If you want to break up with a long time girlfriend but her birthday is within the next 2 weeks, should you do it before or after?

If you want to break up with a long time girlfriend but her birthday is within the next 2 weeks, should you do it before or after?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Oof. After if you can handle it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your probably right. Gonna feel like shit either way

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    2 weeks after maybe?

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’d do it right away unless she were at serious risk of hurting herself or spiraling into depression because of other bad events in her life.
    Dragging things out wouldn’t actually help her, it would just waste more of her youth on a relationship with no future.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's 2 weeks. Breaking up with her 2 weeks before her birthday will ruin the day for her. From experience, please do it after. It's incredibly embarrassing to have a party planned with your friends but to spend more than half the time moping and having them comfort you. It's supposed to be a birthday party not a pity party.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nah, he needs to do it b4, so she can go out with her friends and find a hookup on her bday after the break up and forget his ass.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I got dumped shortly before my birthday once. That was the last thing on my mind.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    day-of is best for her. Preferably right when she blows out the candles.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      just do it right now over text
      her birthday will cheer her up after 2 weeks
      it's not like the same week or right before or on.
      and if she want's to know why just tell her she got fat and doesn't make you hard anymore.

      lmao this is devious

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >If you want to break up with a long time girlfriend
    Why? I doubt you have a good enough reason but let's hear it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >good enough reason
      Nta but what does this even mean? You don't even have to have a reason to break up with someone you can just do it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >You don't even have to have a reason to break up with someone you can just do it.
        This selfish mentality is one of the primary reasons why society is so shit today. Unfortunately all too common.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's just a fact. I'm not saying it's a nice thing to do I'm saying there are no rules or laws regarding whether or not you are allowed to break up with a partner for any reason, so we shouldn't delude ourselves and pretend there are.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >You should stay with someone you don't want to be with, it's good for society!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just dont feel the attraction anymore. There are plenty of other reasons, but i just dont have that spark anymore.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Use this time to get over it and monkeybranch to another chick. That way you can dump her and immediately jump to the next one with no problems. Meanwhile she will be blindsided and devastated, and the fact that you immediately moved on will hurt her even more. She WILL cry about this to her friends, trust me. And it's even better if the new gf is someone she knows or feels insecure about. Does she have any friends she has expressed feelings of insecurity about? You should explore those options first.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Before, that way she is free to frick someone that actually gives 2 shots about her. And after that bay party, she's going to go out with girlfriends to help her take her mind off you, some gorgeous man is going to walk in n take her mind right off you.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Before. Why would you invest in a present for a person you dont want a future with?
    >i won't get her a present
    Then what's the point of waiting

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just do it. I stayed with my ex for like a year because she was going through emotional issues and I wanted to wait until she got better, I hated every second of it.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Before.
    Now.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd do it before just to not have to buy a gift

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