I imagine that if I somehow got a girlfriend, there would come a day where I'm walking in public with her, and some guy who's pretty much be...

I imagine that if I somehow got a girlfriend, there would come a day where I'm walking in public with her, and some guy who's pretty much better than me in every way decides to act on his impulse for male sexual dominance at that particular moment, then swoops in, humiliates me with his superior strength (ensuring that I cannot physically deter him) and social acumen, gets her number, and my exposure and display of weakness gives her the ick, resulting in her breaking up and then later on using my displayed weakness to verbally berate me to stroke her own ego

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How you put it makes you sound like a cuck, but yeah I'm scared that if I somehow managed to get a girl I really liked some guy who's taller, hotter, cooler and more successful would take her away.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it doesnt work that way with women who really like you. if you were with your ideal woman, someone who you really loved, would you leave her?
      if you treat her well and she loves you, she wont leave you for someone you perceive as better, because you are in her eyes the best man for her. moids also tend to have a warped perception of a womans ideal man.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hahahaha
        Youre so genuinely moronic its honestly kind of sad

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >some guy who's pretty much better than me in every way
    I don't think it works like that. There's no person better than you in every single way, just a person who has his own strengths/weaknesses/struggles/successes.

    You're probably right, a girlfriend would probably not work out for you right now. You're more focused on yourself, and another hypothetical man, then her and the hypothetical relationship between you two.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      not OP but I'm so pathetic and anyone that is even a semi-functional human being is 10x better than me in all aspects.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's like this: the difference between the top 1% and the bottom 1% fundamentally comes down to choices.
        >boo free will is a lie
        Yeah, yeah but it's the truth. Even if you're a handicapped hobo, luck could put you on top of the world but it would be your choices that define the future from there. Even if determinism is true, then it just means those determined choices define the future, the choices still matter, regardless of the control you believe you have or not. On the other hand, Luck could decide to make a rich man into a pauper, but his choices from then on define if he can succeed again.

        A chronic loser is someone who plays to his weaknesses, gets distracted or hesitates when making a choice, has no self confidence, and gives up easily. A chronic winner is the opposite.

        A wiseman is not defined by what he's learned, but how quick he learns, relearns, and drops bad habits. Meaning it's not about how well off you start, but how fast you can improve. At least that works for me.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You contradicted yourself on the free will thing
          Your conception of decision making, habits, and upbringing is very limited and overly-simplistic
          Your main thesis is that it all comes down to choices but you don't justify that, rather your digression about free will damages your argument

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I can't truly understand what her expectations and thoughts are. I might just be a provisional boyfriend to keep her entertained because she sees me as safe so she doesn't have to commit much. Everybody has to compromise on some of their expectations, which means a relationship will have wants that are left unsaid, and the fear is that somebody else could better fulfill those wants.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I can't truly understand what her expectations and thoughts are.
        Nor can she truly understand yours. You can be sincere and earnest, you can speak to her and express these things as honestly as possible. You can learn from that, and improve your relationship further. Even if she had bad intentions and only lies to you, if you were wise, you'd learn how to understand her lies better. Giving you experience towards a future relationship with a more honest woman (they exist/can be trained).

        >I might just be a provisional boyfriend to keep her entertained because she sees me as safe so she doesn't have to commit much.
        This doesn't matter much, because a womans desires often doesn't match her needs. Once you're in the position to influence a woman and you've taken on the responsibility as the man of the relationship, it's up to you to prove yourself and live up to the title and power you have.

        >Everybody has to compromise on some of their expectations, which means a relationship will have wants that are left unsaid, and the fear is that somebody else could better fulfill those wants
        Like I said before, I do not believe there's anyone better out there. But I do believe that each man and woman has a set of compatible partners out there. You could be replaced, but you are also unique. There's nobody out there whose 100% like you and has your knowledge and experiences. So that's why you should be the best you that you can be. You can be replaced but never replicated.

        You contradicted yourself on the free will thing
        Your conception of decision making, habits, and upbringing is very limited and overly-simplistic
        Your main thesis is that it all comes down to choices but you don't justify that, rather your digression about free will damages your argument

        If I didn't acknowledge the deterministic vs free will argument then it would show that I'm either unaware of the debate or that I'm too focused on pushing my agenda then weighing the options. I intentionally did not dismiss deterministic thinking, just the whining that some believers think excuses them from following their path and living their lives.

        If that hurts my argument then that's a opinion you're allowed to have.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why should I have to "be a man" and constantly prove myself for somebody who could replace me on a whim? Is there even a reward if there's no end? It's more worthwhile to use my time and energy on something with a more guaranteed outcome

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Why should I have to "be a man" and constantly prove myself for somebody who could replace me on a whim?
            I see this opinion on NSFFW every once in awhile. It shocks me, because I think it should be obvious that having a strong relationship with a woman you care about and love is it's own reward. But also, how obvious the additionals rewards are:
            >Having a woman reach her full potential.
            >Having a woman dedicated to your wellbeing.
            >Having a woman who puts her money where her mouth is.
            >Having a woman who you can be as fully open as you want to be with.
            In short, I have a woman whose obsessed with me, whose self improving to serve me better because that something shes Ive train her to desire. Any objections or destructive thoughts she might have cannot hope to win against my influence and the credit I've built with her.

            Any guaranteed reward are rare to find and usually have a weak reward attached to it. The best type of opportunity is one that's high risk, high reward AND you can all but guarantee success through your own knowledge and skill. If my relationship fell through today, I'd still have that experience to use again on someone else. I would be even more efficent and effective from the start.

            How has hesitation and stagnation served you? Can you honestly say its brought you happiness? Didn't worked out for me.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Having a woman reach her full potential.
            >Having a woman dedicated to your wellbeing.
            >Having a woman who puts her money where her mouth is.
            >Having a woman who you can be as fully open as you want to be with.
            it seems like none of these happen between the average woman and average man in 2024
            >I'd still have that experience to use again on someone else
            This really depresses me, the idea of cycling through women, using the same lines, gestures, and "moves" over and over again. It seems jading.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it seems like none of these happen between the average woman and average man in 2024
            I agree. The average person barely tries if at all. The average person is someone who hasn't had bad nor good luck, and doesn't make any choice that would benefit themselves in the future. The good news is that it takes very very little effort to succeed past average. That's why we're all pretty much the same if you look at the worst and the best person. Just humans who played their cards well or poorly consistently.

            >This really depresses me, the idea of cycling through women, using the same lines, gestures, and "moves" over and over again. It seems jading
            Who said I'd use the same "moves". That's PUA like thinking. That everyone is the same and that all you need is a walk through to Life. It's not THAT easy, if it was no one would ever struggle. Like I said before, people can be similar almost indistinguishable when viewed from a wide lens, but they are unique when it comes to the small details.

            >There's no person better than you in every single way
            You either took op literally or are very naive. If someone is taller, better looking, with bigger dick, more confident, more charming, smarter, richer, better educated, has better house, better car, is more giving and more empathetic i don't think my ability to solve sudoku slightly faster is a sufficient counterbalance.

            I agree completely... if that hypothetical person existed. In reality, being well rounded is fricking difficult to maintain. You look at the richest man, and you'll find a man who has to have made sacrifices to be the best in his field. Life is all about Opportunity Costs.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            cant wait for you to get cucked

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're getting cucked by Life right now if you just give up and roll over. Don't let a woman define you, and don't worship her. No woman wants that even if she says she does. Because you're scared of What Ifs, you're not living Life like you could.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Huff your farts while you can. You've clearly invested a lot of emotional capital into this b***h and judging by your posts you're in full cope mode as to the degree of control she is exerting on you.
            When she leaves you and you commit sudoku please keep us posted. I love to see obnoxious homosexuals like you burn.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Figure out what you want to put on your pedestal. It shouldn't be women or any human being really. I prefer putting full trust in the Lord, but it could any religion, any spiritual abstract being, it could be Science, it could the Universe or Luck, it could even the best version of Yourself.

            But a human is always gonna let you down, we're not perfect. Often times we're not even good for each other, and you gotta let them go or get away. When you find a spiritual guide, you find inner peace and stop relying on others to give you peace. I can just try my best then if I fail, I can try better. My faith guides me forward, there's nothing that could make me desire rotting in my bedroom again.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah yeah le self-improvement meme. Come back after you've been fricked over and tell me the same self-assured crap.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Everyone says self improving is what you have to do to get rewarded. I think that's backwards, self improving is the reward once you fix your other problems holding you back.

            I do this because my Lord deserves the best me, and I deserve a better life because I lived through enough pain. And you deserve a better life too, regardless of what you might feel about it right now.

            It's never too late because if you're struggling now, you're getting stronger, getting ready for the future you're gonna make for yourself. You just gotta choose consistently what future you want.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No one deserves anything. You either luck out or you don't.
            You lucked out by being a christschizo who think there's some magical, benevolent force in the universe. Good for you, though as far as I'm concerned it would be sweet seeing that cognitive pacifyer taken away from you. Your eyes plied open to the abyss.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Good for you, though as far as I'm concerned it would be sweet seeing that cognitive pacifyer taken away from you.
            Would it be sweet? Because in my experience, others suffering has never helped me. It just made me feel like more suffering was my destiny. Spite is a shitty way to treat yourself.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Would it be sweet?
            Yes. I want others to suffer like I suffer.
            Religiousgays are particularily egregious in that they're existentially assured over nothing, enabled by their own moronation

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Religiousgays are particularily egregious in that they're existentially assured over nothing, enabled by their own moronation
            Think about what you just said. Whether they're wrong or not, they're assured. Assured by their own choice. There's a reason why religion is a worldwide phenomenon that has existed as long as as humans could form groups. I told you it Spiritual Belief consist more than just religious beliefs.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Religion exists because people can't deal with the thought of living purposeless lives. Call it religion, spirituality, whatever. Deranged beliefs to comfort the intellectually sloppy when faced with a pointless existence.
            I've already tried deluding myself a wide variety of crap to make things easier, including christhomosexualry at one point. But at the end of the day it seems I'm inclined for truth rather than comfort. There's a reason people keep abandoning religious beliefs despite existential nihilism being a hard pill to swallow.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Atheism has been in decline for two generations

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            People are becoming stupider

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >There's no person better than you in every single way
      You either took op literally or are very naive. If someone is taller, better looking, with bigger dick, more confident, more charming, smarter, richer, better educated, has better house, better car, is more giving and more empathetic i don't think my ability to solve sudoku slightly faster is a sufficient counterbalance.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        But they chose you. Are you saying they made the wrong choice?
        Again, consider your partner first and cherish her choice as much as she might cherish yours.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I have literally no adult social experience
    FTFY

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Do you?
      Verification not required.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes. A lot.
        Men and women do not act like your paranoid teen fantasy

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You have failed to establish any ethos that would make me want to listen to you. You're just a disembodied voice talking down to me. At no point have you brought up any experiences or anecdotes even that might both relate to my mindset and show why it's wrong.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > You have failed to establish any ethos that would make me want to listen to you
            NTA
            There is nothing I find more amusing that watching a semi-literate ignoramus write what he thinks intelligent, educated people sound like.
            Please, do go on.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >durrrrr what's an ETHOS
            >thinks knowing basic vocabulary of rhetoric makes you pretentious

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks, buddy. Got any more cringe pseud posts in you?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >6 hours later
            >best response he could come up with

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get a gun and make the penalty for anyone trying to make this fantasy a reality be death.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you don't ever actually need to know anything btw. all you have is experience.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think people deserve to die for what their nature inclines them to do

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      unless you follow a very certain set of actions, down to the milisecond you will be charged with murder. A guy hitting on your girl even right in front of you, is not a crime. She could kiss him right there on the mouth and there's nothing legally you can do about it.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is why you should gaymaxx. Men aren't social darwinist monsters like women and there are plenty who would find your flaws and shortcomings endearing and relatable

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      look like finding a bf. they all want anonymous back alley hookups, not relationships.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I mean on hookup apps you probably have to do a little but of digging but finding gays looking for long term monogamous relationships aren't nearly as rare as the conservative propaganda would tell you

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          they've all had 100+ partners and are looking to settle down now that they hit twink/femboy death.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Whatever you say man, you're clearly the expert here.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The average dudebro doesn't even know how to throw a punch and hides from conflict when solo so despite being a paranoid schizo this scenario is not worth worrying about. The suspiciously sneaky homeless guys walking around with lead pipes and aids ridden blood or the mid 30s bald roid ragers trying to impress their landwhale wives are what spook me

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      so yeah anyone can be the same age as you

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    that would be really le unfortunado

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine not being witty, funny, tall and ridiculously good-looking with a high IQ and a winning personality who also packs 8x6 inches and shares all of her interests due to a chameleon-like ability to adapt to new social circumstances, the things autistic manlet chuds have to deal with lol

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And you have a lambo and an 8 pack too

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This will probably happen to you...
    ...if you live in fricking Black personia.
    This shit does not happen in civilized nations.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      moron, this is quite literally what could never happen in the fricking Nigeria. You'll be legally dismembered for spoiling someone else's goods.

      https://i.imgur.com/9j3tZjG.jpeg

      I imagine that if I somehow got a girlfriend, there would come a day where I'm walking in public with her, and some guy who's pretty much better than me in every way decides to act on his impulse for male sexual dominance at that particular moment, then swoops in, humiliates me with his superior strength (ensuring that I cannot physically deter him) and social acumen, gets her number, and my exposure and display of weakness gives her the ick, resulting in her breaking up and then later on using my displayed weakness to verbally berate me to stroke her own ego

      Throw away the tru3 romance, emotional intimacy and commitment when dealing with women. And also do not expect any commitment from these creatures as well. Have fun.

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