How would you advise someone who has 0 friends and low self esteem to get a girlfriend?

How would you advise someone who has 0 friends and low self esteem to get a girlfriend?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would say

    1. Fix your self esteem

    2. Get friends

    3. Learn to love yourself and your life

    4. Do social activities

    These things are prerequisites to having a gf.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      so pretty much “if youre homeless just buy a house bro”

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No. Nothing magic. If you're homeless, figure out how to sort out your situation so you can become housed again and then thrive financially so you never become homeless again.

        Getting a gf is nothing like being homeless. You can be homeless and still have a gf. You just can't be an insecure loser with no friends, no future and no desire to do anything.

        t. Used to be homeless.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yes that's what he's saying

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        NTA but no, that's what *you* seem to be saying by even asking the question.
        If you can't connect with people and don't even like yourself, then you're not getting a gf. And nor should you really, until you fix your shit.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        gay. you must grow and learn how to love yourself and get attached to communities and friends platonically. if you arent willing to put in the work everyone else has to commect with people then just buy a fleshlight, bacause all you seem to want is pussy that will enable your manchild way of life

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >3. Learn to love yourself and your life
      I refuse to do this. Why should I when my life sucks and has sucked for the past 25 years?

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you have zero friends and are a maladaptive freak you have no chance of getting a gf and your question is a non starter. The rest of your life has to be in order.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it's possible to get a girlfriend but trust me you will be getting the lowest possible tier.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    have lots of money and/or a comically large penis

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ignore the rest of the homosexuals itt.
    Literally just be good looking.
    That's it.
    Or luck out and find someone desperate. Be warned, these girls are usually deranged.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Oh so it seems there is no hope then…

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Join a club or a charity

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How will that help

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        They are social group. Specifically designed to get people to mingle with common goals and interests. If you don't know that, you must be autistic.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          But I’m 21 years old I’m not old

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop wasting time on women

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dress up as a goth and go on dating apps to find a girl with mental issues

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >How would you advise someone who has 0 friends and low self esteem to get a girlfriend?
    Talk to women.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Work on yourself and remain open to the idea of getting a girlfriend. While you could build a mindset that sets you up for success, ultimately women are okay being with a guy who is not well off so long as he shows potential. So if you somehow get a girlfriend, but are not self confident and have zero friends but are successfully working on doing those things, then that is a really good look. We only have so much time on this Earth anon. Get out there and make mistakes and try to become the best version of yourself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What does showing potential mean?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Do you not know what the word potential means?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I DO but I don’t know what it means in the dating context. I can tell you in great detail what someone with great potential would show in my field but I don’t know frick all about human relationships.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            potential for being in a higher economic and social class, that's about it, women want 'safety' but we damn know such a thing exists in the real world, so is our job to make them feel safe, that's all a woman want in a man, hence why they fantasize about strong men, i mean the girls who still have their head in place not these drug addicted stacies that only think about getting their pussies drilled

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            such a thing DO NOT* exist

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How to be a strong man that isn't just physically? How do I make people (particularly women) feel safe?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Bump for answer.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Bump for answer.

            Bump for interest.

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