I am a mediocre white American guy. I have two options, be alone forever or marry a cute third world girl.

I am a mediocre white American guy. I have two options, be alone forever or marry a cute third world girl. Which one is better?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She is cute. Go for the cute option, anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The girl I am talking with (not picrel to be clear) is very cute. Shes also very honest and real, certainly what I consider marriage material. She also really likes me, I have a strong feeling that if I asked her to marry me she would say yes.

      However, the two things that stop me are I am worried about cultural differences as well as the societal opposition to marrying someone from the third world. Like between the passportbro and mail order bride memes my family and peers would seriously think less of me. I dont agree with it, but it is something that worries me.

      I would move to her country and live the rich life by her country standards if you can.

      Definitely considered that, I work remote anyway

      They just want money theres no real love you will end up paying for her whole family and the next thing you know youre out of money and once she got the card she will leave you for a chad or bigger wiener or a rich old white man

      Thats true in a lot of cases, but with the particular girl I am talking to that isnt the full picture. Yes she would like out of the third world and the higher standard of living I could provide as an American is probably really attractive. But all women are like that, not in a bad way but a big part of their social function is trying to improve their standard of living through marriage. This girl though I know genuinely really likes me and isnt on some frick shit.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just be on guard and protect your heart. Dont let her control you or your emotions.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I cant see the future, but I dont feel like this girl would be the type to anyway. Shes very sweet but also I know looks up to me. Like I have met many women both in the west and outside of the west who I know are up to something funky, but this girl isnt I know that to be true

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        at least meet here irl and spend at least a week with her before deciding you want to marry
        online/long distance is a whole different experience compared to actually sleeping and pissing/eating/relaxing around another person for a length of time

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >at least meet here irl
          Absolutely, I plan on visiting her sometime, but theres some problems with that

          >actually sleeping and pissing/eating/relaxing around another person for a length of time
          Heres where the cultural problems start. She is from a literal Sharia law society. Being unmarried I actually cannot spend time with her alone in any capacity irl. Makes things difficult

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Being unmarried I actually cannot spend time with her alone in any capacity irl. Makes things difficult
            bro holy shit be careful. muslims love scamming the frick out of westerners. you know that the family expects a giant payment before marrying her right? and they expect you to convert and live your life like a muslim.
            I really am not sure why you think marrying a sea muslim would be better than marrying a traditional christian sea girl from say vietnam or the phillipines, considering they are actually chill af, love westerners, and have similar cultural and religious backgrounds.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >you know that the family expects a giant payment before marrying her right?
            So I do know of this custom, but I dont think I have to worry about that in this case. She does come from a super traditional muslim society, but she doesnt come from a solid family. She comes from a broken home, fairly independent.

            > and they expect you to convert and live your life like a muslim.
            So yea this could make my decision for me. I know muslim girls cant marry non-muslim women, so if that ends up being a problem then it is what it is. But surely she knows that too. Shes a practicing muslim, but basically literally never talks about it. She has mentioned wanting to travel and leave Asia 1000x more than shes mentioned Allah. Point is, idk how much of a problem that would be, but its out of my hands either way.

            >marrying a traditional christian sea girl from say vietnam or the phillipines
            Sure I mean Im down, but I dont know any

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I was going to add I am speaking from personal experience. I was dating a muslim girl from bangladesh and she seemed very nice for a long time. we even hung out in person, stayed with eachother for a long time, etc. but then as things got more serious, she started really pushing that I convert, and the topic always revolved around money and status, my job wasn't enough, her family wouldn't accept me, and so on. Since i hadn't had much female attention before this person I wen't along with a lot of cringe shit and could have easily got married and divorce raped. I caught her throwing my stuff away and that was the final straw.
            I'm not saying I know your situation or this person, or that all muslims are the same, just to really be careful because there is a huge culture of western scamming in that region and they can and will play the long game.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yea I certainly know theres risks involved. But this girl isnt the only muslim girl I have talked with, but she is very different from the other ones. Seems more real and cosmopolitan.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            All these foreign woman from poor countries play the long game. Once you have their babies they use that to control you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This is another thing that makes me feel better about the idea. I dont want kids and neither does she. Even though she comes from an Afghanistan level sharia society I get the impression she is not very of that culture. She wants to see the world, get out of there. But she does hold the muslim marital role values so I like that part lol

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thats what they all say. Once she is in she will change her mind but who knows. Just watch out.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That may be true, theres certainly more risk involved here I know that. But its the best opportunity I have had by a long shot

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I think you really need to check for their personalities well. Try to watch a movie with her, play a videogame or whatever so you know her in different ways (with the restrictions of a LDR)

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have some muslim friends (Iran) and it's not like this anon. At least for my friends, their families are open minded and they can marry someone that is not Muslim without converting, also I have never heard of paying money to their parents for marriage. The only thing that seems important is to meet her family before doing anything like that, but that is in any culture. So, unless their family is really conservative (not the norm) I think you should be fine.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            it's called a mahr or dowry. it's a requirement in islamic marriages. iranians have a huge percentage of their population that protests the violent islamic regime of their country, so that doesn't surprise me. Iran was originally zoroastrian and wasn't until relatively recently that they accepted islamic take over.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Definitely considered that, I work remote anyway
        Just make sure you spend a lot of time filling her out. Con artists train for the short term. Not long term. Don't get married to her in just a few months. I watch picrel on YT, he lives in the Philippines and has dated the same girl for over a year now.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          For sure, Ive been talking with her for almost 2 years at this point. I feel confident shes not trying to take advantage of me. Like I said, she obviously wants that massive life quality increase of leaving a relatively poor and strict society, but thats fine with me thats just what women do.

          How did you meet her? Dating apps with a different location?

          Met her on interpals actually. Never even went in with the intention of dating or anything

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How did you meet her? Dating apps with a different location?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    third world single mom with daughter then u can frick them both

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I would move to her country and live the rich life by her country standards if you can.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      100% this, she will leave if she lives in the USA

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    They just want money theres no real love you will end up paying for her whole family and the next thing you know youre out of money and once she got the card she will leave you for a chad or bigger wiener or a rich old white man

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Indonesian
    They date foreigners? She is a cutie.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Some of them do, its more complicated though. Especially because this girl is from Aceh lol

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    just find a gf that is capable of doing this.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Man idk how I can look at this and not want a sweet asian wife

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Okay now when I envision the perfect hapa son, this is what I'm envisioning. Where is this woman from?

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