I'm 35 years old, i missed out on teenage love, never had a gf and never touched a woman in my life.

I'm 35 years old, i missed out on teenage love, never had a gf and never touched a woman in my life.
I was a social outcast because i wasn't cool or rich enough. Never even had a chance to socialize so i ended up being totally moronic when it comes to simple human interactions.
Tried dating websites but i'm getting filtered out by age and only get likes from very old women and vast majority of them are single mothers.

Pic rel are my results from photofeeler and this is the only thing that allows me to estimate level of my attractiveness.
Unfortunately i am guilty of being a 5'7 manlet so there's literally zero feedback irl.

A lot of things i always wanted to experience will never happen because it's too late now and i seriously doubt that ones that are still doable will happen organically.
Besides killing myself, what i can possibly do to finally be at peace with myself?
How am i supposed to get some sort of "girlfriend experience"? Paying for it doesn't count and i can't force anyone to do this.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never too late to get an autism diagnosis.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How this would help?

      Have you tried approaching women in the real world?

      >Never even had a chance to socialize so i ended up being totally moronic when it comes to simple human interactions.
      Of course i didn't. I have no clue what you even mean by this.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried approaching women in the real world?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally over half of people’s problems on this board would be resolved if they did this

      >but I’m too autistic
      stfu already and use your autism to rainman some system that motivates you to do this

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i am not that kind of autist. maybe half this board's "autism" is really just "antisocial"

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How the frick do you get to 35 with having no chance to socialize? Were you born in prison? Did they put you in the Box? Get out of here prison baby.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >no socializing at school like a normal person
      >no friends
      >no social skills
      >no social circle after finishing school
      >no social skills to get new friends
      Not even once i was at a party or event of any sort because i had no friends to go with and i am too socially moronic to go alone.

      You can either get over your regret, stop self sabotaging with defeatism, and try to start living or you can invest in some rope.

      >You can either get over your regret
      >and try to start living
      That's why i made this thread. I don't know what to do and need advice.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can stop being a b***h. I'm not saying that to be rude, just being brutally honest. That's what worked for me. The only revolutionary thing I did that made my life 180 was that I stopped feeling sorry for myself. Once you do that magic starts to happen.

        >but how?
        By not writing woe is me homosexual blog post on NSFFW. Only focusing on constructive things you can do to change your situation. Relentlessly throwing yourself into trials by fire.

        >That's why i made this thread. I don't know what to do and need advice.
        See shit like this is why you're in the position that you're in. You're bullshitting yourself and you don't even know you're bullshitting yourself. I'll tell you what this thread is. It's public self-flagellation where you're trying to invoke pity from strangers. People like

        Have you tried approaching women in the real world?

        already gave you the only advice you need, and you brushed him off and decided to piss and moan about your lot instead.

        For Christ sake dude just have some self-respect and fight for yourself.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How many times do i have to repeat that i am literally socially moronic? Not even once i started talking to a stranger by myself. If i had any interaction it was because someone asked me an actual question.
          "Approach women" tells me absolutely nothing. Am i supposed to walk up to a woman and just stand there? I seriously have zero fricking clue what i am supposed to do or say.
          As i mentionied, i tried dating apps because i was hoping that i will have a conversation or two and maybe learn something from it but it didn't happen.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Every time you speak poorly of yourself you make yourself feel weaker. So here's another piece of advice: stop calling yourself socially moronic. Even as a joke.

            >Not even once i started talking to a stranger by myself. If i had any interaction it was because someone asked me an actual question.
            You just admitted to not trying. Go back to my first piece of advice. Stop being a b***h. Put in effort for what you want and stop wallowing in self-pity.
            >"Approach women" tells me absolutely nothing. Am i supposed to walk up to a woman and just stand there? I seriously have zero fricking clue what i am supposed to do or say.
            You go up and say "Hey how are you? I thought you were attractive can I have your number?"

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You go up and say "Hey how are you? I thought you were attractive can I have your number?"
            Because i have zero experience in that matter i don't know if you are trolling me now or not. Is this really what people do?

            Do you have hobbies? Join a club of some sort. Even the most "socially moronic" nerds are absolutely fine with socializing when it comes to something they like. Being poor or "uncool" has never stopped anyone.

            >Join a club of some sort.
            I'm not american, there are no clubs for hobbies around here. The only "club" thing i go to is the gym. I made zero friends there and approaching women at the gym is a really bad idea.
            Can you give me couple examples of such clubs? Only thing that comes to my mind are things like D&D as

            You think he'll find women in a 'nerdy hobby group'? He goes to a D&D group or whatever and it's gonna be a sausagefest.

            said, weeb cons and that's it. People have different hobbies and thanks to the internet you don't have to leave the house to talk with people who are also interested in collecting useless shit or playing with dolls.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you're so cynical about any advice given to you, why don't you just have a nice day? Like, what's the point in making your life as meaningless and miserable as possible? The day you get why people leave their house to do something, even when they could do it through the internet, it'd be too late for you to do anything about it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >why are you cynical about advice on a very serious matter that was posted on anonymous forum about posting girls with dicks
            Your post is a great example why. You are on /advice/ board where people seriously ask for advice and you are spending your time here telling me to kill myself.

            >people leave their house to do something
            As if i wasn't leaving the house to do things.
            You still didn't gave me any examples of hobby clubs. You need to know that people do different things and it's mostly based on the country they're in. Do you think i have monster trucks, mud wrestling and woodworking shops in every other house in my country?
            I'm not sure about your country but there's no such thing here like clubs for cooking, gardening, reading or working on cars where people come to one place and do this thing.

            Besides that, no one really cares what your hobbies are because it's something (You) should enjoy and i remember many situations where people were getting flak for looking for a partner with same interests.
            >Hurr durr, you shouldn't have the same interests as your partner! Find yourself a friend for that! Let the woman do feminine things!"
            Besides that, majority of women have no hobbies or interests outside painting nails and i can't blame anyone who is no longer underage for not having hobbies. It's hard to find any time for that if you have a job and don't live with parents.

            I think only chad can do this. You'll have to expand more before you ask number, but yeah he's right about just walking up to people and asking how they are see where it goes from there.

            >asking how they are see where it goes from there
            This is totally different than asking for a number right away.

            Boo hoo this is every other post on this board you whiny homosexual. Get off your ass and do something about it or shut the frick up.

            >do something about it
            I did. As you can see in the OP i improved my looks drastically and it took long years but i still don't know to act.

            OP are you Italian ?

            Why would that matter?

            > i don't know if you are trolling me now or not. Is this really what people do?
            I'm not. Yes really, it's what men who have functioning sets of balls do. You don't need 'experience'. Just an ounce of courage.

            [...]
            I've seen a man in my gym with norwood 3 do this, verbatim. You're right that depending on the man it may be different amounts of 'fluff' but it's the same thing more or less. But I see no reason to beat around the bush. 1) Tell her you find her attractive and 2) ask her to go out when she's available.

            [...]
            [...]
            yeah I always hesitantly enter these sob story threads written by helpless types because it's always the same thing. OP presents problem, anons give him constructive advice, he whines about how he's unable to do it because he's too autistic, or spergy, or whatever. Well why even write the thread in the first place if you're just going to b***h every time someone tries to help you???? And it just feels futile like talking to a wall.

            I don't think you can make someone 'get it'. They won't 'get it' until they try to help themselves. It has to come from the inside.

            But that's the million dollar question. How do you make someone try and save himself.

            >Just an ounce of courage.
            When you are attractive it's courage.
            When you are unattractive it's delusion.

            >They won't 'get it' until they try to help themselves
            If i was fat and ugly you would tell me to "just hit the gym, groom yourself and that's all you need."

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think only chad can do this. You'll have to expand more before you ask number, but yeah he's right about just walking up to people and asking how they are see where it goes from there.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > i don't know if you are trolling me now or not. Is this really what people do?
            I'm not. Yes really, it's what men who have functioning sets of balls do. You don't need 'experience'. Just an ounce of courage.

            I think only chad can do this. You'll have to expand more before you ask number, but yeah he's right about just walking up to people and asking how they are see where it goes from there.

            I've seen a man in my gym with norwood 3 do this, verbatim. You're right that depending on the man it may be different amounts of 'fluff' but it's the same thing more or less. But I see no reason to beat around the bush. 1) Tell her you find her attractive and 2) ask her to go out when she's available.

            If you're so cynical about any advice given to you, why don't you just have a nice day? Like, what's the point in making your life as meaningless and miserable as possible? The day you get why people leave their house to do something, even when they could do it through the internet, it'd be too late for you to do anything about it.

            Boo hoo this is every other post on this board you whiny homosexual. Get off your ass and do something about it or shut the frick up.

            yeah I always hesitantly enter these sob story threads written by helpless types because it's always the same thing. OP presents problem, anons give him constructive advice, he whines about how he's unable to do it because he's too autistic, or spergy, or whatever. Well why even write the thread in the first place if you're just going to b***h every time someone tries to help you???? And it just feels futile like talking to a wall.

            I don't think you can make someone 'get it'. They won't 'get it' until they try to help themselves. It has to come from the inside.

            But that's the million dollar question. How do you make someone try and save himself.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Do you have hobbies? Join a club of some sort. Even the most "socially moronic" nerds are absolutely fine with socializing when it comes to something they like. Being poor or "uncool" has never stopped anyone.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You think he'll find women in a 'nerdy hobby group'? He goes to a D&D group or whatever and it's gonna be a sausagefest.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Being poor or "uncool" has never stopped anyone.

            Uncool fine, but poor is a death sentence if you're not a thug. What club would you join if you can't afford anything, even the car or gas to get there?
            If you're poor and successful criminal because of it though, that can make you cool. But if you're poor and struggling the legal ways, then you have nothing.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think by "poor" he meant "not born to wealth," which is 99% of people. Unless he lives in bumfrick nowhere in a hut in subsaharan Africa, I'm sure there's something to do even with little or no money.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            thing is, i make some money, but i spend it fast on rent/bills/food. Despite all my work I am losing $1000 a month just burning through savings. Are others in that boat? or do they have a $1000 to blow on things they don't need each month?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but in a similar situation. I got extremely lucky with inheritance so have never had to work, now I'm ~30 with zero real life experience or work experience. I just about know how to pay bills and taxes and that's it. I spent my entire 20s locked in my room playing video games and watching anime and it doesn't look like it's gonna slow down any time soon, such an asocial neet I couldn't even smoke weed if I wanted to because I have no idea how to get it. My only social interactions are the fortnightly trips to the grocery store.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You can either get over your regret, stop self sabotaging with defeatism, and try to start living or you can invest in some rope.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's as if all the threads like this were written by a single autist.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The average zoomer in the West has a lonely existence

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, literally pay prostitutes (good quality, not a street one) saying that you don't want sex but a good dinner or a good date. Don't you want to pay? I get it, but it sounds like at this point you don't even want a girlfriend, you just want the experience. And if you are trustworthy and talk openly about this with a prostitute who you pay for the night anyway without having to touch your pp, it will help you in one way or another. Tell them the truth, you've never had a normal date, can you have one with her? The first time it will be super embarrassing but then (and with others, not always the same girl) it will feel normal and before you know it you will know how to talk to women more than when you started.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    what is photofeeler? how does it judge the smart and trustworthy sections? have you tried attractivenesstest.com what do you get there? Have you tried a soc rate thread?
    Do you have any hobbies what do you do for fun?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >what is photofeeler?
      You post a picture, put it into a category business/social/dating and it's being rated by actual real users.
      >how does it judge the smart and trustworthy sections?
      Users rate you based on the picture.
      >have you tried attractivenesstest.com
      It's "ai based", why would you even use it?
      >Have you tried a soc rate thread?
      Yes. 9-10 body wise, 8 face wise, but i wasn't smiling in the pictures.
      >Do you have any hobbies what do you do for fun?
      Yes.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's "ai based", why would you even use it?

        Because I dont want people i know to randomly stumble on my insecurity. Part of a reason i've not used tinder either. Who's rating you on photofeeler anyway? How do you know its trustworthy, especially now that we've got a whole hijacking of the concept of what is attractive and what is ugly from a lot of mentally ill zoomers?
        Personally I don't think gigachad is a good looking face model. Paragon of men yes but not conventionally attractive. Neither is chuck norris.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Because I dont want people i know to randomly stumble on my insecurity.
          How do you know that people you know are using this very specific website? If they would use it they would use it for the same exact purpose as you. You need to rate others to have your picture rated.

          >Who's rating you on photofeeler anyway?
          In dating category, females if you're male and males if you're female. Business and social is rated by everyone.
          When you are rating people you gain "karma" and when your picture gets rated your karma goes down. You need to keep rating other people to keep it up if you want to get rated by others.
          Women are racking up rates super fast but it took me over 2 weeks to get 128 votes.

          >Personally I don't think gigachad is a good looking face model. Paragon of men yes but not conventionally attractive. Neither is chuck norris.
          People have preferences, nothing new here. However, you can tell if someone is objetively attractive or not, it doen't have to be your type.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I got a 6 on photofeeler. I'm not even going to bother. I'm done with women period.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Boo hoo this is every other post on this board you whiny homosexual. Get off your ass and do something about it or shut the frick up.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP are you Italian ?

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