I found out my girlfriend lied to me and went to a trip with a guy instead of her female friend , they rented a double room with a pool.

I found out my girlfriend lied to me and went to a trip with a guy instead of her female friend , they rented a double room with a pool.

She insist to me that nothing happened and the she didn't cheat and she only lied so I wasn't insecure about it

Im really in love and in struggling to cut her off but I know this is unacceptable.

Give me strength to do what I have to do before she takes a plane and fly to my door and I forgive her and get hurt in the future again

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >she only lied so I wasn't insecure about it
    yeah, lying to people usually helps them get over their trust issues
    even if nothing happened for real your gf sounds like a dumb b***h and you should dump her

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >rents a double room with a pool
    >"nothing happened"
    lol
    lmao even

    Have some dignity and dump her hoe'ing ass

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You are definitely right to be angry. I'd give her one more chance but tell her if you ever catch her lying again it's over.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >one more chance
      i'm willing to bet this isn't the first time she pulled shit like this

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It is the first time indeed, we've been together for a year and a half , she was acting sketchy , I'm not moronic and I found out

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          still big enough of a frickup to break up with her imo
          especially her bullshit excuse

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          still big enough of a frickup to break up with her imo
          especially her bullshit excuse

          also did she really call you insecure for not wanting her to go on holiday alone with a guy friend? just cut your losses, my man

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            To be honest I'm insecure and she knows, apparently the friend she was going to go with cancelled her and spontaneously this guy suggested to go, and she wanted to keep it as a secret for me so I didn't lose my shit over it.

            I don't think she is capable of cheating, like I don't think she slept with him, but she broke my trust and I know this will make me paranoid and cause me a lot of anxiety every time she goes out from now on, so even if she didn't do anything, I'm fricked mentally in this relationship for a long time.

            She is telling me she will take a plane and show up on my door to prove to me she is sorry and she wants me. (She is studying abroad right now) , if she does that I'm sure I will forgive her. But honestly I don't want to , she will lose respect for me if I do

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >She is telling me she will take a plane and show up on my door to prove to me she is sorry and she wants me
            Sounds more like she feels guilty and wants to expiate guilt by doing a grand gesture. People who cheat on others tend to be super nice for a bit to compensate

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            you're not being insecure, it's perfectly reasonable to not want your gf to go on holiday with some random guy. why do you think he suggested to come with her in the first place? any good woman would see it the same way and not act like she was doing you a favour by lying to protect you from your own "insecurity"

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Taking a plane absolved you of sin because you're so close to jesus

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            What would getting on a plane prove?

            I actually am in the minority and think that going on a holiday with an opposite sex friend, even sharing a hotel room with separate beds would be okay but only if there's no deception about it and the two people are genuinely trustworthy. The lying just shows that she thought it was wrong and proves she has no moral compass. The attempt to manipulate you with an empty promise to fly out (unless she's so rich it wouldn't matter to drop that money on a flight) is more proof of this.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            She had enough money to go on holiday with this other guy.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm not moronic
          The fact that you're considering letting her into your residence says otherwise.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can't believe he is still talking with her. He should pack her shit and set it outside and not be there when she picks it up.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If someone can't even be faithful for 2 years you need to dump her. Make sure you get a full STD test too and for the love of God do not frick her again

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >cheats
      >muuuuh one more chance
      Reddit is this way - reddit(dot)com

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah OP thats unacceptable, the trip with a guy was already over the line and lying about it makes the line looks like a dot.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I found out my girlfriend lied
    You mean "ex-gf" right?
    >she only lied
    Only...right, she "only" breached your trust and expressed a total lack of respect for you. Only, anon?
    You either have standards, boundaries and principles, or you don't. If you don't, enjoy being treated like a convenient doormat and emotional tampon while also being cucked. If you do, then there's no question, no compounding factors that could change things, only one answer: stand up for yourself, or live under her heel. The more you "need" someone, the more power they have over you, and it's only power that you give them. Giving it to someone that doesn't even respect you, or that power, is a recipe for disaster.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sorry to hear this my dude. I'm holding up my hands to grant you spirit energy to do what you have to do. You will be better off when she's gone. Sorry again brother, but you'll be alright.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wrote an entire then accidentally hit reload. Anyways - break up with her. breach of trust. She doesn't respect you. things will only get worse if you continue.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, then it's most likely a duck.
    If she lied already about one thing I wouldn't be surprised about another, my condolences OP. But she doesn't seem to respect your boundaries.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do what your soul tells you to do. Just know that all the Anons saying "Dump her" are bitter woman-hating incel virgins.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Just know that all the Anons saying "Dump her" are bitter woman-hating incel virgins.
      I miss the time when (moronic) normie women didn't come to NSFFW

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I want to believe her, I want to forgive her, but how do I know that she is not lying now? Or tomorrow? Or the next? This created a precedent and I know it will affect the relationship and it will give me a lot of anxiety

      I wish I could just brush it off and confirm she is not cheating and continue with all the life plans we had, but even if she didn't cheat she lied

      It's just so complicated and painful man

      I don't want to dump her but she forced me tho, what a fricking idiot

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >she lied
        This isn't a simple lie. This is full fledged premeditated betrayal. A lot of planning went into this along with the expense to spend a weekend with a male lover and keep it from you. Now she is lying after you caught her when she says nothing happened. You trusted someone you shouldn't have trusted. Admit to yourself you are wrong about her nature. Admit to yourself she does not love you now if she ever did. Admit to yourself it is easy for her to deceive you because you care and she doesn't

  10. 2 months ago

    Change the locks and blast Dying Fetus when she comes knocking.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When she gets back show her how good of a bf you are by linking her pussy real clean. Just tongue that hole really good.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    homie she lied! She did cheat, break up. She cucked you!

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Also if she'll admit to this only after getting caught out being shady. She will eventually admit to having "just shared a kiss" or "just having sex with him one time" which will feel a hundred times worse when the truth finally comes out. Do not trust this woman OP. You don't deserve to be put through that

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Give me strength to do what I have to do
    Fricking simp beta b***h, kys

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Whatever I changed idea you're so weak you deserve to be a cuck

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you stay with her, you've set up a precedent that it's ok to frick others on the side while you're committing your life to her. Just leave.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She's a lying prostitute(she totally fricked her friend you dumb frick).
    She doesn't respect you and neither do I.
    Grow some balls and get another girl.
    If you want a little vengeance, hook up with one of her friends, family or better yet, someone she hates.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Op here, I broke up with her for good.

    She probably didn't cheat but what she did is enough for me to end things .

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    They only went skinny dipping and shared a bed together with a pillow separator.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >She probably didn't cheat
    He's delusional, send him to the infirmary.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bro I only needed to read the first half of the first sentence to know it was a wrap. Unless there was a killswitch attached to his dick that was keeping you alive there's no excuse for this.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It doesn’t matter what happened. Both lying and sharing a room with another dude are wrong in themselves. Even is she had a video of the entire time proving her story, I’d still break up with her.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Trust has been broken, there is no coming back from that. You'll forever doubt any interaction she will have without you. That's not worth it. Break up, move on and find a new woman.

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