I just had my first sex ever.

I just had my first sex ever. shit was very underwhelming lads, of course I already heard about such feeling from other people but I was never sure why that was the case. I had to finish it with masturbation because I wasn't able to cum and it unironically felt way more pleasurable than the sex itself. on oral sex for example, my wiener remained hard all the time but it felt more numb than anything while being immersive in all that saliva, I wasn't getting the urge to cum at all.

now it brings me the question, did my sexual sensitivity got completely frick up for being solely alianated to masturbation during more than a decade? I think I might be suffering with death grip syndrome because I can only reach climax with massive pressure and speed, something the girl with her vegana, mouth, hands or feet can't do since she can't feel what I feel. I even did 1 month of no fap before this but it didn't seem to help much.

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You answered your own question, just stop jerking it. Also stop watching porn if you do. Reset & condition your mind and body for real human contact

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wonder how much more I should be doing it, since one month didnt do the trick

      You're a porn addict, and likely also a closeted homosexual. Try having sex with men instead. homosexual.

      Im more than convinced I don't like men

      >of course I already heard about such feeling from other people but I was never sure why that was the case
      Shit, when I was growing up I never heard a single person say such a thing. I always heard shit like "your first time, you're going to cum 5 seconds after you put it in" and shit like that. I even warned my gf beforehand that that's what would probably happpen lol. Then, the first time I actually tried to frick I couldn't get my dick hard at all, then next time, I got my dick hard, then 5 seconds after putting it in I realized "ohhhh, okay, there's literally no way I'm going to cum on accident"

      Now to me, this was a relief, if anything. I always figured girls wanted someone who could last a long time (and that's what you'd always hear), so when I realized that shit wasn't going to be a problem, I was one happy guy lol

      >now it brings me the question, did my sexual sensitivity got completely frick up for being solely alianated to masturbation during more than a decade?
      Nah, don't think so but even if that was true, who cares? Just jack off to completion if you have to, duh. I think you just need to relax more though, then it'll get a little easier. Stop caring about cumming and just frick the b***h, dude, that's what you should be doing

      people said that the first time is shit because they don't know how to do sex. in my case it was shit because I was expecting to explode in seconds but it simply didnt happen because there wasnt the pressure needed to make it happen.
      eh I don't know about the masturbation part, maybe Im overthinking, but in my mind I think that if I was to cum via masturbation I would have stayed at home alone. perhaps I was a bit nervous too and I couldn't focus on the act itself.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >but it simply didnt happen because there wasnt the pressure needed to make it happen.
        Oh dude, I don't even know how many times it took before I actually came during sex. Less than 10 but more than 5 probably? lol. Now that I'm thinking about it though, I do think I felt sorta like you're feeling. Really, I think she was pressuring me on it. I think what I ended up doing was edging for the whole week til I saw her again (she would come over every Friday or every other Friday). I ended up cumming in her mouth too, some weird shit about how if she swallows me she can keep part of me with her for whateverblahblahblah

        Anyway, hopefully I'm getting across the point that what you're going through is normal lol

        >perhaps I was a bit nervous too and I couldn't focus on the act itself.
        It's this, dude, and 99.999% this. Just take my word for it, woulda ya?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Reset & condition your mind and body for real human contact
      Where do you think you are? This is /adv/ - OP is always a lost cause. Always.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're a porn addict, and likely also a closeted homosexual. Try having sex with men instead. homosexual.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nooticing here, but the only people who talk like that are repressed homos.

      This post has nothing to do with gay sex and I notice gays usually bring it up out of nowhere and immediately project it on anyone who notices.

      Bad news. Your talking about you.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >of course I already heard about such feeling from other people but I was never sure why that was the case
    Shit, when I was growing up I never heard a single person say such a thing. I always heard shit like "your first time, you're going to cum 5 seconds after you put it in" and shit like that. I even warned my gf beforehand that that's what would probably happpen lol. Then, the first time I actually tried to frick I couldn't get my dick hard at all, then next time, I got my dick hard, then 5 seconds after putting it in I realized "ohhhh, okay, there's literally no way I'm going to cum on accident"

    Now to me, this was a relief, if anything. I always figured girls wanted someone who could last a long time (and that's what you'd always hear), so when I realized that shit wasn't going to be a problem, I was one happy guy lol

    >now it brings me the question, did my sexual sensitivity got completely frick up for being solely alianated to masturbation during more than a decade?
    Nah, don't think so but even if that was true, who cares? Just jack off to completion if you have to, duh. I think you just need to relax more though, then it'll get a little easier. Stop caring about cumming and just frick the b***h, dude, that's what you should be doing

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you circumcised?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      no thank God

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >underwhelming
    sex is overrated.
    > on oral sex
    And blowjobs are a total waste of time. I'm now old and I've never had one that was worth the time it took.
    > did my sexual sensitivity got completely frick up
    No. Sex is just not all it's cracked up to be, especially with condoms.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >And blowjobs are a total waste of time. I'm now old and I've never had one that was worth the time it took.
      Blowjobs are probably the biggest disappointment of all. Not only are they mediocre at best, if the girl is insecure (which they all are), they will end up making it a nightmare most of the time. You can't fricking watch them suck your dick because then they might make eye contact, which will lead to "am I doing okay? Does it feel good? It's bad isn't it? Why can't I make you cum? You don't love me do you? I knew it!" and straight into the crying the rest of the night. Jesus fricking christ, I'm too old for that shit ever again

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like a skill issue. Most women are not good at it but a few are.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Sounds like a skill issue. Most women are not good at it but a few are.
          It's not really that though, because it doesn't matter if they're SKILLED or not, as long as they're not uhh.. moronic lol

          Like, how many guys have been fricking a girl and then she starts to trip out about wanting you to cum, which leads to "come on, cum for me" which leads to "what's wrong?" and then "is it me? Is it not good" and so on and so on until your dick shrivels up?

          But if she would have just never opened her mouth, it would have been fine! And there seems to be no way of consoling this creature either, only certain disaster. I just fricking get dressed and go home nowadays, blame them for being moronic, frick em

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You sub consciously have a type. That you consciously hate. Fix that. Not all women are like that. Unless you're like 19 in which case, wait 5 years. They'll stop doing that.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No, I don't have a subconscious anything. Yes, I know not all women are like that. What's your fricking point?

            >Unless you're like 19 in which case, wait 5 years. They'll stop doing that.
            I'm 30 years old and no they won't bud, sorry. Some b***hes never grow up, and it's not like some small percentage of them either

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh so the problem is that your immature attitude can only attract other immature people who haven't progressed past the mental age of 15.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          > but a few are.
          Who gives a frick if there are olympic class prostitutes who can give awesome BJs. You think it's worth the time it takes chasing women so you can sample their shitty blowjobs to find the 1 in 20 who actually make it worthwhile?
          Simple fact of the matter is that generally, BJs are in reality shit.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm sad for you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm sad our feminised society puts so much emphasis on something that's entirely "meh" for the most part.
            I'm sad for all the young men especially who feel pressure because they remain virgins.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The inside of your head is a bizarre place anon. I don't like yellow mustard, doesn't mean I think it shouldn't exist. Let people live.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            > but a few are.
            Who gives a frick if there are olympic class prostitutes who can give awesome BJs. You think it's worth the time it takes chasing women so you can sample their shitty blowjobs to find the 1 in 20 who actually make it worthwhile?
            Simple fact of the matter is that generally, BJs are in reality shit.

            >And blowjobs are a total waste of time. I'm now old and I've never had one that was worth the time it took.
            Blowjobs are probably the biggest disappointment of all. Not only are they mediocre at best, if the girl is insecure (which they all are), they will end up making it a nightmare most of the time. You can't fricking watch them suck your dick because then they might make eye contact, which will lead to "am I doing okay? Does it feel good? It's bad isn't it? Why can't I make you cum? You don't love me do you? I knew it!" and straight into the crying the rest of the night. Jesus fricking christ, I'm too old for that shit ever again

            >underwhelming
            sex is overrated.
            > on oral sex
            And blowjobs are a total waste of time. I'm now old and I've never had one that was worth the time it took.
            > did my sexual sensitivity got completely frick up
            No. Sex is just not all it's cracked up to be, especially with condoms.

            You are gay.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >You can't fricking watch them suck your dick because then they might make eye contact, which will lead to "am I doing okay? Does it feel good?
        anon... you might be gay. it's absolutely great when the girl makes eye contact

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah I was the same my first time, I'm convinced that people that talk about sex either are dogshit with their own hand or probably just love the person they're having sex with.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    was she an ugly prostitute op? was she ?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >> while being immersive in all that saliva

    What? Do you know why they call it sucking dick? Because she's supposed to literally suck. It's the suction that's pleasurable. That's why men make jokes about "she could suck a golf ball through a garden hose". If she's sucking, it's impossible for your dick to be bathing in saliva.

    Your first time having sex sucked because neither of you had any idea what you were doing. That's normal, you shouldn't feel bad. But you have to acknowledge that isn't how good sex feels. Practice, you'll both get better.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I had to finish it with masturbation because I wasn't able to cum
    condoms do that. I've been fricking a girl for like an hour with a condom and wasn't able to cum. meanwhile, sex without condoms is really great... but won't last long if I cum lmao

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