I love you Anons

Vent to an 18 year old sympathetic neet girl who will do her best to give advice in attempts to distract from her own life ^^ we can do it anons

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im such a loser without any friends or hobbies to make friends. i take solace in substances but am tired of being lonely what should I do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What hobbies do you have and how old are you? it’s just a matter of finding the community !! also where are you from?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Ohio, 19, male. its hard to find hobbies and they are so expensive

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          do you like going outdoors playing physical or video games or art?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >inexpensive hobbies.. and careers if you become passionate about them
          Not OP here. First, become an autodidact if you aren't already one. With pencils and paper you can learn to draw. With an old electric guitar or keyboardf you can learn to be a musician.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >got fired two weeks ago
    >not even one of my coworkers has reached out
    >utterly alone
    >trying to resist my seemingly inevitable slide into bloodshed

    I left out a lot but see what you can do for me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sadly your co workers are not your friends which really sucks even if you thought they were you were casually apart of each others life and now you casually aren’t maybe try to reach out to them to ask them if they’d like to hangout or something ^^ try not to take it personal

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Frick them. They showed their true colors. It was my mistake for thinking anyone cared.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I care anon, i know you wanted them to care and i know it hurts but you don’t have to let it affect you now you still have people who care ^^

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i'm so scared of losing what i have now and i don't know how to enjoy the present. it just seems like it all gets worse from here

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sadly life doesn’t get “better” or “worse” we are constantly living and changing and being thrown into inevitable situations and obstacles we need to grow from and try not to let it shake us up you’ve been happy before and you’ve been sad and you can be happy when you open your eyes to letting go of your “worst future” be happy now and be happy when you’re sad be happy when you’re angry and when you’re doing bad it’ll be okay

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        thank you!! <33

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Should I just be celibate? I cannot relate to women and have too many issues to get over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly yes! if that works for you just wait until you find the right one and actually feel ready nothing can heal if it’s open and being poked

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I meant lifelong celibacy

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Do you think that’s what’s right? if yes then you’ve made your decisions if no vice versa ^^

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    is it over if i don't get a date for prom

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nah go with ur friends i didn’t even go to prom felt sad but i think it’s kind of normal to regret things and hate things when you do it just have fun and go to say you went go to party and just be ^^

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        another question: is it worth dating in high school?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I waste my very limited free time doing totally dumb shit and I absolutely love it.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sorry for just coming to vent. I don't personally think I would change anything of what I write in here but thanks for listening.

    I've been alone for nice period of time, I got friends, it's just that I still feel lonely. My life it's okay, not the best but not close to the worst, yet, I'm still a loser who just feel like shit for no actual reason.

    It's my fault and the shit part it's that I know but I'm not willing to change it, maybe as an excuse for just take the easy way. I don't talk with my Friends about this nor family, the latter found out that something was bad due to an attempt to end myself.

    I don't really got any kind of relationship with anyone, which makes sense because no one deserves a emotional weight who doesn't change and don't let them grow as individuals.

    I don't plan to do anything great or shit, ,I'm gonna go to college just because it seems the thing I have to do.

    I think I will just be a coward and eventually take the easy way, and yes, I am being such a b***h because I'm dropping more words than actions, sorry. I'm still investigating to make it sure and trying to overcome my pain fear.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon what do you find enjoyment doing? I know the feeling of being in a room full of people who care but only when it’s too late, do you meet new people often or give yourself the opportunity to?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I enjoyed writing and pretty much playing but with the pass of time I don't see any appeal to it no more.

        Kinda, I've been trying but there's of course a phase where you have to know that person and that person usually it's not always there for you, which it's completely fine but my mind just decide to make it a big deal, I'm socially awkward so I don't get to build social circles or get into it that often, I'm more like a doll you have there and does nothing.

        This ofc, makes you forgotten and at the end people just stop talking with you, but that's not their fault, it's only mine for not tryin harder or doing diff stuff.

        Again, thanks for your reading, hope you're having a nice day or night.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I think you should put yourself out there more and maybe try to treat your relationships like a chore which sucks but i also do a lot of avoidance and fear abandonment relationships are like plants they start young and need attention and nursing to grow and some plants are different find your cactus relationships that work best for you you water when needed but they don’t need it as often maybe!!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks for the advice, I hope that it happens like that, if I don't mess up or just keep being dumb.

            You're doing a nice effort and I appreciate it, take care anon. ^^

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have nothing to vent about. Why would I? I pulled a 6 figure job that's still easier than any job I've had before, I just moved in with the woman I love, I'm going to propose to her next month, and spring is coming and my boat is ready. In the span of a few years I went from a miserable depressed shut-in dork to a happy, well-adjusted man who still poasts here for some reason. Every relationship issue I've encountered has been trivial, every aspect of my life has improved with the sole exception that I still miss my dad who died a few years ago - but I know he'd be even more proud of me today than he was back then. Vent? There's nothing to vent about. For years I believed WAGMI, and right as hope was fading and I was in the darkest parts of my life, the clouds parted - and I found that I had, indeed, made it.

    Never give up, anons. Never lose faith. It'll never be perfect, but if you genuinely want to make it, you will.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m just so damn frustrated with everything. I’ve grown so much as a person and I’m legitimately doing good for the first time in my life. But I’m stuck, I can’t let go of the past, I can’t make new friends, I can’t stop self sabotaging, I can’t stop comparing myself to everyone else, I can’t bring myself to be vulnerable. Every time I think I’m happy, it never lasts, it’s like I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop and I can’t help but think about all the things I’m not doing right. I just feel sad, stuck, unmotivated, angry, and alone. I only feel worse because of how damn hard I’ve worked to get here for what sometimes feels like no point. I’ve spent so much of my life just trying to survive that now I don’t know how to just live.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You’re still in survival mode and it’s going to take a lot of de programming to fix 🙁 i’d recommend therapy and trying to learn new coping skills when you feel these negative thoughts and want to equate them into your real life

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, I’ve been in therapy for years now, and it has helped a lot! But I just wish I could heal/get better faster.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    An 18 year old is unlikely to know anything. Instead, I would turn the conversation around and suggest, since you are a caring type, that you look into a career in nursing, doctoring, therapy, animal care, etc, until you are ready to settle down and start a family of your own, or simply go straight to the latter option.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >sympathetic
    You don't give country, town/city, or pic.
    You are not a girl, and could never be sympathetic to men's struggles.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      An 18 year old is unlikely to know anything. Instead, I would turn the conversation around and suggest, since you are a caring type, that you look into a career in nursing, doctoring, therapy, animal care, etc, until you are ready to settle down and start a family of your own, or simply go straight to the latter option.

      post proof of age and sex

      It’s gonna be okay anons lol

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >lies
        >doesn't give any real or good info
        >lol
        Die you troll.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ILU2 <3 <3 <3

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There is too much air pollution (and other kinds) in my region. I hate cars and wildfires and glycophosphate and the antichrist. Now I have to find a way to live well amid this economy on this accursed caustic deteriorating fricking earth.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >to live well
      What does that mean? What would a typical day of doing that be like for you?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I would just like to have a chance at health without an abundance of factors afflicting me / requiring costly countermeasures. This would help create the sense of tranquility cohesive to creative output which I desire. Yes, I could cope amid the present circumstances, but that is not a solution.

        Do you think you could move? would be the biggest recommendation i’d have for you, for now i’d try and focus on making your inner circle of life how you want to see it and try not to worry about everything else that could hold you down :<

        I'd like to, but the logistics of building a career to support such action are the problem which must be tackled in order to enable that action. That is good advice, I do try to keep a balance between considering these factors and keeping them out of mind. Perhaps I need a more comfortable reading space.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you think you could move? would be the biggest recommendation i’d have for you, for now i’d try and focus on making your inner circle of life how you want to see it and try not to worry about everything else that could hold you down :<

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    post proof of age and sex

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Would prefer if you vented yourself but without breasts or timestamp just gtfo

  15. 1 month ago
    anon

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  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

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  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm a girl give meee attention pleeeese

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    25M. I am a lonely guy who has to keep people around me who were bad to me in the past because there is no one else. I think this has changed me psychologically throughout my life. I keep an old ex around as a friend, and when I see her I love her, and hate her for betraying me. How do I deal with this? Do I learn to forgive? I don't want to cut her off, because I am friends with her sister. I want to eventually talk to her about our problems, but it just becomes really distracting to think about as I get too angry to think straight.

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