If a guy is dating a slut, is it the morally imperative action to take to inform him of her past?

If a guy is dating a bawd, is it the morally imperative action to take to inform him of her past?
I have an acquaintance who is dating a past bawd but he has no idea. He has never been a party guy and is more of a nerd. There is a portion of our circle of friends who are more into parties, and these guys know about her past
No one outrights makes fun of him, but you can see the guys almost involuntarily smirking when they say things like "so and so went on a picnic" or "so and so had an ice cream date" with the implied subtext, known to the rest of us, that this contrasts with her past self who used to get railed by a stranger in a club bathroom without second thought
I feel bad for the guy (not only because of what people half-say behind his back, but because he is in a position of blissful ignorance), but if I interfere and tell him the truth that may rot their relationship and maybe thats not fair for both of them

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you were that guy, would you want to know the truth?

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tell him, but be respectful.

    "Hey man, I see you're happy with ___ and I'm happy for you, just want you to know she has a bit of a history as a party girl so you can make an educated assessment of the woman you're in a relationship with."

    If he asks give detail, if not then don't push him. You did your due diligence, if he's aware and doesn't care what's the harm?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You guys are gonna have to enlighten me. I was born and raised in Seattle. I tend to assume the women I date have done the forbidden monkey dance before. A few genuine questions:
      >Supposing my dates don't lie about their history, of what use is me being insecure about it?
      >Of what use is her being insecure about my past?

      If you want my input on this, if someone approached me this way, I'd probably assume they're insecure and assume I am as well. I'd tell you that I'm aware, but if anything, the fact that you approached me like this would indicate a lack of respect for my and my girlfriend's privacy. Not sure where OP is or who he hangs out with, but where I'm from, it's considered a given that women sleep around in their teens and 20s. Same with men.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, you should mind your own business. Being such a busybody and snitch serves no good purpose.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      t- roastie

      If you were that guy, would you want to know the truth?

      Do the right thing OP.
      Next time someone smirks at him while you're there point them out to him and then tell the smirker "It's kind of fricked up to keep smirking like yhat just because he doesn't know.."
      And then when he naturally asks why people are smirking you can just plainly tell him why.
      Nobody is bad, nobody is passing judgement.
      But he should know if guys are ripping on him for it.
      She really is defacto lying to him by omission...

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what's the count?

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kinda on them to have gotten STD testing done between themselves. Otherwise, if they seem happy, just let them be.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idk man, is he a bawd - are you one? Are you guys highly desirable men that all women want?

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you Muslim? No guys I know care if their woman slept with other men, in the past. If anything, it's a good thing. Experience is good.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      they're not allowed to care, if you care about real intimacy or romance then experience is not good, why would anyone want a partner that gives themselves away so easily to strangers?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why would anyone want a partner that doesn't know how to frick? My wife had 150+ men before me and, 10 years into marriage, we still frick 5+ times a week like crazy and she can warp my mind with her skills.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >My wife had 150+ men before me

          Impressive, where did you find her

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            At university

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's a very vanilla answer

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why? Is a 150+ body count that surprising to you? Most girls at uni approach those numbers and many have far more

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I mean if he's getting smirked at by his friends one of you ought to let him in on the joke, that being said it's far more likely that he knows of her past but tries to put it out of mind because he wants le gf. Knowing he's being mocked may give him pause though which is probably good.

          I assume you're one of these hypersexual spiritually bi guys who play by slightly different rules than the rest of us. Projecting your thoughts on a normal person doesn't help them in this instance, but hey if it works for you

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, men with expectancy for their dicks to break and their hair to fall out deserve to only have prudish wives. It's natural biology matching. Stop artificially raising the little blue pills price, you dumb homosexuals.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry did I hit a nerve? I was only trying to be descriptive but I see how you could interpret that as judgment.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Give it a couple months. If she really is a bawd who can’t keep her legs closed she’ll out herself as such. If they’re still together when you tell him he’s going to be able to make a more rational decision because he’s going to have a better idea of who she currently is. Basically, give the girl the benefit of the doubt and enough rope to hang herself with.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What are you a women? If she's not actively doing it why would you gossip at a hair salon. He probably knows more than you think, but could careless because she knows how to get him off. Stay in your own lane and mind your own business. You refer to him as an acquaintance and not even a friend. For all you know he just wants to ride the bawd train for awhile and get his nut off. I'm sure your girlfriend is a former nun.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There isn't really a moral imperative unless you are aware she is misguiding him about her past

    But if the guy was my friend I would bring this up nonetheless. With someone I'm not very close with this can be a too delicate of a matter.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only if he's being duped.
    If the guy is waiting until marriage and is completely clueless, then you should tell him.
    But if he's having sex while dating, of course his gf is likely to have done the same, so that's on him.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If it can be destroyed by the truth then it should be destroyed by the truth.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >If a guy is dating a bawd, is it the morally imperative action to take to inform him of her past?
    Lol no let him make his own mistakes.
    You know he's not gonna be your friend for interfering in his business, right? Get out of his way and observe the consequences.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    morons have the right to remain uninformed. You would be the one ruining his relationship with your "information". He will think you are manipulating him and a homosexual that wants to suck his wiener.
    Be the better person and let knowledge come naturally without meddling.

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