I am repulsed by guys who have a body count. I never want to date or marry someone with a body count.

I am repulsed by guys who have a body count. I never want to date or marry someone with a body count. I do not want sex before marriage. How do i cope?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how do I cope

    easily. many average looking guys in their 20s are virgins. it's men who are fricked when it comes to this shit, not women

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      But where do I supposedly meet them? How do I know someone is not lying about their bodycount? If i hear someone talking about their body count it is repulsive to me because they might be carrying STDs or something

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        STEM campus. I'm doing EE and 90%+ of my fellow students are virgin incels

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This guy is lying out of his ass. Incels are all low IQ neets.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nah. STEM is incel central, apart from normie stuff like the life sciences

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Liar. STEM chads get girls just fine. Incels are all low IQ neets.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Inferiority complex detected.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Explain Nikola Tesla then

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          She should be looking for voluntary celibates, not incels.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            how many decent looking man are actually volcel and not incels in disguise tho? let's be honest here, unless it's for religious reasons ( tiny minority IRL), almost none

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That doesn't make any difference to the requirements. You're just an anti-incel moron.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Necessary vs. sufficient. You have no business calling anyone else moronic if you're this bad at understanding others.

            You're deluded if you think you could distinguish voluntary from involuntary.

            And clearly have an anti-incel bias. Which is ironic... given you're an incel. So stop projecting your self-hate onto others, thanks.

            >You're deluded if you think you could distinguish voluntary from involuntary
            It's obvious. The latter doesn't wait, that's literally why they call themselves incels.
            If they don't do things like visiting prostitutes out of insecurity, they will just push for sex and/or vitriolically defend porn as an alternative to their gf 'putting out'. They make themselves very obvious.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Your words are meaningless. They don't offer any distinction for the OP's requirement. Stop projecting your moronic bias onto the OP's views.

            Did they ask for non-incels? No. You projected that onto them.

            >The latter doesn't wait, that's literally why they call themselves incels.

            You presume that, with no evidence. Like saying someone who can't get money is immediately going to steal it. They haven't raped anybody and you're a complete basket case.

            OP isn't here for your hatred against incels, which ironically is also just you projecting self-hatred.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            OP literally said she doesn’t want to have sex outside of marriage, you utter moron.

            > They haven't raped anybody and you're a complete basket case
            And I didn’t say or even remotely imply that incels were rapists. I said that a man not being able to have sex, but who wants to have sex (without commitment, literally the definition of an incels). isn’t the same as a man who chooses not to have sex. And that the difference will be revealed through his actions in and expectations for a relationship. Namely, someone who defines himself by not wanting to wait until marriage likely won’t wait until marriage.
            This isn’t ’presumption without evidence’. It’s one step away from a tautology. If incels wanted to be celibate, why would they call themselves involuntarily celibate?

            The people calling incels brain damaged are right. It’s unbelievable what you mongoloids will reflexively argue about just so you feel like you’re winning.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, OP said that. Notice it does not say "incels excluded", you complete moron.

            >I didn’t say or even remotely imply that incels were rapists.

            You closet autistic moronic frick, that was an analogy, which your volcel brain mangled into thinking I was calling all incels rapists.

            As I pointed out, incels *aren't* rapists, they're already denying opportunities. Now stop projecting your own personal weaknesses onto this clearly bait thread, and frick off.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm a virgin, and fairly good looking too in my opinion, also Christian, but I'm a NEET that lives in my mom house with no car.

        I've signed up for dating apps before but always delete them after how demoralizing they are.

        Basically, idk how you find me, you don't hence why I'm a fricking virgin incel you dumb b***h.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Don’t have sex outside of marriage and insist on a guy doing the same.
        Be careful about guys who are virgins out of circumstance rather than principle, though.

        You have to be patient with meeting people. Most guys won’t lie to you about waiting (they’ll just leave and/or try to pressure you when they realize they’d have to commit for sex), but for the small proportion who aren’t honest, waiting helps you discover it.
        While you should say fairly early on that YOU are waiting, you could leave it as an unspoken implication that you expect the same. If he agrees with your outlook/reasons for waiting, good. If not, keep dating if you like him otherwise and he hasn’t mentioned a dealbreaking past, but look out for signs of integrity: if he is honest about mistakes when he didn’t have to be (like telling you he forgot a date, and trying to make it up to you, instead of him just claiming he got stuck in traffic), that’s a good sign. Once you’ve seen some good signs, you can directly ask him in conversation about his values and past.

        Nothing is foolproof, sadly, but this is the lowest-risk approach I can think of.
        And it goes without saying, but be mindful of his friends and family. If his dad is a divorced womanizer and he’s in a fraternity, you probably haven’t found a winner.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Be careful about guys who are virgins out of circumstance rather than principle, though.
          Like what circumstances?
          Also you tell me there are incels out there with no body count but would they want me is the question. Their victim mentality and hate for women usually turns them into troons or gays. Tell me if I'm wrong.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            how many decent looking man are actually volcel and not incels in disguise tho? let's be honest here, unless it's for religious reasons ( tiny minority IRL), almost none

            Let's assume this thread isn't bait. I don't frick for religious reasons. I don't hate women, and I have had girlfriends in the past so I assume I'm decent looking but I'm gonna be honest here. The fact you're asking NSFFW for dating advice is a massive red flag.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >The fact that you are doing what I'm doing is a red flag, just because it is OKAY??

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not the one asking for advice on dating anon.
            It's a red flag in a woman because it implies they aren't wanted, and in my experience when that happens it's a sign they have something wrong with them. No offense, because I don't know you and it could just be your fear of getting with a non-virgin keeping you from even trying. But it could just as easily be that you're as neurotic about other things and drive men away. Or you could be larping like every other thread on the board.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I’m another guy, and I disagree. I’m confident in my ability to detect problems in themselves. I don’t get scared off by a woman being more cautious.
            She’s probably introverted and atypical to be on NSFFW, but asking for advice at least shows thoughtfulness. There might not be a better option for her if her friends and family don’t share her concerns.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Eh. Maybe I've developed a cynical mindset.
            I will concede that if OP is on the level, she'll probably make someone very happy, because there's definitely men who value the mindset.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            As in, Amy men who are only virgins because they haven’t had the opportunity to have sex, rather than having moral reasons to not have sex yet.
            Incels are that by definition. They define themselves by being virgins despite wanting sex. Please, avoid those types like the plague.

            how many decent looking man are actually volcel and not incels in disguise tho? let's be honest here, unless it's for religious reasons ( tiny minority IRL), almost none

            > how many decent looking man are actually volcel and not incels in disguise tho?
            You’re talking to one.
            I don’t think I look amazing, but I’m a healthy weight, average-height white guy. Not religious, I just value monogamy.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're deluded if you think you could distinguish voluntary from involuntary.

            And clearly have an anti-incel bias. Which is ironic... given you're an incel. So stop projecting your self-hate onto others, thanks.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >But where do I supposedly meet them?

        You're asking on NSFFW where there's like, 20 incel threads in /adv/ daily alone.

        So either this is one hell of a bait remark or this isn't the real reason. What do you mean you can't find zero body count types? You're literally in zero body count central.

        Half the people in here will be zero body count. Shit, I am.

        Is it just the marriage part you're concerned about, or is it something deeper (I.E. bait)?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know I'm schizo about this but let's say I would meet a good man who then tells me he doesn't have a body count. What if he's lying? I think if that happened in real life I would ask them to test for STDs. If he lied would he leave? And If he didn't lie would he take it? And if he still didn't lie but think I'm crazy or something would he leave?
      God damn I don't understand people who think sex is something casual and don't value it
      Too much STD ridden gays and men here. Why

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        sure it's not out of the ordinary to both take an STD test when being exclusive and going raw. most men won't mind it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Asking for an STD test is a high-risk approach.
        True, lots of guys might volunteer having had sex before, and personally, my first instinct would be to mention that it’s unnecessary because I’m waiting.
        But some guys who are also waiting might assume that you’re not, because they’d assume only a sexually actively woman would care to ask. For that reason, I can’t recommend it, at least not at first.
        If you frame it as being irrationally (as in, you’re not accusing him) afraid of getting an STD, you could ask an established bf, preferably fiancé, to get a test and ease your conscience. But that’s very risky to do early on, since it makes you look vulnerable to manipulation.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >What if he's lying
        How would you know?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        If you're a legit schizophrenic please stay away from men, you'll hurt them.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You just don't want sex.
    You cope by not having sex. Even after marriage.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Would you prefer someone who sat in front of his computer jerking off to hentai instead of fricking girls irl? All men watch porn btw.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I do not want sex before marriage. How do i cope?
    Buy a cat.
    Travel.
    Drink boxed wine.
    Post on Tiktok.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Go to church. They usually have singles meetups and you can find somebody suitable there.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're overt thinking this. When you meet a new guy don't lead with the fact that you're waiting. Just get to know him a bit first. Over your first couple of dates things like religion, marriage, and children will naturally come up in conversation. That's when you make it clear that you're religious or just adamant about waiting. Any guy who isn't also waiting will tell you so, and you can go your separate ways.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not wanting sex before marriage basically makes you undatable. Only a tiny portion of men would be willing to put up with it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nonsense.
      Most men won’t, true, but she’s not trying to find the lowest common denominator.
      About 4% of men wait in the US, and another 20% marry their first partner, which includes at least some men who would be willing to wait.

      The silver lining of it being uncommon is that the people who still do wait tend to really mean it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The men who would be willing to put up with someone who clearly doesn't care about them and even marry her will be the lowest tier males. No quality male would be willing to wait until marriage to have sex. It simply makes no sense whatsoever.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >have sex with me NOW or else you don't care!
          Spoken like a man who doesn't value the success or happiness of marriage.
          It's a fact that those who wait, even controlling for religion, both divorce less and have happier marriages. There are your reasons.
          But even if it didn't, it's also just a matter of valuing monogamy, of putting commitment before sex. That you can't comprehend anyone doing this only shows that you're not the kind of man OP wants.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No virgin dude will settle for a transgirl

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You underestimate how desperate gays on this board can be

  9. 2 months ago
    psychardxzy

    Shut the frick up and stop trying to be different, nobody give a frick about when ur gonna frick, nobody absolutelly cares. Stop being an attention seeker and find something else to do, moron, kek.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    well its incredibly easy to find a virgin man, just talk to quiet guys most of us are virgins and all you need to do is be nice to them, they'll fall for you in a couple of days (yes we are that pathetic and starved for love)

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