I'm 32 years old and so starved for pussy.

I'm 32 years old and so starved for pussy. I've never had a relationship and I don't even know how I'd find one at this point-- apps are totally useless, I can say that much. How do I cope with this? It depresses and frustrates me because this is an itch I feel like I'll never be able to scratch.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Apart from apps, what have you tried?

    • 4 weeks ago
      OP

      Years before apps I tried my hand at getting with girls in high school but none of them were interested. When I got to college I gave up on trying to meet women as I had no self-confidence or self-worth. I've been out of college for several years at this point and I wouldn't even know how to begin to meet women outside of apps. Even in the backwater town I live in, I still see nice-looking chicks but how many of them are single? Probably not many. How many of them would I actually have a chance with? Probably even less. But man, I want it so bad. Just a crumb of pussy from a good-looking woman for once in my life.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        So you're 32 years old and and haven't actually tried since high school. In other words, you never actually tried in your whole adult life.
        Yeah I think we found your problem OP, frick off and stop wasting everyone's time.

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          >you never actually tried in your whole adult life.
          Did you miss the part where I mentioned using apps?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The part where you said apps are useless?
            No I didn't miss that, is that really the hill you want to die on here? Black person what ELSE have you tried?
            Imagine being so fragile that just not having girls interested you in high school, when you were a fricking kid (as is the case for a lot of guys) led you to never try even talking to women in college and beyond without a keyboard being involved.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            >Imagine being so fragile that just not having girls interested you in high school, when you were a fricking kid (as is the case for a lot of guys) led you to never try even talking to women in college and beyond without a keyboard being involved.
            I don't know what to tell you, man. I had no self-esteem and figured relationships were for other people and that I was no good because I was overweight so I didn't bother.

            Demoralization poster, unfortunately this is one of the worst boards for advice.

            Gotcha, I should have figured as much.

            you sound like a lazy fat piece of shit that just wants all women around you to immediately jump on your dick. do you realize how hard every one of us tries to get women. we put in insane effort to get rejected 200x just to get that one good experience. the other guy is right. you aren’t actually trying shit. you’re probably ugly and have put 0 mins into looking better

            I'd probably still look okay if I lost weight but there are plenty of thin guys who can't get women so I doubt it'll change much.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >so I doubt it'll change much.
            so do nothing for the rest of your life because "it won't get you closer to a pussy" you fat piece of shit

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            > I'd probably still look okay if I lost weight but there are plenty of thin guys who can't get women so I doubt it'll change much.
            imagine a fat girl saying this. and how you would immediately think she’s a dumb b***h and lose all respect for her. that’s what we all think of you

            I'm not saying I'm not losing weight but I'm doing it for health above all else. Anything else is lower in importance.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > I'd probably still look okay if I lost weight but there are plenty of thin guys who can't get women so I doubt it'll change much.
            imagine a fat girl saying this. and how you would immediately think she’s a dumb b***h and lose all respect for her. that’s what we all think of you

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I had no self-esteem
            Yes, we can see that. That's something you're supposed to at least try and fix, not let fester for decades.
            >I was overweight so I didn't bother.
            Motherfricker did you ever hear of losing weight? I can't feel sorry for you one bit, you deserve every bit of this.
            Even then it's a cope because there are still fat guys with girlfriends.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            >That's something you're supposed to at least try and fix
            A hell of a lot easier said than done, especially when the extent of the advice I got from people about it was trite bullshit like "have more confidence".

            >Motherfricker did you ever hear of losing weight?
            Also easier said than done considering all of the contradictory advice out there. It's only just recently that I've found something that works.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >trite bullshit like "have more confidence".
            Trite bullshit that directly addresses and remedies your problem? The nerve of them!
            >Also easier said than done considering all of the contradictory advice out there.
            What contradictory advice?! Losing fat is not complicated you fricking moron, just eat less and move more. That's it.
            >b-but
            No. Don't argue with me. I literally work in fitness and have been a trainer for 10 years. That's what you do.
            Your own fault (noticing a theme yet?) for listening to morons online or suffering from analysis paralysis instead of just using common sense, not to mention getting off your lazy fat ass.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            >Trite bullshit that directly addresses and remedies your problem?
            How does that remedy the problem? It makes about as much sense as telling somebody with financial hardship "stop being poor". It's meaningless nonsense and comes from a place of never having issues with self-esteem.

            You are literally looking for reasons not to improve you’re wasting everyone’s time frick off

            No, I'm not.

            Lazy dogfricker. Stop eating pig. All you have to do. Don't even need to do something, you just have to not do something.

            >Stop eating pig
            Right there with you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >and comes from a place of never having issues with self-esteem.
            That is merely your erroneous assumption.
            If you want self-esteem or confidence (which are not the same thing but are closely related and often found together...or absent together) then you have to love yourself and find value in yourself, and if you can't find any then that means you have to create it.
            You won't do any of this so I don't know why I bother, but maybe it will help someone else.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Also I notice you had nothing to say about how fricking SIMPLE and OBVIOUS it is to lose weight. Squeal for me fattie.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            I don't have issues with self-esteem anymore but it took terrible experiences in my life far worse than not getting pussy for me to finally overcome them.

            Also I notice you had nothing to say about how fricking SIMPLE and OBVIOUS it is to lose weight. Squeal for me fattie.

            Yeah, it IS simple-- fasting. I wish I'd known about it 15 years ago.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >not eating will make me lose weight
            >wtf why didn't anyone tell me this?!

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            The standard mainstream advice is that not eating will actually make you gain weight and that you need to eat six small meals a day to keep your metabolism up and all that.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            OP, did I not clearly mention "common sense"?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And I'll elaborate further, the reason we generally don't recommend fasting to people is because they can't keep it up for long. Eventually they get hungry, as in ravenously hungry, and will relapse and eat everything in sight, completely undoing all the progress they made on their fast.
            Now, if that does not apply to you, then yes, fasting will obviously work. It was on you to recognize that "hey, maybe this won't happen to me just because it happens to some other people, and maybe I know my own strengths and weaknesses more than people who don't know me who give well-intentioned, but broad strokes one-size-fits-all advice".
            As I said before, you're a fricking dumbass, so this little revelation never came to you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            >the reason we generally don't recommend fasting to people is because they can't keep it up for long.
            I can't speak for what you recommend but the common "wisdom" I always saw was that if you don't eat, your body goes into "starvation mode" and you not only hold onto weight but you also put on more weight when you eat than you would have otherwise. That's obviously nonsense and yet that was all you heard. Gotta eat all day to keep your metabolism up-- terrible advice to give people with eating problems by the way. Not gonna address the rest of your post.

            You need to quit your job and come back to university setting
            there's absolutely no other way for people like you to ever get to speak to women and that is needed to ever be in relationship or have sex
            Save up, quit your job and come back to university ideally for medicine since you can lie it's due to your newfound "calling" and it's filled with women

            it all comes down to just frequent verbal communication, it's just about how long how often you speak to one another and university is what's needed for everyone who doesn't already have large partying circle

            no it didn't
            he just thinks this because you've graduated
            but it hasn't, nothing ever sailed as long as you're alive because you can always come back to university

            [...]
            just don't eat dumbass
            stop indulging these people about this subject or the whole thread will be run over with generic self help morons who will spam the same comments about gyms and water that you already are aware of

            losing weight is fricking simple and half the internet is filled with moronic detailed ways to do it, you have to be braindead vegetable to not already know everything about this topic since 99% of all internet content is just about gyms and nutrients. it's the easiest simplest thing in the world every human being who has ever used internet already knows everything about no reason to make another post about it
            it's the most overtalked subject in human history because of how moronic simple it is, no one will ever say anything that anyone on the planet doesn't already know about it

            Go away, schooler.

          • 4 weeks ago
            ;)

            Calories in, calories out fatty. How is this not common sense for you ape brain?

          • 4 weeks ago
            ;)

            I'm not the overweight person here. 5 people are calling you lazy. Maybe it's time to stop being delusional.

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            Delusional about what? I've acknowledged the problem and I'm doing something about it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are literally looking for reasons not to improve you’re wasting everyone’s time frick off

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >so I doubt it'll change much.
            so do nothing for the rest of your life because "it won't get you closer to a pussy" you fat piece of shit

          • 4 weeks ago
            ;)

            Lazy dogfricker. Stop eating pig. All you have to do. Don't even need to do something, you just have to not do something.

          • 4 weeks ago
            ;)

            This is just all of the posters on here. Would wish an advice section without these incel losers.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you sound like a lazy fat piece of shit that just wants all women around you to immediately jump on your dick. do you realize how hard every one of us tries to get women. we put in insane effort to get rejected 200x just to get that one good experience. the other guy is right. you aren’t actually trying shit. you’re probably ugly and have put 0 mins into looking better

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Go to fricking hell, homosexual

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Where is the lie though?

          • 4 weeks ago
            ;)

            Hahahha there is no lie. Got him good. Denial is too strong on this one.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Do you go to the gym? Tried signing up for an exercise class? What do you work with and have you tried meeting people through work?

        • 4 weeks ago
          ;)

          He has not tried anything. He is an excuse maker and will continue to put out excuses.

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          >Do you go to the gym? Tried signing up for an exercise class?
          I exercise at home. Lifting, jumprope, and long walks in the woods.

          >What do you work with and have you tried meeting people through work?
          I currently work at a grocery store since I haven't managed to get a job anywhere else (college degree is working out great) and I am hard-pressed to get to know any of the girls there.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Just a crumb of pussy from a good-looking woman for once in my life
        You are not going to get a good looking woman. At this point you should just settle down for a single mother, a fattie, or a 35+ years old walled up b***h with ticking biological clocks

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to. It creates invisible but ever present and outwardly manifesting psychological wounds that may heal over time, but never disappear. It is a lifelong crippling of the mind, affecting things like confidence, self-esteem, healthy thought processes, and inability to cope with the difficulties in life in a healthy way. It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression. Especially when said individuals are constantly bombarded by images and media of people having lived their best life while they missed out and can never experience, ever. Because time is only linearly forward.

        A means to try and "heal the mind" which has already happened for many who have resigned themselves to apathy and quiet resentment, but it doesn't remove the scar. The scar is always there. Always present. And it will always serve as a reminder, and always influence future thoughts and decisions and actions.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That resonates so much with me it hurts.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression
          You choose these attitudes.
          I mean, you would if you were a human and not a bot. Maybe it applies to whatever homosexual programmed you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm 32 years old and so starved for pussy. I've never had a relationship and I don't even know how I'd find one at this point-- apps are totally useless, I can say that much. How do I cope with this? It depresses and frustrates me because this is an itch I feel like I'll never be able to scratch

        i am 25 and on the same boat as you. life just isn't fair and never will be. women are demonic. idk what to do anymore. there is literally no outlet for having a woman. only way is if you're super rich or very successful. most guys i know are single and they put way more money into attracting women than i do. they are depressed too. i hope there is a special place in hell for feminists. dykes will get the rope.

        All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

        tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Schooler is right then, back to school.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just get a hooker and you'll immediately realize pussy is nowhere near as great as you've built it up to be inside your own head.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this. pic related, your cravings for love will remain and will still be something you'll have to work on, but it'll completely de-mystify and expunge the feeling of being "pussy-starved".

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This is great. If anything sex is kind of the bad part of the good movie you are watching. Everything leading up to sex is where the fun is. Try going to a strip club or something if you want to understand what I mean. Their energy is much more intoxicating than any release you will get.

    • 4 weeks ago
      OP

      this. pic related, your cravings for love will remain and will still be something you'll have to work on, but it'll completely de-mystify and expunge the feeling of being "pussy-starved".

      I've looked into hookers but the options where I live are pretty dire and it's a big risk for what it is. You guys are right, though, because even somebody like me who has never had sex can see how sticking your dick in a vegana doesn't amount to much by itself. I guess ultimately what I wish I had is the physical bundled together with a strong emotional connection with a woman, but I might also have constructed a fantasy of an idealized relationship in my head that would never be possible in real life so there's also that to consider.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i worship pussy, i cum like 10 times a day to pussy and i dont think it is okay.....

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You’re 32 that ship has sailed

    • 4 weeks ago
      OP

      Really?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Of course. Should’ve put in the work when you were younger, only yourself to blame

        • 4 weeks ago
          OP

          Why has the ship sailed?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Demoralization poster, unfortunately this is one of the worst boards for advice.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh yeah I forgot we aren’t allowed to be honest here anymore we just have to sugar coat and lie to people. Believe it or not just because you don’t want to hear it doesn’t make me a demoralisation poster it just makes me a realist, keep your head in the sand homosexual

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            But what you're saying isn't remotely realistic. It's actually more normal now.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This guy is lying. Unless god comes down to you from heaven and tells you then you can do whatever you please.

            Just try and at least be within reason of reality

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You need to quit your job and come back to university setting
      there's absolutely no other way for people like you to ever get to speak to women and that is needed to ever be in relationship or have sex
      Save up, quit your job and come back to university ideally for medicine since you can lie it's due to your newfound "calling" and it's filled with women

      it all comes down to just frequent verbal communication, it's just about how long how often you speak to one another and university is what's needed for everyone who doesn't already have large partying circle

      no it didn't
      he just thinks this because you've graduated
      but it hasn't, nothing ever sailed as long as you're alive because you can always come back to university

      The standard mainstream advice is that not eating will actually make you gain weight and that you need to eat six small meals a day to keep your metabolism up and all that.

      just don't eat dumbass
      stop indulging these people about this subject or the whole thread will be run over with generic self help morons who will spam the same comments about gyms and water that you already are aware of

      losing weight is fricking simple and half the internet is filled with moronic detailed ways to do it, you have to be braindead vegetable to not already know everything about this topic since 99% of all internet content is just about gyms and nutrients. it's the easiest simplest thing in the world every human being who has ever used internet already knows everything about no reason to make another post about it
      it's the most overtalked subject in human history because of how moronic simple it is, no one will ever say anything that anyone on the planet doesn't already know about it

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >go back to uni

        Now what?
        Where am i supposed to get these partying circles? Especially if it’s a STEM degree
        This shit sounds like a meme.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You talk to other students, people you see around you in hallways you chat them up by asking them about what is their major, what classes they have, what is it like etc. then if conversation is going smoothly you ask them to get drinks with you after classes

          • 4 weeks ago
            OP

            Going to college is a pretty expensive way to get pussy with zero guarantees.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it doesn't matter, there's nothing else worth spending money on, it's the only way to speak to women for someone like OP

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it doesn't matter, there's nothing else worth spending money on, it's the only way to speak to women for someone like OP

            audit classes and drop them before the full refund deadline. That gives you 3-4 weeks every start of the semester

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You talk to other students, people you see around you in hallways you chat them up by asking them about what is their major, what classes they have, what is it like etc. then if conversation is going smoothly you ask them to get drinks with you after classes

            this is the dumbest shit to do. so many things can wrong. women don't respect men these days. they only want to be richer and in a better position than you. all the women will know what you are trying to do and be disgusted by it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This is moronic Black person indian thought process

            It's the smartest and most normal thing to do. Nothing at all can go wrong.

            women are human beings and they just want love and human connection like all people

            all the women will know what you're trying to do and be happy to do it, the whole point of schools is to allow for this socializing to happen, giving things to say and get to know with one another

            >women don't respect men these days
            WTF are you talking about?
            Not one time in my life did I ever feel disrespected by anyone ever. Women are not some magical mystical elves you moronic incels think.
            They are normal people who want to be with other normal (aka white) people, people who talk to them in schools or through friends.

            Being rich doesn't matter anything in grand scheme of things, only human connection and verbal communication means anything and they are only related to being in school setting for men.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        KYS schooler.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Save up, quit your job
        What

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Waaaat...
      Man, 32 is still pretty young. Listen, if you keep a modicum of physical and mental shape your teenie weenie will work at least until your 70s, even more since the advent of the blue pillie, which means you have plenty of time.

      Get your life in order or die trying. I felt what you felt and put my mind, soul, and body into it. I succeeded in the end, had some lovers and now I am a parent. I took the risks I had to take, pushed through the hard moments (there were quite many) and setbacks.

      Just go, do what you have to do, even if you don't know what to do.
      Look to death in the eye, stare at the abyss of pain and misery, and laugh at it, push through fear even if it tears and guts your body and mind alive.
      If you really want it as bad as you said —and I wanted it as bad as you say— keep trying till you die or succeed. There is no other way. Good luck.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Literally get a hooker.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/31186498/#31186520

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm 32 years old and so starved for pussy. I've never had a relationship and I don't even know how I'd find one at this point-- apps are totally useless, I can say that much. How do I cope with this? It depresses and frustrates me because this is an itch I feel like I'll never be able to scratch

    i am 25 and on the same boat as you. life just isn't fair and never will be. women are demonic. idk what to do anymore. there is literally no outlet for having a woman. only way is if you're super rich or very successful. most guys i know are single and they put way more money into attracting women than i do. they are depressed too. i hope there is a special place in hell for feminists. dykes will get the rope.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go to university to start over. It's what I did and it's the best thing ever.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Always plap never fap. 1 whole year of SR will change your life for the best fren

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I can't plap.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Same.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe pussy is not Your thing
    Try gay sex or experiment with Your own butthole

  11. 4 weeks ago
    OP

    I keep forgetting you can't have an actual discussion on this site anymore. Pardon me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      ;)

      Plenty of people gave good advice here. You being delusional is not their or the sites fault. Keep lying to yourself loser.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just had my first date in 10 years. In fact, I had 4 dates since saturday last week. Yesterday we got completely naked and tried to have sex. but i couldnt get hard i'm thinking because we skipped foreplay. the thing with dating app hookups are that you expect sex, its heavily implied. so when the person doesnt include blowjobs or progressive step to step, its too hard for me. Yesterday we met up and got completely naked. it was the best expereince of my life. and today, my random friend suggested this track, and its important because i heard it in a locked live in facility and never got the name of it, and that song was bittersweet, it was like going off into the sunset in real life, but i felt still paranoia imposter syndrome. "i wont cry for yesterday" " i will learn to survive

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    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I say frick it try your hardest to keep to your values and your let loose self. dont fall for that compensation bullshit. just do you the best you can and i mean the you that comes naturally, lies in bed all day, etc etc etc
      dont fall for that bullshit, "you gotta take time for yourself""you gotta tough love it" no you fricking dont. you gotta use your brain. you gotta be able to have fun because half of lifes opportunities are on that level and if you are too serious, you will not realize the point - fun and the right way to treat life - i walked to that first date in 10 years and made a great impression and wasnt nervous at all. i was nervous about a quarter. but i chose to turn off my mind when i was a block away and not do anything. and it went fine, she was hot, the next day we hung out for 7 hours and made out a lot. the third date i fricked up but we got closer, she let me hold her tit while cuddling. we broke up. then she told me come over yesterday and i did, and we got naked and tried sex, unsuccessfully. it was my best feeling of my life to see this girl naked, so fricking beautiful. so fricking beautiful. and she is a literal 3/10. 4/10. no joking.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hi, I think you should consider sleeping with men, also I am racist and i do not like people who are different colors. Have a totally nice day. Hope this helps.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In my opinion it really is a numbers game. If you are willing to ask out 40 different women in public, and you get rejected 38 times then all of a sudden it’s Mr. Ladies Man who’s juggling 2 girlfriends at once. What a pussy slayer. I am speaking from experience too. I’ll talk to like 50 girls, and get maybe 3 cute ones to consistently sleep with me, and all of a sudden you are drowning in pussy,

    Oh and btw, women instinctually do this. They always keep like a million guys in the conversation, so that’s why they always have options, and someone they are sleeping with.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am 32 and finally got a gf after years and years of lonely wanking and... I'm still lonely wanking. My gf is frigid or something and doesn't want to have sex. We've had sex a number of times but it's just really clicking between us in that way. Honestly porn is better for satisfying the horny urges, my gf won't do anything interesting in bed. I think about breaking up, but then I go outside and see that everyone around me is a fat loser. The men and the women. She is at least clean and nice. She at least has some sense. Maybe I'll just give up and marry her.

    • 4 weeks ago
      ;)

      Have you had a talk with her about it? Would love to talk to you instead of this useless dog OP. There is nothing shameful of sitting down with her and talk things through.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    are you reasonably attractive?
    I'd say don't try anything online like /soc/ unless they're people in your local area.

    If you look moderately good looking, have your life more or less on track then it shouldn't be too difficult.

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