I'll get right into it, my boyfriend is insisting that I keep my pussy shaved or else he is no longer going down on me.

I'll get right into it, my boyfriend is insisting that I keep my pussy shaved or else he is no longer going down on me.

I'm pretty rigorous about hygiene already, like I won't even have sex with him without making sure I am clean and not all gross and sweaty. It's just I don't do well with shaving, I get ingrown hairs all the time and I've tried waxing and I get breakouts and bad reactions. I do shave my legs, I don't get the same problems with ingrowns there, and I keep my pubic hair trimmed so I don't really understand why he is being so insistent. I told him he is kind of acting like a little b***h over this. I've never complained about him not trimming his pubes, I just kind of deal with it,

Was something like this ever a dealbreaker for anyone here in a relationship? I don't really know what the middle ground is because short of shaving/waxing I feel like I'm doing everything I can.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Was something like this ever a dealbreaker for anyone here in a relationship

    It was for me. I'm okay with a little hair "on top", but if you have a hairy pussy you can forget any kind of oral. Hell, I may be disgusted altogether and not even feel like fricking you.
    Luckily, my ex hated hair in the pubic area even more than I do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You some kind of paedo or something mate? What is wrong with you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >dirty eurogay who ignores basic hygeine like shaving

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The hair literally protects the pussy from infection and so on. It's not hygiene to remove it, it's harmful and makes the pussy more vulnerable.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This. Only pedos after prepubescent girls want no hair on her pussy.

        shut up stupid gay

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          God, I love European men. <3
          Please eat my pussy.

          American men are the worst.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah bruh I like girls who smile, so since children smile that means I wanna grab them precious little nymphet flowers, uuuoh~

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i hate this sort of homosexuals. i always told my girls to let some hair in their pussies. bald pussies are no neraly as hot

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I do shave my legs, I don't get the same problems with ingrowns there
      You probably did get them when you first started shaving your legs, right? But eventually that stopped, after you did it long enough? Same thing with your c**t and butthole

      >It was for me. I'm okay with a little hair "on top", but if you have a hairy pussy you can forget any kind of oral. Hell, I may be disgusted altogether and not even feel like fricking you.
      lol see, I would pretty much always prefer clean shaven all around, but I'm just not the kind of guy to be stopped by some hair. If I want to eat that pussy and/or butthole, then I'm gonna eat it, I don't give a frick

      I kind of do give a frick though. My last gf always had a hairy fricking butthole, and it always threw me off. Fricking her doggy style? Hairy butthole. Stick your hand down her pants randomly? Hairy butthole. Want to eat her butthole? Hairy butthole. It's not just that it's inconvenient/unpleasant for me, it's also sort of.. embarrassing? Like, I wouldn't want to be seen with a hairy butthole, god damn. And it was almost like she didn't know any better, or she never even thought to shave her butthole? Except I told her I'd like it if she'd shave, and hell, one time I even shaved her pussy and butthole for her! I dunno, I guess she just didn't care about having a hairy butthole, if that's even possible..

      Note that I've been shaving/trimming my junk and butthole since I first started growing pubic hair, and I wouldn't be caught dead with a hairy butthole

      If this is a dealbreaker for him, do you really want him? If he's putting your appearance over you as a person, it seems a bit unhealthy. I hope you can find a resolution to the situation anon 🙁

      >If he's putting your appearance over you as a person, it seems a bit unhealthy
      Yeah except it takes like 5 minutes to shave, it's not like he's asking her to double her tit size or to lose 100 pounds or get 6 inches taller

      >Do you really want someone who values the aesthetics of your pussy more than your comfort?
      It's not just aesthetics, dipshit

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Was something like this ever a dealbreaker for anyone here in a relationship?
    If the hair was too long, definitely. Whether I want hairless or not depends on the pussy. Some are really nice and appealing to look at, which makes going down on the girl hot as frick. Others... not so much.

    About 1cm is the sweet spot. Long bushy pubes are fricking nasty.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >About 1cm is the sweet spot
      I've tried trimming it really short like that, but then he says even pussy stubble annoys him and he doesn't like the feel of it against his face. 🙁

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Have you considered that he might just not like eating pussy?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >:(
        This isn't even homosexual, it's just baby

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My God. You probably need this guy to fulfill and endless list of insane requirements, do shit for you and put up with you, while all he asks you to do is to just shave your pussy and you pull up this wall of complaint.
    Get a fricking grip

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would literally never date a girl who wouldnt shave her pussy for me. Especially if she wants head, no way do I want hair in my mouth

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Man I thought we were over this herp derp hair is gross bullshit after covid when many women stopped shaving. Bush is supposed to be back now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Only pedos after prepubescent girls want no hair on her pussy.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >seething troon mad at men for liking clean women over their hairy open wound

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Shut up reddit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >i mean come on, people - it's 1933

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >t I keep my pussy shaved
    WOMEN yes.
    Troons WNBAW

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    "I don't find X attractive, so I won't do Y if you do X" sounds pretty reasonable for me. The specific thing in question is irrelevant, something that isn't a big deal for one person, is a big deal for another.

    Though yeah, it sucks that there isn't much of a middleground – perhaps he could buy you that laser thingy if you were okay with that?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Was something like this ever a dealbreaker for anyone here in a relationship?
    either you make him happy or you don't. Let him know your decision. If he was a man worth his salt, he would find some other girl's clean shaven pussy.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How fricking fragile are men that a little pussy hair is now a dealbreaker and will fail to make him happy.

    Who can we blame for this? Gen X? Millennials? Which generation ruined men?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >You will eat hairy pussy and you will be happy!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good bait, got replies

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/eUhLZZK.jpg

      I'll get right into it, my boyfriend is insisting that I keep my pussy shaved or else he is no longer going down on me.

      I'm pretty rigorous about hygiene already, like I won't even have sex with him without making sure I am clean and not all gross and sweaty. It's just I don't do well with shaving, I get ingrown hairs all the time and I've tried waxing and I get breakouts and bad reactions. I do shave my legs, I don't get the same problems with ingrowns there, and I keep my pubic hair trimmed so I don't really understand why he is being so insistent. I told him he is kind of acting like a little b***h over this. I've never complained about him not trimming his pubes, I just kind of deal with it,

      Was something like this ever a dealbreaker for anyone here in a relationship? I don't really know what the middle ground is because short of shaving/waxing I feel like I'm doing everything I can.

      I don't have a problem with hair. The issue is I don't like when there's lots of pubes because it always gets caught in my teeth or on my tongue.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Which generation ruined men?
      Boomers/Millennials. (Parents/Children)

      Shave that shit OP. Even if you didn't have a bf you should stay clean and hygenic. It's not the stone age anymore.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >my boyfriend is insisting that I keep my pussy shaved or else he is no longer going down on me
    Seems reasonable.
    You deal with WAY worse hygiene stuff than this, should be ez.
    Ingrown hairs are a problem, see a dermatologist.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Use hair removal cream or get him to pay for laser removal. Both will leave no ingrown hairs.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >sex outside of marriage
    >sodomy
    >asking a bunch of neckbeards about your sex life
    Absolutely degenerate, all of it. Cease.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Personally I would request that you not shave
    I have no advice

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your BOYfriend is a gooned out pussy homosexual. Find a MAN who loves eating a hairy snatch. Something primal about hair pie I can’t put my finger on. Even better when she’s on her period.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Eating pussy is gay as frick.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How old are you? I've noticed there seems to be a huge generational divide on this issue, older men tend to prefer unshaved or lightly trimmed, but guys under 30 are really uptight about pubic hair. With the 30-45 crowd, it could go either way

    At any rate, this really isn't worth ending your relationship. Maybe you could compromise by keeping it trimmed really short, and doing a little bit of shaving on the areas further away from your pussy?

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Find your clit, take a picture, show him where the clit is.

    Tell him to focus his attention on it.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    As an alternative to shaving or waxing: Nair and Intense Pulsed Light Hair Removal.

    But really this guy is a prudish b***h.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Like it isnt a terribly unfair unreasonable or irrational trade.. do you like licking hair?
    >i kinda deal with rhe pubes
    Cool. Thats you. Sounds like you dont like it either though, and youre being a pushover. Thats more of a "little b***h" move than asserting boundaries. Id say hed be more of a b***h doing something he hated without communicating about it.

    It really sounds like youre taking personal offense to "I dont want hair in my mouth" though. Thats such a benign and easily solved problem.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I'll get right into it

    No, HE'll get right into it.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just don't have sex with him if he won't go down on you. He's being an idiot.

    If you trim your shit and keep it clean, anyone who has an issue should frick off to pornography land.

    Your boyfriend is being an idiot.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      feminism has rotted your brain cell.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just shave there, you egoistic moron.
    I'm hairy as shit and always get some ingrown hairs whenever I shave, but I make sure to shave my dick, balls and the area around them so that it looks good, feels good, smells nice and isn't repulsive to my gf. She does the same for me. I even trim my ass hair to keep it tidy and hygienic.
    If my gf told me
    >nuh uh I'm not shaving there, stop being a little b***h about it
    she's not getting dick until she shaves and stops acting like a c**t about it.
    Some bush above the pussy is alright if you keep it trimmed, but hair around the pussy is just absolutely vile and disgusting, especially if you just let it grow, that shit is just nasty.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I keep my pubic hair trimmed
      Did you read?

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine being scared of a little pussy hair? These are the same guys by the way that want to frick women in th ass or have them suck on their sweaty balls or expect them to swallow their nasty ass loads.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >These are the same guys by the way that want to frick women in th ass or have them suck on their sweaty balls or expect them to swallow their nasty ass loads.
      well i wanted 2 of those from my ex and yet i told her to keep hair on her pussy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >want to frick women in th ass or have them suck on their sweaty balls
      Nope, that's nasty too.
      >expect them to swallow their nasty ass loads
      Can be discussed.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Disgusting prostitute fricking like a bawd.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I keep my pubic hair trimmed
    Ok, I can already tell that this is very stupid

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    as a bigay I always hated unshaved pussy, it was much more pleasant when shaved and more attractive as well.

    when it comes to guys tho, i don't give a shit. idk it's just different, imo.

    I have an issue with ingrowns too, but there are ways to get around em, just have to figure it out.

    I'd at least tell him
    >I'm gonna try and figure it out, but if it causes me problems with ingrowns and whatever else then I won't do it.
    otherwise it just sounds like weaponized incompetence or something of the like.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Even this disgusting bisexual man says to shave your pubes. Your ingrown hairs and whatnot will get more and more sparse overtime, and eventually be a non-issue. Otherwise enjoy not getting eaten out.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If this is a dealbreaker for him, do you really want him? If he's putting your appearance over you as a person, it seems a bit unhealthy. I hope you can find a resolution to the situation anon 🙁

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly, if he won't settle for trimmed, I wouldn't bother with him. Do you really want someone who values the aesthetics of your pussy more than your comfort? You're offering to trim it which is more than some girls would do, and you're washing up before fricking him. You should not have to put your most sensitive area through constant discomfort just for your bf to frick you. Find someone who will appreciate your body in its natural state.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Shave your puss or go without oral. Simple as

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The only solution to all of this is clear:

    Tell him you get breakouts from shaving/waxing whatever
    Laser is the only thing that removes the hair without those problems, and even better, permanently

    3rd Step is making him pay for it, since he is the one that wants it like that in the first place

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Demand that his face be freshly shaved or you won't kiss him

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