If my gf strongly objected to the thought of a prenup, should I cut my loses and break it off?

If my gf strongly objected to the thought of a prenup, should I cut my loses and break it off?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No. Just tell her that's fine but you won't get married without one. It's very simple. Women want marriage more than anything and will sign whatever it takes rather than start over older

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but she can say she was under duress lest divorce happens, causing the prenup to get nullified entirely

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No she can't lol. You get your prenup prepared and then reviewed by an attorney, you have it notarized. I was literally in the OP situation. Time came and I said I have a lawyer, find one with whom youre comfortable, I will pay. Then we had an adult discussion about what we were willing to write down and adhere to, sent to her lawyer, took to mine to tightened some shit up, signed and notarized ezpz. Duress is signing under threat. The fact that its done in a room with a notary witness where you sign a statement specifically saying its of your own free will negates all that nonsense

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          1. Are you American?
          2. Do you realize people can lie? Judges can run on emotion too

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why even ask the question then? If you're going to bank on the potential that a less than 1% chance completely invalidates any contract why even ask in the first place? Why doesn't every single person in every single unfavorable contract simply do this then?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Stop wasting peoples time

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why even ask the question then? If you're going to bank on the potential that a less than 1% chance completely invalidates any contract why even ask in the first place? Why doesn't every single person in every single unfavorable contract simply do this then?

            Answer the questions

            >loser working retail
            >falls for divorcerape myth
            >GF realizes he is moronic
            lol

            I’m in tech homosexual.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I’m in tech
            even worse lol. retail workers haven't already been obsoleted by gpt.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I’m in tech homosexual.
            So you made less than a welder and got laid off?
            Sorry to hear.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You answer the questions moron. Youre baselessly refuting any information offered, so why bother wasting the time?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Morons when another moron says shit like "All women have a body count of 20 by the time they turn 13" or "50% of marriages end in divorce, the woman always gets half plus a bajillion in alimony, and the man commits sudoku" or "all women cheat, no excpetions"
            >nothing
            >absolutely nothing
            >total swallow of all stupid bullshit
            Morons when someone says something that makes them doubt the bullshit they believe

            [...]
            >I need 95 citations and I will reject them all because of a greentext anyway
            Let me give you a hint.
            a 10 second google search is all it takes to find out that, in a shocking twist, the unmarried virgin losers of NSFFW don't know a fricking thing.
            read
            a
            fricking
            book

            Either simphomosexuals or women. Either way, they are moronic.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >buzzword buzzword say nothing
            Compelling

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            just stop, you are wrong and look stupid. Just stop. The guy you are replying to has it 100% correct.

            t. married guy with a prenup

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Fukkin loser

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            lmao no she cant homie who gave you this advice

            morons

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >1. Are you American?
            i bet you stink of sweat brine and rotten mountain dew

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Stop projecting, loser

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Stop projecting, loser
            damn crazy you should project yourself a job or something

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's why you don't make a ridiculous prenup. A fair one would be 50/50 split on all gained assets after marriage and everything pre-marriage is untouchable. If you plan to have kids you should factor support purely for the kids in the form of a trust in the event of a divorce so she can't gouge you for that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >A fair one would be 50/50 split on all gained assets after marriage and everything pre-marriage is untouchable
            You mean "exactly like the divorce laws in 80% of all states"?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Fair to who? Wouldn't keeping whatever you owned before be most logical?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lmao no she cant homie who gave you this advice

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you are too unsure of her or too insecure about yourself you shouldn't be DATING, let alone marry

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >if life isn't going 100% according to plan you may aswell just have a nice day
      Maybe we'll just stick to solving problems as they arise instead.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yep, or don't marry her. She wants your money.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just dont get married. Simple.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >loser working retail
    >falls for divorcerape myth
    >GF realizes he is moronic
    lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >myth
      woman hands typed this post

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >a man who knows the law typed that
        FTFY

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Do you live in California?
          If not there is no 50/50 asset split.
          Alimony?
          Less than 8% of all divorces have ANY and when it happens it averages $320/month for less than 3 years.
          Custody?
          Decided by the parents 85% of the time, in arbitration 10%, and about 5% by courts and MEN win in 60% of court custody decisions.
          Read a book

          fair enough

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Do you live in California?
        If not there is no 50/50 asset split.
        Alimony?
        Less than 8% of all divorces have ANY and when it happens it averages $320/month for less than 3 years.
        Custody?
        Decided by the parents 85% of the time, in arbitration 10%, and about 5% by courts and MEN win in 60% of court custody decisions.
        Read a book

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Post citations

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Morons when another moron says shit like "All women have a body count of 20 by the time they turn 13" or "50% of marriages end in divorce, the woman always gets half plus a bajillion in alimony, and the man commits sudoku" or "all women cheat, no excpetions"
            >nothing
            >absolutely nothing
            >total swallow of all stupid bullshit
            Morons when someone says something that makes them doubt the bullshit they believe

            I like how you confidently spouted your bullshit without so much as a single hint of citation.

            >I need 95 citations and I will reject them all because of a greentext anyway
            Let me give you a hint.
            a 10 second google search is all it takes to find out that, in a shocking twist, the unmarried virgin losers of NSFFW don't know a fricking thing.
            read
            a
            fricking
            book

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The burden of proof is on you, you made the claims. You squealing backwards and claiming we'd just reject it anyways just makes you look like an idiot.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You still whining that someone disagrees with your unsupported opinions & refusing to look it up yourself?
            Kek

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So no proof?

            Gotcha

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like you're on the verge of a breakdown, take a break and maybe think twice before entering discussions you're not mentally equipped for yet. Next time, make sure your statements are true and do your research, take care.

            NTA (in thread whole time)
            >google search
            >top hit
            >less than 9% of divorces involve alimony
            >less than 8% is from ex-husband to ex-wife
            >https://scholarship.law.marquette.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1555&context=facpub
            Took 45 seconds

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like you're on the verge of a breakdown, take a break and maybe think twice before entering discussions you're not mentally equipped for yet. Next time, make sure your statements are true and do your research, take care.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >REEEEEEEEEEEE!
            FTFY
            >picrel = you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You're basically throwing pearls before swine, guys like this believe the same talking points as "women are all prostitutes" when anyone who had any contact with women know that they complain about not getting relationships and don't give a frick about hookups

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >women are all prostitutes
            Every woman has a price.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >t. virgin

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >furious handwaving commences
            Still not seeing any citations

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Custody
          You can't determine the fate of children in a prenup anyways so this isn't even a factor

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I like how you confidently spouted your bullshit without so much as a single hint of citation.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ok Everyone pack it up, just report the thread as nonconstructive since OP is just here to complain

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    prenups are basically worthless nowadays. judges can throw them out at their discretion

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What a stupid thread and a stupid argument.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Prenups don't work, also if you live together for a certain amount of time you're technically considered "married."

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Depends entirely where you live. Though I can confirm that our govt automatically had me and my brother as gay incest couple though we were just poor sharing a house.

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