I find porn more enjoyable than sex and I'm not sure if it's a problem or not.

I find porn more enjoyable than sex and I'm not sure if it's a problem or not. I don't even mean a little bit, it's like a night and day difference. I don't find sex very interesting or exciting and I usually feel like crap afterwards but, for whatever reason, porn feels really satisfying.

Is this just my brain being rewired over 20 years of fapping?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yea its your brain
    i had literal anorgasmia from jacking off for 15 years, meaning i couldnt orgasm at all from sex. i couldnt even orgasm without using precisely my right hand with a certain motion kek
    it took months of cutting out porn, masaturbation, and specifically not fantasizing either, because sometimes i could get there if i fantasized during sex for like an hour, which most girls do not want all the time obviously especially if its obvious you're fantasizing
    sex is actuallyl worthwhile now, and i can even cum in girls i dont find that attractive which is lit

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeh when I first had sex the first few times I couldn't even finish after hours. After some getting used to I can normally cum after 5-20 minutes

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ugh, I have this exact problem. I know I should give up porn but I can never make it more than a few days. Last year I managed nearly 6 months nofap & no porn, but my mental state is so bad I can't seem to keep away. Mornings are the worst, I can oftentimes survive afternoons and evenings.

      It's keeping me in this cycle because I feel behind in terms of sexual experience, which feels bad, so I cope with porn, and the cycle continues. I'm 30 and it's been 7 years since I've been with a girl. Sex has always been difficult. I can do the foreplay side of things but would struggle with anything involving my dick. Do you have any advice? I'm at a loss. I'm concerned I'm developing some kind of mental problem because there is screaming going on in my head at times.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I can do the foreplay side of things but would struggle with anything involving my dick
        20 here and going through the exact same thing. I've found that my dick works better when I'm a little bit high but I still go soft after a while and can't finish. Luckily I think the girl that I'm hooking up with right now really likes me so she puts up with it/doesn't say anything about it but I obviously don't want to keep doing this forever, especially since she keeps dropping hints every time we hook up now (constantly telling me how she wants to make me cum so bad etc etc).

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I jack off so much it’s like I can’t even get a full erection, it’s like it’s indirectly shrinking my dick.

        The last time I got a full quality erection was when I had oral sex with my ex and took “Royal honey” (basically like a gas station dick pill that probably has cialis/viagra)

        It made me think “wow I forgot my dick could actually get this big/hard”

        I still can barely bust a nut with actual women regardless tho.

        Porn can really do a lot of harm, I am obsessed with feet and I jack off to feet all the time I can barely go a day without jacking it multiple times. I think the only solution for me is to get out of my dry spell, even if I’m not being sexual with the women I’m talking to I still feel way less of an urge to jerk it.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's a problem if you want an actual relationship

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Who are you having sex with? What kind of sex are you having? Do you have much experience? Have you been persistently having sex, or just once and then arrived at this conclusion?
    Need them all answered or I can't help you.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but
      1. Some girl I've known for a while, about 6 months or so
      2. Pretty normal sex, I would say? Are you asking about positions?
      3. My first time
      4. I've been pretty consistently hooking up with her for about a month now, I want to say we've done it (or have tried to do it) about 10+ times now

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sex is only better then porn when your chemistry with the girl is super good. Ive got an ex which id give anything to frick again and on the other hand Ive got another ex where id rather jerk it then frick her again its all about chemistry and compatibility.
    Meaningless sex just feels like your using a girl to jack off.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Meaningless sex just feels like your using a girl to jack off.
      Unfortunately this is true usually.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this. mediocre sex with some one you aren't attracted to = pointless. sex with a girl you are attracted to, have chemistry with, and even better yet, love, = fricking amazing borderline religious experience

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can be physically attracted to someone and the sex still pointless. Like the anon you quoted, he had an ex where their chemistry was amazing which made the sex fun, exciting and meaningful.

        I also had an ex that we had great chemistry together and the sex was amazing. Literally stared into each other's eyes as we orgasmed.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          usually you are attracted to someone you have chemistry with, no? i understand you can have a boring lay with a pretty girl but that's not what i was talking about.
          >Literally stared into each other's eyes as we orgasmed
          just has this and lost it, kind of want to kms tbh

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >usually you are attracted to someone you have chemistry with, no?

            Well, at least for me, I can finish a date with a girl and feel almost zero chemistry with and will still try to secure the lay if I find her physically attractive. That is assuming she is absolutely not annoying as hell. Obviously, if I don't find her physically attractive in person, I don't even bother going for the lay.

            I've never particularly regretted having sex with a girl that I had low chemistry with but I usually want them to leave in a timely manner after we are done. There were a few instances where I tried to hook up with a few girls I wasn't that physically attracted to and usually ended up with stopping a few minutes in because I lost my boner. They usually get embarrassed and leave.

            >I love Eunji so much.
            what's the appeal exactly?

            I don't know why that guy "Loves her so much" because he obviously doesn't know her. I first came across this girl in 2018.

            In my eyes, she is a very pretty and young looking Korean woman.

            Has very good proportions
            Has a strong hourglass figure
            Breasts aren't too big or too small
            Butt not too big or too small
            She clearly takes care of herself
            Her skin looks great even without makeup
            She can sing
            She can DJ
            She will probably continue to look young until well into her 30s

            I am biased towards Asians but to me, she is an ideal type that I would like to date.
            However, after seeing a couple of her videos (What it's like to go on a date with me, etc) she seems like someone who'd be absolutely boring to actually date. Obviously, I don't actually know her and she may be cool as frick but her videos give off boring and high maintenance.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this. mediocre sex with some one you aren't attracted to = pointless. sex with a girl you are attracted to, have chemistry with, and even better yet, love, = fricking amazing borderline religious experience

      In other words, if there are emotions involved then sex is good
      Who would've thought

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Wrong, chemistry is a meme if the girl is hot.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Chemistry includes you being very attracted to the girl ie thinking shes hot. So its not wrong being attracted to the girl is included in what I mean when I'm talking about chemistry tard.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd have to agree, mainly because the girls I am able to get with are not very good at sex from a guy's POV. They require hours of foreplay, only want vanilla stuff in bed, and are just lazy in general. I don't think they've ever had to try very hard or learned to be sexy. I honestly have a better time by myself with a massage chair, ASMR videos and some toys.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sex is exhausting
    but it prevent you to do much everday
    for this perspectice, it is its advantage

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >watch lots of porn for many years
    >fap to said porn for many years
    >start having sex with wimminz
    >can't cum from fricking
    >keep having sex anyway
    >eventually start cumming
    >haven't stopped porn or fapping
    >can cum from both more or less whenever i feel like it now
    The memes about fapping being training are real. You just have to push through and not be a b***h.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its your brain but i get it.

    just remember that ultimately you are
    A. attracted to sex as a visual stimuli
    B. attracted to dopamine from orgasm

    alternatively you are
    A2. attracted to others performing sex as visual stimuli for the purpose of ejaculative orgasm.

    "sex" as you know it, is only your fickle idea of a more complex tool of humankind. try to recall that "sex" is a way of expressing your emotions to someone else ultimately. expressing love typically! do you LOVE PORN!?

    lowkey i do, but in a round-about and logically based way. just do both but dont forget what kind of terms you agree to each time you view pornography of any kind i guess.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Something I have do to one of my sub gf’s is to place a laptop on her back while doggy. I watch porn while I frick her and she gets to hear it. I recommend it

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >the same hole every day, day in and day out
    >one million holes doing things the original girl won't

    Yeah, there's a reason porn-induced erectile dysfunction is a thing

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this girl looks barely 18. yikes why are men like this

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didn't pay attention to the pic but you are right
      Pretty hot, Asian girls are truly perfect for white men, they look between 14 and 24 forever until they hit menopause but by then you already had children with her and just want to spend the rest of your life chilling with your Asian wife

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Guys are very simple. Uneducated guys like hot, young, vibrant girls. Educated guys like most hot, young, vibrant girls before they talk. Part is biology; hence why education does make a difference and why well educated people (note well educated does not mean rich by any means) tend to not have a trophy wife.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >muh education
        educated women aren't more mature than uneducated women. college educated are more indoctrinated if they didn't study STEM.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Lol, lmao even
          Who indoctrinated you into repeating these messages?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            everyone gets indoctrinated. one side of the indoctrination at least gives you a better wife who is attractive, loving and submissive

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I just looked her up and she's 26 lol

      Zoomers' excessive use of vaping has fricked up all of my senses of reading age. I can't inherently tell the difference between someone who's 14 and 34 anymore. I've met 18-year-olds that I've perceived to be older than me, and 35-year-olds that I thought were too young for me.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >and 35-year-olds that I thought were too young for me
        do americans really?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      any problem roastie?but i bet she is 25+ actually

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Now that local AI models are so good I've found nothing compares to gooning to ERP with an AI model, even with no video.
    Whatever fantasies you want, with added creativity and twists from the AI.
    What more could you want?

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on what you jerk off to
    If you are a pervert, porn = entirely different thing and orgasms can not be matched by sex
    If you jerk off to visuals, ie nice ass, nice breasts, etc, then sex is better because it's a holistic experience, but I find that sex drive dies off relatively fast if you are like this, like late 20s, and you need to up the visual ante every week with "kinks" and stuff, and you become mentally ill
    A pervert can bust nuts to the same clips for decades with no problem and maybe even enjoy it more

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No amount of sex you will ever have irl will look as good as porn. Just like life isn't an action movie or an anime and those are just escapism from the shittiness of the real world.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love Eunji so much. And you're right. I've jacked to porn and internet girls for so long that I can't even fathom having a gf or wife. I actually fear having a gf or wife, because then it would mean I'd have to commit to her and would no longer get to enjoy an infinite collection of porn and internet girls.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I love Eunji so much.
      what's the appeal exactly?

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://youtube.com/@jay-quit-pmo?si=dhNEdjANMorFArKP

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I find drugs more enjoyable than naturally experiencing happiness
    >yes its easy to get my hands on and I ingest it in large quantities, how could you tell?
    >no I'm not addicted

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      so you agree that porn is better than sex?

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you sure it's not your partner giving you bad sexual experience and you're blaming yourself?
    I was virgin and got married for 3 years, and got divorce later.
    After meeting someone else I realized how bad at sex she was.
    Women generally think it's the man's job and she just stay still, but you need two to tango and so does sex.
    She wouldn't tilt her pelvis to take my whole dick, never relax her legs so I can enter her.
    I'm not shaming women with low body count mind you, I'm shaming women that give you bad sex and blame you for it.
    Which is why you find porn and masturbation more enjoyable than sex.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've found jerking off to be more enjoyable because I usually can't do what I want with women, it's a person you can't use it however you want, or rather I've never met a woman that has let me do that, they always b***h and complain about something they don't like which is a big turn off.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >because I usually can't do what I want with women
      what do you want to do with them?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        not him but I wish my gf liked being choked/slapped

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          too afraid of a rape allegation but i've met girls who like it, also you should go to hookers to try these things out

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    pretty based, not dealing with women will save you a lot of money and a lot of headaches.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate women but I want to start a family one day. Not sure what to do about it.

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I usually feel like crap afterwards
    Find a better partner

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