I started dating someone and they lied about us dating and refused to tell people and flirt with other men constantly.

I started dating someone and they lied about us dating and refused to tell people and flirt with other men constantly. She's hinted at them being sexual but insists they're "just jokes". I feel like I am investing a lot of time and effort into someone who simply does not feel the same way.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you had sex yet?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Have you fricked her?

      no. I'm waiting for marriage

      you’re dating a crazy, or what modern people call a bpdemon or whatever.

      What is a bpdemon?

      Juggle another girl then. Shit dude, it ain’t hard. If you can get one girls interest you can surely get another.

      I could do that at any point and I already rejected a few people but I want one person to potentially have a life with.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm waiting for marriage
        Lmao. Enjoy wasting 3 years of your life blueballed, only for her to break up with you and having sex with another guy within a week.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Well I'm sorry you went through that brother.

          My guy, that’s what dating is. Unless you are fricking this girl you have zero commitment to her. It’s totally ok to be dating multiple women until you achieve physical intimacy. Stop limiting yourself. Like I said, you aren’t fricking her so there is absolutely no risk on either you or her.

          That sounds empty and meaningless. Does it make you happy?

          >what is a bpdemon
          long story, but its a hot new mental disorder that everyone’s ex-girlfriend supposedly has. But basically it’s code word for bawd.

          You’re dating a girl who wants to keep her options open even when dating. She’s going to cheat and you know it. This is where you are supposed to dump her. So dump her.

          >You’re dating a girl who wants to keep her options open even when dating.

          Why would tell me one thing and do another?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It’s not empty or meaningless. You are out having a good time with someone you hopefully enjoy being around. You are putting too much emphasis on the physical intimacy part. I know you guys can’t understand this, but she needs to be your friend first and actually get along with you before you make the next step.

            Decoupling the physical aspect is freeing. It means no pressure and also no expectations beyond being pleasant with each other.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She was my friend first and I agree with you 100% friendship is important. Maybe I should not commit to anyone and have fun.

            >Why would tell me one thing and do another?

            If you mean to ask why would she tell you one thing/do another? It’s because she’s a habitual liar. The world has loads of them. People who lie as easy as breathing, people who give zero fricks about how their actions affect others. They exist and always existed. There are people who genuinely thrive on being ‘bad’. It’s that simple.

            What should I do?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >What should I do?
            You expected a girlfriend out of her, and she’s not acting like one. So give her exactly what she wants, make her your not-girlfriend aka. Dump her. If she cries or complains or gives you emotionally manipulative excuses, just remind her that she chose this and wants this as evidenced by her demand to lie about being in a relationship + accept flirting from other guys.

            Just think about it bro. She doesn’t chase off these other men who aren’t her boyfriend. She doesn’t tell them to get lost or tell them she’s taken, she even defends their actions. But when you rightly complain about it, she reprimands you instead. She defends men who aren’t her boyfriend, but denies your concerns despite being her boyfriend. That’s fricked and there’s no fixing it, she’s bad girlfriend material. So dump and dump and dump.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This is very cold and would hurt her. What you're saying about her is true.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >This is very cold and would hurt her.
            Apparently, it wouldn’t hurt her. She denies the relationship before the eyes of other men to keep their attention. So her actions tell you that she doesn’t care about the relationship with you. So if she loses it, she won’t care, right?

            If she has the nerve to cry about it, just remind her again and again that her actions spoke louder than her words. And her actions made it clear she doesn’t care about the relationship enough much less acknowledge its existence in front of other people.

            Also anon, she is being cold and hurting you already. And the difference is, she doesn’t care while you would. That alone should show you she ain’t gf material.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >This is very cold and would hurt her.
            Apparently, it wouldn’t hurt her. She denies the relationship before the eyes of other men to keep their attention. So her actions tell you that she doesn’t care about the relationship with you. So if she loses it, she won’t care, right?

            If she has the nerve to cry about it, just remind her again and again that her actions spoke louder than her words. And her actions made it clear she doesn’t care about the relationship enough much less acknowledge its existence in front of other people.

            Also anon, she is being cold and hurting you already. And the difference is, she doesn’t care while you would. That alone should show you she ain’t gf material.

            You're right.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Why would tell me one thing and do another?

            If you mean to ask why would she tell you one thing/do another? It’s because she’s a habitual liar. The world has loads of them. People who lie as easy as breathing, people who give zero fricks about how their actions affect others. They exist and always existed. There are people who genuinely thrive on being ‘bad’. It’s that simple.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My guy, that’s what dating is. Unless you are fricking this girl you have zero commitment to her. It’s totally ok to be dating multiple women until you achieve physical intimacy. Stop limiting yourself. Like I said, you aren’t fricking her so there is absolutely no risk on either you or her.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >what is a bpdemon
        long story, but its a hot new mental disorder that everyone’s ex-girlfriend supposedly has. But basically it’s code word for bawd.

        You’re dating a girl who wants to keep her options open even when dating. She’s going to cheat and you know it. This is where you are supposed to dump her. So dump her.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It’s not new at all. The phrase “don’t stick your dick in crazy” has been around long before you were born little zoomer

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m probably about as old as you or older anon. I’m perfectly aware that the wisdom of not fricking crazies has been around for a long time, extremely long time too. The ancient Greeks called them sirens, the old hebrews called them succubi. invented whole ass lore to explain them.

            But only until recently did we get this pop-psychology personality disorder thrown around. Everyone ex-gf? BORDERLINE. Everyone’s ex-bf? NARCISSIST.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Words change. That’s just the malleability of the English language.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you fricked her?

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you’re dating a crazy, or what modern people call a bpdemon or whatever.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Juggle another girl then. Shit dude, it ain’t hard. If you can get one girls interest you can surely get another.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    oh boy if you think someone not being honest about if they're dating you or not is rustling your jimmies, you better get out of there before you figure out what someone not being honest about if they're married to you is like!

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