I don't plan on dating...

Planning on being celibate for the rest of my life because I have same sex attraction.
I'm fine with it but I don't want anyone to know. My life is going ok but...

How do Inrespond to the "Where is your girlfriend?" And "Why aren't you dating or seeing any nice girls? You are such a good guy" comments? It really gets on my nerves and I get them EVERYTIME I meet a family member.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "I'm currently not seeing anyone, and that's alright with me."
    Wow, that was incredibly hard, right?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They will ask why, and find issues with every excuse I give.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        youre doing the right thing so i dont want to push you too hard but maybe just tell them youre a homosexual and dont into sex because its an affront to god and thousands of years of human civilization

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That would be deeply humiliating. They would picture me doing things such anal and sucking wiener, which I'm not into dispite like men, and I can't bear that.

          And they would see me as a drug addict one bad day away fromnrelapse or a gross person not worthy of trust or respect.

          There HAS to another way.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        "I have my reasons."
        If they keep pestering you say something like:
        "None of your business"

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That's not how it works, I'm trying to look less suspicious not more.
          Being vagymue only make them more curious.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Who the frick cares if it looks "suspicious"?
            Just stand up for your choices and defend your rights for privacy as you deem fit.
            It doesn't matter if people find it nebulous. Don't start a lie that may bite you in the ass eventually.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            But they keep asking, there is only so many ways you can tell spmeone to back off before things get awkward.

            And they are family, it's not like I can just cut ties with them.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Give them the same answer again and again and again. It's that simple.

            >you're a biological dead end.
            Taht amkes no sense.
            Bio means life, and I'm alive.

            You should have said "Genetic dead end"

            But anyway I need a plan besides "wait it out" sincendealing with it all the time right now is stressing me out.

            >muh terminology
            You understood what I meant.

            If they stress you out too much, then ditch some family occasions here and there.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Give them the same answer again and again and again. It's that simple
            Ok.

            >You understood what I meant
            I think you meant to be rude to me on a situatipn you have little understanding.

            >If they stress you out too much, then ditch some family occasions here and there.
            I did that, but still we live in the same small town, and it's a big family, bumping into them is just a thing that happens often.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >But they keep asking, there is only so many ways you can tell spmeone to back off before things get awkward.
            No, they just give up after a while.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >No, they just give up after a while.
            I don't think that's how it works, the issue is not even in ONE particular interaction (although that does happen) the isuse is that it's in EVERY interaction, and I feel sixh strategy does not work on that context.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    im on my way out of celibacy after about 10 years but i find that there isnt much follow up after i say i dont date because i dont want children and women cant be trusted

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because saying shit like that is just a huge fricking red flag and everyone can see that it's best for everyone involved that you don't date.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They will take kfense in that, since most have kids and see it as a good thing and have wives.

      Also that's a really depressing world view. I don't hate women, I actually wish i was normal.

      The fact you are notmal but chooses not to lead a normal life disgusts me.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i got a wife and had a kid but she was a prostitute. shit happens but im not going to risk restarting the clock on child rearing and financial independance just to get my dick wet. only starting to consider dating again because im old enough to date women too old for pregnancy

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          So don't say " i dont want children and women cant be trusted" say "I had a kid and it was a very bad experience I personally don't want to repeat."

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            the problem is women cannot be trusted. hiding the truth helps no one

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Helps you not sound like a bitter hater.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i am better and i do hate women.
            hiding the truth helps no one

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ok, it's your life.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i think its very cool of OP to be celibate because hes a filthy homosexual. maybe society can be saved.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not a homosexual.
      I feek sexual atraction to muscle guys but I'm try not to be a homosexual about.

      You can like women and atill be a homosexual, and feel that stuff towards men and not be.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The only excuse that used to work was that Ibwas broke and barely made enough to sustain myself much less a relasahsmship.

    But now my career is doing ok so the questions started once more. I'm also getting older. I'm going to be 31.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Don't worry, people will eventually accept you're a biological dead end.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >you're a biological dead end.
        Taht amkes no sense.
        Bio means life, and I'm alive.

        You should have said "Genetic dead end"

        But anyway I need a plan besides "wait it out" sincendealing with it all the time right now is stressing me out.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just say you don't want a relationship.

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