>I'm 5'4". >I've seen other short guys with gfs. >introverted af

>I'm 5'4"
>I've seen other short guys with gfs
>introverted af
>I've seen literal autists with gfs
>I'm broke and can't work
>I've seen other broke guys with gfs
no matter which factor I try to blame my loneliness on, there's always a counterexample. what does this imply? I'm 23 btw and my biggest dream since 12 is to be in a relationship. I don't understand it no matter how I think about it.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's always an exception but that doesn't mean it's easy.
    You can find horribly crippped people who became rich and successful too but obviously being horribly crippled isn't an advantage.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      okay, so it's just down to happenstance? I know luck doesn't exist in any metaphysical sense, but it's just a matter of being unlucky vs. unlucky? I guess that's rather unsatisfying, since I can't really improve my luck, but it makes sense.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >>I've seen literal autists with gfs
    Define autists ? actual autists with a proper diagnosis have a birth rate like 0.1 compared to the regular population, you can't "see" an autist or/and the shy guy in your class isn't specifically "autistic", it's mental how you equate introvertism with autism in absolute fashion
    >>I've seen other broke guys with gfs
    this is common knowledge, a job will never guarantee a gf

    Also the reason you're fricked isn't each of these traits individually, it's all of them combined in the abominacion incelicados de los cavernas NSFFWos that you're

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yes, high-functioning autistm-slash-asperger's. it's probably overdiagnosed, but I mean it literally.

      >it's all of them combined
      possibly, yeah

      Someone can go buy a lottery ticket and win, does that mean if you go buy a lottery ticket you will win?

      I'm the only person who's never been in a relationship despite wanting to be in one that I know of, to the point where it's odd that it's seemingly just me with this problem (besides people on this board).

      I'm 5'4", been with my GF for two years. I'd say date an asian or a latina, as they're used to being around shorter guys. As for me, I'm dating a black egirl who happened to go to an all hispanic high school. So there's that too. I'm the tallest guy she's ever dated.

      in high school, I specifically went for the Asian girls, although just because I found them more attractive. I flirted with literally dozens of them, but none of them were interested.

      Despite what people here might be telling you the only true and proven way to get a gf is to be social
      Literally just go out with people, clubs, sports anything
      I've seen short dude, ugly dudes, autistic dudes, broke dudes you name it and they all had gf's, but one thing they all had in common is that they were all social and outgoing
      People here like to parade shit like >muh face >muh height but in the end just being outgoing will get you a gf

      this is probably good advice, but it'll be difficult since I'm introverted and I lost my old friend group in 2021 because of political disagreements. any tips on how to meet new friends as an adult?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >this is probably good advice, but it'll be difficult since I'm introverted and I lost my old friend group in 2021 because of political disagreements. any tips on how to meet new friends as an adult?
        if you're not in education, the second best bet would be sports (or gym) or at work
        Try to find people close to you are that are outgoing, and just ask them if they wanna go out sometimes with you
        it might be uncomfortable at first if you've been a shut in, or just never went out clubbing before, but stick with it, you can find someone sooner or later
        Looks really don't matter as much as people here make them out to

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >education
          no
          >gym/sports
          no, never interested me
          >work
          can't work atm

          I'm sure this is good advice, but it looks like my situation is holding me back. although, that being said, even when I worked (I worked for a few years prior), I never really connected with any of my coworkers.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >even when I worked (I worked for a few years prior), I never really connected with any of my coworkers.
            As I said I know that it's putting yourself in a uncomfortable position but sometimes you just have to do it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            no, I definitely socialized with them, but I never felt a connection with them the way I did with my previous friends. hope that makes sense.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I had a friend that is autistic and has a gf for like a year by now and he doesn't necessarily hide it from her much
      His chad body probably makes up for his autism, being an autistic manlet is pretty much genetic permavirginity though, barely anything can compensate for that.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Man having niche hobbies or being awkward never qualifies for autism specifically but yeah you're right, autism AND being subpar in looks is a death sentence

        Okay I said I won't respond to you anymore but this is the last one
        I'm a guy and I have 2 friends (both guys) who are diagnosed with autism, not "high functioning" as you said before, both are legit autistic
        One is obsessed with bridges and the other one is obsessed with photographing birds
        Both of them have gf, first one just likes to travel to see bridges all over the country and he met his gf in a train while traveling to his next destination, they started talking and she found him cute, exchanged numbers and eventually started dating
        The second one joined some sort of a club for photography, met a girl there and same shit happened
        in b4
        >they must be chads, tall, rich or have a 10 inch wieners
        They are both normies looks wise, they are 5'8 and 5'10, middle class and dick wise I guess normies, I don't know I didn't suck them off
        So that's why I want to say please saying that autistic people can't be outgoing and social, they can
        Is it harder for them? Yes no doubt about it
        But people here paint it as being just a shut in guy who screams when someone approaches him and runs across the street

        >these two autists i know are...non-autistic but they're totally autistic brooo have you seen him take pictures of birds !!! so heckin awkwad and autistic
        The likelihood of befriending an ACTUAL autist, let alone two autists with girlfriends is on par with winning a billion dollar lottery
        Your friends just have social anxiety if i even consider your miserable anecdote as true compared to actual data from studies

        >>If you are autistic you must be shut in neet that never leaves the house
        You have abyssmal reading comprehension or just blinded by bad faith if you think that's what i mean.
        Autism isn't "staying at home while playing factorio then being shy outside personality disorder" tm.
        Autism is literally the disability to properly socialise and pick up social cues and react to them appropriately, an actual autist is down syndrome tier of disability socially, usually "high functioing" autis people who "mask" (picking up on social cues kek, literally the opposite of autism) are overdiagnosed or self-diagnosed
        i'm not even arguing the aspect of having a gf or not since studies like this exist and disprove your gaslighting
        https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Fecundity-of-patients-with-schizophrenia%2C-autism%2C-Power-Kyaga/b6e5c52df875a5c21bdd8a566172c403cedd18be

        i know you probably love pretending to be "autistic" to be patted on the back for conforming, but man...

        read again

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Again you are beyond help
          You're one of those guys who'll always find a reason for his failure, as I said 10 years from now you'll still be posting here
          Unironically consider suicide

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >you'll still be posting here
            if you consider posting here as such a failure then i can't imagine who's talking with me behind the screen

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        so there's nothing I can do? what would you recommend, or what advice would you give me?

        People like this don't need to be told that they have to self improve. They need love, validation and emotional support.

        thank you, anon. yes, that's all I want, and I think it would make me happy. I don't think women suck on the whole or anything like that.

        Okay I said I won't respond to you anymore but this is the last one
        I'm a guy and I have 2 friends (both guys) who are diagnosed with autism, not "high functioning" as you said before, both are legit autistic
        One is obsessed with bridges and the other one is obsessed with photographing birds
        Both of them have gf, first one just likes to travel to see bridges all over the country and he met his gf in a train while traveling to his next destination, they started talking and she found him cute, exchanged numbers and eventually started dating
        The second one joined some sort of a club for photography, met a girl there and same shit happened
        in b4
        >they must be chads, tall, rich or have a 10 inch wieners
        They are both normies looks wise, they are 5'8 and 5'10, middle class and dick wise I guess normies, I don't know I didn't suck them off
        So that's why I want to say please saying that autistic people can't be outgoing and social, they can
        Is it harder for them? Yes no doubt about it
        But people here paint it as being just a shut in guy who screams when someone approaches him and runs across the street

        anon, the person you're arguing with isn't me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >suck on the hole
          kek

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            didn't mean to word it that way

            Become religious

            no, thanks

            The black pill just means that unless you're "Chad/Tyrone", the top women (Stacies) will never be genuinely interested in you sexually; money and status can influence their interest to varying degrees. Modern regular women have only become as picky as they are thanks to simps gassing them up.

            wdym? I'm not sure how that's directly applicable to what I said.

            To be honest... you seem to have a multitude of problem while the others you site seem to have only one.
            But instead of telling you to give up... I'll say this...
            Being 5'4" isn't a deal breaker. There are short women who won't give a frick. Some cute asian ones too. If you really are introverted, that's still no excuse. If you want something badly enough just go for it or have a nice day. No matter how tough it is having a go, it can't be as tough as staying the way you are & wallowing in self pity. lastly, if you're broke, get a job or something! As for the "can't work" crap, then why can't you work? Do you have spinal bifida & a colostomy bag? What the frick!!!

            I'm not trying to make excuses. I'm trying to figure out why I haven't been successful so that I can hopefully adapt. the reason I can't work is because I have n24 (a severe problem with my circadian rhythm). I'll try to fix that, obviously, because I don't want to be a neet.

            >so there's nothing I can do? what would you recommend, or what advice would you give me?
            Richmaxxing is one thing though I don't know how to go about it, I personally just accepted irl women will never love me for who I am so I'm waiting for robowaifus.

            that sucks. I hope you get a robowife to love soon.

            sounds like a classic case of skill issue

            correct. I'm trying to level up.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >no, thanks
            Fine, stay alone lol

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            could you at least explain why being religious would be relevant? I thought you were just telling me to become a monk.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            God is the guy who runs the GF store.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well at least you seem to see a way forward. I googled n24 & it must really suck. At a glance I noticed some experts believe too many late nights might be a cause for this disorder. It seems to make sense. Maybe a fix for that issue resides there. Worth looking into. If you address that problem then the next step is resuming work. That will, in turn, lead to financial recovery. Well, LOL I seem to have solved all your issues with one google search. NO. Just kidding. But I'm sure you see how being methodical & fixing one problem can open the door to working on the next.
            I still stand by my assertion that 5'4" is not a deal breaker tho.
            good luck with it all anon.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >so there's nothing I can do? what would you recommend, or what advice would you give me?
          Richmaxxing is one thing though I don't know how to go about it, I personally just accepted irl women will never love me for who I am so I'm waiting for robowaifus.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Someone can go buy a lottery ticket and win, does that mean if you go buy a lottery ticket you will win?

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5'4", been with my GF for two years. I'd say date an asian or a latina, as they're used to being around shorter guys. As for me, I'm dating a black egirl who happened to go to an all hispanic high school. So there's that too. I'm the tallest guy she's ever dated.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Despite what people here might be telling you the only true and proven way to get a gf is to be social
    Literally just go out with people, clubs, sports anything
    I've seen short dude, ugly dudes, autistic dudes, broke dudes you name it and they all had gf's, but one thing they all had in common is that they were all social and outgoing
    People here like to parade shit like >muh face >muh height but in the end just being outgoing will get you a gf

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >autistic dudes
      >social and outgoing

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You can be autistic and still extrovert, not everyone is a shut in home neet

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You don't know what autism is.

          yes, high-functioning autistm-slash-asperger's. it's probably overdiagnosed, but I mean it literally.

          >it's all of them combined
          possibly, yeah

          [...]
          I'm the only person who's never been in a relationship despite wanting to be in one that I know of, to the point where it's odd that it's seemingly just me with this problem (besides people on this board).

          [...]
          in high school, I specifically went for the Asian girls, although just because I found them more attractive. I flirted with literally dozens of them, but none of them were interested.

          [...]
          this is probably good advice, but it'll be difficult since I'm introverted and I lost my old friend group in 2021 because of political disagreements. any tips on how to meet new friends as an adult?

          >it's probably overdiagnosed
          you mean self-diagnosis ? pretty fricking gay kek, you don't have autism most likely social anxiety or adhd just give it a rest

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            anon, I never said I have autism.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You don't know what autism is.
            Please educate me and continue finding excuses for your failure in finding a gf
            have fun in 10 years when you're still posting here >tfw no gf :^)

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >see shy or self-reserved guy with hyperfixation on nerdy subject with a gf
            >see guyzzz /NSFFW/ absolutely demolished !!! all autists can pussy slay if they're....not autistic !!!!!
            kek at the cognitive dissonance

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >If you are autistic you must be shut in neet that never leaves the house
            >since i never leave the house everyone else must be the same
            kek at your low iq

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >>If you are autistic you must be shut in neet that never leaves the house
            You have abyssmal reading comprehension or just blinded by bad faith if you think that's what i mean.
            Autism isn't "staying at home while playing factorio then being shy outside personality disorder" tm.
            Autism is literally the disability to properly socialise and pick up social cues and react to them appropriately, an actual autist is down syndrome tier of disability socially, usually "high functioing" autis people who "mask" (picking up on social cues kek, literally the opposite of autism) are overdiagnosed or self-diagnosed
            i'm not even arguing the aspect of having a gf or not since studies like this exist and disprove your gaslighting
            https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Fecundity-of-patients-with-schizophrenia%2C-autism%2C-Power-Kyaga/b6e5c52df875a5c21bdd8a566172c403cedd18be

            i know you probably love pretending to be "autistic" to be patted on the back for conforming, but man...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Holy shit you are beyond help, I'm not even gonna bother responding to you anymore
            >tfw won another argument :^)
            gj buddy you must be proud
            pic related you in a few years

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I accept your concession but stop gaslighting people to humble brag, it's really disingenuous
            are you a female by any chance ? seems like typical eprostitute gaslighting

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Okay I said I won't respond to you anymore but this is the last one
            I'm a guy and I have 2 friends (both guys) who are diagnosed with autism, not "high functioning" as you said before, both are legit autistic
            One is obsessed with bridges and the other one is obsessed with photographing birds
            Both of them have gf, first one just likes to travel to see bridges all over the country and he met his gf in a train while traveling to his next destination, they started talking and she found him cute, exchanged numbers and eventually started dating
            The second one joined some sort of a club for photography, met a girl there and same shit happened
            in b4
            >they must be chads, tall, rich or have a 10 inch wieners
            They are both normies looks wise, they are 5'8 and 5'10, middle class and dick wise I guess normies, I don't know I didn't suck them off
            So that's why I want to say please saying that autistic people can't be outgoing and social, they can
            Is it harder for them? Yes no doubt about it
            But people here paint it as being just a shut in guy who screams when someone approaches him and runs across the street

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but you're full of shit lmao. Your story couldn't be more cliche.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yeah, it definitely could very well be overdiagnosed, like I said. btw the person you're arguing with isn't me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          An autistic extrovert is still going to be fricking Chris Chan tier.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is true but it's not working able advice
      I've tried this and it doesn't work out unless others want to include you
      >t. tried meetups and even got invited to some private gatherings but it all petered out

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    People like this don't need to be told that they have to self improve. They need love, validation and emotional support.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They know a short man with a gf and an introverted man with a gf, but they don't know a short, introverted man with a gf. This is assuming they're even being truthful in the first place, which they probably aren't.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Become religious

  9. 1 month ago
    Crona: my blood is black

    The black pill just means that unless you're "Chad/Tyrone", the top women (Stacies) will never be genuinely interested in you sexually; money and status can influence their interest to varying degrees. Modern regular women have only become as picky as they are thanks to simps gassing them up.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    To be honest... you seem to have a multitude of problem while the others you site seem to have only one.
    But instead of telling you to give up... I'll say this...
    Being 5'4" isn't a deal breaker. There are short women who won't give a frick. Some cute asian ones too. If you really are introverted, that's still no excuse. If you want something badly enough just go for it or have a nice day. No matter how tough it is having a go, it can't be as tough as staying the way you are & wallowing in self pity. lastly, if you're broke, get a job or something! As for the "can't work" crap, then why can't you work? Do you have spinal bifida & a colostomy bag? What the frick!!!

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like a classic case of skill issue

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >there's always a counterexample
    You need to consider the likelihood of that occurring.

    What you're essentially saying is that you're sad about not having won the lottery because you've read in a newspaper that there's a guy who did. Short stature is unattractive to women - this is a well documented fact. It's not the only factor there is, but it may be a decisive one if you're lacking in other regards, e.g. educational attainment, income, "fame", etc.

    It's not surprising that a short, autistic, broke guy doesn't have a girlfriend. People like that tend to not have girlfriends.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      what advice do you have for me? still trying to make it work, if possible.

      God is the guy who runs the GF store.

      kek

      Well at least you seem to see a way forward. I googled n24 & it must really suck. At a glance I noticed some experts believe too many late nights might be a cause for this disorder. It seems to make sense. Maybe a fix for that issue resides there. Worth looking into. If you address that problem then the next step is resuming work. That will, in turn, lead to financial recovery. Well, LOL I seem to have solved all your issues with one google search. NO. Just kidding. But I'm sure you see how being methodical & fixing one problem can open the door to working on the next.
      I still stand by my assertion that 5'4" is not a deal breaker tho.
      Good luck with it all anon.

      yeah, the n24 will be tough to fix, but I'm trying to fix it because it's really the only option unless I give up. yeah, being short isn't a deal-breaker because there are obviously plenty of short guys out there with gfs. thank you for the luck, anon.

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