I posted some days ago about a a girl I went on a date with that left early to go to a friends "taco night".

I posted some days ago about a a girl I went on a date with that left early to go to a friends "taco night". Someone recommended I offer another date and if she ignores I should forget her.

Well I texted her and now she offers pic related. What does this mean? I dont know if its worth pursuing.

Im pretty sure its not just girlfriends shes talking about.

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  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Is that supposed to be an invitation to do some kind of mixer? Seems kinda weird.

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    she wants to see you AND YOUR FRIENDS.
    she is not into you. you are now a backup on the hook.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah this is what it looks like.

      She wants to be friends with you, or somehow does not feel safe to be left alone with you.

      It could be seen as no romantic interest, or this girl is just very paranoid or something.

      The only way you could salvage this is say something along the lines is

      >Look, i'm interested to getting to know you. I would like to take you out on a date before meeting your friends or before you meet mine. You know to see if we have a nice connection. I could make a reservation and this place (choose something safe and public in case she really is scared or paranoid or something)

      if she doesnt bite then just let her down easy and be the bigger man and say you arent interested in anything that is non-dating with her

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    That is some weird tone she is setting there.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Look, I have gone through this way more many times than Id like to admit. Theres a couple things that confuse me.

      >If she isnt into me why not just tell me she met up with friends and leave it at that?
      >If shes into me why not just propose another day?

      What is this middleground bullshit? I cant figure this one out...

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Because girls are fricking moronic and horrible. Instead of just saying no thanks not interested that will do anything to make you absolutely insane and waste your time. The middle ground bullshit is probably not even something she does intentionally because girls are unfortunately fricking morons. Follow my advice here:

        Yeah this is what it looks like.

        She wants to be friends with you, or somehow does not feel safe to be left alone with you.

        It could be seen as no romantic interest, or this girl is just very paranoid or something.

        The only way you could salvage this is say something along the lines is

        >Look, i'm interested to getting to know you. I would like to take you out on a date before meeting your friends or before you meet mine. You know to see if we have a nice connection. I could make a reservation and this place (choose something safe and public in case she really is scared or paranoid or something)

        if she doesnt bite then just let her down easy and be the bigger man and say you arent interested in anything that is non-dating with her

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >What does this mean?
    she's not interested in you, she made it clear when she mentioned that she is hanging out with her friends and to invite your friends. She doesn't want to date you, she is opening the plausible deniability that this was a platonic friendship thing. Stop wasting your time and block her.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Life gives you a 2nd chance you don't deserve moron.
    Ignore doomers.
    Just fricking go with her, pass the shit-test(she wants your friends to judge you).
    If that afraid you, KYS.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      makes me comfortable that you're the kind of moron getting strung along by girls in OP's pic.

      https://i.imgur.com/i3CM2Bq.png

      I posted some days ago about a a girl I went on a date with that left early to go to a friends "taco night". Someone recommended I offer another date and if she ignores I should forget her.

      Well I texted her and now she offers pic related. What does this mean? I dont know if its worth pursuing.

      Im pretty sure its not just girlfriends shes talking about.

      I don't understand why you needed to make another thread, it played out exactly like we told you it would.
      She thinks of you as a platonic friend at this point, not interested in the humiliation ritual? lose her number.
      I'd have done that when she walked out of a date an hour in personally...

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      if you play the game you might get laid. yep.
      but she is still not into him. if she was she makes alone time. she lets him know. it's clear if they're not a stupid fricked up b***h.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Dude being fricking friendzoned is not a fricking shit test lmao

      Imagine going on a 'date' with a girl but she is with all her female friends.

      That makes no fricking sense

      OP, just tell her you are interested in getting to know her first before you meet her friends and she yours. Communicate IF NEEDED and only if needed that you can go some place public where she feels safe just in case she is an absolute moron. If not and she does not agree with this, be the better man and just fricking say you are not interested in her in that way and dont contact her again

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    its over dude sorry, shes not interested. understand this; if a girl is into you she WILL make time and WILL want to make plans with you. ALWAYS. unless she has bpd or some shit, then its not worth it anyway. move on forget about her, find someone else.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      meant to say make plans with you and her ALONE.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Take the hint, dude. Move on. She's going to waste your time.

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She's not interested. Block her

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You're getting friendzoned, sorry.

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If a girl you're attracted to asked you out on a date, would you want to bring your buddies and ask her to bring her friends? Take the hint.

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    What's the problem, go and bring your hottest friends. Get to know all the women present, get their numbers and pick the one you get along best with, worst case your bros might catch one

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Anon, this is moronic. Until proven otherwise, she doesn't like you, take the hint.

      Stop messaging her and see if she sends you something. That'd be my move. But you do you. Distance yourself a bit and see how she reacts. And btw, message other chicks. Never be dependent, especially when you're single.

      Cuck and gay energy, Anon. Wrong opinion.

  12. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Seems grim, man. Sorry. Think about it from your perspective - if you’re interested in spending time with a girl you liked would you ask her to bring her friends with her on a date? Probably not.

  13. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You should reply and say “I’m good. let me know when you’re free for another one-on-one hang, I want to get to know you more”

  14. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Everyone is looking at this so mercenary-like, saying don't do it, but then I see tons of people complaining about how no one socializes anymore. Just go and socialize? Forget the date?

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