I have finally done it. After 24 years of my life. I actually managed to get a date with a girl.

I have finally done it. After 24 years of my life. I actually managed to get a date with a girl. And I am completely emotionless about it.

I don't know what's going on. We have shared interests, she's pretty and we're even on the same speed (meaning neither of us feel like we're moving too fast).

But seriously is the spark just not there? Has it just been too long? Has my autism just properly fricked me one last time? Or could it be an undiagnosed depression?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    She isn't your type

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What does that mean?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It means she isn't the kind of girl you like. You tried to date yourself with a vegana it sounds like. She is a friend, but you want a girl. Girls are different from you. I don't know what your type is, but from what you've described, I think I can tell what it isn't.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 24 too and kinda in a similar boat. Rejections don't phase me anymore. Getting dates and sex doesn't happy either. I think we just grew cynical and don't really care anymore.

    It's weird how I started getting showered with attention once I truly stopped caring about women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you think it's because we've grown so accustomed to getting rejected or not being the attractive one, we just learned to live with it.

      But now that things go "our way" we don't know how to feel or can even conjure up feelings for it? That's the best I can come up with right now at least.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >it's because we've grown so accustomed to getting rejected or not being the attractive one
        Yeah, more or less. I started hitting the gym because I just got disgusted with my skinny fat physique, start getting frequent haircuts, brush teeth every morning, and my clothing isn't just boring bland shit anymore. I didn't do any of these things to win favors with women, but rather I was kind of starting to hate myself so I either had to change or kms. I think they see that and my indifference as some sort of confidence or something. It's true that I don't hate myself anymore, but I really don't care about relationships either.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          nta but holy shit

          >I didn’t do any of these things to win favors with women, I was kind of starting to gate myself so I either had to change or kms.

          Fricking based and genuinely gonna make it pilled. You’ve just done what 90% of this fricking board fails to do. You’re a full blooded man now, mate. Good work.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You overhyped something so much that when you experienced the real deal, you got disappointed or felt unimpressed. That’s what happens when you torture yourself with an idealised version of reality.

    That ‘spark’ is called infatuation, and it’s something teenagers experience the first time round. If you missed it, tough luck. It’s nothing worth mourning anyway, as infatuation-based relationships almost always fail anyway. Just skip straight to rational love, it’s better long term. Stick with what you got right now and see it through. You’ll get to innumerable sweet moments as it grows into a full relationship.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Well the date has only been set though. I haven't gone to it yet. But still thanks for the advice.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    fricking c**ts

    I'm 27 and I still have nothing

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    see if you feel the same once you see her breasts

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >24
    >has it been too long
    kek
    What the frick do you expect?
    It is a DATE. It isn't like your wife is leaving you, you dumbass

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I just wish I was a little enthusiastic about it.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >And I am completely emotionless about it.
    because you're 24 homie, the spark is a teenage thing you're way too old

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I dated a girl for the first time at 25. I feel ya. Just keep dating and you'll eventually experience it. BTW, the girl I ended up marrying was nothing like who I thought I'd end up with. Love is strange like that.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm thinking of calling off the date. Even if things like sparks are a teenager thing.
    If I can't feel anything for this date I'm just wasting the girl's time.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just do it for experience. You don't have to commit yet.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'll do that then. Thanks.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Shes not your type but its an important step towards making you more self confident. If you keep the momentum itll only get better, been there before.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just ask more questions. Def get to the bottom of this shit. Dumb questions, hype questions, naughty questions. Try shit.

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