I have a friends with benefits who doesn't seem that interested in sex... we have it... a lot...

I have a friends with benefits who doesn't seem that interested in sex... we have it... a lot... she initiates it, but she doesn't treat it like sex... like she talks casually about her day, her friends, movies and shit while I'm fricking her... sometimes she'll tell me shes going to cum but its nothing bombastic, no moaning...

What the frick is going on? Why is she like this? is this normal? she also has zero boundaries now that we've started having sex... she walked in on me taking a shit and instead of leaving she sits in my lap and makes out with me occasionally pausing to tell me about a video she watched about the movie Food Fight.

She is on the spectrum, She was heavily abused by her last boyfriend, shes told me I'm the only guy she has sex with and she knows and is ok with me having sex with other girls... though I've basically stopped because she takes up a lot of my time.

Anyone else experience... anything like this? Is this going to end bad? I've asked her if she wanted a relationship, she just says shit like shes not girlfriend material which is a lie, my apartment has never been cleaner and I've been eating great and actually working out since we've been spending so much time together.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going out on a limb here, but I think her self esteem is shot to shit and even if only subconsciously, she thinks the only way to get people to care about what's going on in her day to day life is to offer up her body in exchange for them listening.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Please be nice to her. The attention she gets firing sex might be the only positive interaction she can count on

      Jesus christ... why though? like she isn't the prettiest in the world, and she is cringey but shes super fricking sweet and nice, what do I do then? like how do I get past that? I am scared to say no to sex and talk with her because I feel like she'll feel its a rejection... also I came into her friend group as a friend of a friend, and she started having sex with me... why weren't any of her other guy friends banging her?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Those are some dumb fricking questions son. Do you want to eventually wife up this broken girl or dispose of her like the previous guy? Make up your mind fast because she is getting attached.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Wife her.

          >Imagine this is your boyfriend
          >Imagine I lost you to this (I drive a porsche and am a self-made millionaire twice from nothing, on my own, yet I lost her, am coping on NSFFWg and feeling my autism coming back by the day)

          You ok buddy?

          >why weren't any of her other guy friends banging her?
          what makes you think she wasn't? What makes you think she isn't now? Do you think she's the only woman in the world who never lies or something?

          I mean she could be lying, and our friends could also be lying, but we're all the frick and tell sort, I mean they all know we're fricking and they all acted like it was weird or actually gross I was banging her? Like she isn't horrible looking, she's clean... when we first started having sex she didn't shave but has started and has been smooth ever since. She doesn't wear make up much, which I'm fine with... she has dark circles and is a little fat but she's been losing weight and we've been working out together so like... I don't get it?
          I thought maybe, huge body count, but hers is 7 as confirmed by her best friend.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >acted like it was weird or actually gross I was banging her?
            I had an insanely powerful crush on a girl when I was younger, we even made out a couple times but I dropped the L-bomb way too early and she abandoned ship immediately. and all my friends were like "EWWW DUDE REALLY? SHE'S SO GROSS?"
            Then one of them started banging my oneitis (her) and eventually they were living together and basically engaged.
            This really lead to trust issues for me. Guy friends will just fricking lie about what they actually find attractive and cash in on any chance they get like hungry opportunistic hounds.

            The relationship broke off since he was a piece of shit, but still. Doesn't help she even joked about his "monster wiener" to me, since we stayed friends afterwards. I cut both of them out of my life since then.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's true. I could be fricking the gfs of my friends behind their backs right now if I wanted. It's so fricking hard to resist the urge when some petite bird is feeling up your arm or hitting your back 'jokingly' when your friend isn't around. I try to do the right thing, but my wiener & balls are NOT making this easy.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yep. Im a dog, thats why I get a kick outta cucking dudes. I dont do it to friends cause you need atleast some loyalty, but overall you having a gf means nothing to me. If anything I'll try to frick her BECAUSE she's with you.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Obviously I'm not ok. I've had psychosis for months because of this hoe and her ghosting

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Obviously I'm not ok. I've had psychosis for months because of this hoe and her ghosting

            Btw I was referring to your image OP

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that just raises more questions

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I lost her to some schmuck with a degree. He lived with his parents until mid 30s, and only worked for his parents. He moved in with her. I broke her spirit and she settled.

            It fricks me up but it's been months. I bet she's happy with him. It's at a point of no return now anyway. They're fricking every day and she's used. I think she was a virgin prior.

            It hurts. I just want to tell her I'm sorry, so she regrets her choice, and then she can live her life forever with that moron as I can move on. Until then, I simply can't. It feels like a loss, while I made some morons life.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thoughts?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thoughts?

            If it feels like a loss, maybe it is. You're mourning. And that's okay. You can't always win in life and this is one time you didn't.
            Just try your best to keep your head up, and move on. There will be other lovely girls for you to have to yourself

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thank you for responding anon. Do you really think best course of action is to move on in my case? I've been holding out hope that it wouldn't work out with them, and that she'd end up calling me, and I would be able to explain and express myself, but the more time that passes, the more disoriented I become of the phone call never happening.

            Your post almost felt like it was what I needed to get over her. How can I stop feel this way? I know it's wrong, btw, it just seems like the logical course of action for me right now, even though it's negatively impacting me a lot.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I would NOT hold out hope, but on the off chance she does call you, then yeah do what you are planning. Sounds like it could be cathartic for both of you.

            More importantly, in the meantime just keep focusing on yourself, don't get lost in the sauce.
            As I've said before a better girl might come along (or a worse one). Either way, you're still young (I assume), and there will be plenty of chances for you yet!

            >How can I stop feel this way?
            That I can't answer. Typically, time heals all, but at the same time, true resolve comes from within.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >but on the off chance she does call you, then yeah do what you are planning
            I do not expect a phone call. I feel like the biggest loser. But from her POV, she adored me and if it doesn't work out, she knows I'm right here, so who knows. But if I was her, I wouldn't call, and I would probably try my hardest to make the current relationship work in order to not put myself in a position to have to call the moron (me) in the first place.

            Basically, I don't expect a call, but I don't know, so it fricks me up.

            I have no plan anymore. I wanted to apologize initially, but it no longer matters. I feel like I pushed her into the current relationship, and maybe she is happy, maybe not, he comes across as desperation and settling, and I've read that settling generally doesn't work out.

            If I can move on, I win in the end. I'm still single. Not desperate. Doing good. She was desperate. Finally found some mommy's boy who moved in with her, who knows what man he'll be. And even despite this, I can't move on, because I'm not certain of the call.

            >true resolve comes from within
            Lord knows I try. Thank you anon. Your posts almost hit the spot. I need to just forget she exists and yet I fricking can't because of the uncertainty.........

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >hers is 7

            Ha.

            Get out and get out fast. Her friends lying for her.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >why weren't any of her other guy friends banging her?
        what makes you think she wasn't? What makes you think she isn't now? Do you think she's the only woman in the world who never lies or something?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        they were banging her, are you stupid?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >she thinks the only way to get people to care about what's going on in her day to day life is to offer up her body in exchange for them listening
      she's not wrong but she shouldn't realize this as a woman

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Please be nice to her. The attention she gets firing sex might be the only positive interaction she can count on

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Imagine this is your boyfriend
    >Imagine I lost you to this (I drive a porsche and am a self-made millionaire twice from nothing, on my own, yet I lost her, am coping on NSFFWg and feeling my autism coming back by the day)

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How about you go with the flow and chat with her while you frick. Frick therapy.

    Have you tried making out with her?
    Are you trying to make her cum or you’re using her to make yourself cum?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      We make out, like I said, sometimes in awkward places and she will like... break the kiss and talk about random shit, then go right back to making out... like I made it sound like she's only barged in on me shitting once but she's done it a few times and everytime she sits in my lap, talks, makes out... talks some more, then leaves... she'll talk while I'm eating her out or eating her ass, sucking her breasts, she isn't like my exes who would check to see if I'm listening, she just keeps talking, when she cums she says it so casually "Ooop! I'm cumming!" or "Frick thats a good one, good jorb" I really like it, its great sex to be honest, like when shes on top she could teach a masterclass which is wild cause she isn't the lightest girl in the world but she moves really fricking good. I just don't know why she shoots me down when I ask about a relationship, I mean she is pretty much my girlfriend at this point without the title, she changed her social media status and everything.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Holy fricking shit you moron, you're dealing with a clearly mentally damaged b***h you idiot. You know the saying that crazy pussy is hot pussy? Yeah that's why you're still here fricking this semi dead fish of a woman cause deep down your stupid ass loves that she's like this.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know how you're okay with her barging in on you shitting, which if i were you would be fed the frick up with, and making out randomly? That shits weird.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The first time... Ngl i was pissed until she popped a titty in my mouth and pet my hair... The last time she did it i hugged her and kissed her right away.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She’s probably coping. She wants sex but has trauma (rape, physical abuse, etc). Her way of enjoying sex is to talk and avoid having normal sex. She also is avoiding being your girlfriend because she is afraid you’ll abuse her like her ex. She has no commitment now. Once it becomes official. Things would change.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What do i do? I like her a lot. And the sex is great, last night we did anal and for a while she just sat with my dick in her... She talked about some resteraunt she went to and would occasionally stop to tell me how nice it was to just sit there with me inside her. Then this morning we had a quickie in the shower and she went home to do school work. Im sitting here realizing i kinda fricking miss her a lot.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >like she talks casually about her day, her friends, movies and shit while I'm fricking her...
    reminds me of a gore video I saw a very long time ago where a woman is just casually blogging about how her day went and what she did and all her relationships while making super deep cuts non-chalantly, was weird

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >girlfriend in denial

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thats what it feels like. She stays the night a lot. She also cooks for me. We cuddle a lot and she just talks and talks... She has stuff in my apartment... Toothbrush, clothes, has bought groceries and left them at my place. We went camping together but she made me promise it was just as friends. I asked her a couple times to just move in and she said it would be weird to live together and not be together... When i tell her we might as well be together she just laughs and says shes not girlfriend material but shes flattered. God i made a joke "We should just get married and i swear her face lit up but then she got all nervous and said "I wouldnt want a wife like her." The worst thing is yes... She has scars on her... Yes she gets weepy sometimes... But this is the first relationship if you can call it that where after fights. We appologize to eachother and communicate and compromise, my only issue is she does talk near constantly but thats mild, its at least usually interesting and she stays quiet when i ask her to.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Zoomers are such fricking homosexuals. This is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. Frick your generation

    This girl sounds like she is completely buck broken and has absolutely zero sense of self esteem.

    Frick you alk

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Shes 34

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