i haven't talked or had a friend/girlfriend since high school.

i haven't talked or had a friend/girlfriend since high school.
political implication of doing one bad decision and being alone for the rest of your life?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    depends. What's you "bad decision"?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      distancing myself from all friends and social contacts and ghosting everyone

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        seek more power bro. Self improve and the discipline you get from it will radiate into all other aspects of your life. I am saying this completely unironically. Eat clean, sleep well... Go to the gym. That's it.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          bro, i do cardio/workout 3 times a week, i eat clean, go to university (still).
          im extremely repulsed by society and people but im so alone, and i still feel alone when im under people?
          what can i do?

          Are you sure its a bad decision? Maybe you just have a poor outlook.

          no, it was my moronic, narcissistic brain. nothing more, always thought im better than anyone else. now im completely alone, talking to myself in my head as my only friend left.. just me and only me.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i can't tell what you're going through, but i'm in a little bit of a similar situation. First, i don't show people who i really am. I get used to being alone, then i have one friend, someone i can talk with about the future, someone i can actually be a partner with and will help me so that we make it by the middle of our lives. Maybe you should do the same, but even that is very difficult. Idk what to tell you, but just don't give up, your only weapon at hand is an indomitable human spirit.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            the problem is that i can't tell what is exactly wrong with me.
            im lonely, okay - make friends then, right? i do it easily but i still feel lonely and gives me the feeling of wasting my time.
            same with girlfriends, do i really wanna talk and date the same girl, who is interested in me just because of how i look? she doesnt really know my real self, nor does she love me. i also will never love her, whats the point of all that chit-chat?
            its all just platonic bullshit, that is accepted as social norms.
            so pointless, nothing feels real to me since im like 16 or so.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you need to go out in the woods. somewhere safe. with nobody around.
            and trip shroom tea.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i never did drugs and im against it. but i will probably kill myself soon or go to ukraine or some warzone to die, so why not?
            is it illegal to get it?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i wouldn't class it as drugs. it's a treatment. you're not doin it for fun. only idiots do that.
            as for legal? probably not. the spores are legal. grow your own. or just visit a farmers field after a rain. pick up some for free.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >do i really wanna talk and date the same girl, who is interested in me just because of how i look?
            Yes. That's perfectly fine as a starter. Hopefully she and you are not dumb enough to leave that as the basis. But physical attraction is a legit instinctive cover for your genetic benefiting partner. Nothing wrong with liking looking at each other. Enjoy while you can, you both will die soon enough, and plenty of years looking like ruined leather.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >do i really wanna talk and date the same girl, who is interested in me just because of how i look
            every relationship is transactional. Yes, even the one with your parents. Except that the girl doesn't know you, she can't know you. She can only see your appearance. Our appearance represents us. From appearance alone, one can infer our personalities. Imagine a strong buff man; you would know that he is someone disciplined enough to build his own body. Now compare him to a lard gargling whale. You can immediately recognize that the latter cannot even control what goes in his mouth, so how can he control anything else in his life? In the same manner, we like to dress classy cause we want people to perceive us as someone classy. Behave according to what you want people to perceive you as.
            If you don't like that it's superficial, then don't care. It's that simple.

            but how do i tell her im an absolute failure? or do i just lie? i literally just live with my parents and have nothing going on for myself, no friends too, like i said. also really weird to tell that, i guess.
            my appearance doesn't fit to my mental state at all, i will give the impression of a psychopath when i tell the truth.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Take a step back and answer me this question : what do you want? And i don't mean right now, i mean it in the spiritual and metaphysical sense. Why are you here? Why do you want to talk to the girl?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hard question, i cant give a clear answer. i really wanted to feel normal my whole life, but at some point i realized, that im just imitating people around me. so i dropped the act, now im kinda unsure if wanna go back to the act and have at least some form of interaction with society, that fulfills me. like the normal stuff, job, friends, wife, kids, etc.
            but if i build all of that up and nothing changes inside of me, something really, really bad will happen.

            that is all irrevelant. facts don't matter. reality doesn't matter. what matters is how you make her FEEL.
            that's it. it's that simple. you're overthinking it. it's really that braindead simple.
            how you make her feel. check. and women assume they can change you. check!
            all you need is to spin it. heck start right out in your profile. "i'm a loser with nothing". feels! women fall for that shit.

            i dont care about her tho. i dont love her, its just superficial, childish shit. she is not the woman of my dreams or whatever you would call it.

            [...]
            [...]

            Alright SaurKraut, I'm going to make this simple.
            Ignore the absolute homosexuals ITT and listen to me. You want energy? The key is desire.
            What do you desire? The answer is yiu don't fricking know yet.
            Forget the bullshit being spouted here about exercising and lifting and looking your best. Beyond going for a walk and stretching a little, everything else there is meaningless to you because you don't desire it.

            The moment you realize what your true goal is, there will not be a force on Earth that will get in your way, such will be the motivation and energy you unlock.
            Your depression is proportional to your distance from the road to what you desire, anon.
            Don't overthink it, it's not going to be "pussy, riches and fame", as much as you're going to think it is - even the wealth part of that might only be an added bonus to your goal but not the goal in and of itself.
            Much like your life partner might end up being someone you met on the way - or she might have been the goal you were aiming for. That one is admittedly more nuanced...

            The point is, start introspecting. What did you enjoy in the past? Gaming? That's not enjoyment, it's just relaxing, a passing hobby. Depression (remember above) will remove your pastimes.
            Did you enjoy nothing at all? Great! Move on from there. Watching welding vids or wood turning on YouTube, see if it's not something you'd enjoy or even make money selling (welding job, cabinet making).

            DESIRE, ANON. WITHOUT IT YOU ARE NOTHING.

            thats good advice for the normal person, for me desires affect me just temporary, its the same with people.

            if any of these people encouraged you to better yourself, then bad decision
            if they were mindless hedonist zogbots, you lucked out

            just remember all those times you went out with friends and returned home feeling worse than what you left

            they were okay, not hedonists or degenerates.

            You need to find new friends or ask some of your old friends if they want to still hang out. If you said something dumb and regret it maybe you can still fix it. Don't worry there is always a a solution

            im fearful, that i will just leave them again. also its like 5 years or so i talked to them

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Then why don't you -instead of taking the "normal" average life as an example- do what is in your own interest? Why don't you act in your interest first and foremost? See what acts, and ways to answer the questions of the day, and of life and death, then apply them to suit your own ego? what's so bad about that?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how do i do that? i never really made any decision by my own irl. my parents always just did everything for me, i dont even know what i want.
            i cant even decide on basic things like friendships or relationships, which should be naturally given for humans-beings.

            If they are that bad, maybe you need new friends. Did they try take advantage of you, disrespect or lie? Why did you leave them in the first place?

            no, nothing like that. i just felt annoyed by them and thought i didnt need any social contacts.
            probably wanted to kill my old self by burning down everything that reminds me of my 'old' life. the sad thing is, that nothing changed after that. im still the same moron.

            I have never had a gf and it's been like 6+ years since I had friends

            i feel you, but a girlfriend is really nothing special, it felt like whatever for me after my first time sex. you really need someone to talk to tho, social isolation is only worthy for god, i sadly realized.

            [...]
            Not sure if you're aware, but you're an idiot. Should have held onto your friends from school, stupid goy.

            hmmmmm yeee i guess guess

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >how do i do that? i never really made any decision
            Then start now. Eventually, you'll rectify every error you make until you are sure of what you want.
            Do not show who you really are.
            Generally, a man should not be active in public politics -including social relationships to a certain degree- under the age of thirty -try to make friends before then- unless he is of extraordinary talent. The reason is obviously that before that age, he has been building a general platform from which he can examine the various political problems and build his own beliefs. Only after he has established a fundamental World-Concept and has stabilized his own way of looking at the individual questions of the day, should the man who is at least achieved an inner maturity be allowed to guide the community politically. Otherwise, he is in danger of either changing his previous positions on fundamental questions once he realizes he was wrong or clinging to a view which he no longer supports or may even be against. This will make it politically difficult for his followers to maintain their faith in him. Their old unshakable solid belief will be upset because he now appears to be undecided himself. To followers, such an about-face of their leader, means complete confusion in addition to their feeling of shame in front of those they have previously attacked over the issue. The second alternative brings about a result which is particularly common today. The leader continues to publicly claim he believes in what he had previously said. He then becomes more hollow and superficial and eventually becomes more corrupt. He no longer dreams of working seriously for his political ideals; no one dies for something he does not himself believe in, and his demands upon his followers grow greater and more shameless to compensate for his own insincerity until at last he sacrifices his remaining fragment of leadership and begins to play the political game for the sake of politics alone.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you want me to become hitler 2.0?

            I play vidya, watch movies and shitpost on NSFFW all day/night long. That's been my life since graduating high school

            doesnt that become ultra-boring? i think i watched every somewhat good movie and videogames dont give me anything anymore, just annoyance.

            > im an absolute failure
            anyone has the potential to make a positive impact on anyone around them. being kind is contgaeous and is what the world needs

            are you a middle-aged woman, bro?

            the field, call me a turbogay but I've always found mechanical prosthetics super interesting. the human brain in particular is fascinating. the money is a biproduct. my field in particular doesn't make droves of money from what I've seen. I could switch to mechanical engineering and make 200k a year from lockheed blowing up palistinians but that that simply just doesn't interest me as much as biology does.

            that's cool if you found some passion on it. i wish, that i would find something, that makes me wanna learn and think about it 24/7, you know like grigori perelman or paul erdos with math. something that really fills up your life, while being useful academically.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you want me to become hitler 2.0?
            Do you have anything better to do? If you think so, then why not go to the gym and learn permaculture? You've gotta want something at some point. Power or leisure, leisure or duty... Everyone wants something. What do you want? Figure that out for now.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i wish you the best and i hope everything works out

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If a mild annoyance is enough for you to give up your friends, you have some problems with yourself that you should fix. I have given up friends but they were degenerates or just so obnoxious that there was no good things left in the relationship

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            idk, you never had a neurotic phase? you know when you are around 18 or 19 and mental illness comes up slowly. just terrible decisions and narcissism.

            >you want me to become hitler 2.0?
            Do you have anything better to do? If you think so, then why not go to the gym and learn permaculture? You've gotta want something at some point. Power or leisure, leisure or duty... Everyone wants something. What do you want? Figure that out for now.

            i know you are right, finding what you really want/desire, like the other anon also said.
            should i take lsd or some shit like that?

            i wish you the best and i hope everything works out

            same to you broski

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >should i take lsd or some shit like that?
            Self-destruction doesn't seem like the best of options in my opinion... don't you want something bigger?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            ye, i mean i could become the next dictator of germany. seems bit unrealistic tho, but it would be satisfying.

            Its over after hs tbhq unless u can make friends at work or school. Im starting community college but its not the best place to make friends because everyone just wants to go and get out

            haha, i go to uni for like 3 hours, sit, dont talk to anyone and come back home. will be you soon

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ive been trying to be more social and some ppl actually talk to me but i frick it up every time lmao. Ive been trying to take more classes cause i only had 2. But after covid and shit my social skills have deteriorated so much

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I've always been neurotic since I was a kid and now I'm pretty messed up. You should try to keep friends that don't take you for granted or try to steal from you. I've seen a lot of bad behaviour from people that have gone downhill because of alcoholism and constant drug use

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i wouldnt chill with people that are perma drunk or on drugs. i wont consume anyways, so it would be pointless just sitting around them, doing nothing, while they are in their own world.

            Ive been trying to be more social and some ppl actually talk to me but i frick it up every time lmao. Ive been trying to take more classes cause i only had 2. But after covid and shit my social skills have deteriorated so much

            how you talk to them tho? i go to class, class starts, cant talk obviously, class ends, dont have class with same people, so i cant talk again, and then after next class i mostly try to catch the bus, so i leave early.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            After class i talked to one person, some guy besides began talking to me, i usually talk to people who sit besides me and it is a community college so its a little like hs really, and also there are group projects and a common area where students sit

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If they are that bad, maybe you need new friends. Did they try take advantage of you, disrespect or lie? Why did you leave them in the first place?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that is all irrevelant. facts don't matter. reality doesn't matter. what matters is how you make her FEEL.
            that's it. it's that simple. you're overthinking it. it's really that braindead simple.
            how you make her feel. check. and women assume they can change you. check!
            all you need is to spin it. heck start right out in your profile. "i'm a loser with nothing". feels! women fall for that shit.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > im an absolute failure
            anyone has the potential to make a positive impact on anyone around them. being kind is contgaeous and is what the world needs

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >do i really wanna talk and date the same girl, who is interested in me just because of how i look
            every relationship is transactional. Yes, even the one with your parents. Except that the girl doesn't know you, she can't know you. She can only see your appearance. Our appearance represents us. From appearance alone, one can infer our personalities. Imagine a strong buff man; you would know that he is someone disciplined enough to build his own body. Now compare him to a lard gargling whale. You can immediately recognize that the latter cannot even control what goes in his mouth, so how can he control anything else in his life? In the same manner, we like to dress classy cause we want people to perceive us as someone classy. Behave according to what you want people to perceive you as.
            If you don't like that it's superficial, then don't care. It's that simple.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Pretty simple, go out and find people doing things you enjoy and join them. Might not work the first time. Might not work the second time.
            Try not to be the only focus of attention. Try not to be hungry for attention, even though you are.
            Frankly, you're allowed to tell a date that you're lonely. It's not the best first line, but it's legit to mention if the conversation gets to it. Heck, you can start any conversation with a derivative.
            >hey anon, I'm anon, and I'm looking for places to hang out with people and be social.
            Anyone who would think that weird, is probably not ok to hang out with.
            But anon, you know this is /misc/ not your diary or self-help group. The answer from /misc/ is to kidnap someone and keep them in your closet.
            now banish thyself to some other board where your question fits.
            Everyone likes having more friends, so just let them have you as a friend. Just be careful who you surround yourself with, you will become them.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't see the problem. Stop being a pussy.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            the problem is that i can't tell what is exactly wrong with me.
            im lonely, okay - make friends then, right? i do it easily but i still feel lonely and gives me the feeling of wasting my time.
            same with girlfriends, do i really wanna talk and date the same girl, who is interested in me just because of how i look? she doesnt really know my real self, nor does she love me. i also will never love her, whats the point of all that chit-chat?
            its all just platonic bullshit, that is accepted as social norms.
            so pointless, nothing feels real to me since im like 16 or so.

            i never did drugs and im against it. but i will probably kill myself soon or go to ukraine or some warzone to die, so why not?
            is it illegal to get it?

            Alright SaurKraut, I'm going to make this simple.
            Ignore the absolute homosexuals ITT and listen to me. You want energy? The key is desire.
            What do you desire? The answer is yiu don't fricking know yet.
            Forget the bullshit being spouted here about exercising and lifting and looking your best. Beyond going for a walk and stretching a little, everything else there is meaningless to you because you don't desire it.

            The moment you realize what your true goal is, there will not be a force on Earth that will get in your way, such will be the motivation and energy you unlock.
            Your depression is proportional to your distance from the road to what you desire, anon.
            Don't overthink it, it's not going to be "pussy, riches and fame", as much as you're going to think it is - even the wealth part of that might only be an added bonus to your goal but not the goal in and of itself.
            Much like your life partner might end up being someone you met on the way - or she might have been the goal you were aiming for. That one is admittedly more nuanced...

            The point is, start introspecting. What did you enjoy in the past? Gaming? That's not enjoyment, it's just relaxing, a passing hobby. Depression (remember above) will remove your pastimes.
            Did you enjoy nothing at all? Great! Move on from there. Watching welding vids or wood turning on YouTube, see if it's not something you'd enjoy or even make money selling (welding job, cabinet making).

            DESIRE, ANON. WITHOUT IT YOU ARE NOTHING.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You need to find new friends or ask some of your old friends if they want to still hang out. If you said something dumb and regret it maybe you can still fix it. Don't worry there is always a a solution

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you sure its a bad decision? Maybe you just have a poor outlook.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        if any of these people encouraged you to better yourself, then bad decision
        if they were mindless hedonist zogbots, you lucked out

        just remember all those times you went out with friends and returned home feeling worse than what you left

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        hard question, i cant give a clear answer. i really wanted to feel normal my whole life, but at some point i realized, that im just imitating people around me. so i dropped the act, now im kinda unsure if wanna go back to the act and have at least some form of interaction with society, that fulfills me. like the normal stuff, job, friends, wife, kids, etc.
        but if i build all of that up and nothing changes inside of me, something really, really bad will happen.
        [...]
        i dont care about her tho. i dont love her, its just superficial, childish shit. she is not the woman of my dreams or whatever you would call it.
        [...]
        thats good advice for the normal person, for me desires affect me just temporary, its the same with people.
        [...]
        they were okay, not hedonists or degenerates.
        [...]
        im fearful, that i will just leave them again. also its like 5 years or so i talked to them

        Not sure if you're aware, but you're an idiot. Should have held onto your friends from school, stupid goy.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >doomer shit

    Umm, is it 2023 again? I thought we moved past this shit?

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just keep scrolling friend, someone has to add up to the numbers on websites like this one.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its weird. india should be the world leader for shrooms. entire country covered in shit. and cows.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Oh, Agent, you attempts to make me look bad are observed and noted. Just know that I have a growing database of all your tactics you and your entire agency use online.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Alien-to-Human Mutilation

    Doesn't NSFFW have a "self-help" section or something akin to that?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      /adv but it’s the last place you should ever seek advice.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      every blue moon we have a /sig/ general
      maybe this one is it

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OLD or a wide social circle are pretty much the only ways to do it these days. Or being extremely attractive.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I sleep 12 hours a day
    I could never have a gf because all women want to do is get 5 hours of sleep on the weekends so they can go to escape rooms and brunch and farmers market and furniture shopping and all this gay shit

    I work a stressful job and the last thing I would ever do is sleep deprive myself on the weekends to go chaperone a spoiled modern American woman on all these gay weekly going out trips

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have never had a gf and it's been like 6+ years since I had friends

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    me but junior high and never had a girlfriend also haven't had a friend in about 2 decades, I'm 33

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bro dont tell me that jesus christ, are you happy somewhat at least? i was the first 2 years when i played 10 hours league of legends daily and watched every movie and anime possible. then it just fell off completely..

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I play vidya, watch movies and shitpost on NSFFW all day/night long. That's been my life since graduating high school

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this, im a biomedical engineering student and life lately has been completely solitude. making friends and getting a girlfriend is IMMENSELY difficult. I spend most of my weekends at home playing dark souls or studying. Sometimes I find that math is one of the little comforts I have to cope with loneliness. it sucks but I've come to the personal conclusion that sometimes in life there are going to be periods of loneliness and that is okay. no matter how bad I want a girlfriend or want to go back to partying on campus with everyone else I know that focusing on my career is the best thing I can do.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      happy for you anon, i wish i wanted something so much, that i would make sacrifices for it.
      are you interest in the field or in it for the money?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        the field, call me a turbogay but I've always found mechanical prosthetics super interesting. the human brain in particular is fascinating. the money is a biproduct. my field in particular doesn't make droves of money from what I've seen. I could switch to mechanical engineering and make 200k a year from lockheed blowing up palistinians but that that simply just doesn't interest me as much as biology does.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its over after hs tbhq unless u can make friends at work or school. Im starting community college but its not the best place to make friends because everyone just wants to go and get out

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