I signed an NDA and my girlfriend is upset I won't tell her what it was about.

Long story short, I was involved in an event with a public figure that required me to sign an NDA. I told my gf about this and have not disclosed any tidbit of info to her. She feels betrayed and that if I did trust her, I would indulge.

I'm just worried if god forbid something happens and we break up, she'll spread this info. Or it might slip out one day with her roommate. It was also a very personal situation I witnessed and I don't want to just gossip.

I feel like a bad boyfriend and maybe I don't trust her as much as I thought. Any advice on how to navigate this?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Any advice on how to navigate this?
    It's not about not trusting her. It's about overlapping commitment. You have signed a promise well before her notion.

    She also wouldn't want to be with someone who breaks commitment.

    >I told my gf about this
    There is a lesson to be learned from this.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >> I told my gf about this

    You put yourself in this situation. It's absolutely normal she would feel FOMO if you act like a c**t and wave this in front of her. For most NDAs what you've already done would violate the NDA.

    No, you absolutely should not divulge anything covered by NDA to your gf. Tell her you're sorry for ever bringing it up, that was wrong and you can not talk about what happened. That it has nothing to do with trust or your love for her. That it is about honouring a legal commitment to made to keep it a secret, and you wouldn't be respecting the other person or yourself if you disclosed anything. That if she loves and respects you she will understand.

    Then never talk about it ever again, anywhere, for any reason other than a valid legal summons to do so.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't break a legal agreement that's completely unrelated to your girlfriend because she wants to gossip about it, it was probably unnecessary to bring it up but it's also fricked that she's trying to guild trip you into breaking it just because she's curious.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    get her to sign an NDA to hear the whole story

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    b***h is using trying to use your emotions against you, because she's curious and wants to gossip typical women. You kinda did it to yourself by talking about it to her tho.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dont mix work and family.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. My girlfriend doesn't know I have a job

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How is that possible?? You are gone like 8 hours a day and she just doesn't know...??

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just tell her you will tell her once you are married for 10 years

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She's not long term material and you should feel lucky you found out early before you put a ring on her.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What did u do suck his wiener or something

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Did it involve cheating on her?? If it did then yes u need to tell her. If it didn't. Take it to your grave

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Isn’t the whole point of an NDA not to disclose information? My moms the executive assistant at the company i work at and theres shit she will absolutely not tell me, I couldnt care less because shes doing exactly as she was told. Your gf should respect that and you’re not being a bad boyfriend whatsoever.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Here's a bit of advice, don't talk to anyone about a project especially if you signed an NDA, you're risking your ass if you say anything to anyone, tbh you shouldn't have brought up the NDA and in the future don't tell your girl anyone you work with unless there is no NDA involved.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Definitely don't tell her. The fact that she is taking this personally shows her maturity level. Also, she is a girlfriend, not a wife, and even if she was a wife, it still probably shouldn't be told. A healthy partner respects your boundaries

    Tell your girlfriend if/when she brings it up that you are a person that keeps your commitments and word. The fact that you are not telling her says nothing about your relationship with her. What it does say is that you have integrity. She will appreciate the same privacy and honesty from you. If she wants to misinterpret your integrity for something negative, so be it, though that is her own insecurity. She needs to deal with it. You can hold space and support her tho it isn’t your job to be used as a bandaid. She has to do her own inner work.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nah. Idk why b***hes think that dick access comes with everything else, like she is the only thing that matters.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I told my gf about this and have not disclosed any tidbit of info to her.
    You could've chosen not to tell her about this in the first place?

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idiot, just ignore her. She'll stop whining eventually. She'd probably respect you less for telling her anyway.

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