEOPLE ARE MISERABLE AND ALONE. FEMINISM WOULD ACTUALLY FIX THIS PROBLEM.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i like how my ex acted after sex, relaxed and calm and sweet and touchy feely.

            But he would go weeks lifting and making me wait and .. yeah he was more "badass" but i was genuinely wanting to get pregnant.

            He also made me get an abortion because he believed i was going to force him to pay child support forever

            i tried making him understand i don't need a "badass" I just need him and I am willing to mother him and treat him in a sweet gentle way. But he has this idea he HAS TO BE chad superwiener and give me BDSM orgasms every month or ill leave him

            finally he dumped me because i was asking for marriage and he thought i was going to "divorce rape him"

            FRICK REDPILL SHIT. FRICK NSFFW. FRICK MISOGYNY. YOU ARE THE REASON PEOPLE ARE MISERABLE AND ALONE. FEMINISM WOULD ACTUALLY FIX THIS PROBLEM.

            You really know how to pick em.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yes.Women dont play hard to get. This is redpill 101. Sorry if you dont like that term. I just mean it is true.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    don't let your bf do nofap. it makes them into stuckup creeps who cultivate masculinity and don't cultivate real love and devotion

    nofap is an anti-female brainwash system

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Stupid fricking israelite Zionist israelite scum kys NOW.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Most of you need to understand that women are human too.
    >There is playing coy, they know and you know shes gonna frick you after a little pursuit play. Rarely is the guy long term bf material but frick material for sure.
    >There is being wary and protective of their heart. Maybe they were burned by an ex or ex's or mistrustful of getting too close to a man for many reasons. Could be they are just afraid to fall in love or need to concentrate on school or career or family at the moment though they are interested.
    >There is being fearful. Like actually scared some guy just might go off.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    One girl told me she was too tired to socialize. Kind of explained her low effort. I think a lot just expect to exist is enough to bring to the table.

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