I gave my boyfriend HSV1 (I got it from my mom) and now he's insulting me and won't talk to me again

I gave my boyfriend HSV1 (I got it from my mom) and now he's insulting me and won't talk to me again

Do you think he's overreacting?
I feel bad I gave him an incurable disease but on the other hand I didn't do it on purpose, 90% of the population has it, it's just a little sore on the mouth once a year for 2-3 days and there's nothing to do about it

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yet another benefit of being a virgin

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You should have a nice day

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    did you warn him that you have it? was he aware of the risk?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yes I did
      I had an outbreak while we were on vacation together, I kept disinfecting my hands, lips and him too ; we did not kiss or share dishes
      but somehow he still got it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        well he probably should have left you if he didn't want to get it. I have a very hard time believing that he didn't come in contact as that's how it's spread, so you guys must have done something

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It was either before I got the sore (there's a presymptomatic phase) either it got on a surface and he touched it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I've been with my wife for 5 years, she's had it since youth in the same way you have and I don't have it so I'm just having a great deal of difficulty believing that this was handled responsibly and he still somehow got it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I noticed the breakout when we got home from a skiing day
            I didn't tell him at first because I was very ashamed, but I disinfected my lips and washed my hands

            We were laying in bed and I was avoiding kissing but he ended up giving me a peck

            I immediately told him to go disinfect his lips and wash his hands

            Then we avoided kissing for the rest of the week, didn't share dishes or anything

            We still cuddled and had sex but did not kiss, most of the time I was wearing either a mask or a bandaid

            I think the only things we could've done better would have been
            - if I had gotten valaciclovir before leaving for a vacation and took it durk'g the breakout, but I don't think a doctor would've prescribed it to me
            - if we did not touch each other AT ALL, but we're LDR and only share a week together every 3 month so it was really hard to decide

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I didn't tell him at first
            ahhhh here we go. So it is your fault. Then yeah it sounds like you're a dumb b***h and it makes sense that he's mad

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            but I told him like.. 3 hours later

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If I have HIV, bust in your mouth and let you swallow my load, and then 3 hours later you and I blurt out at the exact same time that we are positive for HSV1 and HIV, would that be acceptable to you? I mean sure, your HSV1 may give me genital herpes, and I may have given you HIV but.... we told each other 3 hours later right? Certainly it's fine as long as we warn each other once it's too late to avoid?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't know if you're trolling

            he was aware I was positive for HSV1 way before
            he was not aware I was having a breakout until three hours after I noticed

            maybe it's more clear like that

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No my example still makes perfect sense. Cause there's actually a drug that can be taken within 72 hours of HIV exposure that MAY prevent the virus taking hold. So if I told you 3 hours later, and you took the PEP to try and avoid HIV, but then still got HIV it would be okay right? Because even though I knew there was a distinct chance of me transmitting it to you, I was ashamed at the time and told you after. Right? That would be fine?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I get what you mean
            I guess I shouldn't have let him give me a peck at all

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            In a situation where you were aware of a heightened chance of transmission, and him doing something that would be normal in the course of a relationship like innocuously kissing you would greatly increase his risk, yes it was absolutely your responsibility to inform him of that risk, regardless of whatever shame you felt for having something you had no control over. Now he gets to have that shame too! the only difference is that this time, you did have some control

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what do i do now

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What do you mean you moron? You gave someone herpes and had the distinct opportunity to potentially prevent it. Apologize sincerely first of all? What do you think you should do? If you were in his shoes, what would you want the person that did this to you to do? If it was me, I'd want some frickin alone time after that apology I can tell you that

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            well he blocked me everywhere and I don't even know if we're still together at this point
            so I can't even apologize now
            so I guess I do nothing

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You ruined his life you little narcissistic b***h. Let this be a lesson to you! You are getting off far lighter than you deserve.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            but what do you mean I ruined his life
            he's going to get a cold sore now and maybe never again maximum once every other year for 3 days
            and 90% of the population has it
            how is that a ruined life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe this is your chance to cut your losses early and find for a man who's not an butthole.
            He knew about it and took the risk willingly, and now he's blaming you. Shows he has no accountability. Not only that, but he's being mean about it. Really no reason to keep him.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't know if you're trolling

            he was aware I was positive for HSV1 way before
            he was not aware I was having a breakout until three hours after I noticed

            maybe it's more clear like that

            and we had not touched each other at all during these 3 hours, I was avoiding him
            it's only when he gave me a peck, I told him to go disinfect himself and to not kiss me anymore

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You ruined his life you little narcissistic b***h. Let this be a lesson to you! You are getting off far lighter than you deserve.

            Lmao b***h is really comparing cold sores to HIV.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I kept disinfecting my hands, lips and him too
        >I disinfected my lips
        You are a moron.
        That is not how it works at all.
        Learn how viruses are spread before you disease up the rest of the world you fricking imbecile.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I kept disinfecting my hands, lips and him too
        hahahaha hooooly shit no fricking way
        jesus christ the two of you deserve each other

  4. 1 month ago
    jackie

    my wife did this to me and now we are married
    i also freaked out and was mad at her

    maybe he will stay with you forever now since he's dirty
    🙂
    :*~~*~~))

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I mean I feel like if you're getting into a relationship with someone with cold sores you should accept you'll catch the virus someday

      Do you resent her?
      Can I do something to make him feel better?

      On the other hand I feel very good now he stopped talking to me so I realize he might be toxic, but I'd feel super bad to pull a "yeah I gave you herpes now I'm leaving you"

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    he just keeps making me feel ashamed for being below his standard, for being ethnic, for not being as rich as him

    I was afraid to tell him I had a breakout because I knew what he'd think "ah... my low standard poor girlfriend now has herpes ! great vacation!"

    even now he's telling me I'm a "d tier practice girlfriend that gave him herpes"

    I guess it was my fault but ultimately I'm sick of feeling ashamed for what I am constantly with him

    so I guess I'll just leave him with his herpes and try to find a relationship where I feel more confortable and less ashamed of what I am

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      not to erase all my responsibility in this but I do feel that if he had a more comforting, less blaming and shaming personality I would've been comfortable speaking out directly about my breakout

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >not to erase all my responsibility in this
        >but
        >[proceeds to erase responsibility]
        Doesn't matter what he was like, your part in this is your part in this. You're a moron for being in that situation with a guy treating you that poorly to begin with but that doesn't make it acceptable to pass out lifelong diseases like candy on halloween.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          my point is, if you don't want people to pass on diseases, don't shame them for having the disease

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The point you're making is not a valid one. Shaming people for having a disease does not release them of their obligation to avoid its spread. You're really dumb no wonder you stuck around this guy

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >if you don't want people to pass on diseases, don't shame them for having the disease
            The more you degenerates knowingly spread disease, the more people will fricking hate you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah definitely do that, be the d tier ethnic girl responsible for even more widespread herpes lmao. See if you can set a record

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      He was exactly right about you, stupid c**t.
      You're Z-tier by the way, have a nice day.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just didn't want to ruin the vacation
    We see each other once every 3 months and I get an outbreak...
    I didn't want to ruin that week and I figured if I avoided kisses it'd be fine
    I don't know why I have to be the awful person in this

    I wish instead of blocking me and insulting me he just said "I knew there was a risk, I forgive you, I love you, let's get over this"

    instead I get to feel like an STD ridden dumbass when I gave him my virginity and all my firsts

    I just hate my life so much

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I wish that instead of it actually being my fault he had taken responsibility and gotten over it immediately
      well wouldn't that be nice

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't feel TOO bad he probably just wanted pussy and didn't feel like it was worth it to see you. If he is a player he will never talk to you again and always anticipated doing this.
      You are a dumb bawd though and you let a man use you as a pump and dump so let that be your lesson. If it makes you feel better it sounds like you got money since you go skiing so if you're cute I'd have probably not cared as much. I gave like 3-4 girls herpes. They continued to frick me after and only one other one I was also fricking got freaked out and blocked me. One didn't get it and the rest I fricked for at least 30+ times before they got it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >instead I get to feel like an STD ridden dumbass when I gave him my virginity and all my firsts
      You weren’t supposed to blindly give him your fi- never mind, I feel like all of this is adequate punishment for your actions.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        read her earlier post

        yes I did
        I had an outbreak while we were on vacation together, I kept disinfecting my hands, lips and him too ; we did not kiss or share dishes
        but somehow he still got it

        , she has a legitimate 80-85 iq
        she (and her idiot boyfriend) think disinfectant works on viruses

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          nevemrind im the moron
          it works on herpes because it has a lipid bilayer
          disregard my post i suck wieners

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fun fact: knowingly giving someone an STD without properly informing them beforehand is a crime in many places

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that will be a fun way to learn she's unblocked when he pursues those options

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    thanks for the advice
    >you're a moron
    >you're awful
    >you're dumb
    >you'll go to jail

    yeah I know what to do about it now, great

    I know my friend with HSV1 doesn't even tell her boyfriends about it and I get all these insults when I really did my best besides one simple hesitation, as if the insults were going to cure him

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >really did my best
      >besides
      so not your best. If I do my best not to drunk drive, besides the one time I drunk drive and murder a family of 4, nobody says oh pity that poor man, he NEVER drinks and drives but that once, it's really not his fault. Actions have consequences dummy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you love dramatic examples don't you
        hopefully you get herpes too

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Is that dramatic? You gave someone herpes altering their life forever after letting him pump your holes. You've both lost value, ironically though the non virgin herpes riddles young lady moreso. But cope to your heart's content I suppose, you really got him!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            oh my god he's going to have a sore every other year yes this is totally comparable to a family dying in a car crash

            herpes is literally like varicella which 99% of the population has

            stop being fricking ridiculous
            tired of pretending his life is ruined

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I mean... some people won't date people with herpes, which is likely what made you the d tier practice gf right? So his life is permanently altered. I mean not as much as yours now that you're going to have to fake your virginity to prathdeepmakurpreet singh sometime down the line in your arranged marriage but... nonetheless

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            well I guess I'm glad he doesn't get to feel superior anymore!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            congrats, you gave a guy herpes taking 1 of 10 things he felt superior to you about... for the price of your virginity. I wonder how that's going to sink in over time

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            so herpes is no big deal now..?
            funny how you change your point just to disagree with me

            at first it's like a car crash and now it's like "1 in 10 thingd" lmao.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            damn your brain must be as rotten as your herpes riddled lips if your comprehension is that poor. He felt superior about everything, now you've removed one thing and given him a life long disease. Congrats on being proud of it all of a sudden btw that's a pretty quick 180. I can tell you're going to be a very successful practice fling for several more gentleman before some poor sucker settles for you. Please come back and post updates. Best of luck!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            no, to be honest this whole experience has made me realize sex and dating is too much of a headache so I guess I'll grow old with cats at this point
            Maybe if he wants me back someday... but I don't think so and I'm not too mad about it

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't care anyway
    I guess giving him herpes will humble him for looking down on me for so long, it's his punishment, and it also made me realize how much better I feel now he's not talking to me

    maybe this herpes situation is a blessing in disguise

    hope he never talks to me again

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you should incriminate yourself further on the internet as if this was a purposeful revenge act

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        it's not a crime in my country so it's fine

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >it's his punishment
      And yours will be prison

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        see

        it's not a crime in my country so it's fine

        There's literally nothing he can do, and he deserves it anyways so... I win

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ca va

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          can you get tested so we have confirmation?

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Cannot get an organ transplant if it flares up. The diseased shoulder stick with other diseased and stop infecting the pure.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your bf is not only overreacting (HSV1 =/= HSV2) but is also a moron for fornicating and then acting angry when he caught something.
    Even if you did have an STD, as he apparently believes, it's his own damn fault for expecting the same behavior from you that would have led you to initially contract the disease he'd get. But you don't, so the point is moot. Both his reasoning and his premise are flawed.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >below average looking
    >Recently got genital hsv1
    So I'm assuming what little sex life i had is pretty much over huh?

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    HSV1 is literally nothing

    the NHS don't even test for it

    babies get it from granny kissing them on the cheek

    90% of the population

    basically unless you're a trad virgin with a lifetime bodycount of 1 you're overwhelmingly likely to get it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >trad virgin
      She was til she let that dude use all her holes and throw her in the trash kek

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        chatgpt?

        OP got it from their mom

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Read the rest of the thread dipshit

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    90% of the population
    That’s what you bawds keep telling us. Nobody asked me.

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