I found a girl who I could start dating, but she told me she has exes and she's had sex before.

I found a girl who I could start dating, but she told me she has exes and she's had sex before.
Every time this happens, I just lose all interest. It's weird, I no longer relate to her mentally. A grown man should be able to get over this, but I'm not.

This is a big issue because it's nearly impossible to find a hot virgin who isnt to young.

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  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah you're gonna have to either accept that all these women have had sex before or die alone. There's really no other option

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry you missed out on teenage love but the world isn't going to stop spinning and wait for you to catch up
      Become realistic or die never having felt love, your choice

      I cant, both are options which dont make me happy
      It's like happiness is already out of reach
      I dont think I'd slowly fall in love with a milf even if I forced myself to date one

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        this is all a (you) problem
        we rarely get exactly what we want in life, being adaptable is our most useful trait as humans, work on that
        or don't, idc personally

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I understand, but the problem is that I'm not "adaptable".
          I'm literally saying that it's not a choice. I cant choose love.
          I'm physically, spiritually, and mentally only able to love a virgin teen, but I cant get one for many reasons like law, morals etc. I might be unironically a hebefile

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm physically, spiritually, and mentally only able to love a virgin teen
            yeah, i thought similar to you before i got my first gf. you get over it really quick when you actually find someone you love and give it a chance.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            You just got hooked on pussy

            When the high dissipates you will be locked in a regretful situation

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >i bit the first hook i saw and you will too
            No.

            >i didn't want those grapes anyway, they're sour!
            i understand. when you spend long enough reading foxes saying they don't even want the grapes on the internet while lacking real human interaction, you start forgetting how to view people as people and how to form a healthy relationship.
            you really need to take a step back and think - if your fake, idealized versions of love and relationships are actively preventing you from ever getting in one, then is it really the entire rest of the world that is wrong?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            not him, but people have different concepts of love
            everyone has their own
            nothing wrong with that
            the sad part however is that some people can find happiness and others cant
            usually it's not even a choice though

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Your preferences may not be a choice but adapting always is

            [...]
            >i didn't want those grapes anyway, they're sour!
            i understand. when you spend long enough reading foxes saying they don't even want the grapes on the internet while lacking real human interaction, you start forgetting how to view people as people and how to form a healthy relationship.
            you really need to take a step back and think - if your fake, idealized versions of love and relationships are actively preventing you from ever getting in one, then is it really the entire rest of the world that is wrong?

            Nevertheless, yes, the entire world is wrong in this one and truth is not validated by the number of people doing something

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            It's just something so common, young inexperienced boy gets some pussy, thinks he found the love of his life

            Don't take this as a jab at you, prostitute-san

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >internet while lacking real human interaction, you start forgetting how to view people as people and how to form a healthy relationship.
            LOL moron I have friends and a job, we're not all fricking hikkiNEETs.
            >fake and idealized versions of love and relationships
            Spending your life with 1 person wasn't fake or idealized 20 years ago.
            >then is it really the entire rest of the world that is wrong?
            Yes it is.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >Spending your life with 1 person wasn't fake or idealized 20 years ago.
            anon, 20 years ago was 2004.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            When did social media and smartphones pop up? When did dating apps pop up? Not in 2004 I can tell you that much. Early 2000's was the last time finding love was viable. It was all downhill from there.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >i bit the first hook i saw and you will too
            No.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >we rarely get exactly what we want in life

          Ever since childhood I've always wanted to win as beautifully as possible. I need to get exactly what I want. Hell, I havent compromised once in my life.
          If I dont get what I want, I start screeching and tantruming and wear myself out in a tantrum that might last for years. But usually, if I just continue said tantruming, I get what I want.
          Women are different though. I have inceltantrumed for 15 years now. That means I'm 15 years older and now I can only get old women, I dont want them.
          I will screech until I die, I guess. Blaming others, of course.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I mean it's kinda lame being the 2nd, 3rd or, Allah forbid, 30th

        Such lameness is simply not compatible with the idea of an all-consuming romance, only with a transactional settling down.

        Honestly I'm convinced happiness is a myth

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          you can find a virgin but you'll need to spend every waking hour joining and filtering through very private female friend groups and hobbies

          Both these posts are very true
          >you can find a virgin but you'll need to spend every waking hour joining and filtering through very private female friend groups and hobbies
          I did this for a few years and it was so exhausting I gave up
          But yeah most people dont even know that is the true way to get the best females. They are hidden so deep

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >I mean it's kinda lame being the 2nd, 3rd or, Allah forbid, 30th

          It really hit me hard when I realized that adult relationships are just interchangeable. Adults dont even care who they're dating. They just frick some bag of meat and share housing costs with them and claim this person is "The One" for them (currently) until they fight over feminism or something and reroll.
          This contradicts my purist idea of love so hard. Reality is so goddamn fake I cant get over it.
          I'm not crazy, everyone else is.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            You are right and the world is wrong
            I mean its generally unhealthy to have such an outlook without at least allowing the chance that everyone else may actually be right
            But that doesnt mean something is true and good just because everyone else does it and casual sex people are often lost and hurt at the deep bottom of their beings
            Like Christ said, be in the world but not of the world

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            My life here on Earth is hell. My brain says x but the world does -x.
            I hate alcohol, everyone loves alcohol
            I hate casual sex, world revolves around casual sex
            I hate capitalism, the world is 100% capitalism
            etc

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Stay true to your self, but dont beat yourself up too much if you fail, and learn to dance along with life instead of maxxing its fkelds like a game
            Give time to time, develop yourself, have patience and seek God

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >seek God
            Jesus washed away my sins and I'm a new man. But I still have nothing meaningful to do and I struggle with depression. I dont have a wife or a career like most Christian normies.
            I have no idea what to do with my time here on Earth, there is nothing here for me. All I do is watch anime. Was this God's plan for me?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Its happy to know youre already in the path
            I wish I could tell you man, but I cant
            All I know is that if you have a center in yourself, if you develop your inner life, the world wont bother you that much
            It is possible to live without bitterness anon, take it from an once very bitter person

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Sorry you missed out on teenage love but the world isn't going to stop spinning and wait for you to catch up
    Become realistic or die never having felt love, your choice

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >never having felt love
      non virgin women can't love, they can merely pretend, put up some fake facade of 'love' that functions at maybe 10% of the real thing.
      Love comes from the bond of having sex for the first time, and the flood of hormones pair bonding each other together chemically in the brain.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Like I said, the normie needs to have some interchangeable person to always be there so they wont go insane
        I just cant do it
        It's too fake
        It's puppy love or lonely alcoholism

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Reminder that women can absolutely be autistic like this and just cultivate whatever kind of man they want
    Women dont need to adapt or manage expectations
    OP is simply living the female way of dating in a man's body

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Plenty of women with weird picky standards like that just stay alone. That one shota poster femanon for example is always complaining she can't get a boyfriend and it's because she insists on a virgin white guy younger than her who doesn't do drugs and doesn't use dating apps among other requirements.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >she insists on a virgin white guy younger than her who doesn't do drugs and doesn't use dating apps among other requirements

        Sounds like me
        I wrote a book on why dating apps are a net negative on humanity

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    okay scott pilgrim

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Your instincts serve you well, just reduce your superficial expectations that she be hot. Remember, all used women is instantly a massive increase in relationship risks and issues.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    you can find a virgin but you'll need to spend every waking hour joining and filtering through very private female friend groups and hobbies

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Its Chads world we are living in anon
    Be happy to be able to get his crumbles
    A lot of men die of hunger

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >poor me, I can't find a virgin
    Yeah whatever OP. I just came into this thread to say that I absolutely love that art style of sexy European comics.

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    then use her until you find someone more pure

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If you're a virgin man, you probably won't find a virgin woman who would be willing to be with you.

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >Every time this happens, I just lose all interest.
    same, I'm a KHHV in my late 20's
    But even in highschool when I was 18 or something some crazy chick was like super obviously into me and there isn't a shadow of a doubt I could've fricked her, but after I found out she had a BF before and wasn't a virgin I was just super disgusted by any remotely sexual thought of her.

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