I had an affair with my best friend's husband. I saw that he was in a vulnerable place and spiraling in despair.

I had an affair with my best friend's husband. I saw that he was in a vulnerable place and spiraling in despair. I came by his side to comfort him and we shared our deepest vulnerabilities with each other and it culminated in us consummating it by having sex.

She has since passed away and we have both grieved for her. We never meant her any harm by our adultery and I hope she can forgive us and rest in peace.

Her son knows about our affair. He is very hurt and angry. He feels betrayed by us, he even feels betrayed by his aunt. She understood the complexities of our affair and her faith in our fundamental decency is not misplaced. She tried to contact him with his dad and I guess he felt like he had been stabbed in the back because he refused to understand where any of us were coming from.

She has known and loved him since he was a boy but I'm not good qt giving advice to help her cope with the estrangement of someone she loved so dearly. What advice can I give her?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a challenging situation and my sympathy goes to everybody in it. Encourage his aunt to give her son some space and time to process his feelings. Suggest that open communication and counseling might help bridge the gap when he's ready. Understanding and empathy are key during difficult times like this.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >unironically simping for a cheating prostitute

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're a home wrecker and looking for sympathy...

    And if the woman was dead before that, you still should have known better and kept some distance for a while.

    I don't know what kind of sympathy you want, or advice we could really give you. You should be ashamed in my opinion, human or not, for succumbing to such things...

    Literally the entire death of your "best friend" (surely she was your best friend) has been complicated and stained by this extra layer that could have been prevented.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not looking for sympathy. I need advice on how to comfort my friend. She is the aunt my affair partner's son and he chose to estrange her. I want to give her advice on how to cope with her connection to him being severed.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hope you die you scum. People like you were hung from gallows in the old'n days.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >our fundamental decency
      ?? it's pretty clear that down to a fundamental level, you're not decent. These are not extraneous circumstances wherein it would be appropriate to have an affair with your "best friend's" husband

      /thread
      op is a mega-homosexual.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >our fundamental decency
      ?? it's pretty clear that down to a fundamental level, you're not decent. These are not extraneous circumstances wherein it would be appropriate to have an affair with your "best friend's" husband

      [...]
      /thread
      op is a mega-homosexual.

      You'll never understand unless you find yourselves in a situation similar to ours. I did care about my friend and whether you think that's offensive to you is of no concern to me because it's rooted in ignorance and hatred.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The only advice you should give her is to keep her husband far away from you lest you inadvertently and certainly by no fault of your own.... suck his wiener

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Her husband died a few years ago. I think she would appreciate it if you didn't say something so crass about the dead by accident.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Howd he died id? Did you suck the life out of him?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            He had heart disease. His death weighed very heavily on her nephew because they shared a lot of fond memories together.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Was the heart "disease" a broken heart because he was fricking you but you couldn't be together because of that pesky wife? Seems like its up your alley

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, just the regular kind. He really was a wonderful man and he got along with everybody and knew how to make them laugh. And he'd volunteer his time at children's hospitals entertaining kids with terminal illnesses. His absence is felt by everyone but especially his wife.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            None more than you his affair partner im sure

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >rooted in ignorance and hatred.
        You betrayed your friend and a husband betrayed his wife. Hurting his son in the process. That's all their is to it. You have no excuse for what you've done.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >He is very hurt and angry
          As he should be. His father's human garbage.
          >he even feels betrayed by his aunt
          If she's in the side of his "father". Then he should feel betrayed.
          >felt like he had been stabbed in the back
          Him and his mother have been.
          >She has known and loved him since he was a boy
          She's betrayed him and his mother. What she's done along with his father, is unforgivable. I hope he can find peace eventually but what you people have done is unforgivable.

          It was a beautiful and joyful connection that we shared and it's completely irrational and invalid to interpret it as evil. And his son was not "hurt," he was offended at something he regarded with bigotry and refused to understand. I hope someday that he changes and recognizes our inherent decency. It is a shame how society is driven to demonize us when we have no desire to hurt others but to be understood and empathized with.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >inherent decency
            >no desire to hurt
            Your intentions dont matter in this case moron, your actions and their consequences do

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It makes no sense why that should apply in this case. If we applied it to a father who killed a pedophile whi was molesting his son at the time: we'd be throwing the book at him because he committed murder and it distressed the molester's mother.

            But we wouldn't apply that line of reasoning in that case so it completely baffles me why we should apply it in cases where infidelity is committed. The only reason why I can see it's different is because you people are willfully ignorant and sadistic and want an excuse to to revel in the suffering of others while giving yourselves lame and insincere excuses for it without having to critically examining your own thoughts. This is why I have no sympathy for anybody who gets cheated on.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You're confusing legality and morality

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe you don't understand what I'm saying?

            I'm saying that the application of such reasoning is inconsistent. To reiterate my example, if we consider a situation where a father kills a pedophile molesting his son, we might condemn the murder but understand the motive. However, when it comes to infidelity, the reasoning appears different. This inconsistency raises questions about the underlying moral judgments and societal attitudes, leading to frustration for those seeking clarity in such matters. Does that make sense?

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >our fundamental decency
    ?? it's pretty clear that down to a fundamental level, you're not decent. These are not extraneous circumstances wherein it would be appropriate to have an affair with your "best friend's" husband

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OP gotta be an AI poster every single one of these posts has the exact same length format and feel to it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah you can tell by the post and responses, it all sounds off as frick like when i used to roleplay with chatgpt

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just have an affair with the son so he won't be mad at you.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically have a nice day.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I had an affair with my best friend's husband
    homosexual

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >He is very hurt and angry
    As he should be. His father's human garbage.
    >he even feels betrayed by his aunt
    If she's in the side of his "father". Then he should feel betrayed.
    >felt like he had been stabbed in the back
    Him and his mother have been.
    >She has known and loved him since he was a boy
    She's betrayed him and his mother. What she's done along with his father, is unforgivable. I hope he can find peace eventually but what you people have done is unforgivable.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    God I hate women

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women and treachery
    Name a more iconic duo

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're only getting angry at her because she invalidated her best friend's narcissistic sense of entitlement to her husband's sexuality. There's no reason as to why sharing a galvanized sexual experience with her husband should not strengthen their friendship rather than be interpreted as a personal attack on herself. Any excuse or mental gymnastics as to why it should be seen as a bad thing is just an insincere rationalization to dehumanize the adulterers which was conditioned into people by mentally abusive religious authorities and parental figures.

      So no, getting cheated on doesn't hurt anybody or make them victims of anything. And it doesn't excuse them to inflict sadistic retribution on anyone or to dehumanize them. Anybody who thinks it does makes a strong case for why infidelity is a more sincere expression of love than marriage.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        As long there's delusion, There is hope

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Now you're reduced to chanting mantras mindlessly like you're in a cult.

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        Anonymous

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  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This reads very familiar someone told me about. You're a prostitute that's all

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Op do you think yes or no?

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