I'm a guy and I made friends with a strange slut

I've apparently acquired a female friend and I'm confused. I enjoy her company, and she enjoys mine. I am somewhat attracted to her, and she is somewhat attracted to me (I know this for sure because she basically creamed herself in public because of me and it was a whole thing).

With all that said, her attraction to me doesn't mean much because she fricks alot of guys. She has this kind of contradiction in her personality where she's a total bawd but also hates herself for being a bawd and 'wants to be trad because they seem so happy' and for some reason her dad encourages her loose behavior.

I do want to help her change, because it seems like she needs it and we have alot of the same interests, so we hang out alone and I give her advice and stuff, but I kind of don't really want to express any sexual interest in her because I don't want her to take that as a cue, but I also worry that if I continue not expressing interest in her she'll decide it's easier not to change. Like having a relationship with her could be cool, but even if that doesn't happen I'd like her to not be the way she is right now, and it's not like I'm waiting on her to change either.

The way I've put it in my mind is that I'll 'watch and wait' to see if she's all talk when regarding all the 'being trad' stuff, but what I'm really asking is has anyone else played 'captain save-a-hoe' before? How did it go? Did it work?

I'm completely aware that this is a really weird situation from multiple angles

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I warn you, if you keep going, this bawd will be your demise.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      can you be more specific?

      Move on. You cannot change her and you will be disappointed and frustrated and annoyed at how much time and resources you wasted.

      you're probably right, but at the same time it makes me rather sad. things are pretty shit and i feel good if i manage to make it a bit less shit, i get that it's kind of 'savior complex'-y but idk i've always been like that

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can't turn a ho in to a housewife

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You can't spell housewife without house and then if you remove the s and the u you get "hoe".

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            bump

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous
      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you CAN'T change her.

        she is like that and she will never ever ever change. Believe her, she's telling you who she is.
        >she's a total bawd but also hates herself for being a bawd
        I've dated a women like that once, fell in love, tried to change her, and got absolutely destroyed in the end. It will not work, every single dude will tell you this.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          how did you get destroyed?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            in the next order: I got cheated and dumped.

            she was a petite, short haired, otaku girl, that shared many many interests with me (except for the anime part), same age, same background. I'm a decent 6'5 decent looking guy, but no girl caught my attention except for this one (at 20yo).

            so, she makes it very clear that she's into me, and why not, I go ahead.
            >fast forward a couple months
            I'm "living" with her, in her house, 700km away from mine. I had my car, money, and this girl, it was like a dream come true. This went on for three weeks until the vacations ended.
            Fell in love. Recklessly in love.

            >fast forward a month
            Now I actually pay attention to her suicide attempts, mommy issues, bipolar demeanor, and managed to get angry at my family too. She cheats on me (I found out later), a couple weeks go by, and I get the good old "I'm not ready for a relationship".
            Still, I was in love.

            >she's a total bawd but also hates herself for being a bawd
            I said that to her during the three-week prime and almost got kicked out of her house.

            >fast forward 3 months
            I'm writing this message. Somehow, I don't know why, my heart still belongs to her, even though I wouldn't go back to her, she lives rent free in my head, sadly. I've been able to get other girls but... it's not the same.

            so yeah. Trust me, please. It's not worth the trouble. I mean, you can try if you manage to not catch feelings. I got played and deceived like a fool.

            >Always trust people when they show who they are, there is not but, there no ifz people are who they are
            >You cant change people. It will never ever happen. Whatever you see is the final offer
            >How people acted in the past is how they will act in the future

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            damn that's rough

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Raise a Black person baby, she'll be pregnant and ready to settle down when she's got enough blacked creampies

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i don't think she has any interest in black guys, she basically exclusively fricks guys who look like me but 20 years older (swarthy mediterranians)

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Move on. You cannot change her and you will be disappointed and frustrated and annoyed at how much time and resources you wasted.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > she basically creamed herself in public because of me and it was a whole thing
    Huh? I’m not even horny posting I just want to know what you mean by this

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was explaining something about getting in fights when I was younger and it went like this
      >well I'd best not get on the wrong side of you (joking)
      <don't worry i won't hurt you (in kind of a cheeky voice)
      >huh now i feel like you've friendzoned me
      <...well not unless you want me to
      and then her face went red and her eyes were wide and she was smiling, and she started moving around in her seat
      And then I remembered we were at work and there was like 5 people watching this whole thing happen and said
      >that was too much, sorry

      On another occasion she asked me to speak another language and the same thing happened. I only later found out she has a major thing for that cus she was banging some Spanish guy.

      Congratulations you're her new gay best friend

      I doubt it, but I don't really care as long as she stops being a bawd tbh.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >help her change

    You are an idiot.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Congratulations you're her new gay best friend

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You almost certainly can’t fix her, and her sad act is likely just her being a social chameleon out of a fear of rejection.
    If you want to take the small chance that you can help, keep some distance and offer advice and support only if she asks for it/brings up the context.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >her sad act is likely just her being a social chameleon out of a fear of rejection.
      Good point

      >If you want to take the small chance that you can help, keep some distance and offer advice and support only if she asks for it/brings up the context.
      This is good advice, I appreciate it

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I became fast friends with an actual prostitute once.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Buddy just keep her as a frick buddy. I can guarentee you that she will let you use all 3 holes. As far as a relationship goes, that's up to you on how to proceed. Most likely she's not just fricking you, but if she is, how does she operate around other men? Does she constantly have to seek approval/attention/validation from other men? I think you get where I'm going with this.

    It's not worth your effort to stress about those things. Either keep her as a friend, keep her as a friend and frick her silly, or just skedaddle from the situation.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Buddy just keep her as a frick buddy
      I don't do that, and I told her I don't have sex with anyone I'm not in a serious relationship. That's when we became 'actual friends' as opposed to just coworkers.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        *serious relationship with

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cut her off or use her as a frick buddy. do not get roped into it arvdd

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